How to Actually Use Law of Attraction (99% Get This Wrong)

Zedan Mutlu www.youtube.com

Brief Summary

In this video, the speaker shares his journey of manifesting over $30,000 per month in his business, building a following of almost a million people, and transforming thousands of lives. He reveals the key principles and methods he used to achieve this, emphasising the importance of proper planning over mere manifestation. The video covers three main stages: developing a concrete belief system, aligning one's self-image, and integrating confidence to attract opportunities.

  • The speaker shares his personal story of going from being fired from a government job to becoming a successful celebrity barber and online influencer.
  • He outlines a three-stage process for achieving success: having a concrete belief system, aligning one's self-image, and integrating confidence.
  • The speaker provides specific examples and strategies for each stage, such as eliminating competition, diversifying income sources, and upgrading one's physical appearance and social skills.
  • He shares the story of a member in his community who transformed her fitness and income by implementing these principles.
  • The speaker encourages viewers to watch his additional video that delves deeper into his personal journey and provides practical tips for nutrition, content creation, and lifestyle changes.

The Importance of Proper Planning

The speaker begins by emphasising the importance of proper planning over mere manifestation. He states that 99% of people get the law of attraction completely wrong, and that this video will show viewers how to use it the right way. He cautions against those seeking a "quick easy fantasy fairy tale" and promises to provide actual methods and principles.

The speaker then outlines the three key elements of proper planning: having a concrete belief system, understanding the stages of scaling a business, and aligning one's self-image. He shares his personal story of going from being fired from a government job to becoming a successful celebrity barber, highlighting how his unwavering belief in himself and willingness to take risks and adapt were crucial to his success.

Developing a Concrete Belief System

The speaker emphasises the importance of having a concrete belief system, stating that one needs to be "almost delusional" in their self-belief. He shares how his belief in himself, even when others doubted him, allowed him to overcome obstacles and achieve his goals. The speaker also discusses the importance of understanding the stages of scaling a business, from the initial 0-2K per month stage to the 5-10K per month stage and beyond.

Aligning One's Self-Image

The speaker explains the concept of self-image alignment, stating that one's self-image is like a "cage" that can limit their potential. He shares how his self-image evolved from a "hardworking bloke" to a "hustler" and then a "businessman," and how this shift in mindset was crucial to his success. The speaker emphasises the importance of constantly evolving and looking for the "next thing" to avoid getting stuck in a limiting identity.

Integrating Confidence

The final stage of the speaker's process is integrating confidence. He explains that confidence attracts opportunities and that it is crucial to build relationships with people. The speaker suggests that improving one's physical appearance, grooming, and social skills can significantly boost confidence, as well as the psychological aspect of feeling comfortable and at ease in social situations.

The speaker then shares the story of a member in his community who transformed her fitness and income by implementing these principles, highlighting the effectiveness of the methods he has outlined.

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0:00 all right fellas listen up over the last 5 years I've manifested over $30,000 a month in my business I've built up a following online of almost a million people and I've helped transform thousands of people's lives into their dream reality I did this using just one specific method that 99% of people get completely wrong okay I'm giving that to you in this video today in this video I'm going to show you exactly how to use the law of attraction in the right way to completely transform your life what it is now to what you want it to be this is not some [ __ ] motivational video that you see a lot on the internet these days okay these are actual methods and principles that I'm going to lay out in a blueprint for you so just a quick disclaimer before we get started if you're looking for a [ __ ] you know quick easy fantasy fairy tale I don't know Disney movie about just shut your eyes and digize and you can manifest all

0:46 that kind of stuff just by writing poems in your book click off cuz this video is definitely not for you like I said this is going to be actual methods and principles if you're ready to learn how to use a law of attraction in the right way pay attention now okay pen paper and get to work so a lot of these days of people they like to talk about manifestation okay um what I like to say is instead of just manifesting how about you just do a bit of proper planning okay so there's three stages for good proper planning during my time in California I had a assistant coach and he told me proper planning prevents poor results okay manifesting ain't going to get you [ __ ] trust me you're not going to do anything just cuz you said you would saying it is not doing it telling your friends you're going to do it is not doing it writing poems in your book is not doing it okay manifesting is not doing proper planning prevents poor

1:32 results the three elements here they are number one you need to have a concrete belief system you almost have to be delusional there's nothing wrong about having a massive amount of self-belief in yourself trust me on this if you are able to believe that you are the person okay when you go about doing the tasks that you need no matter how hard it is you'll be able to go about and do them one of my favorite quotes again that I draw from my community uh which if you want you can find more information down below but in my community we talk a lot about this one quote that I stumbled upon and it's if you give a man a vision and a purpose right a goal a way to get there so he knows exactly what needs to be done he will crawl over broken glass naked with a smile on his face what that means is if you know where you want to go and you know how to get there you'll

2:19 make any necessary sacrifice but you're only going to make those sacrifices if you have concrete belief in yourself for a very long time I was so delusional myself you know when I got fired from my government job in a austalia so straight out of school I was working a nice cushy coverman job wearing suits I thought I'd made it I got fired after 2 weeks and I went back to the construction site and at the time I was speaking to a girl right at uh at the office space she worked in the same floor as me and um she was probably a little bit above my pay grade at that time you know I was just a kid but she kind of laughed at me and she said to me oh what are you going to do now cut hair in your mom's backyard and like she and her friends had laughed at that but at that time like my belief in myself was so delusional that I thought like you know yeah like I am going to cut her in my backyard and I am going to be a famous

3:04 celebrity bble one day I really believe that and then even when I went to Kansas and I was cutting hair out of my house with the floor caving in and I was taking cash payments and I was in LA you know catching the trains 4 hours a day I truly believe that like I did all of that with a smile on my face I wanted to be a celebrity Barber and you know 5 six years after that girl had said something about me cutting hair in my mom's backyard you know I had made that dream of reality but I didn't do so just by manifesting like I said proper planning prevents poor results I actually went and accomplished each goal I had set in my plan so number one obviously that's my personal story but number two you have to understand a few things right so zero to I don't know 2K a month you're pretty much broke and that's the kind of

3:50 stage I was in in the beginning okay to go beyond that you have to try find ways to scale up your business so quick little hack I did obviously is you know I was charging $5 to $10 a haircut when I first started out cutting hair in my college dorm and then I saw that I was getting pretty popular but the problem was there was someone that I was competing with at the school at the time so I had come to the school and I wasn't the only Barber on the on the site there was another guy and he was cutting primarily the African-American Market at the school and I was cutting all the white boys now Kansas the school I was at was 90% African-American so that guy down the hallway from me was rolling in do and like my books were full but I was cutting hair not not that much so I knew that for me to actually make more than what I wanted to make I had to eliminate competition and that's what you know another another stage in your concrete belief is that you have to believe that

4:36 you are better than anyone else in your Niche I thought I was better than that guy at cutting African-American hereit even though I had never done that before so what did I do I started cutting African-American hair so I cut my friends for free and then I completely undercut him in the process I became vastly popular in the school to the point that I was the most popular person in the University you know I walk around the school everyone knows who I am everyone refers to me as the blind on level two that's how I managed to go beyond that first market after that you have to start thinking about what can you do to scale your Source okay at that time I was only taking cash so I decided you know maybe I need to be able to take more than just cash payments at the time it was very hard for me because as I said I was a student an international student americ I couldn't take hardless payment what did I do I employed someone for me I employed someone and just said

5:23 that you are just going to take care of my money and I literally just used them to hold all my money see I took a little bit of risk but these are the things that you need to diversify you need to incorporate tools into your business now 0 to 5K that's pretty simple after 5K a month you're looking at difficulties from going 5 to 10K a month 5 to 10K a month you really have to start to diversify the income Source um you have to find ways to make money online so if you can find a high income skill guys and you can Market that online you can get to 10K a month that's the goal get to 10K a month and then just scale that to Infinity offload responsibilities employ people to do jobs for you pay for those people okay and in the mean time you focus on what you can do the best cutting hair got me to 5K a month cutting hair did not get me to 10K brand deals started getting me to 10K to get past the 10K to get to 30k a month well

6:10 I obviously had to find another income source and I knew I had a large following and I knew that I had knowledge in Fitness and lifestyle so why not Market that so now take a look at your life what can you Market what are you good at can you build up a personal brand if so go ahead and do that a lot of people have always asked me how was I managed to you know go from barbering money to Lifestyle money in in the online space and that came as a shock to me but after understanding a few people's stories people have mental roadblocks so in your concrete belief system which is the number one component of proper planning the belief system you need to understand what is blocking you from accomplishing your goal a lot of times it's childhood experiences people telling them that they can't do what they want to do you know people telling them they're not good enough I've heard it so many times in my life even you know for example my own family telling me that what I'm trying to do is not

6:55 realistic and it's not real life you know you need to go get a job you need to go do this and do that people telling me that I could never get big in that market because the Market's already saturated but I realized something and someone had told me this a norian friend of mine he told me there's a there's a book a specific book I forgot what it's called I think it's called red Ocean or Blue Ocean strategy if the market you want to get into is saturated meaning it's a red Market all you need to do is create a blue ocean within a red ocean what can you deliver that's different so for me let's take the barbering image for example I knew that I was never going to be a better Barber than Sam Rascals but what I did know was that none of these Barbers were showing their personality so what did I do I started creating videos showing my personality interacting with the clients counting my money vibing to the music sweeping the floor I showed people a barber I didn't show people a haircut on my Instagram

7:41 story the other day I ran up a poll and somebody asked how do you get over insecurities to get over insecurities is not stopping hate it's realizing that you don't need people's praise if you become immune to flattery you'll get over insecurities all right next section let's say you do identify what's holding you back What's blocking you from achieving your proper plan how do we go about trans that mindset obviously you identify the current belief but then you need to find the root cause what is the cause of it did someone say something to you in the past did you not accomplish something that you want to accomplish you know did something bad happen to you you need to realize these things early in your journey from there we need to reprogram our Consciousness let's say I want to stop smoking cigarettes the biggest step that you can take is realizing that you are no longer a smoker you're not a smoker when someone asks you do you want a cigarette you don't say it's all right I I'm I'm

8:27 trying to stop right now no you say no it's okay I'm not really a smoker I don't I don't smoke you don't tell them okay it's been [ __ ] two weeks since I had a cigarette [ __ ] I'm oh it's getting hard right now no it's like I just I thanks I'm not a smoker and even though in the first stages that might be hard to really believe you do start to believe that and that changes the psychology from within which changes how you act how you behave the decisions you make changes what you consume and it's a positive feedback system that's how you change limiting beliefs okay you need to psychologically start from the inside so number two so after after your belief system we have the self-image alignment you need to align your personal brand okay your self-image is like a cage okay whatever you construct around yourself that's what surrounds you that's what holds you the only thing that limits you

9:12 is what you actually acknowledge if you acknowledge that your environment is pulling you back then it will actually pull you back but if you just don't even think about that and you just do the best you can to the best of your capability you actually exceed that limiting factor your self-image is a cage create the right cage that's why talented people stay at certain income levels that's why talented people stay at certain you know stages in their life it's because they form an identity and they stay stuck in that identity one of the biggest advices I read was in the book hustle harder hustle smarter by Curtis Jackson 50 you know he talks about every time you do something you need to have a get out what's your get out every time you get into something you need to be evolving changing improving jumping onto the next thing you always need to be looking what's the next thing okay 50 Cent couldn't stay 50 cent forever he had to become a bus

9:59 business person he had to do other things he had to get into the movie industry CU he knew that you know his time as a musician as an artist would be shortlived what happens after that make sure you're always looking out for the next thing example you know how did my self-image change you know over over the years I've had many self-images but the biggest change happened for me when I was working as a construction worker and I thought I was a hardworking bloke you know when I was working in construction I thought I was like you know a proper man I thought I was hard Yak like I was waking up 5:00 a.m. in the dawn to dusk in and freezing cold steaming hot didn't matter what it was all conditions I was out on the road building roads and bridges and civil construction and I thought that was that's me you know tough guy biggest change happened when I just started to view myself as a hustler what can I do to hustle a bit of cash what can I start to do okay the hustle

10:46 mentality really stuck on when I went to America started hustling as a barber and then the biggest change that took me from 5K plus you know 10K 20K 30k was I started to see myself as a businessman not once in my journey did I ever think I was at influencer or content creator I always thought of myself as a business person okay I've got all these millions of eyes what can I do how did I start getting colog deals I've got cologne I I just thought you know if I get this many eyes what if I just make a video and I'm using the cologne in the barbering video what if I'm just wearing nice clothes in the video Bang clothing sponsorships cologne deals okay I start to think with strategy I start to proper plan like I said proper planning prevents poor results you need to have that unlock self-image changed from hardworking individual to Hustler to business person that was my journey it's yours and the

11:32 last of the three confidence integration your confidence attracts opportunities okay if you're if you meet someone right when you are confident and you're able not to be cocky confident confidence is when you get into a situation and you're able to be at ease for example I think there's a Batman movie and I think it's Christian Bale he walks into the ballroom or whatever it is and he walks in with a comment and a smile on his face and his posture is nice that's real confid confidence but the comment he made was a very pleasing comment to the other person he was only able to make that compliment because he was very confident in his entrance okay do you see what I mean by confidence I don't mean coming in thinking I'm the top [ __ ] I mean coming in very comfortable and able to open to other people when you're able to open to other people you will more than 50 times increase your

12:19 opportunities in life why well not only will you have more social interactions you'll build longer lasting better concrete relationships okay and they'll like you why is that important because people people buy from people they like anything in business people need to like you so how do you change your confidence okay here's here's here's the here's the gravy of the video how do you change your confidence well number one it's you know some people may say it's quite vain but I think it's quite true brother if you just improve your physique improve your clothes improve your smell like your grooming that's already like 80% of the confidence Journey if you wake up in the morning you look in the mirror and you're not happy with that that's you're not going to be confident throughout the whole day but if you wake up in the morning you lucky yourself and you see a [ __ ] six back you see a big chest nice round shoulders okay you've got sick [ __ ] hair you've had a haircut

13:05 every two weeks you know you've got [ __ ] collection of perfumes you can smell very nice for any situation any environment and you've got good posture and you just stroll around you've invested in your social skills your red books that's confidence right there because you've upgraded your physique and you've upgraded your look that's 80% of the battle in confidence I'm telling you the other 20% is is psychological get in the [ __ ] gym work hard train hard eat well sleep well and I promise you 80% of the battle's done so let me show you a perfect example of how these strategies actually become implemented and improve someone's life so one of the members in the game plan niceta you know when she had come to the program she was stuck at the 5K Revenue per month Mark and you know stall in her fitness journey like many of you she was unhappy with her Fitness stuck at a certain income Revenue doing all the right

13:51 things but it just wasn't clicking the first thing that happens in the game plan Community is we identify what's holding us back like I said the concrete belief system because literally what is holding you back is your ceiling in terms of income and fitness that's your ceiling those beliefs were literally holding her back me EA we actually ended up having a phone call as part of my community program and just 5 months after her starting the game plan she shattered all her PRS in the gym she surpassed the 10K month Mark and she dropped 5 lbs of body weight while getting stronger okay she didn't do some insane cut became and starved herself no she literally just ate healthier stuck to the program in the community dropped weight and got stronger confidence of her right now is through the roof and here's what's crazy she did that without grinding herself to the ground I'm not talking about you know 15 hour work days

14:36 I'm not talking about insane protocols just real methods implemented that's it fixing the belief system fixing your confidence and fixing the self-image those three elements of proper planning will change your life but just know that this isn't going to change your life unless you actually take action and I know some of you right now might be feeling stuck and I just I just want you to know I know exactly how that feels because I was there like I said when I was at construction worker I I felt stuck in my mindset in my income in my physique I wasn't happy and that's why right now I want to share something with you okay that complete change the game for me and I think could really help you I just released a new video on my YouTube channel where I talk about my whole complete Journey my transformation my life story from going broke Barber to six figure online Revenue I've been helping hundreds [ __ ] that thousands of

15:22 people transform their lives okay and in that video I'm going into depth into exactly what I did that transformed my life from that video you'll learn my top nutrition hacks okay you'll learn my top content creation hacks if you ever wanted to make a personal brand and you'll learn the key changes I made in my lifestyle that made all the difference but I have to warn you this is raw and completely unfiltered truth okay it's not going to be the most entertaining video but it's going to be exactly what you need so if you are ready to transform right now click the video on the screen give that a watch I promise you you're going to learn everything you need to know for everyone else who isn't subscribed hit the subscription button click the bell for notifications okay thank you guys for watching and I'll catch you later

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