Brief Summary
This video is all about how to make a woman obsessed with you in bed by understanding female psychology. It highlights that women crave assertive, dominant men who take control, as they are often overwhelmed with decision-making in their daily lives. The video provides five actionable tactics to implement this secret, including controlling her movement, using your voice assertively, controlling the pace and intensity, giving directions instead of requests, and using strategic restraint.
- Women crave assertive and dominant men in bed.
- Five tactics to drive a woman wild: control movement, use your voice, control pace, give directions, use strategic restraint.
- Being confident and taking charge is key to satisfying a woman's desires.
Intro: The Secret to Bedroom Obsession
Marni starts off by saying that if you want a woman to be obsessed with you in the bedroom, you need to understand female psychology. Most guys focus on the wrong things, which is why women aren't fantasizing about them. She's gonna give you the real secret to driving her wild and five ways to make any woman lose control.
Understanding What Women Want
Marni shares that a survey of over 10,000 women revealed that 81% want men who take complete control and are assertive in bed, not aggressive. Women make decisions all day long and want to surrender control in the bedroom to a man who knows what he's doing. Most guys are too scared to be assertive, but Marni is going to show you how to shift from timid to dominant.
Tactic 1: Control Her Movement
The first tactic is to control her movement by physically guiding her. Grab her hips to pull her closer, move her to change positions, and use your hands to position her head. The key is to be decisive and confident, showing her what to do next. This makes her feel feminine, desired, and sexy.
Tactic 2: Use Your Voice the Right Way
The second tactic involves using your voice in a deeper, slower, and more commanding way. Instead of asking, say, "You like that." Tell her, "I'm going to make you come so hard." Speak with authority in her ear, communicating that you are in control. This taps into a primal part of women that responds to masculine authority.
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Tactic 3: Control the Pace and Intensity
The third tactic is to control the pace and intensity. Start slow and build tension, making her beg for more. When she's close to climax, slow down or stop completely, making her ask permission to finish. This shows you're confident and builds sexual tension.
Tactic 4: Give Directions, Don't Make Requests
The fourth tactic is to give directions instead of making requests. Instead of asking, "Do you want to touch yourself?" say, "I want you to touch yourself as I penetrate you." This positions you as the one in control and satisfies her desire to please you.
Tactic 5: Use Strategic Restraint
The fifth tactic is to use strategic restraint, such as handcuffs, tying her hands, or pinning her arms. This needs to be discussed beforehand and be consensual. It taps into the deepest part of female psychology, where they want to feel overpowered by masculine strength.
Wrap Up: Putting It All Together
Marni encourages viewers to pick one or two of these tactics and put them to use. She also promotes her program, The F Formula, which shows you how to turn a woman on and make her sexually want you using scientifically backed attraction triggers.
