Soulmate, Love, Spouse or Karmic Lesson? । Decoding Marriage Through Astrology । Navneet Chitkara

0:03 So if you think that oh my Jupiter antra will come or my Jupiter is going to transit over your 7th house or my Jupiter is in the lagna or my Jupiter is in the 7th house or Jupiter in the nawam lagna or Jupiter in the 7th house of your nawam hey it's a red alert you got to watch that hey it's not the karaka of marriage it's the karaka of bacti it's the karaka of spirituality it's the of knowledge and marriage is not spirituality. Completely opposite to that. Completely opposite to that. So that is one of the biggest myths that you've broken on this episode. Absolutely. That do not look for Jupiter when you want to get married. Absolutely. So then why have we stereotyped it as that you know Venus is

0:49 something that should be looked upon? Because Venus is also card of love and robots. People very easily say that if you have Ketu in 7th house you have chances of divorce. Is it that easy? No, it's absolutely not that easy because until we have checked chart in totality. Yeah. You see one yoga will never give you a divorce. M there are multiple things. [Music] Hello and welcome back to your favorite spiritual podcast speaking tree and this is Rangoli Sharma with you. Friends, marriage is one of the biggest reasons

1:36 why people turn to astrology. What kind of person will I get married to? When will I get married? Are there any chances of marriage at all in my chart? Are there any chances of divorce or separation? These are some common questions that people want to know through the help of astrology. In today's podcast, we will discuss all these questions but in depth. Our guest for today has some very unique insights that I have never heard before. Like for marriage, you do not always need to see the seventh house. And yes, that is the biggest myth that people have. So this podcast will be an eyeopening podcast for you for the case of marriage. All your questions will be answered. When will you get married? What would be the nature of your spouse? Are there any chances of marriage at all in your

2:21 chart? So stay tuned with me if you're planning to get married in the recent coming time. And this will answer all your questions. And let me introduce the guest to you. Today we have one of the best spiritual astrologers in India, Navni Chitkarasur. So, welcome back to speaking. Thank you, Har Krishna. Thank you. Sir, it's always a pleasure to have you back on our show and I'm sure the unique insights that you shared with me off the camera, people are going to learn a lot about their quality of marriage. Yes. So, let's start with marriage. Let's start with how should one approach the concept of marriage through astrology. You see first of all uh we have to understand what is

3:07 marriage. Yeah. And uh marriage is a legal contract that gives you mental, psychological, emotional and physical support and that's a long long you know contract not just for few years or you know people say sat jamarishta exactly and I don't know how many janam karishta but it is very important part of somebody's life a good happy or I would say not disturbed. Married life can give you lot of happiness, long life and gives you lot of success as well. It is said

3:54 that behind every successful man, you know, there is a woman. Yes. But behind every unsuccessful man, there are more than one woman. Right. So technically you know you have to understand marriage with different perspectives. First thing in India or especially it's a very general mindset that when two people are trying to get married they go for gura matri which is known as tameri or asht gaan. Yes. I think that's the worst way of doing it really. Okay. Now why I would say worst way because people are only considering

4:40 the tameri the gurameri only considering based on my experience yes the ga matri has importance because it has several you know combinations to check with respect to each other that are very very important about temperament love life health but on the same time there are many other important factors which lot of astrologers and people miss them. Now the first thing about understanding a marriage is to understand that marriage is not only a partnership. I would ask you a question before I go ahead and explain this. Yes. My experience and the teachings that have

5:26 come to me from my gurus they said naminit the first thing that you look at in a horoscope is not the seventh house for marriage but the fourth house okay now you'll ask me why fourth house what is the reason you see every human being is here for a particular task for particular karma yes so if you are born you have your lagna and the 10th house which is your karma is one of the most important houses of your horoscope. Similarly, when we look at partnership association from the 7th house, the 10th from the 7th house is the fourth house which is working of your marriage which is the

6:12 karma of your marriage. Okay. Now I ask you a question in a very simple way. Yeah. Would you marry a boy or a man who doesn't have a home, who doesn't have a good heart, who doesn't have, you know, comforts of his life. Suppose if I'm looking for a boy or a man for my sister or for my daughter, the first requirement that I would have is he has a home, right? I will not I mean if if he doesn't have a room for you, he doesn't have a small place for my daughter to live with, I think the marriage will be at the question mark. Yeah, definitely.

6:57 Right. So that good heart that you know good home the suka which is the comforts of life are seen from the fourth house of your horoscope and that are the basis of marriage. So, but that fourth house that belongs to us, right? Our comfort and our home. How can we compare it to our partners? So, that's what I'm saying. You see, you're looking for a spouse. Yeah. And here I'm talking to the fourth house for both male and female. Okay. For a male, fourth house is his property, his home, his heart, his comforts. Yes. On the same time for you, the fourth house is also the comforts. the heart right now suppose if you marry

7:45 someone who doesn't have good things in the fourth house I mean if already some was someone was having it this person is going to go and ruin the fourth house the comforts of house right so eventually end of day why do you get married you get married to start a new life a new home new family that's where the fourth house is very very important see 7th house marriage can be or partnership can be between two animals also. They can mate, they can be sexually together. That's where the seventh house things end. But as a human, the most important thing is that look at the fourth house. Look at if there is suka, if there is happiness, if

8:31 there is comfort, if there is, you know, a very clear height, you know, a cleared or a sober heart or what do you call it is a perfect home, maybe a one-bedroom home, but it's a good home. It's a pure home. If you don't have that you know good yogas or uh and an and apicious fourth house even though the seventh house have all the great combinations the marriage is not going to be good. That's the first thing we look at which is technically 10th from the 7th and the fourth house of your horoscope which is so so important. Yes. So one thing is look at the fourth house. Absolutely. So that is where the happiness of the

9:18 marriagers that's is where how the marriage will work because the question before the matchmaking is also that will my marriage work do I have marriage in my life is there a promise of marriage in my life so promise of the marriage is a very very different concept where we understand whether you have marriage or not right but how will be my marriage will the marriage work that is not to be seen from from the seventh house primarily it has to be seen from the first house for from the fourth house first and then from the seventh house okay so how do we look for the nature of a spouse that is that is considered from the 7th house itself right no so that's

10:04 again not seen from the seventh house see to understand the nature of a spouse you'll have to go to the nawam okay right so there's a chart known as D9 which is The nawam sha chart the nawam sha chhat first house of the D9 is your attitude towards marriage. Right? So for an example if you have malefific there or if you have dishti or the aspect of maleific planets in the first house of your D9 chart your attitude towards marriage will be very very bad probably you would have some strange requirements for marriage maybe you don't want to get married you want to

10:50 you know think of your career first and then once the career is settled the marriage age is gone right and now you want to get married and you're not getting the you know the actual required so thought you know matches like we have Ketu in the lagna in the D9 or we have Saturn in the lagna or even Mars or even uh you know sun these are the yogas where you know probably your attitude is very very strong and practical but if there is a dishi of Jupiter or dishi of shukra or dishi of chandra uh it gives you know that attitude to be very very positive towards marriage. You want to get married at right age. Yeah. Right. When you have any relationship of

11:35 benefit planets with the you know with the D9 lagna nam lagna. Okay. Now exactly opposite to the first house of your D9 is the seventh house of D9 which is your spouse. Okay. Right. So now to understand how will be the nature of my spouse, how will be he like, you have to understand the planets that are sitting in the 7th house known as bhavasta. Yes. And if there are no planets then you look at the lord you know of the seventh house. So for an example if you have Saturn there so then you're going to have a very cold kind of a personality very mature kind of a personality as your spouse. Saturn is also very hardworking personality like little dark

12:22 in complexion, lean, tall. So that's what Saturn qualities are. Suppose you have Mercury there. So that person is going to be very analytical, right? He's going to have great problem solving ability. He will be also little childish in his nature sometimes, right? Suppose you have Mars there or the lord is the Mars, right? Then you're going to have a very passionate and aggressive life partner who is also very passionate who has lot of desires from himself. you want to be something biggest in his life and on the same times he's going to be impulsive short-tempered aggressive yet very very emotional right so it's going to be a difficult person to handle you know if you got Mars there or the lord is Mars right similarly if you've got

13:08 Jupiter there so again having Jupiter in the seventh house that's in your horoscope okay from where we are looking at you know the life partner the 7th house so so if you have Venus there. So that means you're going to have a very romantic relationship, a young guy, you know, who really like luxury and love and romance and so many expectations from marriage. That's what Venus does in the seventh house. Now, if you've got Rahu there, then the problem is with deceptiveness. You know, he could be deceptive. He would live in an illusionary world. He can be a very techy guy, you know, someone who's very techsavvy. Yeah. Right. So, we've got Ketu there. He's going to be very brave. He's going to be self-contained person and spiritual also and maybe to an

13:54 extent spiritual also. Maybe he can take certain headless decisions as well. He he he's going to look at uh micro things in his you know life when you have Ketu in the seventh house. But then many people will have combinations of many planets in the seventh house. So you have to decode by you know finding out what that combination mean. H all right. So like if you have Saturn and Sun together in the 7th house so he's practical also he's egoistic also he's very disciplined also hardworking also so that is what Sun and Saturn can give you right so to understand who will be your spouse who will be he like what are his characteristics what are his traits

14:39 you just don't look at a planet known as Dharakara which is the planet with the lowest degree said oh you know Mercury is my dharaka So my husband will be like Mercury. That's wrong. You have to go to D9 chart. Look at the seventh house right the bhavasta of the 7th house and the lord of the seventh house and people who are married you can they can open up their horoscopes and 100% if your nawamsha is right if your birth time is right if it doesn't require birth time rectification the traits the characteristics of your spouse will exactly match to the seventh house of nama okay so sir when I talked about the nature of the spouse you focused more on the seventh house of namsa and not the lagna. Yeah. Why? So

15:26 lagna is just the experience. Lagna is the outer world. Lagna is not your inner self. Lagna is the environment which is given to you. The experience that you will have in this life is lagna. D9 is your immediate praabda. Your past life kmas. And you know what? Marriages are made in heaven. They are not made in the earth. So that is why it is more important to consider namsha 7th house when you look at the traits of of of your of your spouse rather than looking at the seventh house or the seventh lord. See you see we people are sitting here right I'm trying to tell you some information you're trying but you know our real self in the personal life may

16:13 be very very different from the kind of environment we are giving to the people or what we are showing everyone has a very different real self everyone has a very different personal habits right so those internal personal habits right you see when you meet someone uh after you know finding a profile from I mean any metromonial website so he comes and meet with you for 15 minutes or 20 minutes he may not be what he is yeah absolutely right he may be someone who is trying to tell you that he's very decent but when you travel with him for 3 days or 5 days you understand how he behaves with his parents how he behaves with his sister

16:58 how he behaves with his you know colleagues How he behaves when the food is not right. How he behaves when he get a very awkward call from the office. How he behaves while he's driving the car, right? And someone overtakes in a wrong way. That is the real self of a person that comes out and you can see that real self in your nam because nawamsha is your spouse chart. Yeah. Right. D1 is your chart. D1 is your partnership. M and D9 is your spouse. It's your destiny. It's the destiny from the previous birth. It's your praavda. D9 shows the inner dissection of your bhakya right that the portion of love,

17:45 happiness and sadness that you brought from your previous birth from praabda. That's what is seen in the D9 chart. Wow. So then what does the 7th house of lagna shows in context to marriage? It doesn't tell the nature of the spouse. It shows the circumstances of the partnership and it shows the environment of the marriage. Okay? See there are two things like we have the studio. There's an environment of the studio but then then there's you then there's me right? So this environment of the studio and we talking to each other is the lagna only the circumstances. But what what is that is going to come out of me and what is something which is going to come out of you is our D9.

18:31 Yeah. Okay. Right. As I said that we are not looking at the attitude of the marriage from the D1 but from the lagna of the D9. That is your attitude. And your spouse attitude is not going to be you know the seventh house of of of the D1 because it is not opposite to you. The seventh house is something which is an opposite intelligence. Something which is exactly sitting in front of you. Exactly opposite the seventh house. But does that mean that it is actually you? No, not at The actually you is in the 7th house of D9 which is written in your destiny that what kind of person you are going to get in your life with whom you're going to live for 30 40 years of your life

19:17 because you have all the karmic settlements with him dharma kama moka lobe cro mo k. So these are part of marriage because what is marriage? Marriage is a legal license for karma. And then once you go through that karma then there is also croha then there's also lobe there's also mo you have lobe for children you have more for children after marriage then you want to make sure that the work of your spouse the financial condition of your spouse remains good right so calm growth lobe and more all will be settled for next 40 45 years and this settlement is already scripted in your life. Yeah, it's

20:04 destined. It is destined. So if something is scripted, something is distined, it's the time to look at D9 because that scripted theme you are going to experience in D1. Okay, which is the lagna. But to understand that script you have to go to D9. So then but what about the karm that we create after being born? Like our kundali is only for the time when I was born into this world. But even after that after all these you know 26 27 years I created some karn. What about that k? See again whatever you have created in this life is basically your reaction to a given situation. Right. Suppose a situation is very very bad.

20:49 Yeah. Right. And you're reacting so badly. You're all over the place. Right. That means you've improved nothing in this life. But suppose the situation is difficult. You're still balanced trying to handle the situation in the right way. That's your karma. That's your free will. And these karmmas actually that's where the jotish comes into play. Right? Jotish is not going to change your destiny. Jotish is not going to change your spouse. But it will help you so that you can experience things in the better way. For an example, if you have a very problematic married life which I have seen in your horoscope suppose imagine then as an astrologer it is my

21:35 responsibility to mentally prepare you for it rather than I tell you that you do these remedies and your married life will become good when you if you don't have it you don't have it then I will request you to change your priorities lower down your expectations from marriage to profession right and suppose you don't have profession in your life then I will ask you to work on your health work on yourself work on your creativity wait for the right time to come and I will try to settle down your reactions means your new kmas for an example uh you know I had this case and I told this girl that hey I don't see a good married life

22:20 in your horoscope Rather you start crying on it or you start you know cursing yourself or cursing your bhagya or start cursing someone else right the best thing that you should do here is to accept the acceptance so acceptance is this life's karma where you look at your horoscope and you accept that yes it is not there I will not react and that's what your gurus will tell you that's what your teachers will tell you that's for your mentors and if you follow them and you do not react overly happy in the happiest situation and you start feeling proud of yourself unnecessarily right and you do not feel extremely sad

23:07 in the saddest of the situations right these are the circumstances which is expected out of you these are the things which are expected of out of you that is what your present karmas should be just giving a reaction to a scripted situation in your life. Wow. And so maybe the acceptance is also a settlement of some previous karm you know. Absolutely. If you have not performed certain good kmas in the past you will not find a teacher you will not find a guru you will not find a mentor who will tell you to have that acceptance and the acceptance will not be there. Yeah. So now that we discussed some aspects of marriage and the nature of the spouse, I want to know and I'm sure our viewers

23:53 also want to know what are the signs that a person will get married to someone from their past life. It can be a soulmate, it can be a twinflame as well. Yeah. So for that there's a principle and this is not the formula but this is one of the formula which is uh very very effective and I have told this in many platforms as well. The only way you can recognize someone who is your soulmate and uh you know who someone you will get married in the future is you have to understand uh you know the entra dasha of a planet which is exactly opposite to surya in your D9 chart. Suppose you have uh you know Gemini rising in the D9 okay and

24:42 sur is in the Gemini sur is in the lagna exactly opposite to Gemini will be Jupiter yes right the first priority is that in the 7th house we have a planet or we don't have a planet so if we have a planet then you see when you met that person was the antra dasha of that planet you know which which was then the seventh house was running or not right suppose you are Gemini lagna and you have sura in the lagna in the D9 opposite is the 7th house where you've got Rahu so you check did you meet that guy in the Rahu entra dasha okay because entra dashas are to be seen from the divisional charts okay that's another principle so suppose if

25:28 you don't have rahu probably you have mars so if you met someone Mahadasha could be any but in the antra dasha of Mars right then because see surya is kaka of your soul that it is a naric atama karaka yes namsha is all about marriage so wherever is surya find out a planet exactly opposite to the surya which is surya soulmate oh the seventh from the surya that if there is a planet if there are two or three planets then probably you can meet someone in either of the ant dashas of two or three. Okay. And if there's no planet, pick up the lord of the planet, lord of the rashi, which is exactly opposite to this sura and see in your

26:15 horoscope that did you meet this guy in the entra dasha you know of that particular planet and in this case it's Jupiter right like if the seventh house it's a Jupiter in this case of course the seventh from the Gemini is Sagittarius which is Jupiter which is uh so just to make it more clear to our audience you look at The planet opposite to sun in your namsha and you look at the lord of that house which is opposite to sun you find it's ant dasha and then you see did you meet that guy in that ant dasha or not right and the first priority is given to the planets that are sitting in the house opposite to surya sun yeah it's something very new like I've never heard of this concept

27:00 yeah um so sir you previously said that we should not only consider the gonameri there are some other compatibility methods also. So I want to know what are those methods which show a good marriage or a good compatibility between two people. Yeah, that's a very beautiful question. U you see the first thing that is very very important is your intelligence, your lagna, your thought process and how do you carry that thought process in your life. So lagna is your character, your intelligence and your thought process. This lagna matri is very very important. So ideally this lagna matri should not be 212 95 or 68. Now I'll explain you

27:49 what. Suppose a person a is Aries rising and the person B is Taurus rising. So what are their lagnas with respect to each other? For Taurus, Aries is the 12th house. Yeah. And for Aries, Taurus is the second house. That means the lagnas are 212 with each other. And 212 combination of the lagnas are losses to each other. It's pure business, right? The marriage is actually you know where you are you know not in compatibility with the thought process you are trying to cut each other right you are losses to each other

28:36 because for Aries the second Taurus is marak bhava and for Taurus lagna Aries is where bhava complete loss right so 212 12 combination is not good. Similarly, 68 combination. 68 would how? If you're Aries lagna and your spouse is Virgo lagna. So, what is the combination from Virgo to Aries? 68, right? Combination. It's a conflict. The sixth house is house of conflict. 8th house is sudden events that you've not expected in your life. Sudden losses that you've not expected in your life. So 68 lagna matri is also a very very disputed lagnas to get married.

29:22 Similarly the next one is 95. 95 means suppose you are Sagittarius lagna and you are getting married to Leo Lakna. Right? So the combination of Sagittarius to Leo is 95 combination. They're nine and five places away. This is where there is a traditional gap. the backgrounds of the family. So maybe a boy will be more traditional or more fatherly like a spouse or a more motherly kind of a spouse which is always you know behaving like a mother or behaving like a father. This is how you standing, how you walking, how you eating, what are you wearing, you don't know how to carry yourself. That's a 95 lagna matri. So the first thing even before you look at

30:10 the asht gura matri look at your intelligence matches or not right is it 212 is it 95 or is it 68 combination the best would be like Aries lagna and gemini lagna what does what is the you know combination between Aries and Gemini it's 311 combination from Aries Gemini is at the third position and from Gemini. Aries is the 11th house. Yeah. So it is 311 combination. It is going to increase the prum of you know Aries and for Gemini it is going to increase the gains. Yeah. Right. So 311 is very good. Then 410 is very good. Right. The best

30:56 is 17. Like you're an Aries lagna and your spouse is Libra lagna. Right? or four cancer with Capricorn is very very good. Yeah. Right. So if you have one seven lagnas to each other I mean it doesn't mean that you're going to have a very successful married life but it is the first condition that your lagnas are compatible. Your brain your thought process is compatible. Then the second one is where is your thought going right? So you have a thought in mind. Okay. The logic behind that thought logically when you try to understand a thought it is in the hands of the lagna lord the lord of the lagna the planet

31:43 which is associated with the first house rashi that is known as the lagna lord. Yeah same principles will apply to the lagna lord. Suppose you know a partner A is Aries lagna and his lagna lord is Mars and Mars is sitting in the Taurus sign. Okay. So my lagna lord has gone into Taurus. Yeah. Person B right who is probably Simha Lagna which is Leo rising and the lagna lord is Surya but the sura is gone into sign of Gemini. So my lagna lord is in Taurus. Your lagna lord is in the sign of Gemini. Now Taurus and Gemini are 212 from each other. So if the lagna lords are in 212

32:30 or 95 or 68 that means your thought process and the logic behind the thought is also very conflicting right. So lagna was your log you know is thought but there's a there's a logic behind that thought. So now the logics are also not you know matching which means that okay I accepted that you have these thoughts but I understand your logic if my lagna lord is not 212 or 95 or 68 but if I don't understand your thought and I also do not understand logic behind that thought it is very very conflicting now it's where the fighting is boiling it's

33:15 going to the next level. Suppose I'm telling you that you don't you're not supposed to wear this dress and then I'm also not telling you the logic behind it. Yeah. Right. Then you'll be so frustrated in your life that what am I doing with this person? He has no basis to tell me that why I should not do it. Yeah. And if you don't have that lagna matri and the lagnesha matri I will not even go to checking the the guras right and then the third condition is look at the chundra which is known as bakut dsha which is part of the guran guran and it's given seven marks right again yes

34:01 and it is again what it is the same concept with chandra M that is your chundra 212 68 or 95. So if it is 2 212 68 or 95 it's not you know it is a bakut dsha means the mind is also not now so thought was not matching the logic behind the thought was not matching and now the mindset also doesn't match that's where I close the horoscope say you can't get married if you get married you're going to ruin each other's life right and even if like you have a very good uh you know good Milan compatibility more than 18 If you do not match these two like as sir said this absolutely I've seen people with 22 25 ga matri but not having lagna matri

34:48 lanesh matri chudra matri yeah and once you've gone through this the next step even before the ne you know you go through all these things you first have to check the promise in marriage that do you have marriage in your life or not yeah so that's the most important thing what shows that whether a person will get married or not you see there are several yogas not just one and in this podcast of probably an hour or so it's very difficult but I'll tell you some prominent yeah can we touch upon the most important see the most important thing is there's a planet known as atma karaka atma karaaka planet is with the highest degree in your horoscope if that atma karaka is venus right you know what happens you are ready to give

35:35 so much in marriage that you are going to dedicate yourself in your marriage but the problem is that you will never find people who will accept your dedication and then the heart will keep on breaking breaking breaking and there's an unending karma settlement with many people coming in life going I've seen people with seven years of affair 8 years of 10 years of affair with Venus atma karaka the person is giving 100% to the opposite person but eventually this opposite person breaks and leave this person alone with Venus atma. The one who has Venus atma karma absolutely Venus is love romance ka of marriage and it is holding the highest degree means highest karma settlement

36:21 more is the karma settlement more is the pain more is the tragedies involved so if you have shukra as an atma karaka or if you've got any atma karaka sitting in the seventh house be Jupiter Saturn mercury any atma karaka even that shows that there's very heavy karma associated with the 7th house of your lagna only even that can you know create problems Jupiter in the seventh house you see Jupiter is a is a planet which doesn't want you to get married Jupit people say you know yeah people say you know what Jupiter is the best for marriage is the best for marriage that's the biggest myth I mean I'm looking straight into the camera asking people who have

37:08 Jupiter in the lagna who have Jupiter in the seventh house. Tell me if you don't have problems in marriage. Tell me because you see Jupiter is the planet of spirituality, knowledge, apiciousness. It is brahagyana idealistic and and what is marriage? Kro lobe mo right and Jupiter wants to take you away from kam cro lobe mo more right wherever Jupiter sits it expands right however Jupiter is kaka of children it's a ja karaka once you've gotten married and you have that you know promise of children in your horoscope that is coming through Jupiter and surya he'll bless you with that he will bless you with an environment after marriage

37:55 He will bless you you know with the auspiciousness after marriage but the karaka of marriage is Venus shukra. So if you think that oh my Jupiter entra will come or my Jupiter is going to transit over your 7th house or my Jupiter is in the lagna or my Jupiter is in the 7th house or Jupiter in the nawami lagna or Jupiter in the 7th house of your nawamsha. Hey it's a red alert. You got to watch that. Hey, it's not the karaka of marriage. It's the kaka of bi. It's the karak of spirituality. It's the karak of knowledge. And marriage is not spirituality. Completely opposite to that. Completely opposite to that. So that is one of the biggest myths that you've broken on this episode.

38:40 Absolutely. That do not look for Jupiter when you want to get married. Absolutely. You need to look at Venus. You need to look at any other planets. Not the Jupiter. That is one of the conditions. However, I have seen certain horoscopes where Jupiter has also given the marriage. But we need to check the horoscope in totality. Okay. Okay. But just by saying that hey Jupiter in the 7th house I'll have a very great married life. The answer is no. You're not going to. It's giving you a message of being spiritual. It is giving you message of you know consider your husband or a wife as God. Right? And who is God as a husband or a wife in Kalyuga? Tell me one. Tell me

39:28 one. Right? That's where the problem is in the Kalyuga. That's where you know the horoscope, the matching and you know the considering a horoscope for marriage goes wrong. And then you have another example where the promise of marriage can be a question mark is seventh lord in particular nakshatras. For an example, Shah Lord is moola nakhatra. Moola is a is is a deep rooted nakhatra. It's going to destroy, you know, the house in which the lord of the house is in a particular moola, right? So suppose your seventh lord is in the moola nakhatra. It's a red alert, right? It's a red alert of either no marriage or a divorce or a separation,

40:13 right? or a problematic situation because you're going to go so deep into understanding a person that you'll not be able to marry that person. See, everyone has some problems when you go very deep in somebody's life. It is not. See, if you keep going very deep into somebody's life, you will not be able to marry that person. You'll have you'll see because when you go deep you're going to find some negative traits and then you go further deep you may find some positive but very negative also then you go further deep that's where the problem comes another point is when the seventh lord is in the gandanta means the seventh lord is in the nakhatras of mercury and ketu right and

40:59 especially the puas which are on the border of the water and fire signs right those puas can also be a great mountain climbing for the marriage that you have to climb the Mount Everest to get to get married right so these are certain yogas which are red alerts and I'm sure people who've not gotten married people who are you know who are struggling to you know find the life partner there will be such yogas there will be some connections Saturn can give you delay but it's not denial of the marriage in the seventh house Right? Ketu is not denial. Rahu is not denial. But Jupiter can be in the seventh house because if there's a very strong Jupiter, he would not want you to

41:46 get married. Look at Shir Ram's chart. We have Jupiter in the lagna. Yeah. Jupiter, right? And what was his married life? What was the promise of marriage in his life? Wow. He got married and where the marriage has gone. You need to understand these concepts. that actual matchmaking and actual compatibility test is very different. The asht gura matri I would give only 20 marks out of 100. There are 80% more yogas for an example. Forget about two charts. Just talk about one chart. Do I have the matrimonial bliss, the happiness of marriage or not in my individual horoscope? If I don't have

42:31 it, it's a red alert for me. Yeah. Because whomsoever I'm going to get married, if he also doesn't have it or she also doesn't have it, it's a blast. It's a problem. Yeah. Right. And that is seed from the fourth house of your D9, the suka, the fourth house of your D1 lag only. And there you also see the dispositor of the 7th house of your namsha. So you go to namsha chart. You check the lord of the seventh house. If that lord of the seventh house is having any aspect of malefific shani, Rahu or Ketu will not aspect okay uh probably Mars or especially Shani and Rahu right or

43:17 the seventh lord is conjunct with malefics or have a dishi of malifix right your life after marriage is going to be a disaster all right so not just the gura matri not just the lagna matri You have to see the promise of marriage. You have to see the individual horoscope for marriage happiness. So when you consider all these things you know in a standalone horoscope there you say okay yes get married or do not get married the promise the life after marriage. And there there's another important concept known as gati. Gati is would you be able to take this entire marriage in a very smooth way? Would you

44:04 walk together? Right? How is the speed of the partner? For an example, that can be seen from the seventh lord of your D1 because gi is an experience. When you are in a high-speeding car, it's an experience. So suppose there are three types of rashies or signs. Yeah. You know in a horoscope movable and then you have fixed and you have jewel. Yeah. So if the seventh lord of a person A is in the movable sign and the seventh lord of the person B is in the fixed sign and it's for D9 right for the lagna only not the D9. Okay it's for l for the lakun only. So so for the lagundi the seventh lord of person A is immovable and the

44:50 seventh lord of the person B is in the fixed. So the movable and fixed they both have very different characters that movable is highly flexible and fixed is highly rigid. So there's a there's a mismatch of speed and guti right that's where the problem is going to be. It's a good idea if the seventh lord are in the same sign or same kind of a sign. So if that is a mismatch so gi will be a problem in the marriage the speed you know. So one will walk very fast in taking decisions the other would be slow. If the it's a duel then other will be at times fast at times very very slow. That's where the guti of the marriage will not be there. There are huge

45:36 chapters you know in the agi purada you see why agni is the is is basically the witness of marriage in Hindu dharma. Why? And if you because it's it's a side of purity it's side of dharma right and you can't learn about marriage in just the parasra shastra or any other shastra you have to go into agni purana and there are chapters in the agni purana if you go and understand that that tells you about marriage about various types of marriages compatibility and this gi depends upon the lord of the seventh house and its position position in which sign movable dual or fixed if

46:21 two people are in the same category of the sign it is fantastic otherwise it's going to be a mismatch of gi but should we give this much importance to the concept of gi absolutely because see you see if I'm running and you are just walking you'll be left behind okay are we together you know then why did we not consider uh the seventh lord of the D9 time in this episode of the guti is the experience. Gi is the speed in this birth. Okay. It's a present experience. It's the path towards the marriage. That is why D1 only. Absolutely. Okay. Diva is the experience of your karma. So sir, I have one more question. You told us about the

47:07 lagna compatibility and the moon compatibility and laga huh and lagnesh compatibility. Should we also consider Jupiter and Venus? Because in a female's chart, Jupiter is the car of husband and in a male chart, Venus is the car of her his wife. So, should we also see the compatibility or the signs of Jupiter and Venus? You see, Jupiter and Venus are never compatible to each other. They are two different gurus, one of us with different mindset. Yeah. Right. So when we look at Venus right in a male's chart, we are looking at the kind of females that are going to be in his life. So what are the females in the life of a man? Mother, then we've got sister, the girlfriend,

47:54 wife, daughter. All these are Venus, not just one. So the quality of the Venus in the male child will define all these relationships. Okay. Similarly in a male chart Jupiter is like father. Jupiter is also like a guru. It's like teacher. It's like boss. It's like mentor in your life and husband. So it's another myth that Jupiter is only the husband or Venus is only the wife. Okay. Any female that you are associated with in your horoscope being a male is Venus. So then why have we stereotyped it as that you know Venus is

48:41 something that should be looked upon? Because Venus is also car of love and romance. Although they are like very opposite natured. They are opposite nature. So Venus is love, romance and devotion. Yeah. Jupiter is dharma that if I've holded somebody's hand, I'll not leave it till my last breath. And marriage is dharma. Marriage is dharma at the same time. Absolutely. And Saturn is exalted in the house of Libra. Yeah. Which tells you about the balance of life. Right. And also you know the biggest planet that actually gives you lot of pain if you don't obey dharma or if you don't stick to dharma is Saturn. [Music] Absolutely.

49:26 Now sir that we discussed about uh the signs of marriage. Now let's talk about separation and divorce. Let's say two people do get married. Then what are the signs that they won't stay together for a very long time or they will get divorced? I think I've already explained them the if they get married and they have duidadish lagna or they have dwadishes lagnesha 68 lagna 68 laga right or 95 lagna 95 laga the seventh lord in the D9 is afflicted shows a very bad married life the seventh lord in Bula nakhatra seventh lord being atma somehow they got married but they'll be never satisfied it's a problematic situation seventh lord going into the

50:13 ninth house, seventh lord going into the fifth house, seventh lord going into the fourth house and getting afflictions. That's where the problem is because seventh is a bad is marak. Now marak lord, the seventh lord goes into bhagya and got afflicted. The marriage is on a red alert. It's a problematic situation. Seventh lord goes to the fifth house means the maragraha is now gone to the pun karmmas and it is afflicted. Seventh lord has gone to the fourth house which is suktana and it is is getting afflicted there. So suka is gone, bhagya is gone and then your puddy karmmas are gone. These combinations are red alerts. So when I get such horoscopes with two

50:58 or three different combinations of a destroyed married life my first counseling is that if you want to stay in this marriage keep lot of willpower hat yoga because nothing works above the heart yoga where you say no I will live with this person I will no matter what no matter what right and lower down your expectations if you can't do any of the do it will end up in a divot. Yeah. If you want that person to improve or love you someday and and Jupiter comes into this picture. If Jupiter blesses that you know after marriage if Jupiter is looking at this deadly combination or Jupiter is blessing through an aspect or through a conjunction the marriage will survive you know so what they say about

51:45 Jupiter that Jupiter spoils where it sits but if it aspects or like you know it has a dishi it saves it's not about sits wherever Jupiter sits it tries to create more uh dharmic environment there it's about dharma it's about knowledge It's about uh being very very pure. And the problem in Kalyuga is that we are not pure. That's why you say that we are Jupiter sits. It's a problem. Absolutely. It's not a problem in satyuga. It's not a problem in traa. It's not a problem with dwapa. It's problem in kalyuga. Yeah. Absolutely. So we talked about rashies and everything but you know there is a very common uh con misconception that if malefific like Ketu or Saturn they sit people very

52:30 easily say that if you have Ketu in 7th house you have chances of divorce. Is it that easy? No it's absolutely not that easy because until we have checked chart in totality. Yeah. You see one yoga will never give you a divorce. M there are multiple things that gives you such a huge impact in your life. So if you say that I have Ketu in the 7th house, I have Rahu in the seventh. It's a very lay man statement. It's a very you know nursery class statement. I'm 100% sure that Rahu or Ketu or Saturn Rahu or Saturn Rahu will they give you a divorce in marriage? The answer is big. No. No. No. No. Wow. Yeah. So as you said it's very beginner

53:16 level astrology when people look at Ketu in the seventh and you know there might be chances that if Ketu is really good it can lead you your way to moka absolutely the partner can lead you towards liberation 100% yes right definitely so sir now that we talked about the nature of the spouse the kind and quality of marriage let's end this uh beautiful exclusive episode with this one last question and that I'm sure our viewers would be waiting for that how decide the time of the marriage through the dasha system. How to see which planets dasha is good for me to get married? You see the first thing is there are several ways to time marriage. One of the way traditional way uh it's a raj jotish method where we uh

54:04 look at the dispositor of ketu. Okay, means look at where ketu is in your horoscope. Look at what sign it is. M and then suppose your K2 is in Virgo in D1 or D9. See ideally we check in both the charts but the better result is coming from D9. Okay. So so look wherever your K2 is in the D9. Okay. Suppose my K2 is in the sign of Virgo. So the lordship of Virgo is with Mercury. Yeah. Go to Mercury wherever it is in your D9. Okay. From there start counting one sign one year. Okay. So your suppose Ketu is in the lagna and it's a Virgo lagnda. Mercury is in the

54:50 fourth house. Okay. So fourth house is year 1. Fifth house is year two. So that means the third house would be 12 years. H and then 24 years would be again third house. Yeah. Right. And now we also introduce the concept of dish kalpatra. Yeah. that you are at the age of 34 or 32 you come to me that will I get married or not. So first I will surpass 24 years. Right now 25th year will be again fourth house. Yeah. 26th 5th 27th 28th 29 30. So we at the age of 30. The only condition is at a year when

55:36 there is a combination or a relationship of a planet who the lord of the seventh house in the dile. So suppose you were Virgo lagna the lord of the seventh house would be Pisces which is Jupiter Jupiter. Yeah. So a year in this formula we keep counting the year if there is a relationship with Jupiter the 7th house or the seventh lord right in a particular year. So your Jupiter is suppose in the 10th house right. So we'll go to 30 uh 24 then 25th 26 27 28 29 30 the 30th is a year where you can get married. Wow. Okay. You go ahead we check. So 36 maybe 37 38 wherever

56:25 there's a relationship of the seventh lord coming in this you know uh cycle of calculation that is the time where you can say that this is a year there's a strong probability of getting married that's one technique the second technique is that the adra dasha of the second lord of the seventh lord of the 10th lord And the 12th lord can also give you marriage in the D9 the antasha of the planets. Okay. But there are other principles also. But this raj jotish principle look at the disposal of the ketu. Go there start counting the years right and see des kalpatra right which is the nearest year that you can see and if that house is making any

57:12 sundha with the seventh lord of d9 you'll get married there. And this is a very advanced concept I'm sure of course if it's it is shown on pictorial you know way that that's where it is easy with different examples. Yeah definitely. So sir this was absolutely very insightful very enlightening and very advanced episode that we did today on marriage astrology. I'm sure this kind of episode you've not heard anywhere before because we do not touch upon the basics of you know marriage astrology. look at the seventh house or you know look at the fourth from 7th. It was something way beyond than that and I'm very grateful that you chose to do this with us today this exclusive

57:59 episode on marriage astrology and I'm sure all of you would try to apply all these principles when you are planning to get married or you want to see the quality of your married life. So, I hope it really helps you and uh you can watch it twice if you want because I'm sure this episode gave you some advanced insights into marriage astrology. So, please do let me know how did you find today's discussion and uh what more topics would you want us to cover with nam chhatkar gi and uh do share this episode as much as you can and we'll meet in the next one. This is with you. Namaste. Namaste. Har Krishna.