Brief Summary
This video presents seven strategies for building confidence, inspired by the character Ayanokoji Kiyotaka from "Classroom of the Elite." It emphasizes strategic thinking, backing up claims with experience, self-affirmation, maintaining appearance, concealing vulnerabilities, accepting imperfections, and developing physical toughness.
- Strategic thinking enhances control and predictability.
- Confidence stems from proven experience, not just faking it.
- Self-affirmation and a well-maintained appearance boost inner confidence.
- Concealing vulnerabilities prevents exploitation.
- Accepting imperfections fosters self-acceptance.
- Physical toughness provides assurance in threatening situations.
Strategic Thinking
Ayanokoji's confidence stems from his strategic approach to situations, allowing him to predict and control outcomes. He exemplifies this through his sharp observation and strategic planning, evident in his ability to navigate complex scenarios and outmaneuver opponents. To emulate this, the video suggests thinking deeply before acting, writing down details of issues, and developing strategic solutions to enhance confidence.
Experience Trumps "Fake It Till You Make It"
True confidence comes from backing up claims with real experience, not just pretending. Ayanokoji's chess skills and his challenge to Manabu are examples of this principle. The key is to practice consistently and seek more experience to build genuine confidence.
The Power of Self-Affirmation
Maintaining confidence in one's abilities is crucial, especially when facing adversity. Ayanokoji's self-assured response to the chairman's announcement demonstrates the power of ego-boosting affirmations. Additionally, maintaining a presentable appearance and orderly environment, as Ayanokoji does, can mirror and radiate inner confidence.
Mastering the Poker Face
Concealing vulnerabilities is essential to prevent exploitation. Even when panicked, Ayanokoji maintains a poker face to avoid revealing weakness. The video advises embracing a poker face to protect oneself from manipulation and attacks.
Accepting Imperfection
Nobody is perfect, and striving for perfection in one area can create imbalance. Ayanokoji acknowledges his shortcomings in networking and social skills but remains confident. The video encourages getting comfortable in one's own skin, avoiding impossibly high standards, and setting boundaries with others' expectations. However, it warns against becoming too complacent and ceasing to improve.
Physical Toughness
Physical toughness and agility can be a source of confidence, especially in threatening situations. Ayanokoji's physical prowess allows him to remain calm and confident, as seen in his fight against Ryuen and his cronies. The video suggests seeking physical endurance to build confidence.
