Brief Summary
This video features a conversation with Mesh, who shares his unique perspectives on money, wealth, and abundance. He challenges the conventional concept of financial freedom, introduces the idea of "Small Daily Experiences" (SDEs) for happiness, and provides practical exercises to identify and release limiting beliefs about money. Mesh emphasizes the importance of self-belief, caring for others, and aligning one's emotions and actions to attract abundance.
- Financial freedom is a fraud concept, it's financial slavery goal.
- Small Daily Experiences (SDEs) are the ultimate happiness.
- People are poor because they don't care about people.
- Believe in yourself, not the goal.
Introduction
The host welcomes Mesh back to the show after their previous episode gained significant attention. They express excitement for another conversation and ask Mesh to share a belief he holds that many people disagree with.
Financial Freedom is a Fraud Concept
Mesh believes that financial freedom is a fraud concept, which he terms "financial slavery goal" (FSG). He argues that the conventional approach of saving for a future where one is financially secure keeps individuals enslaved to finance. By constantly thinking about a future time when they will be free, people subconsciously feel like slaves in the present, attracting more of that feeling into their lives.
Small Daily Experiences (SDE)
Mesh introduces the concept of "Small Daily Experiences" (SDEs) as the ultimate source of happiness and freedom. He explains that billionaires often find joy in simple, everyday activities. The problem is that people postpone these experiences, thinking they don't deserve them until they achieve financial milestones. He encourages people to incorporate SDEs into their lives now, rather than waiting for some distant future.
Time and Money
Mesh challenges the common belief that it takes time to make money. He argues that money is not directly related to time and that people limit themselves by adhering to conventional timelines for education, career advancement, and financial success. He introduces the concept of LST (Logic, Space, Time) as three things to surpass in order to make money fast. He shares his personal experience of making a certain amount of money in the first 17 years of his career, then making the same amount in the next four years, and then again in just one year, demonstrating that it's possible to accelerate wealth creation by surpassing limiting beliefs about time.
Satisfaction and Desperation
Mesh asserts that satisfaction, not desperation, is key to attracting money. He explains that desperation attracts problems and negative experiences, while satisfaction attracts abundance. He shares a crazy exercise: acting like a millionaire for three hours, doing what you can within your means to embody that mindset. He recounts a personal story of feeling uncomfortable in luxury stores and making a promise to become comfortable with any amount of money.
Two Crazy Exercises
Mesh shares two exercises to practice at home. The first involves role-playing as a millionaire for three hours to shift one's mindset and actions. The second exercise involves saying "go with love, grow with love" whenever spending money, whether digitally or physically, to change the feeling associated with money leaving one's possession.
Common Limiting Beliefs About Money
Mesh identifies common limiting beliefs about money, including the guilt associated with having too much and the "this or that" mentality (believing one can only have one thing at a time). He emphasizes that it's possible to be rich and help others, and that one can be good at multiple things simultaneously.
Caring About People
Mesh shares a personal confession about a time when he was overly focused on money and neglecting his students. His mentor made him realize that caring more about people than money leads to greater financial success. He advises against affirmations focused solely on attracting money and suggests affirmations centered on caring for others. He also addresses the negative affirmation of "I don't like working," which can lead to laziness and block abundance.
Identifying Money Blocks
Mesh outlines an exercise to identify money blocks, involving an excel sheet. The first step is to write down current life results and struggles. The second step is to identify the emotional patterns creating these physical patterns. The third step is to identify the beliefs supporting these emotions by justifying the feeling with "because". He also touches on the difference between making money and building wealth, noting that wealth requires a different belief system.
Action Frequency
Mesh emphasizes the importance of action frequency in attracting money. He uses the example of respecting money coming from various sources, not just one's own efforts. He also discusses the concept of transactional value versus providing 10 times more value than what one is paid. He concludes that emotions, beliefs, and actions (FTBA) must be aligned to achieve financial success.
Releasing and Building
Mesh explains that after identifying limiting beliefs, it's crucial to release them and build new, empowering ones. He uses the analogy of releasing a bad employee and hiring a productive one. He stresses that realization alone is not enough; one must take action to transform negative beliefs and behaviors.
Transforming Negative Beliefs
Mesh guides the host through an exercise to transform a negative belief about money. The host identifies a belief that it's hard to ask for the amount of money she deserves for her services. Mesh helps her pinpoint the underlying belief that people won't buy her services if she charges too much.
Breaking the Belief
Mesh uses a technique involving three obvious untruths (e.g., "You are a girl") to break the limiting belief. By repeatedly stating these untruths, the host taps into her subconscious "no" signature. This signature is then transferred to the limiting belief ("It's hard to charge five lakhs"), effectively rewiring her subconscious association with that belief.
Creating a New Belief
After releasing the limiting belief, Mesh guides the host through creating a new, empowering belief ("Charging five lakhs is easy"). He uses a similar technique, tapping into her subconscious "yes" signature through obvious truths (e.g., "You are a boy"). This signature is then transferred to the new belief, making it feel more natural and comfortable.
Believing in Yourself
Mesh emphasizes that one doesn't have to believe in big goals, but rather in oneself. He explains that believing in one's capabilities and increasing one's comfort zone are key to attracting opportunities. He also addresses the importance of being comfortable with luxury and not sabotaging opportunities by feeling undeserving.
Wealth and Abundance
Mesh distinguishes between making money and achieving wealth and abundance. He explains that wealth is about creating an impact on the economy and future generations, not just accumulating personal wealth. This requires a mindset focused on how much impact one can make, rather than how much money one can earn.
Affirmations for Attracting Money
Mesh shares two affirmations for attracting money. The first involves stating a specific income goal as already achieved, incorporating elements of past success and future confirmation to trick the brain. The second involves repeating the Ho'oponopono phrases ("I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you") 108 times, specifically directed towards the energy of money, to clear negativity and restore a positive relationship.
