How To Social Engineer INFJs (The Paladin) | Social Engineering | CS Joseph

0:00 what's up ego hackers its chase with CS Joseph dot life doing another episode for season 21 this is episode 13 for season 21 how to social engineer INFJs aka the suckers just kidding but I mean like everyone's a sucker I mean just so you folks like I haven't realized every single type is vulnerable every type is social engineer Bowl so maybe it would be who've us to actually learn about how to social engineer other types so that we can protect ourselves from social engineering and but now chains I mean like you're obviously an evil person because you're teaching people how to manipulate and like why do we even pay attention to you whatsoever because you're just obviously an evil person like no I'm actually a very

0:45 neutral person except that it's important to me that I teach ego hacking techniques to people so that when you are being eco hacked you know how to defend yourself while simultaneously you can utilize these skills also to survive within your own life because I'm sorry folks but there's no such thing as good and evil quite frankly it's all about like what a man can do and what a man can't do I mean have you not watched Pirates of the Caribbean seriously pay attention to what Jack Sparrow says you know an intp like me right it's really important that you do this because you just can't see life from this whole point of view of good and evil you just can't like you seriously need to stop seeing life like that life is not about what is good or bad life is not about

1:31 what is true or false life is about what is wise and what is not so how about we focus on being wise and why is it would basically indicate that we need to have full mastery over the good and evil in order for us to survive or thrive as human beings right we have to be aware of all of these things and social engineering manipulation etc ego hacking this is what this community needs to understand in order to move forward as adults even as children this is useful too so why would you decide to put your head in the sand and not listen to good advice like why would you do that right so anyway welcome to season 21 episode 13

2:17 how to social engineer INFJs INF j's are a very special type oftentimes they have the people out there like Frank James and other Emmy ti youtubers who kind of maintain that INF j's are kind of these special unicorns of the world and and even though like I vehemently maintained that there's a lot of inaccuracies there for more than just one reason if you know what I mean but the point is it's like INF J's are are not really that special yet they are at the same time they're they're known as the tip of the spear what is the tip of the spear as the rarest type they're also quite frankly the most important type the most useful of all the types without this type the world is not going to change we

3:03 have to have INFJs the infj is a thorough history are absolutely pivotal to the race are racist growth you have Gandhi you have Jesus Christ you have Naruto in Naruto even though that's like fiction but the point is INFJs are absolutely insanely important to our survival as a race because they really are that trailblazer that brings ourselves much closer to a better world basically and they do this by having that core in our personal philosophy that they execute and they bring to our race as a whole sometimes the point where they end up having to sacrifice themselves in order to realize that dream for our sakes right and they take what has been

3:48 started by the starter and then they finish that vision as the finish or right for the sake of our race and its continued social economic or mental even with our hearts or minds or our capability to love our fellow man you know love your neighbor as yourself that came from an infj right for example love the Lord your God with all your heart mind soul and strength love your neighbors result they you know they greatest commandment that came from an infj right so all these concepts are very central to INF JS the problem is is that INF JS when they aren't like living their purpose they are basically completely absolutely 100% worthless human beings they are the most worthless of all the types the most worthless

4:33 human being you can imagine is an infj unless they're living their purpose then they are the most useful human being as you can imagine because again from a virtue and vice standpoint if they're living in their virtue of integrity then they will not have the worthlessness that comes with their corruption right and if you don't know what I'm talking about I think it's season 7 virtue and vice watch the infj episode it's very powerful and very pivotal very very very important also furthermore so you know INFJs I'm about to do the infj golden pear it's gonna be season 14 episode 8 which is these the the eighth golden pair which is ENFP and infj talks about the romantic compatibility the highest

5:21 compatibility romantically between those two types specifically and if you're an infj and you're watching this you really need to get into that and to get into that all you have to do is like go to patreon.com/scishow Safina as a gold tier member and you'll have access to eight now released eight private lectures well main text it again I should probably turn off my phone during lecturers you know what I'm saying but again if you get that gold to remember you have eight previous romantic compatibility lectures and we're gonna be adding on to those lectures every month one to two lectures a month it's usually two but just understand that that's the next one that's coming out as an infj I highly recommend you figure that out because maybe you might actually be able to get some necessary assistance from relationships and guess

6:08 what folks that's what we are going to be talking about today with how social engineering infj is because INFJs our social engineered through many ways but one of the main ways our social engineering one of the main ways they're manipulated is through their relationships and we're going to be talking about that today very very very important to do so I think it's the most useful subject for INFJs and it's probably what each infj is trying to do you know when they when they kind of this channel try to understand who they are specifically and and how they dick and arse and some of their strengths and weaknesses and obviously the number one weakness of INF days out there is their relationships right so we're going to be discussing relationships in this specific episode now this is not going to be like the

6:53 golden pear but this is more of like how things can kind of go wrong for INFJs and how they are manipulated in this way to become corrupt human beings that cause harm to their fellow man right so it's something that we have to be aware of so but before we begin let's talk about the infj archetype so their interaction style is direct responding and movement direct means they choose their role in the conversation they mean what they say they say what they mean they're very direct sometimes they could be really sharp with their directness they take charge when they need to because they're es TV subconscious they they're supposed to be generating a wolf pack because they're supposed to be strengthening other human beings and preferably the more people that they strengthen the better to get people up on their feet and walking upright and to develop importance develop importance

7:39 and develop strength and they're their fellow man especially people of their own gender would be preferable etc it's kind of more efficient that way when it gets to outside of the outside of their gender the sexual agenda comes into place and that can actually lead to corruption and that can also spoil or dampen their relationships especially relationships their significant others that could really inhibit their growth as human beings you know when we're talking about those worthless and yet the most useful type on the planet so you know this is very important for them right we're also talking about the rarest according to traditional statistics they make a point 5 percent of the population of the planet which is one out of every 200 people is an infj they're super mega rare most people don't know how to handle them because of how rare they are and this really inhibits their growth in

8:25 terms of education in terms of you know just just participating this s jsj Society of the United States of America or the West as we know it because the UK is also an SJ Society which by the way if you're an infj and you're watching this there is a specific movie that I give to INFJs to watch that basically it explains their life story and that literally that movie is Good Will Hunting with Matt Damon and Robin Williams Matt Damon plays an estranged infj and he's like getting with this ESTJ woman who maybe like an IFP but for some reason that writers kind of screw that a little bit but the Robin Williams character is an INFP who takes that role as mentor

9:12 for the infj known as Matt Damon's character Will Hunting very very important it's all about you know and he's a genius and guess what most INFJs can be very genius booth there ti child this is very normal especially if it's overactive ti child as a result of trauma in their life and not an under developing their parent function their ti child can actually become very brilliant it can become overeat overactive and this leads the infj down the path of being self-taught instead of actually accepting education even though for some reason infj is like way over value credentials it's so pathetic and annoying and I just I just I just want to slap them because i'm so triggered by infj is putting so much value and what

9:57 the doctor says oh my gosh like really how about you guys like think for yourselves for once like seriously go think for yourself go verify your beliefs because for some reason INFJs have this problem because hashtag teehee trickster right key trickster you INFJs have this problem where you can just believe about anything and it's safer for you to believe the people with the credentials because they're important because INFJs over value importance and you know guess what the INFJs who over value importance guess what those the I hope J's who are more towards the corruption instead of the integrity because they're supposed to be the most integral of all of us and yet they fail consistently stop doing that INFJs you have the capability being the

10:42 most integral out of all of the human race so why don't you start living your purpose like seriously wake up because if you don't there's going to be people like these people who are going to social engineer you and take advantage of you and you will be completely at their whim and you will have a new freedom you will have no choice and you will not be okay I guarantee it you have to be careful with great power comes great responsibility spider-man and you have to understand that INFJs you are the tip of the spear for race you are the reason why our race moves forward all of the types is basically a pyramid you have s JS then you have SPS and you have intellectuals you have ideals but at the

11:28 very very very very tip you have the infj the infj is ultimately the leader of our race why are you not leading why are you worthless mate working a dead-end job why are you addicted to video games why are you creating your little Wolf Pack on World of Warcraft instead of actually having face-to-face relationships with people strengthening yourself you know like at the gym and helping other people reach high levels of fitness and health for example health and wellness or assisting them from a psychological standpoint with their minds etc or why are you not doing this why are you not being the ultimate computer programmer just leveraging that ti child absolute full mastery of logic and developing amazing applications that help other people why why are you being worthless stop it it's

12:16 really annoying and when this happens you will get no sympathy you will get no pity you'll get no empathy from me when someone like this comes in your life and social engineers you and you end up in the ditch because of it because guess what you deserve it you deserve it if you weren't so worthless ya might not be in the ditch oh but why are you worthless well don't forget it's the fi critic if I credit causes the infj to undervalue themselves because they hold themselves to this impossibly high moral standard that they themselves can't keep and they force it on other people and those people can't keep and they are the biggest hypocrites in the whole world

13:01 and guess what the infj knows it they are so hypocritical it is unbelievable of course all types are kept a critical anyway so like what's the point but why am i why mr. Stannis Joseph are you like totally begging on the infj today well because folks jiae's need to hear the truth because they tell the truth to everyone else they burn everyone else's lies away but who is going to burn their lies away who watches The Watcher you know what I'm saying who watches The Watcher well guess what folks that's me I'm the intp do you know if the entp exists why the entp exists for the infj is because according to so see on makes this is one of a few things i'll socionics that's actually accurate the relationship between emt-p that's me and infj potentially you in

13:47 the audience is I am the pedagogue I exist to teach and mentor INFJs in as much as INFJs exist to teach and mentor me I'll admit it but the point is I am fulfilling my sacred duty to the infj archetype right now by being critical they are of the IFJ because guess what aya today's so few people are willing to argue with you and to tell you to your face your flaws of course you know you walk around aware of your flaws right here fi critic right right right well if that was the case you probably wouldn't be watching me right now the interaction style is direct responding movement their temperament is their affiliative INF j's

14:34 are focusing on doing the right thing much to my chagrin because i wish they'd be like more okay with doing what works oh wait they do when they have their estp subconscious developed because it is pragmatic it's very independent as likes having us choices it uses its SD hero to develop strength and other people it uses its Ti logic to wield the truth the truth for healing through their Fe ethics and they know what they want and are able to make quick decisions based on what they want and they're able to break through barriers break through boundaries and lead us lead our race to a better tomorrow potentially to utopia if that can exist the only way utopia would actually ever be able to exist is because of the infj type you ever hear the concept of the

15:19 kingdom of God hmm Jesus talked about that and I think in Luke chapter 17 he said the kingdom of God is in man not one man nor a group of men but in all men the kingdom of God is in your midst right and that's because the infj if our if the human race is ever to reach utopia the infj is the archetype that will lead us to it such as the responsibility of all you INF days out there you are supposed to be living your purpose because without living your purpose where would we be as a race we would be lost to be treated like chaff thrown away into the fire like trash because the infj makes sure that we are not trash because they strength us and they make us better that's the whole

16:05 point of the infj I have Jase if you're watching this and you are not improving your fellow human beings if you're not improving your fellow man you are not living out your purpose and you very may well be worthless don't do that you need to make sure that you are supporting your fellow man it is your birthright and it is your responsibility live out your responsibility be affiliative do the right thing recognize that improving your fellow man is doing the right thing you're also very abstract the infj is very abstract all about the what-ifs constantly all about the weather for this is fantastic it's open to possibilities and seeing the possible true paths for our race to move forward and able to go at it in the direction

16:52 that needs to and trail blazed a trail so that mankind can follow behind the infj amazing I mean that's basically what Jesus Christ did you know pretty dope it's basically what Gandhi did pretty dope you know not what some of other religious leaders who are like enfps not what they did interesting how that works they're also so there they're also very interest based INF j's are very aware of what they're getting out of something and i very aware about what other people are getting out of something because they're so interest based they're like hey what's your angle constantly having that attitude not a bad thing that and it also can come from expert intuition nemesis where they're very worried about the intentions that other people have

17:37 right that can be an issue so remember INF JS it's not a bad thing that you question other people's intentions you just have to make sure that you're not jumping to the wrong conclusions always verify trust what people say but verify it just in case that way you know you're not disrespecting them but at the same time things are being verified which is very very important because the more the closer you are to the truth infj is the more useful you're going to be you want to stop feeling worthless you want to stop being worthless you want to be the most useful tool in the tool shed you want even those useful person that walks the earth you want to be someone who's potentially immune to social engineering guess what all you have to do is walk and live in truth it is written a righteous man will fall seven times but

18:25 he will rise again a wicked man will stumble and he will stumble in his folly and he will not get up so you see what I'm saying everyone falls all of man Falls we fall over we have bad days we all end up in the ditch at one point in time but it's the righteous man who has the strength to get up and keep on going I don't know how many times I have heard INF J's giving up committing suicide like you know Kurt Cobain for example like you don't know how many times I've heard that over and over and over because that feeling of worthlessness that feeling of lack of usefulness it just it consumes and that fi critic absolutely consumes them from the inside and then it's like nobody wants me and I'm not valuable enough and people think

19:11 I'm terrible and I'm just going to self-destruct because no one cares and because no one cares I'm going to light myself on fire and I'm gonna stand on the ridge lit on fire hoping that someone out there will see the fires and put me out and save me for myself and then at the end of it all they're nothing but a pile of ash because no one really cares that's useful INFJs thank you how about you stop imploding and you start producing see that's the thing there you know I talked about the King archetype in terms of king warrior magician lover according to Jungian psychology and the archetype of King is where a man needs to produce and be generative this type this archetype more out of any other

19:56 type needs to be producing and to be generative focused on improving its fellow man infj see this your responsibility to do this you must be improving your fellow man or else our tomorrow is doomed this world is doomed unless you're doing your great work your magnum opus which is to improve your fellow man in some capacity and infj that the type of energy that you should be folks infj is watching this watch simon Sinek SI NE k watched his greatest speech he talks about Millennials that is an infj who is living his purpose that is an example of an infj living his purpose do not succumb to the corruption do not succumb to the feelings of worthlessness you are the most valuable of us all but you don't feel it stop

20:42 making decisions based on how you feel it's not useful it's not helpful because you will always feel less you will always feel worthless you will always feel bad about yourself you will always undervalue yourself you will always feel that you are not worthy you will always feel that you're not good enough and you will not apply to jobs and let good opportunities pass by because it's like I don't deserve it Wow no wonder people tell me and I see how worthless you people can get because I have to feel good about myself I have to believe in myself no that's a lie infj is that is a lie you do not have to believe in yourself it is not

21:29 about believing in yourself it is about what is true you need to get into your child you need to understand what is true live and truth do not live in your feelings just like that one guy who's did a tional speech it's like y'all on y'all feelings you're all on your feelings you know you get up you know no one wants to go to work no one feels like getting up in the morning stop being all on your feelings stop being worthless rise up INFJs become who you are because if you don't you're gonna get what you deserve because if you allow your critic to consume you you're gonna get you deserve and then you're gonna be manipulate you gonna manipulate by this person the CNF P or the emulated ENFP and he's going to

22:16 destroy you and because he's destroyed you the world will go down with you if you're not careful every time I hear about an infj committing suicide it's like one more second closer to that Doomsday Clock of midnight do not give in recognize your importance to our race without you we have no future this is a fact this is something that my own son is going to have to contend with because he is an infj as well something he will have to contend with he's a really good kid and I'm very proud of him sometimes sometimes I feel like you know even I'm unworthy to be his father but I've been chosen to be his father and I will be his father I will be his daddy

23:02 and I will raise him up into the man that he is to become I am proud of him because he's been through so many challenges but his antihero continues to break through those barriers and barriers and barriers this is a child where you know children little boys get febrile seizures right and you know most of them get one or two per per fever right this is a child who had like 24 in one fever where he was have a seizure every 20 minutes for example and yet he still pulled through he still survived he never bit his tongue he kept on moving forward and even though everything is stacked against him that by sheer force of will through that antihero my son still makes it through every single day trying to fight the worthlessness and become the most useful

23:47 person on the planet such is his life and his struggle and this is your struggle INFJs this is who you are supposed to be you are supposed to be these people because if not well the harbinger of doom is coming the emulated ENFP who will manipulate you much the detriment of everyone around you so let's talk about that let's talk about the emulated ENFP what does the emulated ENF become as it comes in a lot of forms they look real good nice prim and proper so lik maybe a little slimy but not that the infj would be able to tell because they look official they got that nice little suit going on got that smile going on you

24:33 know what I'm saying it's all about perception they have a great perception so that the infj can't help but perceive that this person is a person of importance and then they're like oh my fi critic I wish I was in port as important as that person I wish I was as useful as that person little do they know that ENFP or that emulated ENFP just looks like they're important just looks like they're good right Oh a little do they know that that ENFP is literally the path to the grave for them read about the harlot in the book of Proverbs and how hanging out with her is the path to the grave mm-hmm there's no different here with the emulated ENFP mm mm kind of similar behavior mm-hmm yeah

25:21 interesting something to be aware of folks something to be aware of a damsel in distress for example the damsel in distress or wait a minute you know Delilah this is what this archetype is they emulated UNFP the ENFP the social engineers the infj they are Delilah mmm interesting interesting that Delilah the ENFP would take down the estp Samson or unless he was an infj I can't really tell he's one of the two definitely SDP nfj Quadra but either an est P or an infj not sure probably and he is TP more likely and Delilah absolutely destroyed him using the same social engineering techniques that we're gonna be talking about right now for taking down an INF be very careful be very aware so

26:08 remember what is the tactics that you utilize to social engineer another human being remember it's all about functions and you want to emulate functions such that you have functions that match completely with the hero function so if an infj has antihero so the function that's best built for social engineering antihero is an a hero then they have Effie parents so you want fi parent to go with every parent they have t.i child so you want te child to go with it they have se inferior so you want si inferior to go with it and so on and so forth just recognize also hero functions and child functions are optimistic and then you have parent functions and fewer functions which are pessimistic this is very important pessimistic functions are the functions that will reveal you they will reveal the duplicity the facade the

26:54 social engineering the risk is is that you have a pessimistic function get to the point where they either realize they're being social engineered or they're unconvincing and then as a result they are immune to social engineering as a result of being basically caught by they're pessimistic functions so the object of the game is to not have to deal with the pessimistic functions so how do you go about doing that where is my red pen no don't know where it is so pink look at it this way also don't forget that these functions are on an axis these functions are an axis as well because these functions aren't accessed the hero function of the inferior function they're all with a turn on an access to each other one is

27:40 optimistic one is pessimistic and the parent and child function they turn on an axis and one is pessimistic and one is optimistic what that means is and they have a symbiotic relationship this was talked about these their cognitive axes and remember off and by the way as a supplement to this social engineering series you might want to watch season 5 which talks about cognitive synchronicity because cognitive synchronicity is kind of the foundation that you need to understand social engineering and manipulation without understanding cognitive synchronicity this is a problem right I mean everyone else understand I mean you infj is the most useful of all the types of hortence of all the types let's be honest without you our race is doomed and yet might want to figure this out so that you can make sure that our race is

28:26 not doomed because it is your responsibility like seriously it is your responsibility like you just have to and in order for you to be that useful I mean come on I mean Jesus literally rose people from the dead that's pretty useful don't you think so anyway um understand that like because there aren't access they have the symbiotic relationship what affects one affects the other so if something hits the si fury it's going to affect the any hero something's going to hit the te child's going to affect the FI parent so knowing this from a social engineering standpoint you want to get the optimistic functions on your side if you get the optimistic function on your side that by default you have the pessimistic functions on your side however something bad happens to the optimist of the

29:14 pessimistic functions then something bad is going to happen to the optimistic functions and then you're completely you're completely screwed social engineering attack has completely failed and then you have like then there's no way this is a serious serious problem especially for INFJs so be aware of that how to deal with this so they emulated ENFP because they have highest compatibility to infj they have a specific strategy they have a specific strategy in terms of how to do this so what they do is they look all official through emulated to each child you know they got a really nice suit they look a dress really good nice tie you don't slick hair and I literally their nickname is literally slick you know it's like whoo I'm like a dope salesman right now you know I'm saying I'm gonna sell this infj on something right they're all about that you know and it's

30:00 all about having the perception because remember to the ENFP it doesn't matter if they are good at something as long as they look like they're good at something that's all that really matters because perception is everything truth doesn't mean anything to them whereas the infj is trying to be actually good at something actually useful actually capable that's what the infj does and guess what folks I know J's can become actually capable such that they are absolutely amazing and also they can become the most useful of all the types because their ability to master any skill and as much as an INTJ can and have absolute mastery because that mastery is based on truth it's not based on perception it's not based on perception because remember

30:45 according to enfps in the absence of communication or explanation perception becomes reality perception is everything to the ENFP I don't have to be good I don't have to be capable but as long as I look like it and as long as people think I am that's all I need this is why people enfps like Tai Lopez can go rent big-time mansions and say hey look at me I'm a really big rich person you can be like me if you do this and then a whole bunch of people buy that and he's selling them on this thing when in reality the situation is he didn't actually own that mansion he just rented it and he rented all those flashy cars and he was exposed about it and that's how he made it big it was all based on perception it was all based on a lie and he was literally social engineering people that's how he did it folks this

31:33 is how enfps do it and INFJs are extremely weak to this extremely weak to those get-rich-quick streams schemes extremely weak to like the pyramid schemes either even you know ENFP lehand right i anemones get sucked into this because they're ENFP shadow is weak to those tactics and weak to those Corrections because that ENFP shadow also is like well maybe I don't have to be as capable maybe if I just look like I'm capable I'll be able to get by and those ideas can become corrupted and then they lack integrity and their integrity just gets sucked out of them but through their T through their te trickster because they can get to a point where their beliefs they're making decisions based on their beliefs and their opinions instead of making decisions based on their truth based on

32:18 the actual truth because T I child no one has master of truth more so than TI child because that TI child is divine it literally has the power of the heavens in it because it is divine and their Ti child is like a double-edged sword is a defined sword of truth and that sword that's what they can wield and they will always be successful as long as they walk in truth and because they're walking in truth they are a righteous man and because they're righteous man though they will fall seven times they will always rise again regardless of when they fall but no we're just gonna be lazy I don't actually have to be capable I'm just gonna make it look like I'm capable because that's obviously what I'm learning from this ENFP you know it's learning to look capable and I'll just be fine you know it's just like

33:04 that guy the prodigal son gosh I'm just throwing out tons of biblical references tonight the prodigal son you know hey it's all about smart work right all about that smart work you know it's just like okay really I'm here about smart work instead of you know working hard that's wrong iein fj's listen to me it's not about smart work don't listen to that ENFP psychobabble like seriously focus on actually working hard then you will become capable and then you will not be worthless anymore and then you can walk in confidence walk in truth and know for a fact that you're actually good at what you do because you see the results of your labor for yourself and you always have something to show for it this is who you are this is who you're supposed to be do not succumb to the

33:49 laziness that the ENFP is trying to sell you hmm can't not lecture the other one I am like so addicted sometimes saying so based on that I Neph days you know because the FI Critic they are they're needy they are so I'm sorry about infj is typically they are so emotionally unstable they are the most emotionally unstable of all the types which leaves them open to attack most people think that INFJs are not very social engineer able because of their extra intuition nemesis and let me tell you something that's crap that's not real that's not real folks they are very susceptible to social engineering extremely susceptible

34:35 extremely weak on it because people just have to play on their corruption and get them to abandon their integrity that's the problem you wanna know why INFJs don't start whining cease don't start anything because they're like so worried that they don't deserve to be successful because fear of success fear of success dominates the infj they don't even start things like entrepreneurial things because they're like I don't deserve it I'm not worthy enough I'm not good enough to be successful in this business so I'm not even going start Wow wait that's fear of failure right oh and fear of success it happens to both of them because they have that performance anxiety s the inferior performance anxiety because they're so afraid that they're not going to perform well enough for their customer while simultaneously didn't

35:21 they do not feel worthy that gets an endless loop and it just becomes this insane hurricane of I'm not good enough and I'm not capable enough and therefore I shouldn't start a business and therefore I'm just going to be working a worthless nine-to-five for the rest of my life or when they try it or they don't even bother applying for a promotion because they're like I don't have the skills and then somehow the infj is like if only if only I had a college education if only I went to school and got a degree you know if only I had a brain yeah the Scarecrow folks you ever hear about the Scarecrow you know the Scarecrow from Wizard of Oz he's a freaking infj he does he's brilliant he's very smart he thinks his way out of everything but he's got to have that straw man that straw man diploma from

36:07 The Wizard her and you know that diploma now I have the symbol of intelligence so that means I can actually be intelligent oh yeah that's really effective folks thank you I Annette Jays for being the Scarecrow how about you just burn your straw man and be like Will Hunting and actually self teach yourself everything instead of actually going into higher education yes that's right folks I'm bagging on Higher Education do you think I give a damn about my hundred thousand dollar degree piece of paper do you think I give a damn about my education hell no I don't do you think I learned any of this in school I didn't INFJs this was all self-taught and I had the opportunity to study under two mentors who also helped along the way but I had nothing to do with schooling don't you tell me that there's any value in

36:54 credentials that there's any value and what you can learn in a school a degree are you out of your mind it's nothing more than a checkbox on a resume get it through your heads INFJs you are better off being self-taught every single time don't believe me read the book crush it by Gary banner and ENFP so and who actually wants to help you and not and keep your integrity instead of how you wallow in the misery of your you know corruption you chapter 9 in this book crush it and I quote tear and quote that's literally as an entire chapter nine you might want to read that this is if you care and you're walking in truth INFJs you're unstoppable and

37:39 you are and you will become the most useful of all the types instead of being the most worthless of the moment and will give you the opportunity to move our race forward potentially to save humanity who knows maybe even bring about utopia maybe even bring about the kingdom of God who knows that's within your power but you have to rise rise above yourself because INF days you are your worst own worst enemy you are your own worst enemy and because of that you're so needy oh my gosh my nannies are like the neediest of all the types it's so frustrating how needy you people are all the time you're so emotionally draining sometimes - stop stop like seriously like I don't value myself enough and you just tell yourselves

38:28 these lies what happened to walking in truth why don't you know the truth that you're actually good about something that you're actually capable of something why don't you recognize the truth but I need people to value what I do in order for me to see the truth of it people have to value me people have to give me recognition I'm so starved for recognition okay yeah I get that your star for recognition all Fu users are but see at the end of the day INF days you have to end up two at a place where you need to stop being interdependent because your infj ego is affiliative and your ENFP shadow is affiliative and you're all about interdependence and working on teams and being around other people oh yeah when in reality the situation is you need to be more like your estp which is

39:13 pragmatic and independent capable and of its own right and it has nothing to do with the opinions or the feelings or the value systems of they're people has nothing to do with that you need to be your own person stop being codependent INFJs I admonish you and encourage you and implore you read the book codependent no more by melody bTW we one of the greatest things you've ever done for yourself in your whole life stop being codependent stop having unhealthy approval seeking behavior it's so terrible stop doing this to yourselves it's not okay recognize you're useful recognize that

40:00 you walk in truth recognize that you're truly skilled for example I have an infj technically to INF days who work for me right now they're fantastic individuals they're brilliant amazing people one of them is an amazing computer programmer I am consistently stunned by her capabilities on a regular basis it's unbelievable and I'm very thankful that she's on the team and you know and her predecessor also very thankful for him with so this is insane information technology mastery super mega useful and even though deep down inside they feel worthless they feel useless I'm here to tell you folks they're the most useful they're the most necessary they are amazing at operations you want a good Operations Manager get

40:46 yourself an iron etre because INF days when they join the organization you know what they do they see all the flaws they see all the flaws of the organization or the business and then they extend themselves out and they're literally being like oh I see that flaw I gotta fill this hole oh there's another crack got to fill that crack open there's a crack up their tongue comes out fills that card you know what I'm saying and I fill in all the cracks that's why they're amazing in operations because they make sure that the flow of energy is happening within the organization while simultaneously taking care of the people because they recognize it without the success of the people the team will not go anywhere I even had one of those INFJs recently remind me of the importance of the people sometimes ntps we lose our way thank God for the pedagogue relationship of the infj to help us get us back on track let me tell

41:33 you folks I wouldn't even be here without INFJs you wouldn't be here learning this you INFJs watching this wouldn't even be here listening to me criticize you about these things without the fact that an infj took me took took his time to pull me out of the ditch when I needed the most and helped me and burn me he burned me alive with the fire of his ni hero and TI child the Sword of Truth a fiery sword of truth and its double-edged you know why it's double-edged because it cuts him too and as much as it cuts me that's how truth works folks because truth exposes hypocrisy because if you have integrity you're not a hypocrite that's the point folks if you're a worthless infj it's because you're a hypocrite stop being a

42:19 hypocrite hashtag get the losers out of your life because if you don't you're going to keep mirroring them and that's because you guys are needy you're so needy you're so emotionally needy that you'll even hang out with the dregs of society and mirror them because you're getting some emotional support for them INFJs consistently have this problem they surround themselves with the weak and because of that they stay weak themselves they cannot allow themselves to have humility have the humility that they need to be around stronger people and it's because there's neediness the ENFP social engineer can come in and take advantage how let's talk about that

43:06 so the ENFP with extraverted intuition hero comes in it's like hey you know you can do whatever you want man you have choices I see you going places you know and because you could do whatever you want you know it's all up to you you know I feel like I feel good about you thinking these things and you could think this you could have this and there's some Lama's get-rich-quick scheme you know what I'm saying you know and and it's worked for me don't worry it that's why I wouldn't be here wearing this nice you know designer suit you know I've got my hair done you see that Lamborghini outside man you know this is like literally tide Lopez talking to this infj hey you know you might want to buy my Bitcoin investing you know my Bitcoin

43:53 investing program they'll give you everything you need to know man give me everything you need to know and like the poor infj it has no idea that he's probably rented the suit and he rented the car and he probably had been rented the hair gel who knows you know what I'm saying I've been used to it but he's like he's selling something and little does you know mr. Tai Lopez the ENFP actually understand that you know INFJs have te tricks or it doesn't matter what kind of program you sell the infj they are not going to be successful in investing because they lack te entirely but for some reason when he's given that sales pitch it resonates with INF days more than anyone else and they're the first people there that Philip J fry who is like shut up and take my money that's the first the first people that line up in the ENFP speaks Wow stop folks stop but they look so

44:41 official they look so good they so that story so nice my goodness like don't even do that it goes even further than that so remember folks the object of the game is is that if you go in with the pessimistic function the hero function is good or vice versa if you go in on a here on the on a parent function the child leave one the child function so to get into an infj all you have to do all you have to do is be like hey you make me really comfortable you know I've had a really good experience you know with you we got rapport right you did this thing for me it was so helpful given that SC inferior

45:26 be like hey you know I was really useful there and then and then like literally ENFP literally has to just label them at each aisle you're a very useful person you're a really smart guy oh gosh I know just get off on just helping told how smart they are I love it so much oh this person he feels so good about me because he feels and believes that I'm a smart person oh it's about time someone is aware of that Wow you know oh and he's really loyal to me he's been with me for such a long time or he says he's going to be loyal to me I guess I could listen to Wow Annie says I could have choices Wow okay remember with anti-hero folks you gotta be a little careful with anti-hero because if you have anti-hero you are weak against the Zanna toast gambit and

46:12 guess what this ENFP is going to deploy the Zanna toast gambit because antihero always has a choice here's the thing the ENFP presents five choices to the infj and it doesn't matter which choice the infj picks that set of choices will lead to the next set of choices which will lead to the next set of choices and the next set of choices till finally after it's like the ENFP has been so patient with all these different sets of choices given the infj that the final set of choices ultimately benefits the ENFP so the ENFP always gets what they want and the IFJ it's been like well I just had six different choices and I got to make the choice the entire time it's like yeah and you chose to go in the ditch you chose to go into debt for this person you chose to sign over your business to them you chose yeah you

46:59 chose right you chose the Santos candidate whoo it works against INFJs be careful INFJs watch out for the Xena tilts gambit look it up XA n a TOS it is where regardless of the game when you were presented choices and you decide to play a game especially with an ENFP whatever choice you make you may think it benefits you but it ultimately benefits the opponents and no matter what choice you make they always win and you always lose that is the same Atos gambit and because you're so focused on the moment that you cannot see what's happening right in front of you be careful this is how you get social engineered by an ENFP enfps like look at me look at my credentials you know here's these here's these resources

47:46 here's these here's those data and statistics that prove that I'm right even though they could be misleading bar graphs or misleading graphs or whatever you know those things that you learn about in first grade I mean I learned about them in first grade why aren't you learning about them you know what I'm saying and because of that you know that ti child is like oh look at all these statistics that I can think about you know and just a bunch of input to get to let that TI child process things you know and i enfps like oh I'm just gonna put bug in your ear you know and I'm just gonna tell you these amazing things and it's all good man as long as you as long as you think that I'm a good person that's good as long as you think I'm good it doesn't matter you only have to verify because that te child is putting in so much input in the TI child that ti child is thinking about what the ENFP wants them to think instead of actually verifying whether or not the ENFP is a real person verifying it ty Lopez

48:32 actually did buy those mansions or if he actually did buy those cars no he rented them but you know it's not that the infj knows that when they're watching his video determining whether or not they're gonna make a purchase and buy that Bitcoin investment a training plan that he has that costs thousands of dollars or at least did when it first came out yeah that's effective and by the way I'm not hampering on tile ovas success either I'm just saying like that's how far mean F piece can go so be aware of that it's social engineering so anyway let's let's talk about let's talk about scenarios we know the infj weaknesses they they have the tendency to believe anything they have that feeling of worthlessness they're there they're

49:18 there they can assume the worst about other people's intentions but sometimes that can be blinded as long as their foot being focused on you know being given choices with the Zana toes gambit it's like being told that they're being given recognition with their parents they're being told that they're a smart person RTI child and given a lot of information that could potentially overwhelm the THL with processing through things and if they're and if the ENFP is demonstrating loyalty or at least faking loyalty to the infj and saying oh you're making me really comfortable and you know you're someone I can be loyal with I'll always be with you throughout the entire process it's okay you know I'm gonna be on your team right now as the inferior starts getting comfortable and then the infj just breaks down and they end up going with what the ENFP is suggesting because they are weak against the power of suggestion NFP suggestion right and as a social

50:06 engineer that's what you need to do and relate ENFP and be suggestive to those infj such that they start to begin to believe the lie and then as a result of believing the liar the perception all of a sudden you get their money or you get whatever it is that you want from them right let's talk about that let's talk about actual scenarios where this happens friend of mine had a had an ENFP girlfriend and and he he broke up with her and he was really sad for like the longest time about that because he had he very much water and I hear a whiner but she didn't really want him and then all of a sudden he became successful one day and he had a lot of money and then she tried to get back with him you know because that

50:52 because like oh wow you know his status is increase I'm an ENFP and I want to get status the status that he has and whatnot and then he fell into that trap and she completed social engineering him such that he ended up taking all of his money away from him and he literally had nothing he even took his house from him like completely took his house it was like absolutely it's like that that gold digger horror story that you that you find out it's literally from this ENFP woman took everything he had absolutely everything he had all because he could go over and you know she was extremely overweight she was a very ugly human being she was very sleazy and then all of a sudden like and he just didn't value himself enough to have those personal standards or those personal boundaries to make sure that this low

51:37 quality ENFP woman wouldn't be there to take it away and that's all she did she comes up to him he's like hey you know you know you want to come over you know and you know I feel really good about you I've been thinking about you and I really regret all the things that I said I feel bad about that I feel really bad about that then a few parents like oh I'm sorry you feel bad about that here I'm gonna make you more comfortable with my se inferior and I'm gonna make you feel better and then she's like oh thank you for making me feel better and then gives him that that recognition because he's so emotionally needy and and she and he sees so he's so starved for that for that affection of that an emotional media is oh she's so sympathetic towards me oh she loves me you know and they're like and she's like hey I'm really behind on my bills could you help me out

52:22 oh sure I'll be that white knight for you and I'm gonna help you out I'll help you pay your bills don't worry about that and then all of a sudden just keeps getting worse and worse and we're XANA tous gambit moves forward I'm gonna give you choices and you're gonna give me and I'll give you choices but he's choice I give you benefits me then eventually I'm gonna take everything away from you Wow Wow it is written do not put up surety for another or your bed your very bed and all of your clothes on your back will be taken away from you an infj is specifically are those people that definitely put up surety for others putting up surety for others means it's like you're buying insurance or you're co-signing alone for another person and that's exactly what this woman did got

53:09 him to co-sign alone she didn't make the payments he was responsible the payments but she could dick God to keep everything and he was out cold left with absolutely nothing how how did she do it hmm well it goes even further than that look at it this way an infj man also interested in ENFP woman for example and this ENFP woman was not even remotely interested in me at all and then he became successful and then she also has and then also and then she ended up being in a relationship with somebody else and then but then at the same time she's like you know hey constantly to to the infj man who is successful and who but and who in human has a great relationship he's got his business going is fantastic he's very happy but she's

53:57 constantly messaging him sending him photos of herself videos of herself consistently doing this over and over and over again even complaining about her boyfriend him and everything and it's just that subtle perceptive te child manipulation to that inot a man such that ultimately he ends up cheating on his relationship with a woman he actually loves to be with that girl that he's always wanted previously and come to find out the grass is not greener and that you know she was the harlot in the book of Proverbs that warns that leads to the grave and little did he know right it's because it's like hey you know you you want it you want to come over yeah you you want to be with me you know like

54:44 because here's the thing INFJs they're really insecure with their performance anxiety and like all she has to be like you know I know that you're really good in the bedroom I know that you're gonna perform really well for me you don't worry about it I think it's impossible I feel it is impossible for you to ever make me uncomfortable and I will always be there for you I will always I will never abandon you because INFJs have that fear of abandonment right and and then and then at the ENFP emulator is being like you know I'm always be loyal to you I'm never going to abandon you it takes that fear away and it makes that antihero want the ENFP that much more yeah I really want her she's never going to abandon me look at it this way you think that's screwed up INFJs

55:31 men or women are more attracted to even lower quality enfps within their goal within their golden pear or any other type for that matter a lower quality person than a higher quality person because then they're like oh that person's gonna become dependent upon me and they will never abandon me and they're more insecure being with somebody who's more successful than they are themselves because they're afraid that that person will abandon them and then as a result of that fear of that person abandoning them then they don't even bother going all the way for that relationship and then they end up self sabotaging and spending more time such that they will put more effort in the lower quality person maybe even cheat on the higher quality person for the lower

56:17 quality person because of that insecurity that oh this higher quality person's just going to abandon me anyway wow what a tragedy I don't know how many INFJs I have coached in my life who have all done that literally cheating on a higher quality person with a lower quality person because they were afraid that the higher quality person would ultimately abandon them Wow oh wait I've also been the victim of that myself my infj ex-girlfriend did that to me and she cheated on me with an

57:02 addict who would commit suicide on a regular basis but he had that fi hero you know oh I need a good person and she's like I'm gonna save him I'm gonna heal him through sex gosh I don't know how many times I've heard that from I enough just stop trying to heal people from sex stop becoming this super arrogant cocky person who thinks that they're the master of all that you have as god complex that you can heal people with sex for example you're you're out of your mind stop having that complex it's not healthy I've coached many INF days with that problem as well and been a victim of that myself it's not appropriate it's when that TFE parent is not developed in that overactive ti child ends up having that god complex it's unbelievable I'm so tired of it

57:49 get some maturity get some sense of responsibility INFJs develop your fu parents your your TI child is not overactive and then causing all this damage it's really annoying and it's hurtful it destroys your life a lot of us out there have been cheated on that's why I was cheated on I was that higher quality person in that relationship and she decided to be with a lower quality person because well she thought I was going to abandon her and wait I did abandon her because of the cheating it's a self-fulfilling prophecy INFJs do you not understand that you bring it upon yourselves you're literally imploding it is your si demon because you're so

58:35 afraid someone is going to abandon you that you inadvertently caused them to abandon you and then you implode and then you light yourself on fire on the ridge hoping someone's gonna save you and care enough about you as you watch yourself burning as I watch you literally cut yourself in front of me yeah I've had that experience before I'll never forget that to watch si diamond literally cut themselves in front of me trying to elicit response so manipulative just makes my se demon want to burn reality to the ground them along with it se and fury and security and then all of the enfps to do is be like hey you know

59:22 I'm loyal to you and then the SE inferior is like great and then that translates right up to here in a hero wants them it creates the desire it creates passion for that ENFP that damsel in distress for example it goes further you know it's like you know I need to give you recognition I'm gonna give you so much recognition you know you're such a good person you do all these things for me no one appreciates you I'm very sympathetic towards you I'm gonna offer you sympathy consistently and then that ti child starts to think about that and it's like wow this person truly cares about me this person truly values me when in reality it's all a lie and the infj gets sucked in and onto the path the path to the grave they start walking

1:00:08 wow what a waste what a waste let me tell you something INFJs how do you fight against this how do you get away from this you need to have the four pillars of self-intimacy we talked about this in season six to go to the season six playlist on here on the csj youtube channel very very important you need to learn how to be intimate with yourself and love yourself properly and it's all about having personal you know you have to make sure you're taking responsibility for meeting your own needs oh but this is a really hard thing for INFJs to do how come INFJs can't take responsibility for meeting their own needs well it's because I don't

1:00:54 deserve to meet my own needs I'm not worthy enough to meet my own needs they don't take care of themselves because they don't deserve it because they don't feel they don't feel good enough Wow and then they have to have personal standards good luck getting an infj to have personal standards with that teehee trickster good luck are they going to have personal standards that tea tricksters at risk of literally believing anything they could believe lies and there kiai child is not going to verify them because they allow themselves to believe absolute lies it's really frustrating folks I don't know how many times I've had infj friends completely betray me because of wrong information that they've been getting from sources that are not even credible and not even true

1:01:39 and they never took the time to verify or verify with me what other people have been saying about me and then they automatically assume I'm manipulating them or they assume I'm being a dick or they assume that I'm trying to harm them when I actually care about them for real that they assume that because they're willing to believe anything and they don't take the time to trust what I say and verify it they don't give me the benefit of the doubt and they wonder why I don't have anything to do with them again they wonder why and then they had the audacity to accuse me of abandoning them when the reality situation is they forced me to abandon them because I no longer felt safe to be around them anymore because I couldn't trust them

1:02:26 anymore and they didn't give me the benefit the doubt I don't know how many times that's happened to me wait a lot with INFJs in my life see folks I love INF J's I love them to death I love all of you i nachos so much so so much I absolutely love you people I need you people especially to be my pedagogue and teach me and criticize me and make me into a better man I need you people but if you people are going to consistently do this to yourselves I can't do anything about it do not like you don't want to be abandoned stop alienating people like me stop alienating us we're not here to do this

1:03:11 we do actually care about you stop loyalty checking us you know where you push us away where you push this away and see if we'll come back to you are you kidding me that's not how that works trust what we say but verify it use your ti child stop believing anything it's wrong it's wrong do you are you really going to let your panties drop if someone comes with bi and it's like oh I value you oh I'm loyal to you you know oh you know you're really really smart you can have any choice like are you really gonna do that are you really where's your self-respect where's your personal standards the second pillar of self-intimacy where's your personal standards do you not have standards because of T trickster so it's one of the hardest things for INF days in the

1:03:57 world to actually learn to have personal

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