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0:01 In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Tabarakalladzi biyadihil mulk wahua ala kulli saaiin qadir. alladzi khalaqal mauta wal hayata liyabluwakum ayyukum ahsanu amala wahuwal azizul ghaofur alladzi khalaqa sabaa samaawatin Tibaqa

0:48 maa tara fi khalqir rahman tawut farjiil bashar hal tara min futur tummarjiil bashar karrataini yanqalib ilaikal bashar khasi wahua hasir walaqad zay Unya bimasha wa'alna rujuma

1:34 wa'alnaha rujuman lisayatini wa a'tadna lahum adzabas sa'ir walilladina Jahanam wabal masir. Idza ulquu fiha samiu laha syahiq wahiya tafur. I will never forget the minal ghaib.

2:21 kama ulqiya fiha faujun saalahum khazanatuha alam ya'tikum nadzir [Music] qolu bala qad jaana nadirun fakadzabna fakadzab ma nazzal minaiin in antum illa fi dalalin kabir waqalu lau kunna nasmau au

3:08 na'qilu maa kunna fi ashabis sa'i [Applause] bidzambihim fasuhq liashha sa'ir. Innalladina yakhsyauna rabbahum bil ghaibi lahum maghfiratun wa ajrun kabir. asirru qulakum a ijharu bih innahu

3:57 alimum bidzati sudur ala ya'lamu man khalaq wahuwall latifulul khabir huwalladzi ja'ala lakum fi manakibiha waulu mir rizqih wa ilaihin nusyur aamintum man fisamaai

4:43 ay yaksifa bikumul ardha faidza Am amintum man fisama ay yursila alaikum hasiba fasatauna kaifa nadzir walaqad kadzaballadzina qhimakaifaana nakir Awalam yarau ilat thari fauqahumin

5:35 waqbid [Music] maa yumsikuhunna illar rahman Innahu bikulliaiim basir. [Music] Amman hadzalladzi hua jundul lakum yansurukum min dunir rahman. Inil kafiruna illa fi ghurur [Music] amman

6:21 hadzalladzi yarzuqukum in amsaka rizqoh bal lajju fi utuwin wa nufur afamay yamsi ah am yamsyi sawwiya amman yamsyi sawiyan ala siratim mustaqim. qul huwalladzi

7:09 ansyaakum wa'alalakmus sam'a wal absara wal afidah qalilam maa taskurun qul huwalladzi dararaakum fil ardhi wa ilaihi Qu mata wa'du in kuntum shodiqin. qul innamal Ilmuallah

7:58 wa innama ana nadzirum mubin. Falamma rauhu zulfatan siat wujuhulladzina kafaru waqina hadza waqina hadzalladzi kuntum bihi taddaun. Qul araitum in ahlakaniallahu wa maiya au Rahimana

8:45 [Music] yujirul kafirina min adzabin alim. [Music] qul huarrahmanu amanna bihi waaihi tawakkalna fasatauna man hua fi dolalim mubin qul araitum in asbaha maukum ghaur

9:30 yaikum bima main. In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Tabarakalladzi biyadihil mulk wahua ala kulli saaiin qadir. alladzi khalaqal mauta wal hayata liyabluwakum ayyukum ahsanu amala

10:18 wahuwal azizul ghaofur. Alladzi Khalaqa Sabaa Samaawatin Tibaqa Maa Tara Fi Khalqir Rahman. hal futur tummarjiil bashar karrataini yanqalib ilaikal bashar khasi wahua hasir

11:04 walaqad zayyan Unya basi wa'alnaha rujuma wa'alnaha rujuman lisayatini wa a'tadna lahum adzabas sa'ir walilladina kafar Jahanam walir. Idza ulquu fiha samiu laha syahiq

11:55 wahiya tafur. I will not be late for the minal ghaid. Kullama ulqiya fiha faujun sa'alahum khazanatuha alam ya'tikum nadzir [Music] qolu bala qad jaana nadirun fakadzabna fakadzabna ma nazzal minai in

12:40 antum illa fi dolalin kabir waqalu lau kunna nasmau au na'qilu maa kunna fi ashabis sa'ir [Applause] bidzambihim fasuhq liashha sa'ir. Innalladina yakhsyauna rabbahum bil ghaibi lahum maghfiratun

13:28 wa ajrun kabir. asirru qulakum a ijharu bih innahu alimum bidzati sudur ala ya'lamu man khalaq wahuwall latifulul khabir huwalladzi ja'ala lakum fi manakibiha waulu mir rizqih

14:15 wa ilaihin nusyur aamintum man fisamaai ay yaksifa bikumul ardha faidza Am amintum man fisama ay yursila alaikum hasiba fasatauna kaifa nadzir walaqad kadzaballadzina

15:03 qhimakaifaana nakir Awalam yarau ilat thari fauqahumin wa yaqbid [Music] maa yumsikuhunna illar rahman Innahu bikulliaiim basir. [Music] Amman hadzalladzi hua jundul lakum yansurukum

15:50 min dunir rahman. Inil kafiruna illa fi ghurur [Music] amman hadzalladzi yarzuqukum in amsaka rizqoh bal lajju fi utuwin wa nufur afamay yamsi ah am

16:35 yamsyi sawwiya amman yamsyi sawiyan ala siratim mustaqim. qul huwalladzi ansyaakum wa'alalakmus sam'a wal absara wal af'idah qalilam maa taskurun qul huwalladzi darakum fil ardhi wa ilaihi

17:23 Qu mata wa'du in kuntum shodiqin. qul innamal Ilmuallah wa innama ana nadzirum mubin. Falamma rauhu zulfatan siat wujuhulladina kafaru waqina hadza waqina hadzalladzi

18:11 kuntum bihi taddaun. Qul araitum in ahlakaniallahu wa maiya au Rahimana [Music] yujirul kafirina min adzabin alim. [Music] qul huarahmanu amanna bihi waaihi tawakkalna fasata'lamuna man hua fi dolalim

18:57 mubin. qul aaitum in asbaha maukum ghauran famay ya'tikum famay ya'tikum bima Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Tabarakalladzi biyadihil mulk wahua ala kulli saaiin

19:48 qadir. alladzi khalaqal mauta wal hayata liyabluwakum ayyukum ahsanu amala wahuwal azizul ghaofur alladzi khalaqa sabaa samaawatin Tibaqa maa tara fi khalqir rahman tautarjiil bashar hal min futur

20:33 tummarjiil bashar karrataini yanqalib ilaikal bashar khasi wahua hasir walaqad zay Unya bimasha wa'alna rujuma wa'alna rujuman lisayatini wa a'tadna lahum adzabas'ir walilladina

21:24 Jahanam wabal masir. Idza ulquu fiha samiu laha syahiq wahiya tafur. I will never forget the minal ghaib. kama ulqiya fiha faujun saalahum khazanatuha alam ya'tikum nadzir [Music] qolu bala qad jaana

22:12 nadirun fakadzabna fakadzab ma nazzal minaiin in antum illa fi dalalin kabir waqalu lau kunna nasmau au na'qilu maa kunna fi ashabis sa'i bidzambhim fasuhq liashha

22:58 sa'ir. Innalladina yakhsyauna rabbahum bil ghaibi lahum maghfiratun wa ajrun kabir. asirru qulakum a ijharu bih innahu alimum bidzati sudur ala ya'lamu man khalaq wahuwall latifulul khabir

23:46 hualladzi ja'ala lakum manakibiha wau mir rizqih wa ilaihin nusyur aamintum man fisamaai ay yaksifa bikumul ardha faidza Am amintum man fisama ay yursila alaikum hasiba

24:37 fasatauna kaifa nadzir walaqad kadzaballadzina qblihimaifaana nakir [Music] Awalam yarau ilat thairi fauqahumin waqbid [Music] maa yumsikuhunna illar rahman Innahu bikulliaiim basir.

25:23 [Music] Amman hadzalladzi hua jundul lakum yansurukum min dunir rahman. Inil kafiruna illa fi ghurur [Music] amman hadzalladzi yarzuqukum in amsaka rizqoh bal lajju fi utuwin wa nufur afamay

26:09 yamsi [Music] ah am yamsiyi sawwiya amman yamsiyi sawwian ala sirati

26:58 Alhamdulillahiabbil Amen. Allah is the Most Gracious and the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Most Gracious. Praise be to Allah who is all-seeing, all-near, all-knowing. Nothing is hidden from Allah Subhanahu wa taala. [Applause] Allahumma sholli ala sayyidina wa maulana Muhammadin wa alaalihi wa ashabihi ajmain. Dear colleagues, one of the blessings that we rarely consider as a blessing is

27:45 correction, suggestions, input, criticism. We sometimes feel that when someone criticizes us, it is an attack on us. In fact, it is part of Allah's blessings that we must be grateful for. Because the most important thing for us in this life is to get better over time. With each passing day we become better, we become more aware of our weaknesses and weaknesses, and we become more serious about

28:31 improving ourselves. We should adjust to our prayers. Don't we ask for ihdinasiratal mustaqim, asking to be guided to the straight path? Sirathalladzina an'amta alaihim. That is the path of those to whom you give favors. Who are they? Prophet, martyr. W naabiyin, siddiqin, martyr and shihin. Or to become a prophet, we cannot because the period of

29:17 prophethood is over. So you become a Siddiq, a righteous person, a martyr, a pious person. Actually, that's what we ask for. We must understand that being good does not happen all at once. Being good is a process of understanding and practicing. If we don't understand, we can't do anything. Hmm. But even if we understand, but we don't do it, that's also not right. Therefore, two

30:03 very important things that we have to do are study and practice, put it into practice. Well, usually we think that ee lessons only come from situations that we like, lessons from teachers, advice or coaching that suits our wishes and is delivered in a way that is right for us. full of ee things that please us. In fact, guidance from Allah can come in

30:51 various ways. It just depends on what our desires are like. Sometimes guidance from Allah comes through events that we like or don't like. Well, this time we will try to explore one of the characteristics of a lucky person, namely tawas bilhaq. Trust each other in truth. So, the skills that we must have are the skills to receive input, receive suggestions, receive corrections, receive criticism. This is a very important thing for us to

31:36 have. Because tawas bil haqq is part of the ee people who advise each other in truth are the key part of people who will be lucky. The person who loses is the person who does not have the ability to accept advice and convey advice well. Giving advice will only be good if we can accept the advice well. If our mind wants to advise others well, then what we must have is the ability to accept advice well. Because if we are unable to accept

32:22 advice well, we lose the ability to be empathetic in giving advice. But the ability to receive advice must not be done with lust. We must believe from the start that we really need this like we need a mirror. Didn't we discuss that there are four ways we can evaluate ourselves? The first is to understand yourself honestly. This is easy but not easy. Because sometimes we don't want to be too honest about ourselves. But if we can honestly

33:07 write about who we are, we will know that there are many shortcomings that we need to fix, but few people do it. The second is with a mirror. The mirror here can see the physical, but the people who are closest to us, who have been with us for a long time, who know our character, our behavior, our nature more, are actually an important part of our lives. Because it is a mirror.

33:54 Habib's voice came in. Well, sorry. Parents, husband, wife, children, people who are close to us are actually great gifts from God. Because they know us better than anyone else. We should really take advantage of the position of people close to us to correct and provide input to us. The input we need is like looking in a mirror. Looking in the mirror.

34:40 Sorry, Apifala is still here. Sorry about the Zoom. Sorry for disturbing the audience. Yes, for a moment, the luck of the people closest to us is that they know our shortcomings and mistakes more than others. Third, taking advantage of people who don't

35:27 like us, such as our opponents or people whose lives are full of dislike and hatred towards us. Well, they also have more energy to search for and investigate our shortcomings and mistakes. This should be something we take advantage of. because it's free, right? They have put in the effort to fight so that we can know our shortcomings. And the fourth is by observing current events, both in the news and in our environment or people

36:12 milling about, neighbors and anyone in the community. Because their behavior can be material for us to evaluate ourselves, not to belittle anyone. If we meet good people, we can learn from their kindness. If we get a bad attitude, we can learn too. So actually there is no harm in meeting anyone if we intend to learn to evaluate ourselves. Well, okay. We repeat what we said earlier that we must have the ability to be honest in looking at ourselves. Where did it start? We must realize that we are far from perfect.

37:00 Far away. Our goal is to become a better person over time. In Islamic boarding schools, it's called PDLT. Improve yourself and do your best. Before we do our best, of course we have to try to improve ourselves because we are not threatened by anyone's badness unless we are threatened by our own badness. This is the most important thing, yes. Surah Al-Isra verse 7. In ahsantum ahsantum lianfusikum wain asat'tum falaha. If you do good, that goodness is for yourself. And

37:47 if you do bad things, do bad things, then the bad things are for ourselves. This is what we must be very aware of, that the threat to our lives does not come from anyone except from our own behavior. Please hold on to this firmly so that we don't make life complicated. All blessings come from Allah. All evil is invited by ourselves. An-Nisa Letter 79. So don't feel threatened by anything, by anyone. Apart from that, we are threatened by our own badness which we don't want to admit, which we don't want to be honest about,

38:34 and which we don't want to seriously fix. That is what threatens our lives. The others are no danger. The others are just a path from Allah. Achieving what God has ordained for us. the fruit of our own actions. So, what we have to do after we realize that we are threatened by our bad deeds and shortcomings, our next task is to continue to find out. Among them is prayer. Prayer for the best and most successful. Please show me. ee so that we know

39:20 what we have to fix. The next step, after asking Allah who knows all about our bad things , is that we must be serious about realizing that guidance will come in various ways. There are some that are delicious, that suit our wishes, there are some that are not so delicious but the content is right. Some of the content is not good, but the method is also good. For example, if there is something that is bad in its method or bad in its content, it is all good for us if we respond to it correctly. So, what is preventing us from being better? Awesome.

40:06 What prevents us from being disgusting is ujub like Adam. Uh, sorry, sorry, sorry. As God forbid. The devil yes, the devil says, "Ana khairu minhu." I am better than him. It means better than Adam. Well, because we feel better it makes it difficult for us. The second is the disease of arrogance, which is looking down on other people. This is the danger to us. If we feel better and we look down on other people, it becomes very difficult for us to change.

40:52 We should realize that we are truly only God's help. We can be appreciated by people. We really, really need suggestions, advice, corrections, criticism. Whatever form it takes, whatever the method, the most important thing is that we know our shortcomings. This is the most important essence. This is how it is, in front of you there is delicious food and there is a poisonous snake. We don't see which information is most important to us. What is most important is information

41:38 about favorite foods. Information about dangerous snakes is definitely more important for us than about dangerous snakes. There are now two buried. It's buried, we can't see it, it's buried. One is a pile of money. One is a mine that can explode. Which information is most important if you have to choose one? Whether it's information about money or mines, it means nothing. We have money, if we step on a landmine, of course we want to be safe first. Well, this wish of congratulations is that we have to

42:27 find out. Well, Allah knows all our shortcomings, our small, medium, subtle, big mistakes. Allah is so kind as to give guidance through anyone. These include the four things mentioned above, through contemplation, through the mirror, through people who are antipathetic to us and through environmental events. So, now how do we respond to this? When we look in the mirror and there is dirt on our nose, teeth, or face, what should we do? Busy with self-defense, right? What do we do? We are busy

43:14 cleaning it. We should be grateful to the mirror because it is an inanimate object. So, because we don't think about being grateful. Imagine, it's already cool, but there's boogers here, we don't know. Well, look in the mirror and you can see there's snot on our nose. What do we do? Self-defense explains it right? We immediately take the boogers and clean them. Well, sometimes we meet people, we don't have a mirror, but there are people, for example employees or friends, who then tell us, "Hey, your face is dirty, there's boogers, there's black chicken teeth." What do we do? We cleaned it up

44:02 and thanked him. Unfortunately we can only do this for mask casings. But there is something more important. Innallaha laanzuru ila suarikum wa amwalikum wakin yangzuru ila qulubikum waalikum. Indeed, Allah does not look at your appearance and wealth but at your heart and your deeds. If someone told us about the casing earlier, sir, sorry, the button is upside down. Wow, sir. Sorry, let's say the clothes are dirty. We don't defend ourselves, we just go, oh yeah.

44:48 Cleaned and thanked. This is the case, ladies and gentlemen. What is even more important is that we are grateful when people tell us our true bad things. Earlier it was just a casing, nothing else. What is dangerous is our morals. our character. So, we really need a mirror. Not only the casing, but our hearts, our morals, and Allah brings it through anyone. Through parents, through in-laws, through children, through grandchildren, through husbands, through

45:34 wives, through close friends, through teachers, yes. through people who know more because they interact with us a lot. Especially if you are married through a companion. We should have the true awareness to look in the mirror. So if later there is input in any form from this mirror, we should be very grateful, very thankful, very appreciative,

46:21 really trying to understand it. Let's not be busy defending ourselves. Hey, if we look in the mirror and never defend ourselves, do we see any boogers? This is not boogers. Actually, this booger doesn't exist. It 's just that people can't possibly do that. Hey, he has black teeth. Oh no. It's just you who saw it wrong. Actually my teeth are white. Not really. Or when someone at the office says, "Sir, sorry, your shirt is inside out." Ah, just brother. Don't be like that. Don't just talk nonsense. No. We're not like that, are we? we immediately said, "Oh, yeah." "Oh, yes. Yes, sorry, sorry. Oh, thank you very much brother for telling us this

47:06 is actually what we should do. It's just that lust sometimes makes us always want to defend ourselves, always make excuses. There are times when those reasons are right, yes. But the most important thing for us is that we continue to focus on and improve. But we must remember that we improve ourselves not so that people do not correct us wrongly. We improve ourselves not so that people will respect us. We do not improve ourselves because we are grateful to Allah. Allah has

47:54 told us what we must improve. We improve ourselves not for the sake of people's judgment. We improve ourselves as gratitude to Allah. So it really must be intended as an act of worship to improve ourselves. Don't let us do good so that people will be nice to us. We do good so that we are recognized as good. We do good so that people will be nice to us. Ee this is not a good deed because the intention is not good. What kind of good intention? I do good lillahi taala because of worship.

48:42 Allah has shown me what I must improve. I must improve myself as gratitude to Allah. Whether other people are good to us or not is not our territory. That is Allah who will move it. This is something that is considered very important to reflect on because sometimes we do good things to be judged good. So that people will be good to us, so that people will not do bad things to us. If this is our intention, then it is not worship, it will not be a good deed. And besides there being no reward, we

49:28 will not be happy, we will not be consistent. Because we do it for the sake of creatures, not to be judged by Allah. So if we get correction later, then correct ourselves. How about A, ee I have tried to improve myself but I have not been trusted, so there is no problem. Just keep improving yourself. There are those who try to repent, improve themselves but are still not trusted. Yes, there is no problem. It is also Allah who moves us so that we remain more consistent in seeking Allah's pleasure, not seeking people's judgment. People are moved by Allah to ee for example, if they

50:14 still do not trust us, then we should repent so that our intentions are more straight. So this is very important. First, we must realize that we are threatened by our badness. Second, we must ask Allah to give us guidance ee so that we can repent. Allahum ja'alni interest tawwabin waj'alni minal mutathirin. Third, we have to try to find out. And even if Allah has given us notice about morals that we must improve, we must be grateful to that person.

51:00 Very grateful because it has become a way to Allah, be grateful, thank God and focus on improving myself. PDLT improve yourself and do your best with the important note that we improve ourselves. We repent as worship. Seeking God's pleasure is not seeking the pleasure of creatures. This is important because if we improve ourselves for the sake of being judged by people, we will not enjoy it, we will continue to be confused about improving ourselves because we are afraid that people will respond differently to our expectations.

51:46 Then we also won't be steadfast, we will stop later and the episode will improve itself when people's responses don't match expectations. We too will be disappointed when we don't respond as expected. But people who are sincere in improving themselves continue to consistently repent, find out, improve themselves. Because for him the most important thing is innallaha yuhibbul muhsinin. Indeed, Allah loves those who do good. Innallaha yuhibbut tawwabin wa yuhibbul mutathirin. Indeed, Allah loves those

52:33 who repent and purify themselves. Qod aflaha man zakaha waqasaha. Very happy is the person who purifies the soul and the one who pollutes it is at a loss. Well, this is sincere. Another important thing is our ability to be grateful. Usually what makes it difficult for us to accept is our pride and arrogance and other heart diseases, namely lust. We don't like to be given input. In fact, Allah only gives input through whomever He wills.

53:20 Well, we fail to enjoy all of this because we see creatures. In fact, Allah is the one who moves. So we are grateful to Allah and we must be grateful to humans. Lam yastkurilas e man lam yaskurinnas lam yaskurillah. Whoever is ungrateful to humans cannot be considered grateful to Allah. So we should be very grateful to anyone who tells us our shortcomings, whatever their form, shortcomings, mistakes, both physical and spiritual, in whatever way. Because the way is still the way that

54:06 delicious, a slightly unpleasant way. What about the unpleasant ones? In addition to getting input, we also get forgiveness of sins. So it's not a focus on self-defense, but a focus on improving ourselves, a focus on doing the best. Among them is being grateful. Wallahuam. The evidence is this Surah Al-Asr, yes. Tawaso bilhaq. Wataso bilhaq. Okay, Apib. there are ee questions from friends, please. Okay, for friends who are on social media who want to ask, please write first. Okay, permission A, no one has asked yet.

54:53 Yes, friends, thank you. yesterday aa in Batam mm there was a junior high school graduation, thank God the fourth batch if I'm not mistaken, yes for residents of Batam and its surroundings there are already elementary schools in Batam, then junior high schools and high schools for sons and daughters of ikhwan akhwat, also Baitul Quran for residents of Batam who want to register their children for boarding schools and Islamic boarding schools, please go to Eko Pesantren DU, there is a PDF. This PDF is formal diniah education, education to become a prospective

55:40 cleric because the content of religious education is more but ee all are legally certified official so that they can continue to any college. The one in Eko Pesantren 2 for Ikhwan and the one in Geger Kalong for Akhwat please. that is also equivalent to junior high school and high school and the diploma is formal, yes official so that if you want to continue to any campus you can. As for schools in Darut Tauhid, starting from kindergarten, there is elementary school in Eko Pesantren 1, junior high school

56:26 Ikhwan Akhwat, elementary school also Ikhwan Akhwat, vocational school, high school, meaning high school, there are 3 years, there are 4 years. The 4-year one is the first year to memorize the Quran. So it is hoped that when you continue later, you can memorize more and yes, the STAI campus of Darut Tauhid Islamic College. Then there is also vocational school and there is also a boarding school program. Among them is the Qbiyah daurah for 1 month. if you want boarding school. Then the akhlak plus entrepreneurship students are

57:13 4 months, the golden age students are 40 days, and there are various other training packages . Please take advantage of it if needed. Okay, please PIP. Check. Bismillah. Okay, permission from Instagram, someone has asked. K Abib's voice. Eh, wait, maybe I'm not setting it right. Please continue. Permission from Instagram. Assalamualaikum, Mr. Kiai. Permission to ask, how can this heart not be easily sensitive or hurt by the bad words or actions of others?

57:59 Indeed, one of the important exercises in this life is the one that is very high priority. Among other priorities is patience, right? Patience when avoiding sin, patience when obeying, patience when facing disasters. Well, the scholars added one more, patience in responding to the words and actions of others. This is also called part of the disaster. But if specifically it is in the Qur'an waidza khobakumun jahiluna qolu salaman. And if the ignorant people, the ignorant people here are people who

58:47 cannot control themselves ee say bad words, qolu salaman. We are ordered to continue to say good things that bring safety. So this is very explicit. One of the characteristics of a person's humility. So the characteristics of a humble person are when there are people who speak badly, then he remains kind, calm, and responds with ee words that bring goodness or at least keep quiet, not responding with bad words. Now, what letter is this

59:33 , Pip? Oh, I forgot, Furqon is like that. E waid khum waid yes sorry. Well yes this is it yes right. Alfurqan verse 63 in full like this. This is very important to realize. Ahmanadina yamsuna ala waahil salama w ibadurrahman and ee

1:00:21 and the servant of Allah the Most Merciful is alladzina people yamsyuna alal ardi Hauna people who walk on the earth humbly. Wa and when khumul jahiluna salama. And if the ignorant people say something to them, then they answer with words that contain safety. So one thing we must realize is that there will be situations, words, and attitudes of people who are unpleasant to us. And this has become part of the sunnatullah that we will live and we must

1:01:08 respond to it with an attitude that Allah likes, namely calm and respond with words that contain salvation. That's it. Just practice it. And this will put us in the realm of ibadurrahman, the servant of Allah who is most merciful. Continue. Oh, maybe someone said how not to get hurt? So look at it like this. The person who speaks is the path from Allah to the point that Allah will give to us. The path of guidance from Allah, the path of the test. So, don't look at the person who speaks. But the person's path from Allah gives guidance or tests us

1:01:56 through him. Like we have a few difficult questions. Don't get angry at the paper because the paper is moving. Just answer with the correct answer according to the one who gave the question. Good luck PB. Okay, permission. There's another question from Instagram. Asalamualaikum. Aa, permission to ask. Ustaz, I want to get married but I have an older sister who is not married. Is it permissible to step over? A Oh, it's permissible, it's permissible but in a way that should be

1:02:43 wise. Okay, Pip. What thing? Oh, P. Ah, yes. That means my settings need to be fixed. Sorry, yes. It's permissible, it's permissible. It's very permissible. There's no what if in Runghal then the older sibling doesn't get a match. Ee in a human way of course there is a feeling of sadness if it is missed. But if with faith, yes whoever is most ready to get married we support. If the youngest sibling is ready to get married and if it is postponed it becomes a sin then it is supported by everyone. In fact, those who

1:03:29 help make things easier will be made easier. There was once an incident involving three sisters. Originally, the one who wanted to get married first was the youngest. Well, the older siblings' faith had reached that Allah determines the match. If the younger sibling has been given a candidate, they haven't, why should they hinder? So the youngest was supported. Ah, Allah knows that this older sibling is being tested by not having a partner who is pleased and instead supports his younger sibling to get married soon rather than having many that could be a sin. Qadarullah. After that, both of his older siblings were finally given

1:04:14 life partners by Allah. The older siblings who are tested in every situation , support their younger siblings who are ready to get married rather than later it becomes a sin. Don't let us be like hindering because that will return to us our bad attitude. Likewise, parents, ee, yes, parents' wishes can be understood, but God is the one who controls destiny . If tested by the youngest child or the younger sibling who already has a candidate, marry them. Don't let it be hindered because the older sibling is not married. Yes, in fact, by marrying them, hopefully they will find a match.

1:05:03 Yes. Okay, A, I'll read again from Instagram. Asalamualaikum, Ustaz. I want to ask, how can my heart be patient and broad-minded because I have to take care of a sick mother without help from my family where I live, I am a single mother, two children, and I have to take care of a mother who has a stroke and is cranky and has a sore throat, how is that, A? Yes. Ee aa of course I don't intend to make the test that this mother is facing easier . Mother has two children, a single mother. Then her parents had a stroke, taking care of them in a state of physical limitations too.

1:05:50 emotions that may be unstable due to age and due to age and illness. Well, as stated earlier, this life does have its tests. Don't see it as a burden, but even though it feels burdened, but look at the great reward that Allah promises. this is indeed invisible to the eye, but can be seen by eyes full of faith in Allah that there is not a single good deed done except that there will definitely be a perfect reward from Allah in various forms and ways.

1:06:37 yes ee try to read this a hadith that has been read repeatedly but hopefully my friends will become more convinced with this hadith and can face the difficult test with a different spirit. Yes, that was very difficult. inna uzmal jaz ma uzmil ma uzmil bala. Indeed, the magnitude of the reward is proportional to the magnitude of the test and bala. So this is difficult. Have to support children, take care of children alone.

1:07:24 Not to mention taking care of parents, no one else to help. Allah knows everything. Allah witnesses everything. And if Allah loves a people here someone ibtum Allah will give a test falahu ridaman falahuq. Whoever is pleased with this test that is being undergone, Allah is pleased with him and whoever is angry is angry with Allah. This test has been measured by Allah. True. Heavy. Aa just imagining it is already wah heavy huh. But if

1:08:10 it is pleased, O Allah I accept the test of life This. I accept that I take care of my family, take care of my children, take care of my sick mother. Oh God, I accept the test. Well, these words of acceptance of destiny will change many things. First, later Allah will calm our hearts. Somehow we become calmer, lighter even though eh in worldly calculations it is heavy. But Allah will make our hearts calmer, more spacious, not stressed. This is the first to be made spacious.

1:08:56 Second, Allah will give us a way out later. Out of nowhere, there is always help. Whether the mother becomes more patient, her parents can also be calmer, not angry, not fussy, the child can be more obedient, a scholarship comes, or there is help from an unexpected place. The key is to accept it first. And the third of course there is a very great reward behind all of this and there will be a reward in the form of Allah's time who knows best and Allah is pleased. Well, if we do not accept this destiny, our hearts will become heavy and cramped. The heart will become narrow and

1:09:41 depressed. Second, there is no way. So we are confused all the time. The third can be a sin because we do not accept destiny. So. the losses are manifold. May Allah grant you patience, an open heart, and good riddance. God willing, if you remember that Allah is looking, witnessing, continuing to judge, it will be different. The key is to return it to Allah really quickly, remember Allah a lot and believe in Allah's promise of guarantee. May Allah ee make it easier, Allah help, Allah bless.

1:10:27 Yes, finally PB. Good. Last permission from YouTube, assalamualaikum Mr. Ustaz. My friend has been regularly attending recitations for decades now. What amazes me is that he always lies and he enjoys doing it. Why didn't his recitation change him? Yes, A repeat, Pip. Repeat PB. Once again, Pip. Oh. Ee, asalamualaikum, Mr. Ustaz. Hey, my friend has been regularly attending recitations for decades now. Ee what makes me surprised is that he always lies and he is doing it. Why didn't his recitation change him? Yes, A yes, Specialnuzon hopefully there will be changes.

1:11:12 Maybe it was 10, now it's minus 4 -3 ee is still minus, but there has been a change from -10 to -2, that's the husnuzon. Why are you still lying? This means that his level of faith is still not strong. Because if a person has strong faith, he will not lie, he will not lie, he cannot combine lying with faith, yes. Because those who like to lie are hypocrites. Well, then why hasn't the recitation changed? Yes, we don't

1:11:57 know. But usually a person will be helped by Allah if his intention to seek knowledge is sincere. That's the first one. Second, there is an effort to put knowledge into practice. So it's called mujahadah to practice knowledge and mujahadah to control lust. Well, from here the changes when we come to the taklim assembly have not changed, we hope there have been changes but maybe not as we expected but there will always be goodness even though we don't see much, we are kind enough to think there is goodness,

1:12:48 thank you Pip. Thank you all, my good friends. When will we meet at Istiqlal, Pip? Yes. Hey, second week. Yes, second week. God willing, we will meet at Istiqlal next month, which means July 13th. God willing, friends, eh, that's right, Sunday 13th, God willing, prepare from now on, invite our friends to hope. So coming to Istiqlal

1:13:34 can also be seen from social media. But if it is possible to come, Allah sees those who leave home, those who travel, those who spend petrol, fuel, ride a tired motorbike, take a bus, take a train, all are seen by Allah. There is more struggle and it is possible to go. Then there are also thousands of people there, sometimes they don't get a place as expected. Allah sees everything. There is no small struggle in the eyes of Allah. If sincere, maybe that will bring a lot of forgiveness. Oh, then their repentance is accepted because

1:14:21 in the assembly of knowledge there is extraordinary forgiveness from Allah or their prayers are more answered. The material may not be great, not good. Very good. It's normal like this. But Allah will later give a big impact. Faith becomes stronger, morals become better. Yes, it depends on the intention and the effort of the struggle. If possible, we will gather later, yes, silaturahim. Thank you. Subhanakallahumma wabihamdik. Ashadu alla ilahailla anta astagfiruka wa atubu ilai. Asalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Waalaikumsalam warahmatullahi

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