🛑 LIVE Agar Bisa Menerima Kritikan dan Koreksi Orang Lain - Kajian MQ Pagi 24/06/2025

🛑 LIVE Agar Bisa Menerima Kritikan dan Koreksi Orang Lain - Kajian MQ Pagi 24/06/2025

Brief Summary

This video features a recitation from the Quran, followed by a discussion on self-improvement, accepting criticism, and maintaining good intentions. It emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's imperfections, seeking guidance from Allah, and being grateful for constructive feedback. The speaker also addresses questions about sensitive topics such as marriage customs and dealing with personal hardships, offering advice rooted in Islamic principles.

  • Quran recitation and reflection on its meanings.
  • Importance of self-improvement and accepting criticism.
  • Maintaining sincere intentions in good deeds.
  • Addressing questions on marriage customs and personal hardships.

Quran Recitation

The video starts with a recitation of verses from the Quran. The verses praise Allah, describe His creation, and warn against disbelief. They also highlight the importance of reflecting on Allah's signs and being mindful of the consequences of one's actions.

The Blessing of Correction

The speaker discusses the importance of viewing criticism and suggestions as blessings. He emphasizes that continuous improvement is essential in life and that guidance can come in various forms, including criticism. The key to personal growth is to understand and practice what is learned.

Skills to Receive Input

The speaker highlights the skills needed to receive input, suggestions, corrections, and criticism. He explains that those who advise each other in truth are more likely to be successful. The ability to accept advice is crucial for giving advice effectively and requires empathy.

Four Ways to Evaluate Ourselves

There are four ways to evaluate ourselves: understanding oneself honestly, using close people as mirrors, taking advantage of people who dislike us, and observing current events. People close to us know us better than anyone else and can provide valuable input. Opponents can also help us identify our shortcomings.

Threatened by Our Own Badness

The speaker emphasizes that the primary threat to our lives comes from our own badness. He references Surah Al-Isra verse 7, stating that if you do good, that goodness is for yourself, and if you do bad things, the bad things are for ourselves. All blessings come from Allah, and evil is invited by ourselves.

Seeking Guidance and Avoiding Ujub

The next task is to continue to seek guidance through prayer. The speaker identifies ujub (self-conceit) and arrogance as obstacles to improvement. He stresses the importance of recognizing that any appreciation from others is due to God's help and that we should always be open to suggestions, advice, corrections, and criticism.

Responding to Input

The speaker uses the analogy of looking in a mirror to illustrate how we should respond to input. When we see dirt on our face, we clean it without self-defense. Similarly, we should be grateful when people point out our shortcomings and focus on improving ourselves.

Improving for Allah's Sake

The speaker emphasizes that we should improve ourselves as an act of worship to Allah, not for the sake of people's judgment. Doing good should be intended lillahi taala (for the sake of Allah) because of worship. Whether other people are good to us or not is Allah's territory.

Seeking Allah's Pleasure

The speaker advises that even if we try to improve ourselves but are not trusted, we should continue improving ourselves. This is to seek Allah's pleasure, not people's judgment. He highlights the importance of realizing that we are threatened by our badness and asking Allah for guidance to repent.

Being Grateful and Avoiding Pride

The speaker discusses the importance of gratitude and the need to avoid pride, arrogance, and lust. He emphasizes that Allah gives input through whomever He wills, and we should be grateful to both Allah and the people who point out our shortcomings.

Questions and Answers: Dealing with Bad Words

The speaker addresses a question about how to avoid being hurt by the bad words or actions of others. He references Al-Furqan verse 63, which advises responding to ignorant people with words of peace and safety. The key is to see the person as a path from Allah, either for guidance or as a test.

Questions and Answers: Marrying Before an Older Sibling

The speaker answers a question about whether it is permissible to marry before an older sister who is not married. He states that it is permissible but should be done wisely. If the younger sibling is ready to marry and postponing it would lead to sin, it should be supported.

Questions and Answers: Caring for a Sick Mother

The speaker addresses a question from a single mother with two children who is caring for a sick mother without help from family. He emphasizes the great reward that Allah promises for such difficult tests and advises accepting the situation with patience and faith.

Questions and Answers: Recitation and Lying

The speaker responds to a question about why a friend who regularly attends recitations still lies. He suggests that the person's level of faith may not be strong enough and that sincere intention and effort to put knowledge into practice are necessary for change.

Closing Remarks and Announcements

The speaker announces an upcoming gathering at Istiqlal and encourages viewers to attend. He also mentions opportunities for cooperation with MT Digital, a non-profit organization, for charitable activities.

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