Brief Summary
Tam Kaur celebrates her pre-birthday and birthday with a series of reflective and celebratory activities. She starts with a psychic reading, enjoys a solo lunch date, shops for herself, and reflects on past journals. On her birthday, she's surprised by her boyfriend, opens gifts, enjoys a special breakfast and lunch, explores London, and has a birthday dinner. She concludes with a hair botox treatment to kick off her 25th year.
- Psychic Reading and Reflection
- Solo Date and Self-Gifting
- Birthday Surprises and Celebrations
- Hair Botox Treatment
Pre-Birthday Prep
Tam explains that the vlog will cover her pre-birthday and birthday celebrations. She expresses excitement and nervousness about turning 25, a milestone she considers significant. She plans a solo date for reflection, including journaling and writing a letter to her future self. Additionally, she has scheduled a phone call with a psychic to gain insights into the upcoming year.
Call with a Psychic
Tam shares her experience of having a 30-minute phone call with a psychic. She notes that while her previous experiences with psychics have been positive, this session included a couple of negative points, which she found helpful for preparation and clarity. The psychic also provided reassurance and career insights, highlighting the best months from October 2025 to October 2026. The session included astrological insights based on her sun, rising, and moon signs, and advice on how to navigate potential challenges.
GRWM
Tam gets ready for her solo birthday lunch, choosing a cozy white knit dress from Revolve paired with chocolate brown croc-print boots. She layers a maxi white coat from NKD over the outfit. She wants to add a pop of color with a bag.
Solo Lunch Date
Tam enjoys her solo birthday lunch at a restaurant with outdoor seating, which she finds ideal for vlogging. She orders her favorite mocktail and meal, appreciating the ambiance and the ability to people-watch. During the lunch, she gets inspiration for her birthday outfit for the dinner her boyfriend is taking her to.
Solo Birthday Ideas
Tam shares her rules for the perfect solo birthday celebrations, emphasizing the importance of self-love and reflection. Her rules include taking oneself on a solo date, buying a birthday gift, journaling to reflect on the year's wins and lessons, and creating a time capsule by writing a letter or recording a video for the future self.
Solo Birthday Rules
Tam elaborates on her rules for solo birthday celebrations. She suggests that the solo date can be anything from a fancy restaurant visit to a simple walk in the park, tailored to one's love language. Buying a birthday gift is non-negotiable, as it encourages generosity towards oneself. Journaling helps in reflecting on the year's experiences and lessons. Creating a time capsule, either through a letter or video, adds an element of fun and anticipation to birthdays.
Shopping
After her solo date, Tam visits Selfridges for window shopping, which she considers a favorite activity. She doesn't plan to buy anything, as she has already purchased a significant birthday gift for herself.
Mini Haul
Tam shares a mini haul from Selfridges, where she bought two pairs of leather gloves from Reese. She got a burgundy pair and a warm brown pair. She mentions she had been looking for them online and found them cheaper in store.
Read Past Journals
Tam reflects on a video she recorded for herself last year, where she discussed her goals and aspirations. She finds it crazy that some of her delusions came true. She notes that she wanted to be on the Forbes 30 under 30 list, which she achieved. She also wanted to dabble in fashion, which is happening now. She also acknowledges areas where she fell short, such as maintaining a consistent workout routine and diet. She then attempts to find her journal entry from the previous year but is unable to locate it.
Record Letter to Myself
Tam decides to record another video message to herself, continuing the tradition from the previous year. She plans to share her expectations for the upcoming year and what she hopes to achieve.
Journaling
Tam fills out the rewiring beliefs page in her manifestation journal, converting limiting beliefs into loving beliefs. She then decides to complete the future self prompts page, writing a letter to her future self and then writing her future self's reply.
Record Main Channel Video
Tam prepares to film a video for her main channel, focusing on the concept of authentic happiness and arrival fallacy.
Boyf's Birthday Surprise
On her birthday, Tam is surprised by her boyfriend, who has decorated the living room with balloons and prepared a special breakfast. She is touched by his efforts and the thoughtfulness of the gifts he chose for her.
Opening Gifts
Tam opens her birthday gifts from her boyfriend, which include a fragrance she had recently discovered, a diffuser from Diptyque, and a pair of Prada boots. She is thrilled with the gifts, noting how well he knows her preferences.
Birthday Breakfast
Tam and her boyfriend enjoy a slow morning at home, watching her childhood videos and eating the hotel breakfast he prepared. She appreciates the quality time spent together.
Birthday Lunch w/Boyf
Tam gets ready for her birthday lunch, wearing a blazer dress from Meshki, diamond earrings, blue suede shoes, and a Birkin 30 bag in blue jean. Her boyfriend drives her to Hakasan for lunch.
Exploring London
After lunch, Tam and her boyfriend walk around Mayfair, enjoying the aesthetic streets and window shopping. She expresses her happiness and contentment with the day.
GRWM for Dinner
Tam gets ready for her birthday dinner, choosing a black jumpsuit, a leather belt, silver jewelry from Annayia Jewelry, and a silver Lady Dior bag. She reflects on how this birthday feels different because she feels stable, grateful, and happy with her life. She shares that she feels content with her career, her relationship, and her living situation in London.
Birthday Dinner
Tam and her boyfriend enjoy dinner at Salavi, a new restaurant in West London. They order a variety of oriental dishes and are impressed by the food and the ambiance.
Hair Botox Treatment
The day after her birthday, Tam goes to get a hair botox treatment, a mask treatment to add hydration and reduce frizz. She is skeptical but hopeful that it will improve her hair's manageability. She shares her outfit of the day and the new fragrance her boyfriend got her, Angel Share by Killian on the Rocks.
Final Birthday Reflections
Tam reflects on the results of her hair botox treatment, noting that her hair feels light, fluffy, soft, and silky with no frizz. She is impressed with the results and plans to continue getting the treatment every month. She concludes the vlog by thanking her viewers for their birthday wishes and expressing her gratitude for their support.
