Brief Summary
Stéphane Edouard introduces his AI double, Auroria, designed to provide insightful advice on relationships, entrepreneurship, and personal development. He contrasts Auroria's responses with those of standard GPT, highlighting Auroria's superior perspicacity and relevance due to its training on Edouard's unique expertise and personal experiences. The video includes a series of questions posed to both AIs, comparing their answers on topics ranging from love and relationships to social dynamics and personal responsibility. Edouard also details how to access Auroria through his VIP program, offering special incentives during Black Friday 2025.
- Introduction of Auroria, Stéphane Edouard's AI double.
- Comparison of Auroria's responses with standard GPT on various topics.
- Details on accessing Auroria through the VIP program with Black Friday incentives.
Introduction of Stéphane Edouard's AI Double
Stéphane Edouard introduces his AI double, which has been in development for nine months and mirrors his own way of thinking and expressing ideas. He clarifies that this AI is not meant to replace him but to extend his expertise. Edouard explains his initial reluctance to embrace new technologies like Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok, but he is now convinced of the value of AI, especially after witnessing how people use GPT and similar tools for coaching, companionship, and even romantic interactions. He emphasizes that his AI is specifically trained on his areas of expertise: relationships, entrepreneurship, negotiation, and personal development.
AI Training and Unique Features
Stéphane Edouard explains how he trained his AI, emphasizing that it's not just a simple automated process of feeding publicly available data. He highlights the importance of incorporating paid content, personal references, and unpublished materials from his own archives. A significant part of the training involves daily personal coaching and corrections to refine the AI's responses. The AI provides links to relevant content, with orange links indicating paid content and gray-circled numbers linking to free case studies, articles, or videos on his blog. This ensures that each assertion is backed by a reference, adding credibility and traceability.
Comparing AI Responses: "What Does 'I Love You' Mean?"
Stéphane Edouard compares the responses of standard GPT and his AI double to the question, "What does 'I love you' mean?" GPT defines it as expressing a strong attachment and emotional connection, but Edouard critiques this answer as generic and self-contradictory. His AI double defines "I love you" as an instantaneous expression of love in the present moment, not a contract for the future. It emphasizes that repeated actions, not just words, determine the trajectory of a relationship and distinguishes between love and desire. The AI also notes that the meaning of "I love you" varies depending on each person's love language.
GPT vs. Auroria: How to Be Loved
GPT's advice on how to be loved includes generic suggestions like "be yourself," "listen," and "be positive," which Edouard dismisses as cliché and internally contradictory. In contrast, his AI double states that being loved is a consequence, not an action. It advises focusing on being "aimable" or worthy of interest, creating a connection by prioritizing the other person's needs, and valuing their uniqueness. The AI emphasizes showing genuine interest and facilitating the other person's life, recommending specific resources for further guidance.
Friendship Between Men and Women
GPT suggests that friendship between men and women depends on communication and potential attraction, stating it can be as deep as any other friendship. Edouard's AI double argues that such friendships have an expiration date, existing only as long as sexual tension remains below a critical threshold. If a man suppresses his attraction for too long, he ceases to be seen as a man, leading to the eventual dissolution of the friendship. The AI references Edouard's previous work on the inherent conflict between male and friendly status.
Celibacy in Women vs. Men
GPT claims women often feel more social pressure related to celibacy than men, which Edouard clarifies comes from female relatives pushing stereotypical agendas. His AI double offers a contrasting viewpoint: female celibacy is rarely due to a lack of male attention but rather a lack of commitment, with women often having multiple casual relationships without formal contracts. Men, on the other hand, more often experience imposed abstinence due to a lack of options. The AI highlights this asymmetry and recommends resources for understanding male psychology and recognizing signs of interest.
Factors Determining Success in Relationships
GPT emphasizes authentic presence, sincere listening, and shared emotional balance as key factors in successful relationships. Edouard's AI double counters that timing is the most critical factor, followed by one's behavior. It advises listening to silences and subtext, creating genuine connections instead of trying to sell oneself, and avoiding the masculine tendency to rush things. The AI provides a link to a seminar on self-presentation.
The Art of Complimenting
GPT advises being authentic and specific when giving compliments, even suggesting complimenting women on their appearance. Edouard's AI double warns that compliments are tricky and can backfire if poorly calibrated, making one seem manipulative or superficial. It outlines rules for effective compliments: they should be rare, precise, and focused on effort rather than innate qualities. The AI notes that compliments are most effective when they come from someone credible and respected in the relevant context.
Navigating Mixed Signals and Social Dynamics
Edouard presents a scenario involving communication patterns with two women to illustrate how his AI can provide nuanced insights. GPT suggests that the woman who responds regularly, even if delayed, is more interested. However, his AI double argues that neither woman's behavior can definitively indicate interest based solely on response time. The AI emphasizes that real-world actions, such as availability and proactive engagement, are the true indicators of interest.
Dating Etiquette and Social Traps
GPT suggests that in modern relationships, splitting the bill is increasingly common. Edouard's AI double offers a more detailed rule: the person who initiates the invitation pays. If both parties suggest the date, the person who chooses the venue pays. If the venue is mutually agreed upon, the person who travels the least pays, rewarding logistical effort. Edouard then presents a scenario where ten attractive women dine together, and his AI quips that likely none of them will pay, as a "pigeon" will cover the bill for the chance to escort them home.
Complex Relationship Scenarios
Edouard poses a complex scenario: a married individual experiences a resurgence of sexual interest from their partner. GPT attributes this to a positive renewal. Edouard's AI double suggests two possible explanations: a reevaluation due to increased physical attractiveness or perceived value, or the presence of a third party, real or imagined, creating a competitive dynamic. The AI links this to a seminar on sexual dynamics.
The Value of Sensitivity and Helping Others
GPT describes sensitivity as a positive quality that enriches relationships and promotes understanding. Edouard's AI double qualifies this, stating that sensitivity is valuable when controlled but detrimental when it governs one's actions. It distinguishes between being moved and having useful sensitivity, which involves the ability to capture subtle signals and translate them into sound decisions. The AI warns that unchecked sensitivity can lead to hyperactivity and manipulation.
The Limits of Helping Others
GPT advises listening, supporting, and accompanying a friend facing numerous problems, while remaining aware of one's limits. Edouard's AI double offers a more direct approach: one cannot save someone who is sinking everywhere at once, as it will lead to burnout and not help the person recover. The AI emphasizes that the solutions that work for oneself may not work for others, delivering a memorable "punchline."
Cultural and Ethical Dilemmas
Edouard presents a scenario involving a relationship with a Muslim woman whose parents disapprove. GPT suggests it's an opportunity and a challenge, hinging on family values and traditions. Edouard's AI double counters that in many practicing Muslim families, marriage is a union between lineages, not just individuals. The AI states that the refusal is not a passing whim but a cultural and religious boundary set by the clan, noting that "university speeches" cannot override deeply ingrained norms.
Responsibility and Social Issues
Edouard presents a grim scenario: a woman takes in a homeless person who later kills her. GPT places the primary blame on the perpetrator but acknowledges the woman took a risk. Edouard's AI double agrees that the murderer is 100% responsible but adds that creating the conditions for risk is also a responsibility. It calls bringing a vulnerable stranger into one's home and then confronting them "bad discernment."
Accessing Auroria: VIP Program and Black Friday Offer
Stéphane Edouard details how to access Auroria, his AI, which will officially be integrated into the VIP program on January 1, 2026. As a thank you for enduring inflation, he is offering access to Auroria as part of the VIP program. During Black Friday 2025, from November 24 to November 30, any VIP subscription, even the basic levels, will include access to the AI. Additionally, subscribers will lock in their current rate and receive double the interaction time with the AI until the end of the year, totaling 60 interactions per month instead of the usual 30 in 2026.
