Full transcript of “Who Are The INTPs? (The Ardent) | INTP Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph”. Click a timestamp to open the video at that moment. Need another video? Use the YouTube transcript generator.
0:00 hey guys it's CS Joseph with CS Joseph dot life doing the next video for the 16 personalities series according to Jungian analytical psychology tonight's video is the second to last of this series it is also probably the third most commonly asked for of all the types that I've been getting in terms of the requests but sorry I'm doing them in order so that's what I gotta do right sorry not sorry anyway the intp also known as the introverted intuitive thinking perceiving type it is behind the scenes it is an intellectual it's also known as
0:46 the engineer it is informative responding and control one of my most favorite types because I am an NTP as well so let's dive in shall we alright the INTP I love intps and for some reason so does everybody else although of course it is typically the type that is derided for being the type that lives in the mother's basement playing video games and getting fat not actually doing anything with themselves which is kind of usually typical there are also the typical archetype where you have the nerd who has the pocket protector and you know that everyone makes fun of especially like screech on Saved by the
1:32 Bell or all those other crazy shows I used to grow up with when they make these crazy dumb caricatures of nerds as we know it but I guess the INTP would be colloquially referred to as the nerd type you know they're they're engineer type but regardless they're bloody brilliant and they kind of rule the world in a lot of ways so best did not like mess them that much anymore if you know what I mean but why aren't they brilliant t.i hero similar to the ISTP intps have t.i hero which means they have this insanely amazing mastery of logic I mean I be honest and as much as I would think that so much as I would like to think that I'm the smartest person on the planet
2:19 these guys beat me every time in the same way is teepees beat me every time because TI heroes logic just it's fantastic when compared to TI parent although TI parent is pretty nasty TI hero just takes the cake with its absolute dominance of anything logic and it's fantastic the problem is though is that because of TI hero and INTP can come off as some arrogant prick to the point where they're just like well i always have to be right in absolutely everything just like is teepees do right well the problem is is that they get so right you're wrong you know they're really right but you've also just alienated everybody in the room so we're just gonna go over here but of course the ion teepee is like a shrugs and goes
3:05 off in their own little corner pulls out their phone and starts placing puzzle games on their phone is if they didn't care to begin with anyway which quite frankly they really don't the that comes from the fact that intps can be like insanely indifferent to everything they can just turn on their apathy because they can be very apathetic and then all of a sudden nothing means anything to them at all and it's kind of a defense mechanism that they do but it's also because unless something actually interests their si child which is right here if it's an experience they want to have I mean they'll they'll they'll not be apathetic but if it's an experience they don't want to have or if they're just
3:50 being bitter in response what's their es F G sub e SF jey subconscious because they can get bitter the IMT P will just decide to not care and because they're just not caring they're going off in their own little world hey I can have fun by myself screw you I don't need you so bye-bye and that's just kind of how they go about doing that I mean in the same way that is TPS could put people in the stupid zone or the you are annoying zone intps can do that same because they have they have te nemesis remember the Nemesis function as v function is where persons worry exists so the int P walks around believing that ever surround them as stupid like they are really worried they are legitimately worried that other people in the world are stupid and that they're the only smart human being that's so that why is
4:36 that what's because they have t.i hero because they're so intelligent ti hero for themselves they have a really hard time believing that other people are as smart as they are and they just walk around that way and that's why a lot of Ti users who don't have ti hero end up feeling like they're idiots when around ti heroes like intps I mean eyes TVs it's the same way right but you know there's not much you can do about that oh that guy makes me feel stupid which is a typical response of someone who just had an argue with an intp or if the INTP was pointing out a flaw and whatever they were dealing with cuz Antibes just immediately aware of those flaws and can see into the possibilities of that person's future as they're going through that action and can anticipate what's going to happen before it does
5:22 because they have extra intuition parent it's like oh I see what you're doing over there and or I see what you're about to do I don't think because it's not expert sensing when they're trying to see what someone's already doing there it's expert intuition so it's what a person is about to do right because a intps already had experienced that person so that they're able to use their any parent presence to start anticipating the behaviors of the people around them and it makes them basically to everybody a night to an intp everyone around them is predictable and they can predict behavior like all the time and the more they can predict behavior by somebody the more they get bored with that person then that just makes them even more apathetic and more indifferent to that person anyway so it's kind of like huh so int peace after a while they start
6:09 looking for novelty they really do because they want to have new experiences different tastes different things but they also like to have you know the original which is a you know the same experience over and over and over again and that includes the SI child tells like the same stories over and over and over si inferior does it too but si child an INTP it's like really bad I have this co-worker he's an INTP and he tell the same stories about him and in air in the Air Force over and over and over and over for over a period of three years I would listen to the same stories of him in the Air Force and I like the stories but after a while it's like dude that's probably your 15th
6:54 16th time you've mentioned that to me I probably none why do intps do this well it's rxe trickster they're not aware of the experiences other people have or get air getting they're not aware that someone else might have already heard the story that they were telling with their si child a story telling because int B's love the story tell they're all about storytelling sharing from their experience si child but with the situation with the SE trickster they're not even so when they're talking to somebody they don't even it doesn't even occur to them that that person may have already heard that story so they just keep rambling on that story you know and then that person who's already heard a million times starts to feel alienated because it's like why do you not care about me or think of me enough to
7:41 remember that I've already heard this story and then they get butthurt about it and it's just kind of like okay yeah whatever you know but that enforces the eye on TV to go even more indifferent and that's a social situation and they just withdraw and it's just like well what the hell you know what I mean it's a self-fulfilling prophecy as far as INTP social relationships go there's not much you can do about that actually there isn't I'll tell you how in a minute so so yeah so expert intuition parent so ti hero master of logic extraverted intuition parent they could see in the futures of other people because they could look into people's fates they have a strong master metaphysics that's how you know the theory of relativity came is because
8:27 expert intuition parent and Ti hero let's be honest and it also it knows what people want what they're about to do what their desires are it can measure the level of willpower and fellow human beings so they can see how desirous another human being is and because they're kind of able to see into the fates of other people they can kind of say things to those people to kind of prevent problems and challenges for that person or it actually caused problems and challenges for that person depends whether or not the INTP respects them or actually likes the more it actually gives a damn about them but more on that a minute that's basically out expert intuition intuition parent works however because it's a parent function it's a
9:13 necessarily function some learn how the inferior function is auxilary and the critic and then obviously the demon because it's an auxilary function they can get very pessimistic so they're usually using their extraverted intuition parent in a negative way before they use it in a positive way not that that's a bad thing because the negativity like it comes with the warning you know what warning there is a truck that's about to hit you you might want to move oh no man I got it smash in it's like okay I told you so I am teepees walk around living in I told you soul and all the time which further alienate them from people and then they just get indifferent don't want have to deal with them anymore it it's kind of so I okay well if you're not gonna listen to me I'm not going to help you anymore they constantly have
9:59 that point of view and then that just further feeds into their indifference so because why well T I hero knows it's really intelligent and it's like I can tell you the truth but if you're not going to listen the truth why bother why bother doing anything for you you know that's not even fair oh but let's talk about fairness extraverted feeling inferior and aspirational the inferior function is where person's aspirations is this it's also where their fears and security exists so intps are very afraid of how other people feel in the same way is TPS are afraid of how other people feel are MTPs can be motivated by guilts they can be manipulated with guilt and if that is in if it's in sincerely manipulated well they'll go demon mode but if it is
10:44 sincere they'll feel guilty and then they'll take responsibility for their actions and they will apologize for it in fact that just happened this last week or this week actually happened yesterday a friend of mine received an apology from an intp because the previous night the INTP went off on him and then the intp felt guilty about going off on then wrote him an apology the next day and I told my friends that's exactly what would happen then all of a sudden he sends me a message the following day saying hey you called it that's exactly what happened he apologized to me and I'm like told you but you know people tell me I don't even know people so yeah whatever I mean don't don't pay attention to the expert in the room what let's not okay so anyway they're very insecure about how other people feel and
11:30 because of that because Effie is it in the fourth function they really do actually want to care you have to understand that intps are not like these soulless machines that they are constantly accused of NF J's and s f JS f JS basically accused intps all the time of being soulless people of being uncaring it's usually because of their apathy and because their indifference and it's also because of fi demon because int B's don't care how they feel like in the same way is TPS don't care how they feel because to them it's not about how they feel it's about what's true and what's false but you're a machine you don't have feelings you know it's like you don't even care about me and it's like no actually I really do
12:17 care about you I do all this stuff for you and I'm loyal to you but you obviously don't appreciate it so I mean if I'm going to do the time I may as well do the crime intps are all about that it's si filed Fe inferior becoming the ESF J subconscious they're very justice oriented because an intp they really really want to become this caregiver this es FJ subconscious they're all about caring for other people caring for the family I do it from the sense of duty sense of honor sense of loyalty to their family to their community to their job to whatever they're doing whatever they represent they're all about being loyal and care giving and supportive in any way they possibly can and that's
13:03 actually why they criticize people a lot with our Ti hero because they're trying to support that person it's like no you are having a bad bad life right now because you're making the wrong decisions so I'm going to criticize you right now with my TI hero so you can see the error of your ways so that you'll stop making those bad decisions and have a better life yeah well the problem is we live in first world society where people prefer ignorant instead of like wisdom that's the problem I mean I'm TVs are extremely aware of this and they are a very rare type like less than 3% of the population I believe because they're so rare and they could see the problem but no one's willing to listen to them that's the it's it's one of the it's one of why they're so
13:48 indifferent because why bother telling warning something it's someone that something's gonna happen we live in a day and age where people would rather be massaged or brought in to you know wisdom in a very soft and cushy and happy way and that's not actually how wisdom works guys wisdom is like fire it's truth you gotta get burned in order to be able to get closer to the truth you have to be willing to suffer for it right and intps know that with our ti hero so they're burning other people breathing fire on them with our Ti here I'm gonna tell the truth and burn you away burn those lies away so you can have wisdom with people like oh no it's too hot it's too hot and then they run away from the intp and complain they're being alienated when the INTP is just trying to be supportive and help them
14:36 and give them wisdom give them truth but no no it's too hot it's too hot I have to run away you know I'm too much of a I can't take it and it's like so the int fees like well forget you I'm moving on with my life you know it's just it's it's so ridiculous I can I can empathize with the INTP because I don't have Fi because I've Fi trickster so I'm not sympathizing here I'm empathizing because I have Fe child anyway I can empathize with the intv because people don't listen they don't listen to me I'm an NTP as well I'm trying to tell them the truth you know and you think they're gonna listen the truth they are NTP probably not they're just gonna look at the ITV's like there's some freaking crazy person like which is normal friend teepees we're the ones wrong we're the
15:21 ones crazy apparently and every and the entire world is okay and we're you know but instead I guess I guess we're autistic right or I guess we have where we have Asperger's right and then we just get these labels and it's like okay okay yeah no actually the rest the world is screwed up sorry anyway so that's all about Fe inferior F inferior just it really wants to support others it wants to make people feel good do not take the intps opportunity to make other people feel good or their opportunity to contribute to other people if you do that then they'll hate you for it and they'll go fi demon on you and we'll explain that in a minute so the T nemesis we talked about that a bit they just walk around worried that everyone
16:06 else around them is stupid and they end up I am teepees and anything that they're like interested in anything that they're in focused in or actually anything that they're specialized and will go in that way because is teepees they're all about focus but it leads them to being Jack's of all trades masters so not until they really really really focus but an intp is really into specializing they want to specialize they know they're brilliant they can know that they can figure anything out if they really put their minds to it but it's all about that si child it's like okay well should I do that right now is that next is it important is it really going to help people if the inferior is is it is it my duty is it my obligation to learn this and master this right now yes or no and
16:52 if like yes okay it is my obligation okay this is my calling I'm going to specialize in this and I'm gonna become an expert well if everyone else around them is being stupid they're going to correct and they're trying to be in that same field the INTP is going to correct them like like immediately or the INTP is just going to do it themselves and ignore those people and not ask them for help because they're like that guy is too stupid to know what how to do this right anyway so I'm just going to ignore them and move on and do it myself screw these people and that's kind of how the INTP works which further adds into the indifference because it's like okay well if everyone's stupid around me why should I engage with them or have anything to do with them why should I not be indifferent explain that to me
17:39 please huh but there's a way to get around the indifference and I'll show you now ni critic and AI critic is a serious problem for the int P the int P gets so comfortable with si child and where they go it's similar to how is TJ's work that they can get super lazy and they can get stuck in a rut but it's it's because the si child just has to be around familiar territory at all times because the unfamiliar territory with the SE trick sir is just not even real to them and because of that they don't want to take the risk with their anti critic to want something it's not that they're afraid of wanting the wrong thing it's just that they see everybody else in the world being so irresponsible with what they want and making horrible
18:26 decisions that the intps choosing to not make any decision so that they are not at risk of having a bad experience because they've made a wrong decision you know that's kind of how their functions are going in their heads right now you know what I mean so it's like well I don't want to take the risk so I'm just not going to make a decision you know because I don't want to want the wrong thing so I'm just going to not want anything is kind of how they do it right well I mean let's talk about my coworker again my former int B coworker he was married to this insanely abusive Chinese woman who literally beat him you know and their children on a regular basis and as insanely disrespectful when
19:13 he was with her for let's see 20 years how do you do that well that's what they do and I critic gets them stuck because they're so critical over what they want that they have to know for a fact that it is something they want and they are even willing to endure abuse physical abuse before the intv is willing to figure that out come on wake up seriously don't do that intps it's really annoying you're really brilliant but you're also kind of dumb in this way you know like you're dumb in the area of familiarity you guys need to seriously get out of familiar zone sometimes because that's the only way you're gonna frickin grow otherwise you're gonna stagnate and be stuck much the detriment of everybody else in your
19:59 family it's like great that's really supportive of the world guys that's really supportive you can be supportive people to your subconscious if you're actually not willing to make decisions for change because you need to be in your comfort zone wow that's respectable come on guys wake up seriously we need intps INTP is not only I mean if an EMT pees there for innovation but the intp is there to take that innovation and not only can they innovate but they can implement it they have the ability to implement it even further they're not so focused on just innovation but they have the ability to find what they need and then to actually do it themselves and put it into practice that's amazing they're super mega
20:46 powerful you know and they do that and then it shows in areas of technology engineering health care it doesn't matter anything that the INTP specializes in they can be a master of it a meat-like very quickly and they don't even have to have access to their tools or their computers or anything because they have it all committed to memory because it's stored in our Si child and they can instantly bring anything up like that and solve a problem on the fly immediately and they can usually see those problems coming and they're usually already thinking about those problems constantly they're never not thinking because of TI Hiro so ni critic is a major problem with them so what'd you do to solve that problem is that you criticize them you criticize them for not wanting anything and you
21:32 give them options options of what they can want but you can't tell an intp you can't tell an intp that this other person had success if you do this thing because they're like oh I don't care then I'm different you know anyone could experience anything but that's not what I'm experiencing so what you do is you force it on the INTP you literally force them out of their comfort zone that's the best way to make an intp change I recommend it often and so that's why parents if you have an intp living in your basement playing video games all over all day long and getting fat kicked them out of the house as soon as possible please that would do society a favor they would do that my favorite too though thank you later maybe in like ten
22:19 years after like they're super bitter about it and then also and they realize there's this thing called manhood and they should probably grow up and then after they do they realize that they should thank you for kicking them out of the house that'd be nice so just remember anti critic is what holds them back and intps are similar to EST PS and INF JS and infps and ISTJ is they are very weak to failure to launch syndrome and you do not want your INTP to have failure or launch syndrome you gotta get out of the house as soon as possible and as you're raising them make sure that you that they understand what the expectation is that they have no choice like give them a literal hard
23:05 date you have until this date to get out you know I tell them when they're 14 or 15 don't forget on August 4th you know 2024 you're out of the house and you will have an eviction notice if you're not out you know like something like that because it forces the si child to have duty and to know that it's their responsibility you have to saddle the INTP with responsibility another way to motivate them is with TI hero they usually get super mega competitive and all I have to do is just pit them against somebody else and say to the INTP that that other person is smarter than them because they're te nemesis can't believe that someone else is smarter than them so T ia hero kicks in and then they just start making a
23:51 competition and all of a sudden the INTP is being productive but not for the sake of being productive but for the sake of having the recognition from Effie and fearing that they're smarter than that other person that's a great way to manipulate 90p and actually getting off their Duff and doing something productive for once but they can be super mega productive and super diligent the problem is is that they get stuck in that row a child and because because they're super comfortable and because of anti critic and they just don't know what they they they're they don't want to want things because they believe that they're gonna want the wrong thing because they see everyone else in the world is wanting the wrong thing so why should they want things let's just stick to the familiar where it's safe that's basically the intp outlook of
24:38 that you know it's like when when intps are offered you know in because they're so brilliant they get like honorary degrees or you know big-time credentials offered to them scholarships whatever they don't even go for it because again they're stuck in the familiar you know they don't want it does anyone really actually value this everyone else in the world is stupid and they have credentials and i'm smarter than those people so why would i want to be just like them and have a credentials when i already believe they're idiots and i can prove the 30 it's why is this matter to me they just become indifferent to that and then they end up saying stuck in their rut and it's like okay great well even so those things could still open doors for you and maybe you should
25:26 at least see growth and change and if you have to deal with suffering and something outside your comfort zone it's still like better for you because you'll get like growth and self-improvement I mean please that'd be nice if I Damon never ever ask an intp how they feel ever for any reason that is and bad and never accused of an intp of never having feelings either because they're like well I have feelings because I have that the inferior and I'm a very caring individual but carrying out themselves not necessarily you know something that they have to do which by the way before I forget let's switch back to TSE trickster here se trickster
26:14 is very unaware of the physical environment I am teepees drop things all the time they can get into car accidents at times usually when they're first starting out but as they get more experienced in driving there's super super good at driving but se trickster just is not aware of the experiences other people having they are not aware of the physical environment this is why intps usually have absolutely terrible fashion sense it's like literally plain Yoplait yogurt I remember my mentor RP Morial making fun of his friend who was an INTP and telling him that he was literally vanilla yogurt like the most vanilla of the vanilla and if I was gonna nickname
26:59 an INTP I definitely call him vanilla or Yoplait as well that's a great that's a great label for them because it's like oh I like I just like the played yogurt or I just like the plain chips I don't yeah I don't need all this other stuff and it's like come on you know live a little branch out for once let's get out of the familiar you know I see trickster kind of helps keep them in the familiar because they're just not aware of the physical environment in that way unless it's directly impacting them and hitting them in the face which is si child where they're forced to adapt because it's a bad experience or as a place of uncomfort that they themselves are dealing with personally yeah anyway back
27:45 to fi demon so fi demon it turns into the is FB super-ego so what that looks like the int peak just goes in full one super rage mode like like Super Saiyan and I'm not talking like Goku rage I'm talking Vegeta rage absolute massive Vegeta Super Saiyan rage that where they'll literally pick up a hammer and start throwing it in your skull basically because they'll look for anything around them and just start catching the crap out of you and you know they're they're willing to go that that they'll go that far when they're in their demon mode no you can't say that chase because I have my FB inferi and I'm a very caring individual that's not true I don't want to just take a hammer
28:30 and like you know bash people's heads with it well I mean if those people are someone you've been loyal to for thirty years and you've been doing your best to be supportive and they continue to treat like a doormat over and over and over and accuse you of being unloyal to them or miss loyal or disloyal to them even though you have all the proof in the world to your ti hero even your te nemesis other people would side with you that you are loyal to that person you know it's like what the hell if I'm going to do the time I may as well do the crime there is an INTP friend of mine that I knew his wife she was in inj I think
29:15 she's he's an infj an INTJ I'm not sure I didn't have that much exposure to her but she was definitely an inj and she got super paranoid and was accusing him of cheating on him on him all accusing him of cheating on her all the time all the time he got so sick of it sure he did he cheated on it self-fulfilling prophecy stop doing it people it's dumb but yeah he cheated on her and that led to a divorce him divorcing her because this other woman was way more respectful than she was and she never she didn't really accuse him of cheating on other women so he just decided to stay with her instead and she lost out on an intp and she didn't have a job she didn't even know how to drive as intp handle
30:01 all that for her and zion.t P was making like over $200,000 a year and she ended up getting nothing not even alimony cuz alimony wasn't even available in that state they didn't have children so it's like okay you know again if I'm going to do the time I may as well do the crime intps are all about that if you accuse them of something that they've never done they will take it very personally and it's like well why the hell do I even bother being loyal to you why do I even bother caring about you well I don't even bother trying to love you when you're just gonna consistently disrespect me in this way okay well I'm just gonna burn the house that I down that I just built for you burn it all and that's the ISF he is going to do it's like I built this amazing art this
30:46 for you this amazing life for you but you don't even appreciate it so I'm just gonna burn it to the ground screw you bye bye I'll find somebody else that will appreciate what I do so that's basically an intp looks like on paper now here's how to like have a good relationship with them always ask an intp what they think always listen to what they think even if you think they're wrong even if you think you already know you always give TI hiro it's day at court disrespecting di hero will just cause them to not care about you and be indifferent to you and just be apathetic if you think you're smarter than the intp you're you're wrong let's let's face it you're just wrong so
31:32 don't and well I'm smarter than him in these ways and you know and like okay yeah yeah maybe if you if you're talking about se ways you know mechanical awareness fine but you still have to give T I hear o its day in court do not disrespect an I on TV that way always listen to their warnings they're like hey don't do that or this will happen always listen to them they're like yeah it may seem like they're just pulling it out of their ass or randomly out of the ether or whatever but that doesn't matter like an intp knows what they're doing and if they've experienced something before they can use their prescient sand any parent and predict what's going to happen listen to those warnings that they're going to warn you because it's part of how they show love for you it's part of how because they're trying to protect you they're trying to protect your future and protect the
32:17 future of your family that's how they work or their or your company or whatever social situation that you're in always seek to make the INTP comfortable unless they're lazy and unmotivated then you need to make them as uncomfortable as possible and that is what makes them motivated to actually get stuff done you never ask an I on TV what they want to do you only tell an intp what they should do and you dictate to them what they should do and you better have reasons to back up why because T I hero will challenge you okay well why why do you think because they're already assuming that you're stupid because of T nemesis why do you think I should do this you know I think I I think that you over value that or whatever they'll make
33:03 these weird reasons but you have to always make sure you have evidence and reasons to back up why they should be doing something and if they have a name if you have enough evidence the I to be like okay yeah sure that's fine at the inferior always tell the INTP that you appreciate them that you that you are happy for everything that they do for you that they are caring if you're not telling them that you appreciate them that's that's abuse basically to an INTP that's you treating them like a doormat i don't care how you feel about that i don't care what you think about that not listening to this means that you're basically choosing to be ignorant by not listening to this you have to always show them appreciation say the words i feel good about you
33:48 because you do this for me thank you for being so caring make comments about how caring they are how supportive they are how well they do keeping the place clean or or working in the kitchen or cooking and always show appreciation otherwise they will start to get bitter and that fi demon will come out and start to burn down your life and that's just how it works do not engage the demon you want to make the f inferior know that you appreciate them te nemesis be careful when you share your thoughts and make sure that you've spent a lot of time thinking about your thoughts if you're just gonna randomly blurt out your thoughts t nemesis will get engaged and then they're just like Oh more proof that you're dumb I'm gonna keep you in
34:33 the stupid zone and be apathetic towards you and not really respect your thinking make sure you have all the evidence in the world to back up your thinking when you make any claim around an intp now that may that may make them seem to like the arrogant or prideful I mean that's I mean see I hear oh come on but at the same time you have to realize that the INTP only really cares about truth and yeah the intp wants to be right at all times that's very normal for them but even an intp if they are actually wrong they will admit it and they will take responsibility for their actions and they'll feel really guilty about it and be super apologetic about it so just make sure that if you're gonna share your thoughts that you've spent a lot of time on it a lot of research and you have the evidence and the facts to back up what you're saying and then it'll be no problem ni critic remember it never
35:18 has to I'm TP what they want always make it about what they should do obligate them do defy them dictate to them don't let them just do it if they want if you let my auntie P do what they want like bad things are going to happen be very very careful about that so just make it about what they should do know about what they want to do se trickster please do your best to make sure that they that you augment your fashion knowledge on their behalf tell them what they should be wearing to look good for social situations you know and and make sure that they have that and if they and they will whine and complain good luck trying to put a suit and on intps in a lot of cases well have them like have no like hate it but some of them that are like really professional
36:04 and are making six figures okay yeah sure they kind of understand because they have that experience there as a child but for those that don't make sure you tell them that is their solemn duty and that they in order for them to be honorable they should be wearing a suit to this particular formal event etc and then not be walking around with you know a Dragonball Z shirt on or Star Wars shirt on everywhere they go you know come on like dress up wear a butt and I'm sure it like look normal you know what I mean so they really need help in this area so it's not a bad thing to help your INTP dress and dress properly a dress for success they really need it and it is necessary we also realize it's important that you allow them to develop
36:52 routines don't expect them to if you have routines to be paying any attention to your routine or your way of doing things that's not how they work not even aware of that they're never where of what you are doing you know and that's why I'm less like you have to be talking and after making eye contact with them to engage them otherwise they're gonna be often like la-la-land you know not paying any attention to that because they're just not aware and you're like you're trying to get their attention but they can't hear you because SD trickster is not aware of what you're doing it's not aware of the sound coming out of your mouth unless you're looking directly at them face to face engaging with them directly hitting their si child right that's how they work and obviously for the FI demon make the inferior hat you won't deal that if I demon so if you
37:38 found this video to be helpful or educational please leave a like and subscribe if you have any questions or comments about intps please leave it leave it in the comment section also if you guys have any fine memories of intps and their fashion issues please post some photos or some anecdotes about that I find that very entertaining sometimes I'd also have an issue that myself because I have se demon so I obviously struggle like you're talking to a guy who or sweatpants every day when he went to school when he's a little kid and didn't tie his shoes either so I get it I'm just as bad if not worse than my fellow ntps but nowadays since I've grown up I have a lot of experience my si inferior and I've tried to maintain a better sense of fashion but I mean come
38:25 on you basically see me on these videos wearing the same thing and that's because I have many of the same shirt because like ones I find something familiar I'll stick with it right so I also need to have assistance in that area to try to figure out optimal fashion tips etc but it is a struggle intps have or an TPS in general so anyway if you got any funny situations like some cool photos or funny stories by all means share them in the comment section I'd love you to read those so anyway tomorrow is the final video of the sixteen personality series where we will be discussing the infp also known as the dreamer so I'll see you then have a good night