0:00 Hello everyone alaikum Perez Welcome back to the hastily channel now we are in episode 122 in the study of psychology this psychology is quite practical this is related to a request in the comments column Wow please I've been single and can't stand being single for too long how to conquer a girl so this is the psychology of women for Bara who doesn't really like trivial studies please just skip it it's okay but for Baraya a husband who wants his wife to be happy or a single person who wants to get a girl please watch this episode to the end and share it with your single friends all over the world who are still struggling but have failed until
0:45 now let's start Baraya many men yo who accuse how women are very difficult to understand very difficult to explain there is even a meme that shows that to be able to understand a woman you have to read a book that is so thick actually it's not like that Baraya and there are several principles that are very different between men and women and because of that difference Thank you men usually find it more difficult to understand about how women really are I also actually don't really understand even if Baraya likes the same People who like to predict
1:32 zodiac signs and so on, Miss, the possibility of predicting women is twice as difficult as men because they have more diverse characters and more diverse ways of expressing themselves, but special for How to approach a girl, I will convey three basic principles about girls and how to conquer them, the first is that girls are valuable, important, beautiful, so they don't want to love people who don't love them, and this is the initial motive of the principle of guys having to shoot first, how guys have to shoot first because the girl has to know
2:19 which guy appreciates and loves her, not that girl loves someone else, not that there are guys who love her, you, where does the guy love himself, that's why until 2020, the habit of guys who have to shoot first to girls has not changed, that's the first principle, the second principle is because the girl is the narcissist, who wants to be loved, she will love anyone who loves her, so the principle is to be loved, the girl has to look for a guy who can fulfill her needs, it doesn't mean that girls are materialistic, but girls need someone who loves her, and love is just being blunt, not just talking, so many people in the past, guys
3:05 moaning sadly annoyed What a materialistic girl I will say that only poor guys say materialistic girls Why Because like this Baraya that guy doesn't have love if he only talks about it if love is only in the heart it's called hello if love is talked about it's called sweet talk love needs manifestation of explanation SO for example Raffi Ahmad is rich as a result of his super hard work to get money then he gives it to his wife His wife is made prosperous as prosperous as possible Is the girl happy yes Is her happiness because she is materialistic not because she is materialistic but like this Raffi Ahmad
3:53 put in a lot of effort to get money and the money was given to his wife not the nominal amount of money but that Raffi Ahmad gave something very valuable to his wife The conclusion is that his wife is much more valuable than what Raffi Ahmad gave to his wife that's the principle the third point of the first principle that girls are narcissistic bocev only love themselves and love people who love them so girls don't need handsome guys remember Baraya even handsome guys tend to be a threat to girls will fantasize about handsome guys for example guys will be hysterical girls will be hysterical when she sees a handsome guy okay but when the guy
4:40 approaches her and has a personal relationship Thank you the girl will be very doubtful Why is the explanation like this Baraya this is according to the first principle that first like this girl is very detailed about appearance and very perfectionist about appearance so when she sees a handsome guy then she has to measure herself she doesn't need a handsome guy she needs herself who is beautiful she doesn't need a guy who attracts attention she needs herself who attracts attention the girl actually wants to find a partner who is equal to her So if she is beautiful the guy must also be handsome if she is ordinary the guy must also be ordinary but if a handsome guy meets a beautiful girl it
5:27 doesn't necessarily mean they will be united because the girl thinks Suppose this guy gives this disappointed score 10 her appearance is extraordinarily beautiful the guy gives a lower score of 10 but the girl judges herself 7 Why is that because she is detailed snub nose there is a black part here is one pimple what and so on That is in silence looking in the mirror more often than guys so when she finds a small problem that is not realized by the guys will still give her a score of 10 because she does not know her weaknesses while the girl Know that's why she's here again 7 because her score is equal then a girl with a score of 10 with a guy with a score of 10 can't be a match The girl doesn't want to want a
6:12 girl to think that she is intended to be an ICW with a score of 10 will be comfortable if she is with a guy with a score of 7 even though her score is 10 understand the second principle that girls need a sense of security most girls may not realize that they are always afraid if they are in an open place for example if she is in a mall she will definitely hold hands with her best friend and her best friend will definitely be invited if she wants to go anywhere if she has to walk alone yes Usually carrying a bag carrying a folder for example walking alone is very common right because girls have a big instinct of fear of the outside world that's also why girls
6:58 prefer to ride in a car than being taken on a motorbike if they are taken on a motorbike they like to hug the person in front of them means the person in front has to provide a sense of security in the car also has to provide a lot of security and girls who take selfies in the car even though it's not their car and the instinctive fear of the outside world is also seen from the difficulty she has in conveying something clearly right so girls If you want to convey something, usually you use winged sentences that are not to the point. And from there, the girl wants to be understood. The girl needs a sensitive guy, why is she afraid of the consequences afterward? For example, the girl wants to buy meatballs and she is in a condition where she doesn't
7:44 have any money, but she wants to talk to her boyfriend. Let's buy meatballs, you treat her. She is afraid of the consequences, it will make the problem worse. She is afraid of being called a stamp duty officer and so on. Well, she is afraid of that and she will use winged sentences. Oh, it's delicious in the afternoon like this, what's so nice about doing? There's a meatball seller hahaha, something like that. Well, that's where the girl usually needs a sensitive guy and demands the guy to be thick. That's the principle, right? How to approach a girl means the first thing that must be given to the guy is a sense of security, so the girl will avoid three types of guys. One is a pervert. Why is it because the pervert will threaten
8:30 her? The second is an aggressive guy because it will also threaten her. Then the third is a cowardly guy because a cowardly guy can't maintain his own security. The focus goes back to himself. The girl is afraid of the outside world, so she needs a sense of security to approach the girl. Give her a sense of security, not being aggressive, not approaching her. a bit pushy most of the guys nowadays who date but force like that This is the dangerous impact Why do girls nowadays in Indonesia really like Korean guys like Korean guys who are feminine why try it because Indonesian guys who have beards like that give the impression of being aggressive and make the girl's sense of security
9:16 shrink that's why girls immediately divert their attention if there is a guy who is gentle enough Korean guys whose guys show that the guy can sixpeck can be attractive can be good at dancing but he is gentle that's the impression that is shown So if Baraya has a girl but she really likes Korea means Baraya is not gentle enough with her that's why in the 80s and 90s judging from films and research it shows that girls at that time really liked guys who were easygoing Bad Boys were not too emotional but had high achievements aggressive and so on come on what are the tastes of girls in the past the tastes of girls
10:03 today are guys who are tough who are strong but good at writing poetry are good at writing songs can have pets cute like guys like that who are quiet but have high intelligence like guys like that not girls guys like in the past That's why the second point of the second principle is that girls need a gentle guy. What is meant by a gentleman? One is he is responsible, 4 makes decisions, then his words are clear, his actions are all clear, then his initiative is fast, he can take the initiative quickly because girls usually wait and then understand, well, this girl is very happy if she is understood, then brave,
10:49 tough, tough, as Sundanese people say, tegal.ke ragasti, tough, but tough means that, yeah, that's it, then a fighter, including fighting for this relationship, it's important, many guys and girls get angry, girls, when they're angry, they want to be called first, they want to be persuaded, they want to be seduced, but nowadays, many guys also get angry and also get sulky, so they don't text for days, what does he still want to be contacted by the girl, actually, later, when he's contacted, he's still angry, but he wants to be contacted, but the guy is dim, he gets sulky, so remember, girls need a gentleman and what is meant by a gentleman is one of them, fighting for his relationship to the death, being opposed by his parents, being opposed by his neighbors, and so on.
11:35 The guy who comes forward first I will protect our relationship Hi the third principle of a girl in a relationship wants to be happy so first the first formula to be happy is first to gain trust don't use sexist words for example what a girl can do something like that she definitely doesn't understand what my girl can tinker with a motorbike too this is like that even though there are many girls who can't tinker with a motorbike of course the one who rides the motorbike is the same but don't mention it in front of her also give her trust like this Baraya girl has a slightly different way of thinking from a guy she has one unique thing that is intuitive her intuition is strong
12:24 in the sense that she can replace her logical ability with the ability of intuition which both solve problems that's why in this Hindu tradition the living creepers definitely know in the Hindu tradition the gods in Heaven that keep their top powers their advantages in his wife so in the story of Soekarno for example Soekarno was incredibly powerful that his wife had to have many why because Soekarno had extraordinary powers that could not be borne by an ordinary woman because the woman who finally married him was an ordinary one just so he needs more than one woman that's actually cosmology yes Javanese cosmology then Soeharto Soeharto knew
13:10 that Soekarno was loose there that's why he married a woman from a noble descent who also had great power to keep her supernatural powers there so when Pak Harto's wife Mrs. Tien died then his power collapsed Soeharto's policies were so many things were lost many were unclear more so finally collapsed But what I mean is in the world of psychology here also actually not that wrong Hi in the world of psychologists it is known as the term pillowtalk a conversation before husband and wife's bed is usually one of the things that makes a husband successful being a successful husband is not Actually it's not only his ability to make decisions but when
13:56 decisions are mixed Broery or influenced by the wife's decisions so if Baraya wants to find a partner or already has a partner the first principle is to make her happy is to give her the trust to make decisions Then to make a girl happy is a fabrication of lies so the meaning of fabrication of lies is like this girl really must be given honesty openness how much does the guy earn the guy goes here and there where does he work and so on It has to be open, the girl has to know, even though the girl might not interfere, but the girl has to know on the one hand, but on the other hand, the girl really needs a very mysterious guy, so environmental lies that are eventually discovered,
14:42 small lies that are eventually discovered are actually good for the girl, so as far as they like mysteries, they really like mysteries, so when they find a mysterious guy with a sharp gaze, not a sharp gaze, but not passive, but rising, showing his strength, the language of his eyes is engraved, well, that gaze, eh, suddenly a sweet smile, eh, the girl is really scrubbed, so the girl needs openness in almost everything, but in small things for the game, why does the girl need mystery, so the ability to lie and the ability to be open to be honest are engineered, so for example, you are very beautiful, uh, uh, is it true that if her clothes are changed, that's a
15:28 joke that is actually painful, but the ability to engineer jokes like that is actually good because girls also really need a humorous guy, your guy, that's where it goes into the second point, for example, the park is always Patrick passing by, then How to make a girl happy or to get a girl, baraye, the guys have to broad-minded Because like this Baraya girls prefer to be told stories rather than read it themselves no matter how the story is so curious right quickly how how how how I prefer to be told So if the guy doesn't have any insight to give usually The girl is blunt outside this is the principle of Baraya syirian if there are mothers she likes to gossip means her husband's father does
16:34 not have broad insight Why is that because if a guy has broad insight The girl can vent her desire to talk to ask to share verbally with her husband if the girl asks this and that wants to share insights and so on for experiences and so on but the guy can't keep up because he doesn't have insight about it then the girl will seek escape to gossip and from all that it is summarized that the girl needs long-term affection not just in a few moments a few minutes those are three main principles but I give Baraya some bonuses first the girl doesn't care about appearance but the girl cares about cleanliness neatness and smell the guy's cosmetics are not lipstick not anything but perfume that's why the most famous cosmetic for guys is perfume a-b-c-b it immediately flies us will be a girl that likes body odor the body odor of
17:19 people who exercise often is much nicer for girls than lazy guys who are fat Then the second girl is also a consideration if you want to be approached not about short-term relationships Because of that the girl really wants to see the guy's family accept her then the third girl today is very happy with guys who are full of affection and One of the proofs of a guy who is full of affection is that he keeps animals if the guy has a pet and his pet plays a lot with the guy that means the girl is filling up credit to him more because it means she gives me you more credit otherwise if the guy is good at playing music or he has an advantage in a certain field that he is
18:06 proud of Okay Baraya that's all hopefully useful and for the single men and women who are struggling right now Please improve the quality of yourself Baraya yourself then look for a suitable girl Okay thank you for watching me Gembul sama alaikum warohmatulloh berkah
