0:02 Listen, I wanted to ask you for advice about one topic Let's meet at our place, but great It's been a while since we've seen each other And you, don't get sick Well, what did I want to ask for advice about? Eh, there's one girl in the zone I really liked it I'm courting artifacts, she blew my face, I don't need a boyfriend, he tells me, but I can't stop thinking about her I'm already 31, I want a family, no matter what Here's what I can do, how can I please you, you know, I've told you a lot of things in my life, you don't need it, you still don't need it Why take my word for it, you're
1:02 want to say something sensible, then tell me, I'll listen Yes, because Sergiy, you're not looking for a relationship at all, but for someone you like to run after A person keeps you at a distance, and you fall in love for some reason You do n't even suspect that this will end badly, what if I tell you that she, just like you, has ever run after someone and thought about NM at nights No, this is some kind of nonsense she is very sick What else do you need to look for You see, it means you definitely don’t understand how it works And you mean you understand, well, when you observe the same thing over and over again, understanding is formed by itself, you can call it some kind of experience, pleasant or unpleasant, you just need to observe what is happening around you Have you noticed that
1:48 most people, girls and guys, right now continue to enter into relationships Under the pretext of love, not actually realizing that these words are dust in our own eyes We deceive ourselves every day, we take childhood romance for love, all these songs, books, films have raised a generation of adults, children who are taught from birth that you can live happily ever after with a princess or wait for a prince on a white horse, such people do not want to live in the real world, fell in love And forgot about everything, it’s cool, really, but for some reason no one talks about the consequences of such a hoarse foundation as emotions, is it normal when today she loves you and then you break up and after a while someone else is this love all my life I have not seen a single film and have not read a single book about true love and all
2:35 because there are no such things it is simply not interesting to people they want feelings True love is not like that it is not romantic simple and original there is no such passion and emotions it is like an inconspicuous SUV drives over bumps and other obstacles without problems and infantilism is expensive for your psyche a sports car is fast and beautiful but on such country roads with holes and bumps he is not ready as a family well this is not about me I understand that I want to build a family in order to then have children and live in happiness and joy you want to build a family and raise children you say Well yes Well so why do you live in this emotional utopia instead of analyzing a person's actions or did you realize that she would be an excellent mother for your children because she takes a long time to break down and pretends to be
3:24 unapproachable Yes you just haven't been in the place of a person who doesn't give a damn about her we run after those who in us lights a little flame instead of competently filtering out bright sensations and choosing those who are worthy of being a name day is this a healthy approach to choosing a partner and the worst thing is that you are no better than her even if you find a really good girl you will most likely leave her yourself why is this suddenly Yes because you will simply get tired of her you don’t need children and not even the one you fell in love with you only need sensations from such a dangerous state as falling in love looking for a muse the ideal is always a time bomb at first everything is good but one day everything will just go to hell this is the result of your initial choice what will you choose to enter this game
4:13 or live with a calm psyche that is, things are initially in me I must change myself [music] Well done traveler I’m a local here If you have any questions ask me what about women again [__] how [ __ ] tired you are Oh well so be it I'll explain it to you until you want Come with me I think everyone knows such a tradition among people not to choose the family in which to be born few people think that our spawn point and technical support of this server That is, parents have the strongest influence on our perception of the world and its picture and they are far from always qualified people who simply by a
5:00 naive phenomenon or guided by an infantile postulate because it is necessary gives birth to a new biopro Toti actually you are somewhat similar to a rational being and from childhood pump up your upbringing with your own experience and vision If a boy then pursue a girl give flowers show off if a girl then go for a walk go for a walk you will still have time to have children And in the meantime to Murat Jump into a BMW and have fun broken dishes with a frying pan on the face of a father from a mother all these unhealthy conflict situations in the average [__] in the average family we just accepted as the norm and took note of a couple of techniques The absolute majority of people in modern society are truly convinced that falling in love is not even a norm But a basis for building a family Forgetting about such a simple function of any feeling as fading away over time [__] all this [__] and that's it This is [ __ ] And growing up in such an ecosystem You simply physically cannot act differently Since your entire experience is based on your family and in order to follow the path of common sense in choosing a babe You must
5:49 first get a ton of bumps in order to understand that my alternative is the only way to live without ups and immorality in the family hearth So let's talk about your social boiler I'll tell you right away Are you [__] introverts or are you simply hiding degenerative communication abilities behind this term You can attribute yourself to uncommunicative as much as you like Your emotional life is a [ __ ] curve on a two-dimensional graph Let's imagine that you live ordinary boring days, you communicate with few people except for loved ones, and then for [ __ ] sake she appears, a girl with whom you begin to actively communicate. You have been growing over 200 years in your own being. And then such a push in the form of emotions, naturally, from unfamiliarity, your hormones are so high, and you will simply fall in love. After all, you have almost no one else besides this option, and in your mind, which is not strengthened by emotion, the stupidest thought arises, it is special. After all, you have seen how Americans enthusiastically look at the Zhiguli in the
6:37 States. They also think that this is a special car, but we understand that it is not so simple. They encounter this very rarely. Or they do not encounter it at all. A deficit of something creates the illusion of the value of this something, so you need to follow the path of a surplus of communication. Don't starve yourself of communication, and you will begin to look at the whole situation objectively. There is such a thing as adaptation - this is the key function of any living organism, so you need to adapt. survive improvise [ __ ] do whatever you want but find yourself communication don't live in the shadows now about your butterflies in your stomach roughly speaking any Emotions are the egoism of the subject who experiences them After all, if you think about it you fall in love because you want it and not someone else You have a tier list of life and when you fall in love then it is your feelings that lead the top of the class think about it We are simply not able to fall in love in the role of a kind responsible person ready to show their love to someone who deserves it we fall in love
7:22 because we are [ __ ] who enjoy swimming in this world of their own feelings we feel sorry for ourselves give make them a priority and this is the key difference from true love you are ready to please a person Not because it will be good for him but because it will bring you pleasure any emotion is encouragement of your desires and uncontrolled emotions including falling in love is nothing more than a weakness that destroys your personal qualities but to have the skill of self-control Practice is needed As in everything Well, what a [ __ ] pervert, do you like beautiful girls, stockings, maybe milfs Or, God forbid, headlights like a backpack Or maybe it’s a girl who is looking for a tall and blue-eyed man, everything is very shitty if you still rely on your tastes in beauty when choosing a suitable candidate for the role of a family man Do you know people Or maybe you recognize yourself in the phrase there are no normal girls or guys at all Get ready Shrek [__] I’m going to throw you around on such facts now that you’ll regret
8:11 coming here at all [__] Let’s start with How long have you been aware of the ecosystem in which you sit? We are people who are very primitive creatures from a sociological point of view and, for the most part, We draw conclusions from what only we ourselves have seen Imagine that you were put in a cage with two Gorillas at the zoo No, this is not your typical life with parents I'm serious now You will hang out in a circle of two or more monkeys throughout your entire conscious life, and of your own free will, so that's how you think how you will build your views over the next years correctly, and in real life you will sit and [ __ ] that there are no normal interlocutors around you And now we build a neural connection between this example and your life mm you don't feel a catch there are no normal people around you Maybe because you are Blanc they are people around you, although they are too, after all you yourself build them around yourself like a brick house by laying them out according to your interests and views, which means you yourself are a narrow-minded screwdriver and you are led and think really, after all, in order to find a good wife you need her to be
9:00 able to do the throat splits or have a [ __ ] ass and headlights like a Trueno yes these are the very qualities of a suitable wife you are a vulgar sign and those around you are also vulgar without exception Because your ecosystem is It is your responsibility you choose who to communicate with and what views to support You first want a normal girl and then go on a date with an alcoholic and a tattooed woman from top to bottom If you are a [ __ ] village in life In terms of society, then don’t tell everyone around you that it’s boring in the Megalopolis You have no idea What is this Megalopolis So why is it harmful we talked about the reasons for your amorousness But what does it actually do How does it affect you and what are the consequences of it a one-sided game when you fall in love you can safely cross out madness and deprive you of critical thinking you begin to unconsciously elevate a person in yourself [ __ ] I apologize this meme with Shevtsov is just [ __ ] Okay, back to the point
9:53 so that’s what I said you begin to unconsciously elevate a person in your head due to which you do [ __ ] extra for the sake of this and courtship and groundless gifts and stupid compliments and sometimes even just stalking, just think about it. Why do I need such a pinched cherkash who runs after her while she just exists? She is perfectly aware that it doesn’t cost her any effort to lasso you, but she is not interested. A simple puzzle is forming in her head. I do nothing and receive attention. So why the [ __ ] should I do anything? But besides this, when you fall in love, you give the idea that you are completely satisfied with her and on this basis you have no right to make any claims in the future. If you have something to build up, it turns out that you either initially [ __ ] up this battle or became colonized in this relationship and you don’t really have any rights. She will either knock you down or will set her own conditions. You should still understand that whoever experiences more emotions will
10:38 ultimately suffer. Do you want to fall in love? Fall in love. I don’t dissuade you. I clearly dictate the consequences of this. you have to understand a person under emotions is an atomic bomb he does not control himself he does not own the situation and the relationship is a chess game [ __ ] where is such [ __ ] How ill-considered hot-tempered decisions simply lead to a natural defeat defeat is ultimately your apology And when you apologize you admit you are wrong when you admit you are wrong it is easier to make you wrong in the future and in the end you are generally [ __ ] that is why they leave you and cheat on you maybe the main thing is to calm your conscience and dump everything on you because you are to blame this is a typical scenario of sick relationships unhealthy I repeat healthy love is not present And if it is present then only in a girl and not in a fatal stage understand that the more positive emotions you experience the more counterbalance awaits you in the future because feeling is a dynamic unit and Step by
11:24 step you get more and more pleasure One day the inevitable collapse will come and the state of [ __ ] hell which you do not I prepared because the foundation was love And when it evaporates you run like a frightened ant Along the windowsill and think what to do [__] Well I think Finally you understood what you need if you need love please If you want to experience emotions experience I don’t limit you in this just accept the fact that this is of course And you should be ready for this I can tell you about how girls fall in love But that’s a completely different story And for now thank you for watching to the end If you want to follow the channel news then the link to the telegram will be in the description
