We Can’t Have Anymore Kids After This…

0:00 What's going on, Breakable family? Welcome back to the channel, guys. >> Welcome back, y'all. >> Today, Quan and I decided that we're just going to do a little bit of a chitchat session with y'all. We're going to do a little car mukbang, which we haven't done in forever. >> Yeah, it's been a minute. We stopped by Panera. We got some sandwiches, chips, drinks, and also some chocolate chip cookies. What y'all know about Panera chocolate chip cookies? We about to put y'all on today. >> I feel like we've told them before, but we going to say it again. Like if you don't get their chocolate chip cookies, you're so missing out. Like oh my gosh, >> cookies are frozen. >> Literally. >> But yeah, we just going to be chatting with y'all today. We have a lot to talk about with y'all. Just listen closely. >> The real reason we wanted to do a karma thing is because we're so hungry right now. We haven't ate anything. >> Lunch time. >> We haven't ate breakfast. So don't mind

0:46 us grubbing. We going to be talking and eating. >> I know y'all going to be talking. >> You're not supposed to speak with food in your mouth. >> He's saying that I am Chomp OD. Talk with my mouth full. That's what they say. >> Yeah. But we both be smacking. Especially when food is good, we be like smacking. >> Well, when you're hungry, too, it's like >> trying to do a mukbang is hard sometimes. Let me get like at least my first bite. I'm so hungry. >> Before we get into today's chitchat session, we just want to remind you guys to make sure that you guys enter our giveaway. Quan and I are doing our biggest giveaway yet. >> Literally the biggest giveaway that we've ever done. All the steps to enter the giveaway are in the description box below. Make sure you guys thoroughly follow every step for the chance to win a brand new Honda 2026 HRV Sports

1:31 Edition. >> Or the winner has the choice to get the car or the price of the car $30,000. >> M I love that. >> We're giving away 30 grand. >> 30,000 >> or a brand new 2026 car. >> Yeah. >> Is the winner. >> I'm honestly really excited to see like what the winner chooses. >> I know. >> What would you choose? >> Y'all comment down below what y'all would choose. I'm not going to say what I would choose. >> No. Okay. I was going to say, make sure y'all enter the giveaway. The winner will be announced ending of next month on Patreon. Make sure you guys follow every step to enter the giveaway. >> Yes. >> Sandwiches are heading over. >> Mhm. In the summer. Something about like a cold cut sandwich. >> Yeah. Ra got her sandwich cold. By the way, I got mine toasted. >> Quan only likes his sandwiches hot.

2:17 >> I love it cold. So, yeah. I'm about like 6 weeks postpartum now, y'all. A couple days ago, I had my six week appointment. I was thinking about coming out of the appointment. What you winking about? >> Yeah. >> I was thinking about pulling a little pranky prank on Carl when I came out the appointment, but I decided not to because honestly, I was thrown off with like the news that I learned during that appointment and I was like, "What the heck?" Like, it threw me off. I couldn't I couldn't pull off the pranks like I wanted to. So, I went to my 6 week appointment and I learned something that I literally never knew. And this wasn't even like a topic of conversation with my doctors at all. Like, I had no idea. I went to go get cleared or whatever. If you guys know, like after you have a baby, you have to wait to have intercourse. You have to wait to work out until your six week appointment until you're cleared to make sure everything is good and all that stuff. >> So, we both were like very excited for this appointment.

3:02 >> Mhm. >> I was expecting good news when she came back into the car and which we did get some good news. We got cleared, but there was something else that she told me that completely caught us both off guard. >> Yeah. I'm not going to say it was bad news, but it's just something that we learned. Like, I just didn't know about at all. So during my appointment, I was pretty much told that I have like a limit to the amount of children that I have. It didn't cross my mind. Like I said, it was never a conversation, you know, with my doctors or anything. My first pregnancy and my first birth, I had a vaginal birth. Second, I had emergency C-section and then I just had a successful V-back. And apparently with my situation, they're like limiting me to five children. Like the fifth one would be at my own risk. So they're only recommending that I have four pregnancies basically is what he was

3:48 saying. >> Yeah. So and I sorry I got food in my mouth and on my cheek look like a chip my cheek. >> That's why I said it's so hard to talk about food but like all >> like they only recommend me to have four pregnancies and if I wanted to have a fifth pregnancy it would be at my own risk. >> Mhm. Ra and I always plan to have four children. >> Mhm. >> But we always said if we're making enough money there's no cap on the amount of children that we'll have. >> Well there's a cap. >> I wouldn't mind. >> We wouldn't mind going over four. >> Yeah. We both wouldn't mind going over four. >> Yeah. to hear that completely caught us off guard cuz we like damn. >> Yeah. >> Say we do you know start making manifest and pray that we could eventually start making damn we're like capped at four kids and we can't go over that >> four pregnancies. I mean tech >> without that risk >> without the risk. I didn't even share what the risk was.

4:33 >> Yeah. Let them know the risk >> basically it would be like at my own risk. He was saying um like they would fully support me and like try to make sure I have like a good healthy experience but I am at a higher risk of hemorrhaging >> which is pretty much Yeah. It's It's dangerous and it's pretty much like bleeding out >> and needing like blood transfusions and it could be deadly. So >> that was like really a bummer. Not saying that we were planning on having >> kids. A >> Yeah, of course. After you had the V-back, I was thinking yes. It was like a sigh of relief like all right is back to having vaginal births. Yeah, you're back. You're good. Another vaginal birth successfully >> now you could just continue having vaginal births and we can have as many kids as we want. That's what we both thought. All right, we got past this. Marissa got past this successfully. Had

5:18 a Vback. We're good now. And then to hear that is like, damn, why didn't they say that like from before? You know what I'm saying? Like, why didn't they let us know that before? I think this whole thing is a way of population control. >> Yeah, corn feels that way. >> Cuz it's like C-sections are way more common now. They're trying to stop women from having more than Yeah. a certain amount of kids. >> Yeah. I feel like back in the day that was not a thing. C-sections were not common, like you said. But on top of that, they weren't really like putting a limit, you know, like think about it. Our grandparents had how many children? Like your grandma had like eight. My grandma had like eight. My other grandma had like nine. >> In this day and age, it's not common to have over four children. >> Yeah. I mean, like you said, it's expensive as hell >> in the west. >> Yeah. It's expensive to have a lot of kids. So, yeah. obviously knew like with a C-section they limit you because we always hear like I mean this isn't true

6:04 either because there are women that have had more than three C-sections but they try to say like they only recommend you having three C-sections because it becomes you know more of a risk after that >> but I'm sorry to cut you off I don't understand how say you had another C-section this time around then you could possibly have one more >> how with you having a successful V-back it's pretty much the same thing you limit it to the same amount of children or there's a risk if you go for five like a huge risk you know what I'm saying >> it's just a big risk he was just saying cuz trauma to my uterus. >> Um, which like I said before, I felt I do feel like this time vaginally I felt more going on with my uterus. Like I was I bled way longer and more. So I definitely can see like maybe like there was some trauma in my uterus this time around cuz it's after a C-section. At the end of the day, the scar is still always going to be there. Yeah, that was just something that we learned that we had no idea about.

6:50 >> And another thing we forgot to mention, the reason why we were thinking maybe possibly we'll go over four children is if we have another boy neck. Yes. >> Because Russell really wants a girl and I don't want to be selfish and be like, >> "How do I forget that part? >> You can't get your girl." You know what I'm saying? >> So that was another thing like we we started having different conversations. Like before we always like said like, "Okay, four and we're good." But now that we have three boys, like obviously I've always wanted to have a daughter, which you guys know. So I'm like, "If next one turns out to be a boy, then it's like I could never try again." Like that that scared me. I was like, "Oh, so I got I could only have four pregnancies." Are you saying like, "Oh my god." >> And I know you would not want to live life not having a daughter. >> I would love to have a daughter one day. I love my my actually want to have a daughter too. So >> yeah, like we want that experience as well. >> And the probability of us having another boy after three boys in a row

7:36 >> is extremely high. Clearly I only breed boys. So >> um our likelihood of having a girl is like 25%. >> Yeah. >> So pretty low. >> Yeah, it's pretty low. It's possible, but it's low. So babe, you better know what you're doing now. >> I know. So that's the main reason why we're like damn, we're bummed out right now. Like this our last chance pretty much. >> Yeah. Like that's like a lot of pressure. Oh my I don't want you having to go through that risk with us if we decide to go for five. I don't want that even being possible and it's very likely >> for the way he was explaining it. It was like a high chance of it. And like I said, like it would be like my choice to do it. Like they're not recommending it, but we it would be like my personal choice. Like he's not saying like something bad will happen, but it's just a higher risk. >> I'm not saying it's not possible. >> Yeah. I feel like I don't know. >> You could have five and that don't happen. You'll be fine. up.

8:22 >> Yeah. >> Keep risking things, you know. >> Yeah. >> It's hard to risk when you're giving birth. >> One is a higher >> percentage is high. >> Yeah. Getting nervous. >> Yeah. It's It's nerve-wracking. >> Yeah. And I'm just like dang cuz even like this is just how I had this conversation too. I'm like even if the next one is a girl, I would still love to try it maybe one more time to get like another girl so she can have a sister. >> All right. We ain't agree on that. I don't know. >> That's not process. >> If the next one's a girl, we might be done. >> No. >> Unless we're making $10 million plus. >> All right. You don't need $10 million to have that many kids. >> I need at least 10 mil to have kids. >> Quan is just saying like we always say, we want to be able to provide the same lifestyle for all our children. Definitely. Obviously, when you're thinking about expanding your family, you got a lot to consider. You know what I'm saying? And finances playing all the same life, same experiences and stuff. >> Mhm. >> Like I'm >> Yeah, I know. That's why I'm barely

9:08 eating. We're doing a whole mukbang. >> I'm not playing with my food right now. >> Clearly playing with food. >> Yeah. So, that's how the appointment went. And like I said, it just made me nervous. I'm just like, dang. Like honestly for next pregnancy I think it's crazy like we're already talking about it but you got to plan for the future. Okay y'all I'm not planning to get pregnant anytime soon. >> That's not happening no time soon. >> Yeah at all. >> And over this got cleared. We're not >> let's get into the next time. I'm going to let you say what you about to say and then we get into >> I was just saying I would love for like he's saying four pregnancies. Like if the last pregnancy was just like a twin pregnancy I would be real happy. >> Yo >> I'm serious. >> You're insane. >> I'm not insane. >> Y'all hear us? >> I mean that's serious. No twin two at the same time. >> I would love having a lot of kids. >> I would die. >> You would die. No, you wouldn't. >> I don't think I would be able to hang out. >> There's a lot of twin families, baby.

9:54 They're perfectly fine. >> Nah, >> we were just getting a full time nanny. >> We just got a reminder of what the new born stage is like. >> I guess I must have forgot. I thought it was like easier. >> See, this is why >> until we had Shakira. >> Yeah, >> we're really going through it right now. >> We're going through it with Shakira. He was easy at first, but now he's been walling >> the last couple of days, but he's a really good baby. >> Couple days, weeks. He's a good baby, but he >> It's his belly. >> Babies are babies, yo. >> Yeah, they all >> they don't ever make it easy for you. So, two at the same time. >> I feel that lack of sleep. >> Yeah, I know y'all can see it on our faces. Y'all got to understand, it's not us being drained in our relationship. It's everything all in one. We record for y'all for YouTube. I know I'm getting on topic. We have a podcast. We have something in We have multiple things in the work >> behind the scenes.

10:40 >> Behind the scenes. And we're full-time parents with three kids. >> Three little babies at home. >> Three little babies. Please >> please try to understand us just a little bit, you know? Just please. >> We're in the um what do they call it? The newborn. I can't I can't remember. I don't know. >> What? >> They call it something like when you're going through >> the phase with the newborn. >> We're definitely going through it. >> Yeah, >> we've been going through it. >> Yeah. But I wouldn't mind having a twin pregnancy. Honestly, I would be real happy cuz then that that would be perfect cuz then it's like it's one pregnancy, two babies. Pop them both out. >> Sounds so simple, right? >> Um let's talk on um >> not having any more babies. >> Not having any more babies. No time soon. >> No time soon. >> Yeah. >> How long do that? >> That's another conversation that we've been having cuz like I don't know what the hell to do y'all. Like when I was at

11:26 my 6 week um doctor's appointment, he was like, "Okay, so like what do you plan to do for contraception? Are you planning on getting out birth control?" He was like, "I'm pretty sure you're not planning on getting out on birth control based on your track record." And he was like, >> I hasn't been on birth control since before we had Shine like a year before, like since 2019. >> That's why I have all these babies now, right? >> Yeah. Super fertile. >> I don't know what to do, y'all. I don't know what we're going to do because I we definitely do not want to get pregnant again anytime soon. Well, let me not say anytime soon because we got to speak about that, too. Quan's saying 5 years. I don't want to wait 5 years. So, I don't know. >> I think 5 years is fair. >> No, that's way too big. I think the FDA just approved milk. >> Oh, you could do that. Go ahead. Try it out. >> Control, but I don't know. >> Yeah. Nah, I got >> try the milk. What you mean? >> Nah, it has to be >> Look at the effects it has on.

12:11 >> I don't know if they already injecting that in mills, but >> Mhm. >> I want to give it a couple years. I don't know about that because what what is our body doing when they inject y'all with birth control? >> Mhm. like with the needle with that bone and stuff or all those other things in your body to trick your body to thinking it's pregnant. >> What are they doing to us? >> Yeah, I'm thinking like >> to make us shoot blinks. >> Yeah, that sounds like some sterilization, too. >> Yeah, I don't know about that. >> I wouldn't want you to do that >> cuz god forbid something happens and you shoot blinks forever. Oh, heck no. >> Crazy. Nope. >> But I don't know. He brought the different types that he recommended for me if I want to get pregnant within like the next 3 years or so. The IUD, yeah, you could do it. It lasts eight years if you decide to do it. But that wouldn't really be for me because I don't know. I don't know how I feel about having something foreign inside of me. And then you guys know the pill is effective, but

12:58 it's like the least effective birth control. And I just don't know how I feel about like being on birth control again. So basically, >> so we're trying to figure it out. >> We're just trying to figure out. >> We're trying to figure it out >> cuz clearly the pull out method don't work. >> Yeah, it doesn't at all. Although my game was strong, it doesn't. Which is why we were like, yo, pregnant both times. You were like, >> Mhm. >> How did this happen? Yeah, it didn't work. So, >> you have to be responsible. Of course, he just said we all going to be responsible. >> You got to strap it up. That's what you're saying. >> Yeah. But then after a couple months go by or a year goes by, it's like, damn, yo, get this off of me. So, >> we going to figure we going to figure something out. >> Funny. >> Yeah. What do y'all do? Like the families that cuz a lot of people are like against birth control. I'm not the

13:44 only woman that doesn't. >> And you brought up a freaking rectomy to meet. Oh yeah. >> I would never do that. >> Probably would never do it again. >> Never in a million years. I'm not doing >> I said after we're done having all our children. >> I'm not doing that. >> Well, I don't want to do it y'all. You know it's reversible, right? >> I don't care. Nobody. >> They could literally they literally snip it and they could literally put it like connect it back together. >> No. >> That's less invasive than us being on birth control for years on end. Honestly, it's like a 10-minute procedure. >> No, >> not happen. Yeah, we got to brainstorm and figure something out. But yeah, we weren't expecting news like that. No, we just wanted to keep y'all in the loop a little bit. >> Mhm. >> I'm interested to hear y'all stories. If like if you were told like, oh, you have a limit or they only recommend a certain number of pregnancies and deliveries for you, but you still tried again. I would love to hear that >> cuz the V-back was very dangerous, too.

14:29 But the percentage was low. >> It was risky, but the percentage was low. Yes. Honestly, he didn't even tell me what the percentage of hemorrhaging was. >> Yeah. He's going to say, but if he's recommending that or if he's saying, "Yo, your limit is five," then percentage has to be high. It's funny that we're even talking about it cuz I'm like, damn. Five pregnancies was never really a thought before. I don't know. It's just crazy how like >> we had three boys in a row. Yeah, >> exactly. >> Yeah. So, how do you feel about um >> everything? Yeah. >> I don't know. I don't know how to feel. We'll just have to see when the time comes. >> Yeah. >> Let's wait 5 years for the next baby. Definitely going to give you uterus time to help. >> No. No. He wasn't saying he was actually saying this. Okay. You're not going to believe me, but he was I'm going to be older. I'm going to be older. >> No, I'm not. He said >> whatever Rissa says right now is made up. >> Not picking it up. >> Doctors do not tell that. >> No, he was just saying my body clearly

15:16 is accustomed to having the babies and stuff like that. Sometimes when you take a break, your body might not react. You know what I'm saying? >> Don't say your body going to forget. >> No, my body might not forget. >> You have three kids already. It's not going to forget. Can't forget. >> Oh my god. >> That's how Russ be trying to swindle me, y'all. >> I'm not swindling you. I'm being honest. You can come to my next doctor's appointment. >> I will come. This time I'm going inside. All right. Hell from a doctor's mouth. >> I don't believe it. Done with my sandwich. >> Chit trap. >> I'm almost done with my sandwich. >> I'm not almost on my sandwich. I feel like >> I could barely like eat and talk. It was hard to >> not mukbang in the right way. >> I ain't mukmonging the right way. >> Supposed to be really be grubbing and talking at the same time. >> I know. But they hate when I do that. I always see comments about how I eat, never how you eat. They're like, "Oh, what's up? Close your mouth when you two >> cuz I'm a man. I guess we need a pass."

16:02 >> I got to be ladylike. Got to cover my mouth like a not speak when I'm chewing. >> Okay. But we just wanted to chitchat with y'all today. Just update you guys a little bit on, you know, how things are going. I'm cleared. Everything's good. I could get back to normal activity. >> I didn't say anything. Why you watching that? >> I can get back to the normal activity, start working out again. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. Which Quan is excited to get me in the gym? >> It's crunch time, y'all. The wedding's around the corner. >> We are in the gym. Mhm. About time. I know you guys are looking forward to that. So, make sure y'all following us on Snap cuz once we get in the gym, >> all the workouts with us together is going to be posted on Snap. So, follow us on Snap. >> Not ready, y'all. >> We're going to close out today's video right here. Hope y'all enjoy this little

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