Decoding Taylor Swift's Charisma: Ultimate Guide to Her Charm

0:00 in this video we are going to break down Taylor Swift's communication skills such as how she responds to tricky awkward questions with Grace and confidence and how she cracks jokes and make people laugh how she responds to compliments with more than just a bland thank you all of those tips by the way will be super actionable so that you can talk like Taylor Swift after this video Let's dive in Taylor's hand Ling tricky awkward questions she gets questions like this a lot especially during her early career when she was asked about who the boyfriend was who the song was for but she's always able to answer those questions with confidence and

0:46 Grace and also look very authentic her strategy to those tricky question is typically playing down was tricky about the question by highlighting her values let me show you an example in this example she was asked whether she fell into love a little bit too easily do you think Taylor that you and I don't know whether you feel you have fallen in love but do you think that you do maybe get into a relationship too weddy do you give too much to yourself too soon I just think if you think too hard about it and it takes you a long time to fall in love with someone you're not in love love that's true so the first wow she great and you're there in the moment yeah I have a lot of rules placed on my life and I just choose not to apply rules to love a quick tip just because

1:31 people ask you a yes no question does not mean you have to give a yes and no answer so the question was do you think you fall in love too easily Taylor did not say oh yes I do think I fall in love too easily which would make her look a little careless she also did not say oh no I don't think I fall in love too easily which could make her look a little defensive she's simply talk about her values what is important to her I already have a lot of rules placed in my life so I choose not to do that with Love by highlighting her values it makes her look very authentic and personable let me show you another example Taylor was asked a similar question on a

2:19 different show do you think you're sort of a hopeless romantic that you fall in love too easily I don't think there's such a thing as falling in love too easily or falling too fast or loving someone I I too soon or trusting someone tooo soon I think that if that's just how you are that's how you are notice Taylor answered a question and K by highlighting her values what she thinks is right but this time Katie did not let her go easily Katie immediately followed up with another tricky question is that how you are you think with certain it with certain people with certain people not everybody's a case-by casee situation I've never treated two relationships the same way some people will make you write songs some people you can't write a song about them I think that relationships are a

3:04 lot like that in the sense that some people move you and some people don't in in a webcast you told your fans that the songs on this album are all about the tumultuous insane crazy intense semi toxic relationships you've had in the last two years that sounds miserable to at times yeah it's been great I have had a lot to write about because I'm 22 and and that's the time when you're all over over the place and confused you don't know where you're going but you kind of do you have your friends that you can rely on and it's okay to fall in love and learn lessons the hard way and in my case write songs about it a quick tip it depends is a powerful way to respond to tricky questions especially those simil

3:50 simple yes and no questions they're never simple if you just answer with a yes and no answer makes you look too superficial it depends on the other hand shows you are able to analyze stuff you do different things in different situations it shows the death in you that you are a sophisticated thoughtful smart person but after saying it depends Taylor went back to stating her values she said I think it's okay to fall in love and learn lessons the hard way so she closed her answer again highlighting the values makes her look very authentic

4:36 and personable moving on her humor style she is incredibly good at sarcasm especially using the opposite literal meaning of an adjective word we be in cats the movie the full cats movie it's my dream no really I mean it does have about you this does seem like your dream JW so you which which are you giving us I'm a cat named bomino which is a very common name bmbl bmbl white clearly that's not a common name which is why when she was using common everybody knew that she was using the opposite literal meaning of the word comment here's another example Jimmy aell was yelling at Taylor because he was trying to make

5:23 Taylor's spill whether she had a new Alvin coming what are you going to say I'm not live stream Dam it tell me I'm sorry I wait wait wait I I'm sorry I just I couldn't hear you you were being really quiet obviously Jimmy was speaking really loud which is why when Taylor sat quiet everybody knew that she was using the opposite literal meaning of the word quiet and therefore it was witty so who are you dying to meet here today who do you want to run into oh at the Grammys I've never met Justin Timberlake before I've always liked his music but he became number one on my list of people I want to meet after I saw him on your show hilarious and nice seemed like a

6:09 good combination he's got a girlfriend you're not interested to no who would have a crush on Justin Timberly nobody nobody no one no no whether Taylor was interested in being Justus in Timber's girlfriend at the time no idea but from her description you can clearly see that she was very impressed by Justin therefore when she said ew everybody knew that she was meaning the literal opposite meaning of that word therefore it was wiy moving on he would give a lot of compliments with her record breaking music she generally responds to compliment with yes and strategy yes and strategy is a rule of

6:54 th in comedy that shows you except what another person has stated I.E the yes part and then expand on that line of thinking I.E the end part let me show you a couple of examples in this first example gr the talk show host was introducing Taylor's 1989 album in a moment going introduce that the audience started clapping immediately this is pop pop pop isn't it for the [Applause] this I mean you can do that all you want it's Taylor did not just respond to compliments with thank you she used the yes and strategy she first acknowledged

7:42 and appreciated audience clopping the yes part and then she expanded on that by saying you can do that all you want cuz it's nice by the way another witty comeback to compliments that I see a lot of people use it's similar to what Taylor was just doing is thank you please keep the compliments coming try next time somebody compliment you I'm sure you will get a smile the yes and strategy Works particularly well for compliments because most people would just say thank you but when you expand on that with more stuff then it's unaccepted surprising and therefore witty and funny also your confidence shines through and remember say it in a

8:27 playful to like tailor dead so people know you are just joking and being playful I want to show you one more way to respond to compliments this comback line did not come from Taylor it came from Bono Taylor was the one complimenting Bono because the fine was so classic so useful I use it all the time and it works every time I have to share with you it is especially useful for those of you who want to look humble to compliments he's just that great and thoughtful just the best there is I better have a drink I need a drink really is one of my favorite comeback lines can use that when people compliment you but also when people ask you a tricky awkward question and you

9:13 don't know what to say and you need a second to pause I need a drink for this trust me it works every time so these are the communication skills we can learn from Taylor Swift let's summarize first she responds to Compliments by using yes and strategy and let her confidence shine number two she responds to tricky questions by stating her values which makes her look very authentic and personable number three her signature humor style is sarcasm especially using the opposite literal meaning of an adjective which one of this is your favorite leave me a comment or if you want me to do more

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