Get rid of a 3p FOR GOOD and why it hasn’t worked before!

Brief Summary

This video addresses the common issue of dealing with a "3P" (third party) in the context of manifesting a specific person (SP). It emphasizes that focusing on the 3P only gives them power and sustains their presence in your reality. Instead, the key is to shift your focus entirely to the version of your SP who is solely devoted to you, denying the existence and importance of the 3P. By consistently selecting and affirming this desired reality, the 3P will fade away as your SP aligns with the version you are manifesting. The video also touches on the speed of change in people and the importance of not worrying about the "how" when manifesting.

  • Focus on the version of your SP that only wants you.
  • Deny the existence of the 3P and don't give it any attention.
  • Attention and awareness are what keep things in your reality.
  • People can change drastically and quickly.
  • Don't worry about the "how" when manifesting.

Introduction

The video starts with Sammy introducing her Halloween-themed set and welcoming new viewers, explaining the channel's focus on manifestation and offering coaching services. She mentions that she will be talking about SP focused videos.

The Problem with Focusing on the 3P

Sammy addresses the common question of how to remove a 3P from your SP's life. She argues that focusing on removing the 3P is counterproductive. The very act of acknowledging and worrying about the 3P gives them power and sustains their existence in your reality. The goal should not be to eliminate the 3P directly, but to shift your focus entirely to the version of your SP who is exclusively interested in you.

Selecting the Desired Version of Your SP

The key to dealing with a 3P is to select the version of your SP that has no interest in anyone else. By focusing on this version, you effectively make the 3P irrelevant. This involves denying the existence of the 3P and refusing to give them any attention. Affirmations should focus solely on the relationship between you and your SP, as if the 3P does not exist.

The Power of Attention and Awareness

Sammy emphasizes that attention and awareness are what keep things in your reality. By starving the 3P of your attention, they will fade away. You should consistently think of your SP as being completely devoted to you, the love of their life, and unable to think about anyone else. Any affirmations related to getting rid of the 3P should be discarded, as they only reinforce the 3P's existence.

Manifestation and the Speed of Change

Sammy addresses the common belief that changing someone's feelings or behavior is a long and difficult process. She shares that people can change drastically and quickly, sometimes even overnight. Therefore, you should not worry about the "how" of your manifestation. Your job is to select the reality you want to experience and persist in that selection through your thoughts and affirmations.

Applying This to Other Situations

The principle of selecting the desired version of a person can be applied to any relationship, not just romantic ones. Whether it's a friendship or any other type of connection, you should always focus on the version of the person you want to experience.

The Role of Affirmations and Assumptions

Changing your thoughts leads to selecting a new version of reality. The more you persist in thinking of your SP as the person you want them to be, the more they will align with that version. Experiencing even small changes will reduce resistance and reinforce your expectations. This process eventually leads to the desired reality becoming an assumption, where you no longer need to consciously affirm it.

Conclusion

Sammy reiterates the importance of not focusing on what you don't want, as this only keeps it in your reality. She encourages viewers to deny the existence of the 3P and be delusional in their belief that their SP is completely in love with them. By shifting your awareness and attention, you can eliminate the 3P and manifest the relationship you desire.

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Transcript

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0:00 foreign what's up guys we are back with another video okay before I even get further into my intro yes we're at my coffee and creepy set my manifestation set is over there but one some of y'all been begging for Halloween set didn't know y'all loved it so much but I'm glad you do two I don't feel like moving because I was just filming my tick tocks and all my paranormal stuff I'll just filming that and I do that over here so I don't feel like moving taking my camera moving all the way over there and I can just sit right here give you some Halloween to look at and um still give you some content okay so if you are new here my name is Sammy and

0:47 we are the mermaid gang this is where you can come and suspend your disbelief I am your favorite manifestation coach and your favorite YouTuber so if you would like for me to help you dissolve whatever it is between you and your manifestation go ahead and sign up for coaching with me right here or below this point okay I feel like I haven't done like any SP focused videos in a while at least I don't think so I think it's been more like General yeah so I would like to talk about why you don't need to remove a 3p I get so many questions clients comments

1:34 everywhere what do you do how do I remove a 3p it'll be on your form you'll put it on your form whatever you sign up for coaching with me and you're like how do I I need to I need to that's one of your goals to remove a 3p that is not your goal your goal is to select the version of your person that only wants you one thing that you have to remember one very important thing that you have to remember the only way something or someone can exist in your reality is if you're acknowledging it or them giving them attention you're selecting a state where they are where they exist essentially

2:22 so if you're focused on your person having a 3p even if it's like feeling like you need to remove them or whatever it is you're complaining about them you're worried about them you created them from worrying about them being with somebody else however it worked that's why they're there they're there because you are animating that state where they exist you're acknowledging them and making them exist when if you would just select a state or a version of your SP that has no 3p then they would just go away like like they never existed

3:09 but we're so wrapped up in this whole like Law of Attraction thing and even the law of assumption thing where it's like manifesting away a 3p manifesting away a 3p get rid of a 3p get the way you do it is by taking their importance Away by taking your attention away you can get rid of anything by taking your attention away from it things only exist by your attention so if you have a 3p problem that you've created somehow doesn't matter how all you have to do is one focus on the version of your person that wants to be with you

3:54 don't even consider the other person this is where being de Lulu comes in this is why I say deny anything that isn't what you want be completely delusional pretend it doesn't exist don't give it any attention because when you starve it of your attention it goes away so you are strictly going to focus on manifesting your person or you're going to focus on thinking as if you and your person are already together or if you're doing it in steps I still agree with doing things in steps if you have a lot of resistance so you would be focusing on that person choosing that version of your SP that

4:39 only wants to be with you so you're affirming as if there is no nothing in between there's nothing in between you and your person they are obsessed with you they love you you're the love of their life they only want to be with you they you're not even going to curate affirmations that imply there is another person you're going to strictly focus on you and your SP only that person does not exist that 3p does not exist not in your reality we're not going to give them attention anymore because attention is what holds things in our reality attention is what State whatever we're giving our attention to is what state we're selecting just like how we talked about whatever we're

5:26 thinking of that's the state we're selecting and how we're selecting basically the same States every day out of Habitual thoughts so you're gonna think as if it's just you and your SP you're the love of their life you're everything they want they can't stop thinking about you they can't be away from you whatever your SP affirmations are any affirmations that you have that have to do with getting rid of three piece get rid of them you don't need them because if you would just select the version of your person that only wants to be with you then that 3p is going to go away on their own and even if they don't want to it doesn't matter because you're selecting the version of your person that only wants

6:13 to be with you and if you're selecting a version of your person that only wants to be with you then that's exactly how they're going to show up another thing I noticed with people manifesting other people is that a lot of you think like there's some long drawn out process or you can't fathom how they would change because they're like so this way one day how could they completely change their mind I have seen people drastically change in minutes or sometimes even just overnight the person can literally just change their mind and just all of a sudden they feel differently they think differently they show up differently they behave differently

6:59 so this is why I say don't worry about the how it's not your concern you select the reality that you want to experience you select the version of your person that you want to experience and that's all you have to do and this doesn't even have to go for relationships this can be for a person you don't want in your life anymore this can be for friendships or whatever it can be for anything you always should be selecting the versions of people that you want to experience okay so if it's a an SP you're selecting the version of your SP that wants to be with you no matter it doesn't matter it doesn't matter what it's like right now what it's like right now is a reflection of what you are selecting right now with your thoughts your your consistent

7:46 thoughts is what is selecting what you're experiencing right now so when you start changing your thoughts you start selecting a new version and the more you persist the more that version shows up and then where you return to that state it becomes the dominant state so the more you think of that person as the version of them that you want them to be the more they are going to be that person and the more you experience them even being a little bit of that person the easier it's going to be for you the less resistance you're gonna have and the more you're going to expect them to be the person that you want them to be so therefore not only will you be able to manifest them to be with you or whoever you want them to be

8:33 you'll be able to to select that version of them you will be able to keep it that way because it will become an assumption I still stand by the fact that it doesn't become an assumption until we have experienced it so you affirm you get results so you affirm and by affirming you're selecting that version selecting that state and then when you experience it you start to expect it and then it becomes an assumption and that's where you don't even need to think twice about it anymore uh in the next video I'm probably going to talk about the whole film like you need to change someone when it's not about changing them or controlling them so anyway we'll get into that in the next video I just

9:18 wanted to talk to you guys about this whole 3p thing because a lot of people seem to have 3p problem and it's only because you keep focusing on that person anything that you're focusing on you're keeping in your reality your acknowledgment is what keeps things in your reality your attention is what keeps things in your reality whatever you don't want don't give attention to deny it be delusional it doesn't exist they don't exist you don't who is that I don't know I have no idea what you're talking about the minus p is in love with me um I'm the love of their life I'm literally the only girl they see um there is no one else I am all they think about I'm all they care about I'm the only person they would ever want to be with everyone else is just disgusting and ugly rodent so

10:04 yeah there's mine little 3p rant to you get your together stop focusing on things you don't want stop selecting things that you don't want by giving them attention and awareness awareness is the key awareness is what keeps things in your reality so stop being aware of a 3p that only exists because of your awareness okay thank you so much for watching please be sure to like share comment and subscribe and we have

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