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0:00 Today I am going to tell you about many such works. About whom various kinds of rumours are spread in our community. Rather, understand it this way that in our society it is believed that doing these things brings poverty in the house. These are also written in books. On social media, there is only Allah's help, Allah 's help. I keep seeing videos etc. of such ignorant things on social media. So, I have written down many such things today. There are some things which are against cleaning and cleaning. There are some things which are against the Sunnah. There are some things which are against manners, etiquette and etiquette. But we don't make any difference. Rather, it has become popular on social media and among people that
0:48 these works bring poverty in the house. Let me give you an example. If slippers are lying upside down in the house, it brings poverty. If the broom is kept standing straight then poverty comes. One should not sweep the floor at night. Isn't it? So, there are many such things about which it is well known that doing these things leads to poverty. So today I am going to tell you about those works which lead to poverty. And I will tell you what is right? what is wrong? What is against the Sunnah? What is against cleanliness ? What is against etiquette and civility? You have to understand this so that you can come out of this ignorant talk and know what the actual issue is. Number one is by sleeping too much. Sleeping too much does
1:35 not bring poverty to the home. If your prayers are being missed then it is obvious that skipping prayers is the root of all evils. Skipping namaz is a big sin. And what does poverty mean by committing crimes? A lot of things come up. The troubles of this world, the troubles of the hereafter, peace ends. Skipping prayer weakens the faith. It is a huge problem to skip namaz. But it is not the case that sleeping too much leads to poverty at home. Let's say someone is on vacation. There are four days of holidays. Now he is sleeping all day long. But he is not missing his prayers. Yes, if you sleep all day and do not work, then poverty will surely come your way. You will not go to earn. You will not do the work properly. You will not study properly. There is no problem in sleeping more. You should not miss your namaz. It
2:20 's simple. You may sleep more. Sleeping too much does not lead to poverty. You will have to understand all these things. Number two is sleeping bare head. I was watching a video. Someone in it was saying that when you sleep, you should sleep with your head covered. And Janabe Ali, women should also sleep with their heads covered. Because sleeping with the head open brings poverty into the house. The enemy of wisdom is that the man will sleep at night. Uncle, will I sleep wearing a cap? So brother, you can sleep with your head open at night. Poverty has nothing to do with this. It is seen that people urinate while standing on the road and not that someone starts urinating while standing on the road. Someone is doing it while standing. Someone is doing it while sitting. So poverty has nothing to do with this. However, this is an act against etiquette, civility, shame and modesty. The Prophet of Allah, peace and
3:05 blessings be upon him, has said that when you lose all modesty, you can do whatever you want. So now all shame and modesty is over. Sometimes people are urinating etc. and they have no concern for shame or modesty. They have nothing to do with shame or modesty. They are not even worried. Children are also passing by, women are also passing by. Just peeing while standing. So this is a wrong thing. This is an act against shame and modesty. This is an act against the Sunnah. Number four: being lazy in praying. You should leave the namaz. This is a very big crime anyway. Reciting namaz lazily. So strict statements have been made against such people in the Holy Quran. There is full Muslim destruction and ruin for those who offer such prayers. Which ones? Alzadina Salatsa Those who are lazy in their prayers. So being lazy in prayer is a very
3:52 big sin. Calling parents by their names. I have noticed that in many areas people call their parents by their names. So it is wrong to call parents by their names. This is against etiquette. It has nothing to do with poverty. Parents should not be called by their names. And some people call their parents in a very rude manner. Hey old man, hey old man, you should not speak like this. His name should be taken with respect and love. In a video, someone was saying that doing wudu in the toilet leads to poverty. Nowadays attached toilet bathrooms are in use. Hey brother, wudu can be done in the toilet. Nowadays attached toilets are becoming bathrooms. And the toilet should be kept clean. Nowadays there are attached toilet bathrooms, if you
4:38 keep your bathroom dirty then there will be dirt there too. Isn't it? There is dirt in the toilet too. The bathroom is dirty too. There could be dirt in your room too. It could also be in your bed. It can happen on your body also. So doing wudu in the toilet, toilet attached toilet bathroom which are there nowadays. We are going on. There is no harm in this. And this has nothing to do with Berkatti whatsoever. However, we should keep the toilet bathroom clean. So, it is absolutely wrong that doing wudu in the toilet causes discomfort. This is not right. It is against the Sunnah to leave food and drinks on the dastarkhwan. If something falls on the table, we should pick up the fallen thing and eat it. So this is against the Sunnah. Isn't it? Barbarity has nothing to do with this. Yes, you will develop a habit of doing something against the Sunnah. So it
5:23 is obvious that in any house where activities are done against Sunnah, Nusat will definitely come there. The shameless thing will come. Burning the peels of onion and garlic usually does not happen in homes, but those who have stoves, peel the onion and garlic etc. and put the peels of the same in the stove, it has nothing to do with barbarity at all. Ok ? If someone burns the peels of onion and garlic on the stove, there is no problem in it. Using a cloth as a broom. Sometimes women wipe something with a cloth or clean the kitchen etc. with a cloth. So someone was saying that I had seen it written in a book that it should be cleaned only with a broom. It's not like that. Cloth can also be used. Barakati has nothing to do with this. Sweeping at night is a very famous thing. No, one should not sweep the floor at night.
6:09 Why should it not be applied? She comes to the house unnecessarily. Hey brother, you can sweep whenever there is a need to sweep. Now suppose there was some program at night and there was dirt, did you sleep in the dirt? You will spend the night with the filth. I will have to sweep. So sweep at night. There is no crime in this and it has nothing to do with vanity. You can sweep at night. Sew worn clothes: Once you wore a cloth and it was torn from here, so I was watching a video in which they were telling that if you have worn a cloth and then sew it again then it creates tearing. Barbarity has nothing to do with this. Yes, if you sew worn clothes with this then you may get hurt. So it is better to take off the clothes. Then you get it stitched. It is better to get worn clothes stitched. It is justified. No
6:55 problem. There is no harm in it. Barakati has nothing to do with this. Wiping the face with the clothes one is wearing is similar to how people wipe their face with the sleeves of their kurta. So this has nothing to do with barbarity. Yes, this method is not good. It just happens that sometimes when the need arises, we also reach there like this. What's the problem with doing this? There is no harm in cleaning the mouth with a cloth. And there is no brutality involved in this. Ok? Spider webs inside the house are a sign of dirtiness. One thing is to clean the house and the other is to keep the house clean. You are cleaning the house but are not able to maintain the cleanliness. If you are not able to maintain it then spider webs appear. Berakati has nothing to do with the spider web. Ok? It is wrong to sit on a pillow. Because the
7:42 head is placed on top of the pillow. Now when you sit on the pillow, there is a dirty place. Is n't it? So it is not appropriate to sit on the pillow. Such manners are against etiquette. Apart from this, it has nothing to do with barbarity. Ok? Now suppose there is a pillow which is retired at home, then people use it for sitting. There is no problem. Similarly, eat the bread by cutting it with your teeth. During our childhood, there was a grandmother in our house who was our maternal grandmother etc. But we had a great grandmother. Sorry, our grandmother also used to say that bread should not be eaten by biting it with teeth. Often kids make whole rolls and eat them. Now burgers and pizzas have started becoming popular. So the right way to eat roti is to make a morsel of roti and eat it. Isn't it? Make a morsel and eat it.
8:27 But that happens in childhood, I made the role. Then make a roll and bite it with your teeth. Children can eat it. There is no harm in this. It is a burger, you won't make it into a morsel and eat it. There are rolls, chicken rolls etc. and many more rolls are available. So how will you eat it? You can eat it by biting it with your teeth. It is eaten by biting it with the teeth. Isn't it? Well, if you make a morsel and take it inside, then you will be biting it with your teeth as well while taking it inside. So there is no harm in this. Now you have to see who has the good taste ? So it is more elegant to eat it by breaking it with hands and making morsels. So you can say that this is against etiquette. But it is a burger, you break it with your hands and then eat it, it is eaten like this only. So, cutting the bread with teeth and eating it has no connection with any blessing or barbarity. This can be said to be against etiquette. So making morsels and
9:13 eating them is a good way and similarly just picking up Puri (fried bread) and eating it is an inappropriate way. You will be called a Beslike one. It is prohibited in Shariat to say bad things to children. One should not say bad things to children. Sometimes mothers get angry at their children and say bad things to them. This should not be done. Ok? Do n't be ungrateful and harass me. Most women remain ungrateful. No matter what her husband does, she will remain ungrateful. She will keep crying about her hardships all day long. Hey this happened that happened. What to do? He is very upset. Look, he has flourished in his house. This is AC, this is that. He will continue crying. This leads to distress and helplessness. This is Allah's promise, this is Allah's blessing. But if you are thankful to Allah then Allah will increase your blessings and if you are ungrateful then Allah will
9:59 take away your blessings. So, they cry and complain about ungratefulness and hardship to their husbands all day long, this brings hardship in the house. Well, it is also said that a broken comb should not be used. This causes fearlessness. Broken cup, broken glass. So look, if Allah has given you the opportunity, you are a gentleman. You can buy a new comb. So you should not use a broken comb or a broken cup. But suppose a person is poor, then he cannot bring new cups, new glasses, new plates, new combs. So will there be barbarity in his house ? No no brother, it is not like that. It's not like that. So, despite using a broken comb or hairbrush, are you a gentleman? So this is ungratefulness to the names of Allah. So brother, this is anyway wrong. But this has nothing to do with any brutality or
10:47 niceness. Ok? Similarly, it is said that one should wear clothes while standing and should not wear clothes while standing. This causes irritation. So it is not like that. Yes, wearing clothes while standing is prohibited in the Hadith. It is mentioned in the Hadith that one should change clothes while sitting. Ok? Eating in the dark. Who eats food in the dark? If someone intentionally eats in the dark or there is no light in the house, then light a small lamp. This is why one should not eat food in the dark. If a mosquito comes and falls, or an insect comes and falls, will you know ? Bebarkati has nothing to do with this. Eating food in impurity. So I was seeing in the video that one should not eat food in a state of impurity. The fearlessness comes. Hey brother, I don't know how to be rude. Yes, one should not remain impure. Suppose it is winter. There is no arrangement for hot water or water cannot be arranged. Now you
11:32 are impure. You are in a state of Janabaat. The husband and wife have just finished meeting and now there is no possibility of taking a bath. There is no hot water. There is a problem whatever it is. Let's assume he is feeling lazy, can't he eat something ? I can't drink it. This is not right. So, this is a useless thing. Well, it is also said that the slippers are lying upside down in the house, if the slippers are lying upside down in the house then it brings bad luck. This also has no connection. Wearing slippers upside down is against manners and etiquette. I mean, do n't these people have any good manners? That is why it is said, keep your slippers straight brother. Some man takes off his slippers like this and goes away. His slippers turned upside down. Firstly, it is against the etiquette and there is no etiquette in it. This would be called keeping the broom upright. Keep the broom lying down. Someone was telling that there is a video made on broom. I was looking at Instagram. I sat down holding my head. And what surprised me even more was
12:18 that these useless and nonsense things have millions of views. He was telling that the broom should be held like this. Should not be applied at night. If you keep the broom like this, this will happen. If you keep it that way then this will happen. After listening to his video, I started thinking that people will start hating the broom and say that if there is so much fuss about the broom then throw it out of the house. Isn't it? You can keep the broom as you wish. Keep it upside down, keep it straight. It's your choice. Ok? Apply it whenever you want, it's your choice. So there is no point in keeping the broom standing. Ok? So these are those things which are prevalent in the society, doing them brings disorder and we are not able to differentiate as to which thing is wrong, which thing is right, who is related to whom. So I hope that after listening to all these things, you must have come to know that which things are against the Sunnah, which things are against etiquette and
13:04 manners, which things are against cleanliness, I hope that now this video will help you a lot in avoiding the ignorant things and ignorant things that are prevalent on the social media, share it. Pass it on to others.
