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0:00 Most men try to impress women, but the ones she can't stop thinking about, they do something completely different. There's a feminine law of seduction that most dating coaches rarely talk about. It's not about intensity or about what you say or dress. It's about prolonging satisfaction. Because when you rush to sex, the attraction spikes, but then, as we've all seen, it instantly drops. They disappear. But when you stretch it out the right way, something strange begins to happen. It creates a buildup that's gradual, chemical, and sticks in her mind long after you're gone. Very few men have the discipline to do this, but when you do, that's usually when women say, "I don't know what it is about him.
0:45 I can't just get him out of my head." So, let's talk about what's actually happening. This will actually, if you actually manage to do this, you a lot if you actually manage to do this, you're going to see some really quick results. Um, one, you're going to get less ghosting, okay? Less ghosting from women. Um, women are going to call you back more. They're going to want to see you more. Um, women will fall in love with you much faster. Um, but you're going to see some drawbacks, and that's sometimes you may not have se you may not have sex with some of them. Okay? Um, you may lose some of them, but what you'll notice is that the few that you keep that that the few that you keep stay with you longer. Um because some women are sex freaks. Um the the the sex
1:30 freaks, the avoidant women, which avoidant women are the ones you see at clubs and bars. Um avoidant women are the are the ones with the glugy glug. Avoidant women are the strippers. Avoidant women are the women that you meet while traveling. You see what I'm saying? Those fun eccentric women. Um, if you do this on them, they may they may lose interest because they're not capable of liking someone long term. They're not capable of being obsessed with one person. They jump from person to person emotionally. So, this doesn't work on those [ __ ] dick bunny hap dick bunny habers who travel around who are emotionally distant because what you what you're creating is emotional closeness. You're creating an emotional obsession and avoidant women a lot of
2:17 the times they're just too independent and to be quite frank selfish. It's all about them. [ __ ] You date one of these women, they'll make you eat her out. I'm telling you. So this doesn't work on every woman. Um and but the women that are not avoidant, listen guys, this [ __ ] works. If she's if she's insecurely attached or even disorganized attachment or securely attached, women are going to react to this. Um, I started doing this. I used to call it small dick game, right? Because this is what guys with small dicks do actually. They they don't have sex with a woman too soon. They wait till she likes them and then they pull out their dizzy. So, the core idea is that this is a feminine style of seduction. Prolonging satisfaction. That's what women do to
3:02 us. And not rushing to the intensity. Even with kisses, guys. I don't kiss a woman until the second or third date or until I see that she's [ __ ] wanting it. Why? Because you want to you want to create that buildup through dopamine. But then if you release too much dopamine in a woman who's avoidant, she her body may not release a m as much as oxytocin that allows her to see you as somebody that she thinks about all the time. It's the oxytocin that really makes her think of you non-stop. The dopamine, which is laying down the pipe. Yeah, she'll think about you before the meeting. And yes, she'll see you and like what she sees, but without the oxytocin, she's not going to think back about you. And then another hormone we're going to talk about is vasopressin. That's the hormone where if
3:48 you guys are on the same team, you build a bond because you guys, it's us against the world. And we and so you we're going to be using oxytocin and vasopressin to seduce these hoes. All right. So So why it works? Fast experiences create big dopamine spikes and then drop. I don't want you guys to do that. Slower extended connection stays in a woman's mind longer. So the oxytocin, let's talk about that hormone. It's very important and I'm going to show you guys how to how to create how to build oxytocin in a woman builds through touch, closeness, and relax and relaxation. Okay? So that means that you guys are watching TV or you guys are walking in the park and you guys are just you have your hand over her. You're rubbing her
4:34 her her hand, right? You're you're you're giving her soft touches. Those the soft touches that your mom used to give you when you were a kid and that put you to sleep. Those are some of our most core memories. And so women fall in love with guys that could put that could recreate that like relaxing touch, that relaxing. And I'm going to show you guys how to do it. When you're with a woman and you're watching a movie, just go like that. Just put her hand around her around her shoulder. Make touch it and just go like that with her hands. Just go like that. Like a press. You're pressing it. You're you're relax. It's a hypn it's hypnotic guys. you're relaxing her body so that her her cortisol levels go down which rem because high cortisol stress I don't stress or I don't like
5:21 this or I'm nervous blocks the the oxytocin receptors. So even if they're there high stress and and not being relaxed blocks her from experiencing oxytocin and thus connect with you. This is so powerful that even animals who have babies and they're not their babies, but if an animal sucks on her nipple as a like like a [ __ ] cow, they it releases oxytocin and they connect with that non species animal. It's the same thing with this. The soft touches tells her brain, I'm safe. Let me relax. Let me close my eyes. And that increases the connection. But the sex, if you have sex with her after that, I'm telling you, prolong it as much as you could because the not having sex and going home and and having that relaxing experience. But
6:09 with no sex, guys, that [ __ ] [ __ ] with women, man. It's it's it drives them crazy. The no sex is what gets her thinking about you. Don't be selfish and don't give that up. I know it sounds crazy from a guy, but she's going to say, "What the [ __ ] This guy's this guy. I never met a guy like this. I spend time with him. I just feel relaxed and after that I'm just horny. But he's he he's he says he wants to wait to look. I've done that guys. This is it's a friend zone to be honest with you. Um so what this does it creates trust. The longer the connected moments last and the more relaxed and sleepy you put her through touch careful the more the brain link links you with that feeling. So whenever she feels stress at work she's going to say let me text Mark. let me
6:54 text Tyrone because you put her in that state. The next um hormone. So remember oxytocin is created by just doing simple things. Um it's created by watching a movie and sitting close to each other and it it's done by sleeping with each other even having sex after sex. Actually after sex it's what and remember what bonds a woman is a is is is the oxytocin after sex. Oxytocin is the way you bond with women. Not through gaming her with words, not through giving her gifts, but through literally h putting her in a hypnotic relaxing state through soft touches. Another one is going like this. Literally, guys, listen guys, I swear to God. Listen. When you're sitting out with a girl, just do this as you're talking to her. Just put get have her hand and just go like that. Squeeze or even squeeze like that. Just squeeze. Let me show you.
7:42 This is very important. Sorry. I I use I use um charcoal to to draw so my hands are always dirty. So, you just go like that. You just squeeze. You're just squeezing. You just squeeze like that. Right? You see that? You're relaxing. You're putting her in a hypnotic state. And then then the arm, you remember, you're just squeezing. This is like a massage, right? But it's a type of massage that that lowers your defenses, releases GABA, and allows it to be to be completely relaxed. Women get horny when that happens. Next one is vasopressin. This is how we bond, but women also bond this way, but just not to the same level of intensity. But I want you guys to apply it. Vasopressin is linked to the attachment and memory,
8:27 right? It builds it's it's it's um it's what it's it's the hormone that allows you to say he's on my team. It's the hormone that says me and you fought a bear together and we fought we fought together and beat him. I could trust you. It's me and you were went went to war in the army and we came back together and and survived. We're brothers for life. That's brothers for life. Me and you were um um um I for example I um I'm the only Chinese kid in in an African country and I meet another Chinese kid. We're together. We feel that's vasopression. Whoa. We we're me and you are the only Chinese one and a bunch of a bunch of um Africans here. We're you know you naturally gravitate towards that. It's like when you go to
9:13 [ __ ] China and there's and you meet an American, you're naturally going to gravitate towards them. That's vasopressent. Us against the world. But and that's what happens as you become a family or as you grow with a woman, the vast suppression increases. And it usually increases with in the relationship, having kids, problem solving, um knowing where to move, fixing something in the house. And if you guys don't know how to solve problems, it creates what? Um um um not vasopressor, not oxytocin. um um um the the stress hormone which blocks a woman as well oxytocin, right? So fat suppressant connect is is you you do this by overcoming challenges together, right? Um going through stress together and overcoming it, right? So for example, it could be that maybe um you
10:00 guys go to a twoon two layers attack tournament where it's you and her or maybe you guys go on a roller coaster and it's scary and you guys hold each other's arm. You're like, "Fuck, I can't. We got to make it through this roller coaster." And you're scared. And so she holds you because she's [ __ ] scared. Stress. And now our connection lowers the stress, right? Maybe you guys um maybe you you guys do a a a you guys go to a board game night where it's you versus somebody else, right? Or anything where you guys are a team. with me with the with the Max that I had, we used to go to I used to have an art event and I was very nervous and we would do it together and she would say, "It's okay, Alexis. Everything's going to be good. Don't worry about it, man. I'm going to make sure I'mma post flyers. You just make sure you do the
10:46 event and it's good. I know it's going to be good." And when it was done, I was like, "Oh, man. That went well." She was like, "Yeah, that went well. High five." And we felt like a team. Teamwork, right? Anything where you guys are a team and you guys are facing anything outside, do that. That those could be dates, right? I remember I went on a like I said, I went on a date with a girl on a laser tag where it was two on two laser tag. We lost, but we lost together. That builds a connection over time, right? It could be that maybe you guys play video games together, but I prefer if it's you and her versus another couple, right? All right. So, it could be maybe you guys play Uno together was you and her versus another couple and you guys, that's the whole point. Be a team, have win a few victories while being a team, and that
11:33 builds a connection. She's going to say, "Oh my god, he's like a friend, but at the same time, and we connect, but [ __ ] I want to [ __ ] him." See guys, when experiences are prolonged and consistent, that suppressant helps create a stronger association between you and that emotional experience. Right? So I want So the key to this method of seduction is that there's no huge spikes. Um because big spikes create big drop off and that's why a lot of you guys are meeting women and they're leaving you quickly, right? Um, when it's prolonged, it's steady. It bonds deeper. It's like, if you guys know what Roman brick is, Roman Roman brick doesn't get doesn't break after thousands of years because
12:19 they they they they heat they heat it up in an oven multiple times at low temperature for weeks, which creates so so which creates which makes the the the the brick tight and water can't enter it. Um, modern bricks, we only heat it up once and at a really high temperature and it breaks down after a few a few decades. Why? Because it was quick. Things that are slow last longer. Always remember that. Um, you're not chasing intensity, okay? You're creating consistency, right? And simplicity over time. Now, the discipline is that a lot of you guys just are horny. They y'all just you guys don't have discipline. You guys want [ __ ] all the time. So, this might not work for some of you guys. Um, you guys got to get to the point where you guys
13:04 can see the value in this. Some 90% of the guys are not going to do this. Um, so, so remember man, go slow, right? Focus on on on prolonging the sex as much as possible because after not when when you don't have sex with her, she's going to think about why, right? Let that prolong in her mind. She's going to think about you non-stop after the sex. If you guys connected physically in a in a in a soft way, not through laying down the pipe, that's gonna confuse the [ __ ] out of her and she's gonna say, "What the [ __ ] What the hell's going on, right?" And then you make sure you guys do things where you guys are a team where you guys tackle things together. Maybe maybe you guys maybe you learn how to give her more orgasm and she learns how to suck good dick, right? So you guys she you watch her you have her watch a class, she has you watch a class
13:50 and then you guys perform and after that if you guys do well, you guys high five each other. Yo, you saw some good dick. And she was like, "Yo, man, you lay down the pipe. I've never seen you lay that pipe that lay that pipe down like that before." Right? And the beauty about it is that you're you're you're showing to each other that holy [ __ ] we can make a good couple. It works. I'm telling you, this is a slow way of doing it. Um, you just got to make sure you you put yourself in a position where you meet women in a natural way. Some of y'all can only meet women online. And the problem is that most of the women online are avoiding attachment style. And so naturally, they're going to flake more. Naturally, they're going to do [ __ ] They're going to ghost you. They're they just don't give a [ __ ] You got to understand that online women, most of these women have antisocial traits. They have tough times meeting people in real life. And a lot
14:36 of times when you have a tough time connecting with people, it means something went wrong in childhood, which naturally could potentially make you an avoidant. a woman who likes sex, who likes stimulation because she she can't connect and once she connects, she might fear the intimacy and so she leaves and finds somebody else who could keep her in her comfort zone of distance. Telling you, half of the battle is that some of you guys are are just dealing with women who don't give a [ __ ] about connecting with anyone, so they'll ghost you. This explains why, man. I'm telling you, man, I had some really tough experiences online, and it was all because of those [ __ ] avoidant [ __ ] bro. These women don't give a [ __ ] They'll ghost you. They'll flake you and make you feel like [ __ ] Get away from them. They're going to ruin your self-esteem, man. Um, meet people
15:23 in real life. Basketball, I play basketball. I have an art group and I have a meditation group. I can meet people like that. I'm not doing online is like the easiest way to ruin your mindset. Like, it's going to [ __ ] with you so much, man. It's like I feel bad because some guys take the results they get from online dating personal. It's like no, you're dealing with weird people, so you should judge them accordingly. Anyways, so remember um so the guys the guys women can't stop thinking about usually aren't the most intense, right? Um oh [ __ ] They usually aren't the most intense. Um they're the ones who don't rush to sex. They're the ones who don't rush to dopamine. um they stretch out the moment just enough for the woman to have time to bond with you
16:08 through oxytocin and vasopressin so that it builds up slowly and that's what makes her think about you non-stop because you're releasing a a a a a very diverse set of set of hormones that snatches dopamine and and that's very that makes you stand out. Let me know what you guys think. If you guys want to learn more about this, check out my course Dark Game. I teach you guys how to create these type of experiences. It sounds dark, but it has a lot of good qualities. Um, and if you don't know how to manage your emotions because it's tough because and and you don't know how to prolong the sex, check out my course, Emotional Mastery. And if you guys want to work with me oneonone, go to mindfulattraction.org. I hope you guys enjoy this new format.
