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0:02 How women act around attractive men. Hi guys, my name is Christine and I'm a dating relationship and personal development coach. Today I'm talking about how women act around attractive men and also how you can become more like the attractive men that women find intensely drawn to. Okay, so let's get into how the signs and the the the behaviors that you're going to see from women who are super attracted to a guy, okay? So if a woman is really attracted to a guy, um then she's going to laugh more, giggle more, that kind of thing, okay? So they're going to be more they're going to even laugh at jokes that he says that aren't
0:48 even really that funny, but they but but because they like him so much they get any opportunity to sort of giggle around him. Uh this this going to happen, right? Right, cuz she she she's just so enamored by him. Um another thing another behavior that you'll see as well that women will do when they're around a man that they find attractive is they will preen themselves, right? They will adjust their clothing, they may play with their hair, um they you know, adjust their you know, adjust things on themselves, you know, things like that. They and they're going to be very conscious of their body language too. So they they may tilt their head a little bit more. Um they may um what another thing that you'll notice as well is that their pupils will dilate. Now that's a bit of a difficult thing to catch on
1:34 to cuz you have to be like really staring at them and say, "Are your pupils dilating for me?" Right? You know, right? Right? But what you'll see is that there will be a a bit of a shine in their eyes. Like that it's almost like their eyes are smiling. That's what it means, right? It's not like a forced smile. It's not like a you know, it's like a you can see the sparkle in their eyes almost, right? You can see the emotion behind the eyes. Um and you can you can also see like the crow's feet in their eyes as well cuz when someone is sort of faking a smile, their eyes sort of don't really, you know, do much. They it's sort of you can sort of see it. You can see that it's sort of fake. But if someone is smiling genuinely, if a woman is smiling genuinely, then you'll notice that you'll get the crow's feet in in the corners of her eyes and things like that. And you'll notice as well that there'll be a shine in her eyes, okay? It's cuz she's genuinely smiling.
2:21 Okay? Um, another thing that you'll see that women do with men they find attractive is they will treat those guys differently than everyone else. So if you're observing in your work environment, if you're at work, or if you're at school, if you're still studying, if you're at college or something like that, university, notice how um, they treat those guys differently. So for example, they may, um, want to be more physically closer to them. They may, um, again, preen themselves more. They may smile more with that guy. They may um laugh more with that guy, giggle more around with that guy. So just notice how they behave around that guy, the attractive guy, as opposed to everyone else okay? Um, another thing that you'll notice
3:07 that women will do if they find a man attractive is they will try and be around him more. So they will try and close the proximity. So this may be like literally like she may literally want to be closer to him. So when she's talking to him, she'll be physically closer to him than she is everybody else. Um, um, and she will go to places where he she knows that he's going to be, okay? So for example, if a guy is working at a completely different side of the building or he's going to if you're a student, you're at a different side of the building, going to a different class, she will find a way to cross his path in some way. She will try to, you know, take the longer route where she knows that he's going to going to be, um, in like a cafeteria or things like that, you know, where you go and have your lunch. She she's more likely those women who are attracted to that
3:53 guy are more likely to be sitting around him. They may not physically just plonk themselves right next to him, even though they might do. They Some women can do that sometimes, but they're going to be just like physically around him more. They're going to want to be around his presence more, especially if they have a really, really deep crush on that guy. >> [snorts] >> Another thing you'll notice as well is, you know, with those women who perhaps do find him attractive, but perhaps are not really friends with him, not really talking to him that much, they'll look at him. They'll just be looking at him. Every so often they'll they'll take a look at him and glance at him, and maybe they'll talk to their girlfriend about about him. They'll be They'll be doing things like that, right? Okay. >> [snorts] >> Um So, as well, that's sort of that's sort of like the behavior that you tend to see with women who are less shy and a
4:40 little bit more extroverted. But what about those women that are shy, right? Cuz they're going to behave a little bit differently. So, they're still going to want to try and be around him, but they may not like physically go up to him and talk to him, cuz if they're super shy, then they'll probably not do that. But they'll still look over at him. Um when he's around, they'll she'll probably still adjust her clothing, adjust her hair. Um and she What you you'll find is that actually she'll look kind of insecure, cuz that's how she That's probably how he's making her feel. She's He's cuz he's so good-looking, so attractive, makes her feel somewhat inferior, so she starts to behave a little bit more reserved. Now, what you need to pay attention to is this though, cuz there is a bit of a caveat with that. And that is with Don't assume that a woman is shy.
5:28 Um and what I mean by that is if most of the time she's really extroverted, like she's extroverted with other people, and then suddenly a guy comes over and she starts acting more shy, um it could be because that guy actually makes her feel uncomfortable. So, as you can see, like there's there's no These are all signs, but sometimes it can mean some completely something different cuz obviously everybody is different. Like if especially if she is extroverted most of the time, and then all of a sudden this guy comes over to her and starts talking to her, it could be that he's actually making her a bit uncomfortable. Um but it could also mean that she's attracted to him. So it's a bit of a It's one of those things, but so you have to sort of pay attention a lot to to these different things. Now, if you're hoping then to become one of these attractive guys that women find really appealing, that
6:14 women want want to be around more, but you sort of feel like, "Well, I'm not tall enough. I don't have enough money, or I'm not good-looking enough." Whatever it may be. There is a certain energy and a sort of um something you can develop within yourself that can make women be more drawn to you even if you're not necessarily the most attractive guy on the planet, okay? Because attraction, one of the things that helps with attraction is a certain kind of energy, okay? So if you're very playful, and you're fun, and you know how to banter with women, you're not afraid to um you know, tease them, things like that, that can start creating that kind of romantic energy. Okay? So if you're fun, you're positive, you're lighthearted, um you're not
7:01 you're not taking yourself or anyone too seriously, you know how to joke with women, you know how to strike up conversations with women, you know how to make them smile, you know how to make them laugh, then that is the energy that you'll that you want to try and start tapping into, okay? And start doing so that you can become more like the attractive guy that she will be more that women will find will will will be more interested in because you've got that energy about you that's not afraid to play, that's not afraid to banter, that's not afraid to tease. And when you when you've got that kind of energy, and you can pretty much do that with anyone, um then you can create some great moments, and you can create more attraction in women, Okay, cuz women respond really, really well to that behavior. They love it when
7:46 a guy can make them laugh and you know, genuinely make them laugh, make them smile. And and one of the best ways to do that is to just have fun and to just to tease and just banter. Okay? Um another thing that will attract women to you like a moth to the flame, literally like a moth to the flame is this. If you're able to keep your nervous system regulated and you can be a calming presence. Okay? So the idea is that is that you want to have this sort of calm energy about you as well. So of course you want to be fun, you want to have be positive, you want to be able to banter, you want to be able to tease, you want to be able to play, but you also want to be calm. Okay? And to almost the analogy the sort of like analogy that I like to to discuss in terms of this is you want to act as though that you're like a
8:33 mountain, nothing bothers you. Nothing can stir you, nothing can push you over. And even when you enter a room and there's women in there that you may find attractive and maybe sometimes you usually just have butterflies in your stomach, just say to yourself the words calm. Calm, calm, slower. Do everything slower. Um and you may even want to say something like tranquility like in your head. Just just say something like that. And just also ask yourself the question, how would someone with a regulated nervous system behave right now? That's a good question to ask yourself when you enter a room. It's even a good question to ask yourself before you go out on a date. So if you've got that fun, you've got that positive energy, you're you're able to tease, you're you're able to play, but you're also slow and calm.
9:18 And uh you've got that and you ask yourself that question, how would a regu- person with a regulated nervous system behave in this moment? Then you're going to be like a moth to a flame to those women and you will become a guy who they find more appealing and more drawn to, find more attractive, even if you feel like you're not the most good looking guy on the planet. And of course, when it comes to looks, there are always things that you can improve upon, right? Um you know, for example, if you're overweight, you can trim down. If you feel like you're too skinny, you can build muscle. If you have struggles with those, what I'd suggest that you do is find a good nutritionist, um do do plenty of research on those things. Obviously, I'm just a coach online. I can't tell you what to do um when it comes to your health. Um so, if you feel that you are struggling with the those areas, then what I would do is seek help from a
10:04 professional that can help you with those things. And then also as well, if you're like even sure like, "Well, I don't even know how to dress. I don't even know how to dress attractively." Then what you can do is you can actually go to one of the more expensive stores, okay? Now, listen cuz you think that oh, she wants me to spend money on clothes. Just just listen, right? Just just wait, right? Just just wait for it. She just wants me to spend my money on clothes. Go to a place where the clothes are more expensive because usually in those places, there is someone that can help you, right? There's usually someone who's trying to sell like ties or something like that, right? A sales person, right? That's the that's the right word. So, you go up to them and say, "Hey, look, I'm thinking about changing my wardrobe. What do What clothes do you think suit me, okay?" And then let them
10:50 suit you and boot you. Let them do it. Let them suit you and boot you. And maybe yeah, maybe there is something that you may want to buy from that shop, okay? But what you want to do is you want to take notes on what they've they've they've got you. You may even give them your phone, right? And tell them to take photos of you in your new outfit, right? And or in these different kind of outfits. You're like, "Well, I'm kind of looking for a smart, you know, outfit. I'm looking for a casual outfit, you know, one that I can wear to work, stuff like that. Tell me what you think is good." And get them to take a photo of it. Now, if you don't have the money to buy those clothes, right? You can say, "Great. Well, what I'm going to do is I'm just going to look over these photos and come back a bit later and and buy something then." And what you do is you just don't come back, okay? [laughter] Go to a cheaper shop, right? Or even go to like a thrift store where they sell old clothes and just find
11:36 clothes that sort of look like the clothes that they got you cuz now you got it on your phone, you got pictures of you in these nice clothes on your phone. You can go and find clothes that are similar, but for much cheaper and in the right sizes and, you know, and just buy those, right? And you may be able to get them really, really cheap if you go somewhere, you know, that's that's even like a discount store, a discount shop where you get cheaper stuff or you go online and find cheaper clothes there or you literally go to a second-hand shop or thrift store, okay? And buy them there. Buy things that look like them there. Will be the same quality? Obviously not, but you'll be able to find something. I'm pretty sure you'll be able to find something. In fact, I'm confident you'll be able to find something that matches, that looks somewhat like what they've the they've they've helped you out with. Okay, so if you're looking for that, that's a good shout, good a good idea
12:23 that you can do, okay? So if you'd like coaching with me, um and you need help with a specific situation, let's say you're trying to re-attract a woman, perhaps there's a woman at work or at your university that you find attractive, that you want to like you more, then please reach out. The email coaching is in the description. Um and what email coaching entails is you just tell me everything that's going on. Tell me everything about the situation and I'll get you from where you are to where you want to be, okay? Um so if you want to attract her, if you want to become more attractive, if you want to know what kind of behaviors women find more attractive, um if you want to get a woman who was once interested in you more interested in you again, then go and grab yourself some coaching and that is the cheapest option on my website. Um but there is other options too if you are interested in
13:08 maybe a phone call, but just know if you want a phone call with me, my availability is very, very low and I'm fully booked now until September, okay? So that's So and also it's a big purchase as well. So what I suggest that you do is if you're interested in having a phone call with me, just reach out to me. The my email's on my website www.christineloveridge.com. Just reach out to me and say, "Hey, look, I'm interested in the the phone coaching um and then we can just have a little chat and see if it will actually work out for you because it is a lot of money to pay. So, thank you so much for watching and I shall talk to you again very soon. Goodbye.
