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0:00 The reason he does it is because he wants to justify it. He himself is continuing this bad behavior. If he does not find a marriage, he himself will be the one who makes it happen He continues on this path and does not get married at all, that is me Let me, I mean, I'm sorry, I'm impersonating the young man who I really suffer from this issue and I can't Does it mean that anyone can live without marriage? Other than masturbation or venting about this topic in the shadow of The things that surround us everywhere, I mean At least once or twice a week. Hello everyone, how are you? How about a new episode of the podcast Lessons or What? Between brackets, the platform is a long-awaited episode Pornography, sex, masturbation addiction and watching
0:46 These are the things that the average person today can afford. Or he might watch nudity, pornography and sex. More than one day, maybe one day One watches these things more than kings The Earth together from our master Adam until before the appearance of The Internet means you can watch it alone. In one day more than all the kings of the earth saw him Over the course of their lives, over thousands, even tens of thousands Thousands of years of thinking about it, but that's it You have been given permission to enter something that is difficult. Deep hole of pornography and masturbation addiction All this talk is a deep hole that hardly anyone can climb. He is destined to survive it all, he has to slide in it I did it intentionally or unintentionally, by chance, and in the
1:33 He can recover and there are those who can get out of it The hole is dead and on the other side there are people coming out It is located second, third and fourth to some extent. It gets to the point where he might lose hope. Pure that he can never recover from This matter, but hope exists and there are people of praise God has destined them to recover, so there is hope. The episode with Dr. Mohamed Abdel Gawad is Addiction specialist and conscious initiative owner What is it that you are struggling with or helping people to do? They get over the hole in their lives and recover from it. Addiction to pornography, masturbation and such things We tried as much as possible to provide solutions. A real process, not just empty talk. For the application or it is a word that seems from its appearance like this It is true, sweet and beautiful, but we will come to apply it We will find something, God willing, this episode will be
2:20 Strong motivation A turning point in the life of any person afflicted with addiction Pornography and masturbation, Viella Bina, in the name of God Welcome, Doctor. May God bless you. What's up? Thank God. It's a thorny issue, but I... I think for you it would be like a picnic. I mean because of the great experience in this matter Thank God, thank God, God willing, you are awake now It's been 10 years now, so I started... August 2014 2014 Oh, we are in Glory to God August 2024, what is the topic? I think he was killed recently in many videos Podcasts, articles and posts but Always
3:09 He cites matters and names things differently. Its names and avoid engaging with this topic Despite its importance and difficulty, God willing That means we intend or we intend that the matter Be in some kind of Al-Bahbouha is a bit of a luxury in the presentation. No, no, of course not. Yes. We call things by their proper names because it means like like like. Unfortunately, there is a societal phenomenon here. A: It is possible that you do not condemn the act, but you condemn it. The word that expresses the action of people's denunciation The expression may be more severe than the denunciation of the act itself. So let's leave it, what do you mean? I hope that you This would be fine for you. No, not very much. This is what I call for, it's beautiful, it's beautiful, I love it
3:55 This matter is good, it is just a beginning. We are just getting to know each other. What is consciousness? Oh, what does consciousness mean? The beginning means the beginning and through it you know So, what are we now? It's August. 2014 The idea started personally I just didn't know anyone I was talking about. This issue or not to communicate with anyone is the idea It all happened by chance We say it is God Almighty's destiny for us Our Lord has honored us by giving us what we do In this field, we remain pioneers in it.
4:40 Thank God, we continue, and you know the work of course. This volunteer measures his success by many standards. The most important is continuity, development and your reliance on yourself As a team, it means that the team is the one that performs the service. She doesn't need anyone else's help, thank God. We have achieved these standards and more. It is beautiful. But how did she come? It came from a purely calculated standpoint I mean, first of all, I am a doctor chest physician Medicine and stuff like that, even though I had no awareness No, I don't even think about the fact that there is such a thing as
5:26 Sex addiction or porn addiction Exactly, and the evidence is that when I came, I mean The beginning was what Coursera I was searching for About, I mean, a course specific to my field. I mean, I I live in Saudi Arabia, of course, and thank God it was. The first time I went to Saudi Arabia, I had free time. So I heard about Coursera, so I said I'll go and see. Courses are scientific and such, I specifically wanted I see something about the one with tuberculosis By the way, until now, I have confirmed that I am Brian, not him. This is just me, I mean if there was a course that caught my attention
6:12 This name caught my attention, so I went in and saw that they were... He studies something Other types of addiction, such as food addiction Sex addiction surprised me, I mean it caught my attention I was also at that time simultaneously. I was taking a Sharia course. Back then, the forums were for me. Great popularity and activity in the days of glory. Oh, and you feel that you are In your home, there is a real community, oh, oh, real I mean, there is a place next to you in your village. Your city has a very high communication rate, so it was in Al-Aloka. The name of this network is Aloka, which used to provide legal lessons
6:58 So, I was interested at one time in The beginnings of studying Islamic science mean that it was In the section in the network, this site is called The break was what the young men were afraid of They talk about general topics and general questions. One of the top questions in the forum If the young man suffers from masturbation Masturbation and he wants advice but he doesn't know Of course, anyone does. At that time, he was going to ask this question. These were the answers. It is a repeated stereotype, especially you. What was in the Sharia forum? Yes, it is.
7:46 This is the lighting that I am used to For this person whom I do not know He knows me, glory be to God. Oh, and he was the reason for my... The whole idea started when he entered and he was a young man. Moroccan Resident in the United States of America said: His answer was different from all the answers. Which you all know is that you are the one being watched. If you fear God and fast, we are with you in all of this. Absolutely not against it at all, on the contrary, I swear it is something An origin of origins means change in all of our lives This is true, but when I look at the pornographic perspective in some people People and the arrival of behavior that it turns into behavior
8:32 Compulsive addiction is the issue that must be dealt with It has a scientific medical perspective, so it means that this is a disease. We are commanded that we, meaning if the Messenger He told us that every disease has a cure, whether it is knowledgeable or ignorant. Out of ignorance, you are supposed to be a diabetic. Aren't you going to tell him? Pray to the Prophet and ask God for this. This is an important thing. You of course, but you have to take it For the reasons why you take your medication, regulate your diet. This is important. Rather, it is basic, meaning it is correct. Okay, so this is the difference. But I am saying this part, why? So that I can continue because... Some people have allergies when they come. A little bit, oh, so you're saying that we don't... There is no monitoring, no point in saying that
9:20 Men, I mean, but what's up with Al-Hadi yet? On the contrary, on the contrary, these are basic things, but he The evidence is that when he left, he said to him what? But this young man's answer was completely different. He said to him, "There is a young man named Alex." This young American worker A blog called A Feed The Right Wolf It has a story, yes, in Wolf's knowledge and this blog is it. Put it in it The course summary is what I wrote after that. I mean books, references, and stuff in the form of simple lessons. 20 or 21 lessons He explains this problem from a scientific, physiological point of view.
10:07 And provided solutions A process that proves a new point of view that we are not We know that this is an addiction and that is what makes The person is not able to get rid of this behavior. Because as we know, one of the most important or The first steps after acknowledging the problem, of course. To change and recover from addiction is to understand The problem is not you anyway The beginning means you want to lift the embarrassment from people We say the word pornography and pornography Masturbation and sex addiction are not the basis in the first place. The problem is that you don't name it as you said Things have their names, so as long as there is a name for them It is known that any behavior that remains in the dark increases
10:56 It grows and grows and deepens Root and I don't solve it, but if you shed light On him, in the mind, yes, and the light begins to enter Your brain and you have the ability and internal readiness You are really changing. Great analogy. Oh, that's it. What really happened is that we don't want it. Guys, let's talk about pornography. This is a topic. Of course, from the Tabut, especially in the East. The middle according to traditions and customs and so on And it also takes us to the part that is the elephant in The room, I know, is your room Imagine the biggest problem you have in the whole room. You don't want to imagine Qain in an elephant with us?
11:42 What are you saying? What have you done to us? No problem or anything, I'm fine to ignore it And it worsened, so when he said, “It remains at the end.” His words will be posted in the link Blog and I hope that I will be active and translate This series is beautiful and will benefit the Arab world. What does it mean that he has no awareness of the issue? This and that, by the way, see what he meant. How is society? You always discuss what? Behavioral change requires looking at the three perspectives: Perspectives is the perspective of the
12:31 The environment and the environmental perspective and the public order in The country is F F F. You either come to solve a problem like Especially if it is related to behavioral change, you should look into it. For the verse of the three, not just one individual He was raised with psychological problems. The family is raising him. What's wrong with the environment? It has its own influence too. The public order in the state is the public order The laws and politics are all affected as well. In changing behaviors, it is of course what it is Because we know that this matter started in America, which is talking about pornography May cause addiction So real that it leads to the term being used.
13:18 They call it visual cocaine. Oh cocaine. Basri al-M and Ma'ruf cocaine It is the strongest type of drug and the most dangerous. Fataka By human [music] So what did I do? I tied it up. Between sex addiction and this one says and then this one is university Emory was a great professor who was teaching. This subject, so I said, what should I do? I will study. I took this course and found it to be a very delicious and light course. I got a good grade and passed it in the meantime. This course actually talks about these types of addiction. He told me that these are types of behavioral addiction.
14:05 Is sex addiction or addiction or And so these are the types New, it doesn't really add anything Her name means, of course, all the people who study medicine. Psychologist or specialists, this is the name of the 5th, which is Latest version 5 It is evidence. What is it called? It is statistical evidence. For American mental illnesses, America The American health system is responsible for Its release has not been officially listed. But it is placed under the study verse, that means this These types are studied and why did they put them under study? Of course, there is only one type of behavioral addiction, which is...
14:51 Listed for many years and recognized and recognized by its name Which is Jabaleen gambling gambling addiction gambling addiction This is the only official type that has a code like I don't say why we won't talk about the occasion also The World Health Organization now has evidence. The second one is the IC and the second one is the copy The last 11 This is a private matter for the doubles. Officially admit it. With sex action It could be two or three years, but it's still close. Yes, of course. By the way, they even changed the term. Addiction is addictive because it works like a feeling
15:38 No, it is a feeling of stigma towards the person who He is addicted to what I say Addicted to A Disorder Disorder Disorder even the games gamers disorder too Please include any one of you who enters any one He wants to go in and see what the code is The SD order is found here, of course They describe the cicadas without any basis on which you can judge. He is addicted to Implicitly or his action description is very clear Two entries in Portion for sure
16:26 Ok, so what's important is that we go back? Again, Fairy Wolf, this is just the beginning, I mean, I am What did I do? I went looking because it took me a long time. I was busy and I forgot where the question is Where are these replies? I've been searching. I hope God opens the door for him to come back to me I reached him and went in and saw the blog I myself am like, for example, someone is listening to us Now, it's generations, you know that there are... People who joined the Waei team tell us what that means Yes, me and me
17:12 Small means, for example, including the last year. For example, he is 20 years old, so at that time he was young, he was 12 13 years old, he says that's when I started to know the danger These things from you, and I did not imagine it until I have been a FIWA member for 10 years, which is not a small amount. I mean, 10 years is a lot. omen The lights mean I was shocked as well as the feeling that is What does it mean? Where did this astonishment come from? comments Americans on Alex's posts is Alex after So I knew that after I communicated with him and so on that This is a nickname, it's not... His name And he meant that he was not sharing his experience The character because he was an addict and the story was not
17:59 He wants to show his true identity in front of People also mean I think social awkwardness is it I don't want to show that I'm the person who happened to him Yes, no, the same people used to comment. I mean, I was the one who was shocked at the time. What does it mean? For example, he published an article. For example, a specific post will have 70 or 100 comments. on Most of the comments on this blog are pornographic. You destroyed me and kept me away from the people who I love them, I wonder what this means America is the mental image we have All of them mean that Americans are countries of sexual life. This open can lead them to this. Terrible negative feelings, that's it. What is left for one after that? I know.
18:45 What is it that you are when the limits are you when You cross the line, you enter into slavery, right? The opposite is true, there are limits to your life. These are the limits. It gives you freedom, not the other way around. For example, you are the one who... You crossed the limits of lowering your gaze, so you will become Slave to your lust Lust for sight, the release of sight, if you crossed for example The limits of not staying up late are that you stay up late and sleep in Anytime and wake up anytime as long as you stick to a sleep routine It is necessary to maintain your work and your job and such. You become Abdul for bad behavior this is a great concept I mean the limits It's not the barriers that make you feel it, but it's the barriers
19:31 Welcome, I always say that to my daughters Why are you You donate, you go out of the hour to the distress, oh you Aisha means that when a person goes out of This is not enough, on the contrary, you are free as soon as When you break the boundaries, you become a slave to something else. You use it. May God open up something very beautiful for you. Your ideas are great, Doctor, but I like... Strong examples I mean, we are still talking about Egyptian examples. entire God willing, he will be here
20:16 Frankly, I am surprised because of the obscene picture that... They have a boyfriend and a girlfriend and they have sex. From 13 to 14 years old, it's normal, I mean, not because, I mean You always look at people with a general, holistic view. No, he says to you, yes, they have freedoms. And generally happy financially from a sense of beginning Opinion, community participation, you are collecting this In your mind you say this is like one package happiness Yes, she confirmed to me that it really is. This sexual freedom is the way to destroy it. Your life is actually true because it is amazing energy.
21:04 This sexual energy is a very, very large energy. The most powerful energies that humans have are if I went out to the channel that God Almighty created It turns into something like I told you, what a way Self-destruction means addiction in the first place. This behavior towards the soul is actually despite the fact that He seems to be having fun, I mean it's definitely a good behavior. It is a fun behavior, but it is also a harmful behavior. Self-destructive Why don't we move on to the topic of marriage?
21:51 When did I start to become aware? Oh, what is this? What is this? So what did I do? I went and saw the blog. I liked it Because it was the first time I read anything. Brain changes that occur in the brain When someone sees a video of a normal Smiley content photo She is sexy and how she changes Chemist, but after that, he became one of my followers. Recent studies have begun to appear in 2014 at Cambridge University and in the same year Max Planck Institute in Germany It turned out to be a documented study, which they are talking about. About the structural changes that occur in The human brain is a real physical change in the physical.
22:38 Oh, they even call it Abu Fronti, we talk about it There is a shrinkage in the prefrontal cortex of the brain. Due to exposure to these stimuli Nationality, of course he said what I myself Translate, I was searching on Google for someone to translate I mean, did anyone speak in Arabic about addiction? Pornography about something like that I didn't find this talk in 2014, so I relied on this Of course I say August, why should I tell you that? Months before that, I suddenly learned this from myself. WordPress, I bought a domain, and of course all of this I am completely ignorant. I came to learn how to book. Domain and the best types of companies that extend Hosting or something like that, and how do I use it? I know that
23:26 There is something called Wordpress that I took in a course. And I started translating and publishing on the website which is The treatment for porn addiction was It was Kan Ante Porn Group, his domain is still It's still working until now, no, it's just me I'll tell you why we changed it, the reasons, I mean So I started translating and publishing, I translated and published. I opened in At the same time, all the time on Facebook page And his page on Twitter at that time was Twitter and I started When I started posting, I started receiving messages. In private There were a lot of cries for help, and of course I was working at that time. What do you mean, I gave all my free time? For this topic I really liked that I am what I am
24:13 I find a scientific field I use it to help people and benefit them And so on, there is not much space to talk about in my mind Excellence means that at that time you had to specialize There is something that does not speak, so when she comes to me, for example After I finished the course, that's it. First I named it the recovery program and published it. And I kept posting from him like this, so people were... Come and thank me in private. Thank you very much. Let's see if someone can talk about this topic. Scientifically speaking, it has effects on the brain. And neurotransmitters and so on, I mean, in everything that I have a question, so I'll search for it in English. I find an article, a collection of articles, a booklet located in D
25:01 I translate I translate I translate I translate I mean D means Now, thank God, we can say... What does it mean that there is only one location now? More than 800 articles, God willing, except for 22 We have a book in this field, but from all of them All topics are imaginary, I mean this is going with the time For example, what is an example? One says to you, I I relapsed in the concept of relapse itself I mean, even I translated it. There was a disease in H. Addiction is the worst disease in the world. The idea is studied in psychiatry. Addiction is the most studied disease. Mental illness is addiction and it is a disease The only one that can be created in the laboratory
25:47 Psychological urges, meaning, yes, the only one, meaning you Can you bring a mouse and make it normal or addicted? I need something, but you can't bring a vacuum and leave it Depressed or has a stroke Oh yeah, that's it, but you can't talk to him, so that's why It is easy to study and they studied it very strongly in Faddan. A lot of books, you translated 52 books. And a booklet, yes, a booklet for everyone A booklet discussing a specific issue in pornography addiction Especially in pornography addiction, but it is nice if someone He said, "I have a relapse. I need to come in and see." What is the whole topic? We will talk about Relapse, no, for example, so I go and add, for example, what? A section on the site about relapse is nice. What is the difference between masturbation and pornography?
26:34 The relationship between them is the question that comes Literally, what is it? What are these questions? Who do we want? We don't want to know anymore because sometimes people You mix the papers together, what's the difference? Between his scenes, meaning there is a difference between his scenes Pornography and masturbation Is masturbation right? Does it have any effect? Both are similar if one watched the material Pornography and then masturbation, unlike if someone masturbated Without watching pornographic material, unless one watches It's not pornographic at all, and I didn't masturbate. The basis is that this is an important question, of course. So, I have a conversation with a famous person. Very much in the field of psychiatry, I mean, I met a lot. B in the plane around this topic was
27:21 It is adopted that means a theory or opinion. Masturbation means that it has no physical or psychological harm. Oh, Monday, okay, with conditions. I mean these are the conditions. I think it is difficult to find. And by the way, it's not just him, it's more than one person. They promote the idea of masturbation, not me. I read it. There are actually articles and scientific research that say that, indeed, It has benefits too, yes, but in reality... They are ignoring a very important point in this matter. And the relationship between pornography and masturbation, yes, because it is I mean I want to tell you that they are outside when there are people Of course, we specialize in treating sexual addiction.
28:08 For example, when one of them leaves, he leaves. Consult this doctor or this psychotherapist He says to him, "Are you masturbating or not?" Yes, so... He said to him, "Oh, that's it. Is there anyone who watches porn?" It alone is not necessarily exciting, but on the contrary Pornography means that masturbation begins in the first place How does he start saying that I, I, I have Pressure from lust, I want Relax, then you will start to feel satisfied. Beatles with it because as long as there is sexual activity The path of imagination or observation, by the way
28:56 Imaginations have the same effect. The action on the brain is playing the movie but inside His brain, oh my, this is real, and even more important, I mean The rules we tell the recovering people are that you should refrain from Sexual fantasies. Is this even possible? It is possible that one prevents, yes, yes, that means he distracts His thinking does not delve into strategies for dealing with it. With this topic, yes, it is the best strategy. Sports And other things, but what do I mean? It means in a book called Norman Douche, Doctor, I think he is Canadian Neuroscience specialist is in a class in translator
29:42 The brain that changes itself is a section called imagination. It is scientifically proven how imagination works. It can move and activate the same centers responsible for Doing this actually has the same effect as Fatiha is very effective, it suppresses desire. He enjoys it, then starts to attract people with it. Lust because it is the percentage of bears that secrete it During masturbation it remains much higher than even Intimate relationship between man And his wife, so she will have priority in The equivalent circuit, as we say, is higher, not higher. At the same level, even higher, and that's it. Mark Salman mentioned it in his book, The Millennium Drug.
30:29 New and said that masturbation causes a flood of Dopamine is even higher than in an intimate relationship. Because it is not normal, this is very dangerous talk because it is Unnatural excitement, what do we call it? I am fine, God willing we will talk About the effect of research on the brain So this is the point, they do not connect what Between masturbation and its strong relationship with pornography So now, as we said, I have paid off my desire. Bring it in, then enjoy it, then metabolize it. Then her addiction is masturbation addiction, and that's why I'm against it. It is understood that we say that it is a secret habit. It is not a habit, it is an addiction to masturbation because it is because
31:17 Addiction is always bad, I have never loved The name of the secret habit originally means I don't feel like riding, glory be to God, it was a long time ago My heart feels that he is not Masturbation addiction means this is to the point I want to tell you that the modern generation of course Our experience in communicating with people over the years What happened to people, people are basically young people Or girls start to learn about masturbation from During pornography, not the opposite is true, I mean it is him He sees provocative pictures of a child, and it becomes his fault. Areas of sexual arousal in his brain Early, so he masturbates for He satisfies his desire Because of the influence of pornography, that means this was evidence
32:06 This confirmed that it happened to me when I was young, by the way. Oh, so what does this mean? I think a lot of people are exposed to it. For this topic before puberty, yes, that means in A study says that 92% of young people and 64% of Girls exposed to pornography before the age of 18 This is true in America But be careful, even in our country, because he is... What's the idea when we come and do a study? In the awareness of the study and published in a very famous magazine We were studying the spread of research in The Arab world results are very similar to terraces I worked abroad in America and Europe, why? It is one tool, which is the Internet, yes, and that is why They are even in the American No Fab
32:54 They have a very famous group like Novab. November No, they actually do it in November. Download it but their name is Novab Novab Fab Which is masturbation? Yes, yes, it is a colloquial word. So, what are they saying to you? Human Been Plus Internet Equal Porn Addiction The result is yes, as long as I have the desire to tighten the matter That means we have access to the computer and the Internet. Here, it's a bit late, so we weren't going to arrive. The Internet was a very difficult topic at the time. If we connect the Internet, this was a dialogue. We had to have seven people participate and leave, I don't know Oh, and people used to say to anyone, "I am"
33:40 I'm going to give you a look So what else do you use the Internet for? I mean, unfortunately, the connection at that time was strange. Masturbation is linked, so we can say about it conditional association In pornography, for example, we say we tell people Those who say that masturbation is not good The problem is, what does he do if we assume that? If he doesn't watch porn, what should he do? Sexuality through imagination, that's right, okay? What did he do? Does this lead to behavior? My addiction is not not Habit, you are addicted, addiction, what does it mean, Los F?
34:26 Control Of course, addiction has many characteristics, the most important of which is You are not in control unless you lose control of it. The negative in your life and disturb the life of life and you Oh man, let's assume that this is a rare and unique person. Very much so that he masturbates without pornography in it This time is without imagination, oh and everything Heiji He will masturbate, what will happen to the other tracks I want to say that I am nervous about these pictures. Because addiction is unfortunately a chronic disease.
35:13 Cronic Dizz and therefore because of the flows Chemical means that we call it a hurricane even in Is pornography loved in the brain or is it like a channel? What is the path of uh, uh, God, the path without not But he only wants to be there or he stays A possible memory, of course, with a disguise, with the treatment It will decrease with time, but on one condition: She's inviting you to do this again. Behavior with the first Treger you are exposed to in your life How can I allow someone to practice as you are You usually say this is the energy of it Nationality leads him to complete failure in his life if
36:02 We said that he could be successful in any field in Life, but for sure, will destroy his relationships, I mean Of course, I think that any listener to us, Doctor, is... He is well aware that something like this would destroy his life. Indeed, we mean, we have toured comments But unfortunately, some of them happened to us. Emails that there is one on the lips that he is He ends his life because he can't get over it His view of himself is very bad and his life is ruined. His social relationships, he is depressed and lives in the And sitting at home, she is destroying, I mean destroying, right? But the subject of the brain, memory and imagination, no no This is destroying your social life, Cofab. You said that for months I was not conscious
36:47 I launched it in 2014, they had started In 2011, not far away, this is one of the nice things I am strong, thank God, I am proud of it I thank God for it, that we are in a certain field. Kanush is the global revolution in this field Awareness of the danger of a neighborhood that they had not preceded us in At the top of the peak, we were investigating More achievements than them so far, I mean the channel YouTube is conscious, for example, the subscription is prominent It has more than double the value of the New Drawer. Which is their most famous group now, the word "No". Fab Fab is a word that is not English. It means a word. Which is masturbation, Nova is what they are fighting for.
37:35 Pornography and support groups for recovery Porn addiction, why did they choose No Fab? Because they know that when you come to recover from The first problem is the two-faced Masturbation or you shouldn't practice it Masturbation while you are tired of pornography Are the two related to each other or is this the case? When I was released, I was aware that it was the Nova I remember that It means that 100,000 people have passed by now. Million and by the way they did a survey on Novab was early before, so they were looking for him People entered Novab, what was the motive or what was it?
38:21 Surprisingly, it means more than 90% of those who Join the Nova group because of the loss Their sex drive, what is it? I tell you that you have crossed the line, you are not But when you left, you became a slave to a certain behavior. You are destroying you until you lose the need that you are I tried to make you enjoy it naturally, I mean ah ah Natural, I mean, but not necessarily. The mission is strong, what he does is disability Male sexual dysfunction and impotence problems In females, the reason is psychological or physical. Excitement based on what he sees And the things that are very extreme in size
39:07 And the shapes that were medically manipulated This is the level of excitement for him. The natural thing is not exciting at all. The second problem is that pornography causes it. Addiction and doing something called sexual adaptation What does it mean? We have centers in our brains. It is the largest sexual organ in humans. The brain is the biggest The brain, the brain, this is a complete scientific fact This means that there is no erection or arousal of desire. The hormones in the brain except without an order from The brain sex centers are good, as you mentioned A young man, the first thing that seemed to have an awareness of the environment
39:53 The one around him has a smartphone and To achieve complete confidentiality, he can lock the room. The pigeon sits by itself and looks at YouTube means there is a very famous saying, I mean Mary Ann Leyden is no longer a specialist in medicine. Psychological trauma at the University of Pennsylvania A beautiful and powerful book on parenting advice. In protecting their children from pornography, she says it is no longer The question is when will he see his father? Will he see his son? Pornography or not, but when will he watch it? You will see her, when he will see her, she will see her This way he will see her satisfied with the age of exposure to the Mediterranean Now, there are a lot of studies, nine years and six Also not Of course you are surprised when he is exposed to a cold at his age
40:43 His brain is in the form of sexual arousal in his brain What does this shape relate to? Sitting alone, playing the role of a spectator, practicing The fat one in his hand More clicks for hours on end on scenes. Various renewed, uninterrupted until he ends his session Okay, this young teenager is on this It is long years, so there is a need for her name stomach She loves him and he loves her. By the way, this is a slogan.
41:32 The benefit we include has a scientific reason, which is what it is. Borf means the addict does not love, it may be difficult He falls in love and that's why girls are not surprised Why would he propose and furnish her? Why wouldn't someone talk to her? Why didn't he come? In love, like the old days, he has a picture in his mind of the one who He sees what is happening with the air conditioning Why is his brain facing a girl in reality? Who It happens, it happens He has Yes, I understand. I have to play a role. The spectator: Okay, so imagine that I am used to it. I was watching and not doing the deed
42:17 That's why you find this problem among young people. For example, a young person who has not experienced a relationship, we imagine that In a bag, for example, if a person got married, he would not have been He is addicted to sweets and has tried relationships. His mind knows what relationships are. You know this before, it's great if you fall in love with it Addiction does not live from sexual impotence like The young man who has not experienced a relationship, say so because He doesn't know her Young people, by the way, this is the reason for divorce every Marriages that fail at the beginning and happen Problems because of this matter, of course, he supports him. I don't know what's wrong with me. You just got in.
43:03 Sheikh, this is just a magician, uncle. It's not a problem. We go to the night, and there are many stories like that, O Shouf The topic has reached where is it, uh, oh, I just before I don’t forget, is the situation that you mentioned A realistic condition, and there is no imagination, but to strike The proverb says that there was a person who did not commit any pornography and got married But he was exposed to pornography after marriage, yes, no Its effect is like no other It exists on the face of this simple earth and has not been exposed For pornography, yes, I mean our generation Our internet was not as widespread as it is now. Smartphones, you know the porn problem has appeared When, Mr. Ahmed, with the Internet? Internet only video fast internet 2006 Ok, but before that, there was a video. There was a video. No, no, no, no, take care, it didn't happen
43:49 Addiction like this has reached the stage of an epidemic When the fast internet appeared, you can stream. Pornography is the reason for the emergence of The Internet is the place where porn traders are speeding up. Technology for them to benefit from, I mean, this was it One of the reasons was one of the engines, yes, yes. Of course, it is important and well-known. F F Ah Ftkf sexual is one of the most important problems By the way, what do you mean by females and males? One says, "Well, if the girl sees that, then it will happen." She has problems, but the problem of impotence is this. Long list means premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation weakness Severe green erection, lack of sensation
44:35 With pleasure or enjoyment, there is no emotion in Intimacy is basically dealing with the relationship It is only a physical relationship without emotion or... Intimacy of seeing the other party as stupid Attractive, unemotional, the one who blames him for that He is unsuccessful in this relationship. Pornography but people don't know This is one of the most important problems that occur because of Pornography in the current generation you know that This problem of impotence, they worked on it. There are many studies on a wide scale in Sweden and in Even in the American army he was in study Very famous for increasing sexual impotence He was There were known causes of sexual impotence in the past.
45:20 Males Obesity, high blood fat levels, diseases Smoking makes it difficult for blood to flow to the heart. Smoking, but when you find young people who have it before This used to happen after 40 years, before 40 it didn't happen This problem exists absolutely unless there is something wrong. Membership and need surgical intervention or something like that, so when These cases increased in a private conference. Urinary tract and male diseases problems A professor at this conference raised more than one issue. He has been facing this problem in his clinic for 10 years. So he wants to tell them that you are seeing These things and why we want to know, so why? They did a study and found that there was a link that they didn't have. They take care of him completely, or the opposite?
46:07 A doctor named Dr. Tariq Pasha or the Pasha He is a male diseases specialist at the university. Michigan apologizes for his wrong view of Pornography-related sexual dysfunction is They call it rectal disfunction or porn. Pornography Induction Syndrome It is weakness Erectile dysfunction is what he says. But some young men would come to me and ask me about This problem I was telling them that there is no relationship between Pornography and between the blacks, this is after them He was encouraging, even when the young men left
46:55 Male disease medicine was saying, for example, Doctor I hear from the conscious or the secret habit You do this, man. Live your life and forget about tomorrow. You get married, I heard a while ago that if you I stopped and felt that you have congestion and this congestion is... It causes illness or fatigue, I'm telling you. How does congestion come about? Excitement, as long as you are sitting, that is not it The mistakes that the recovering person makes are: When he comes to stop the symptoms of withdrawal Love comes in many psychological forms. To return to pornography again, some of them surrender For imagination, for watching, for example, he was watching Hard
47:40 Born tells you to see Soft Born sitting and flipping in TV channels and he sees the same scene This excitement is what makes him congested? What is happening is exciting, but there is nothing, oh there is nothing masturbation Masturbation and This is the main reason, so he is Tariq Dr. Tariq Pasha said when he read my neighbor's book Wilson Elly His name is Your Brain On Bore, he is also a translator Great book Very much so, he started asking about the cases that came to him. Young men who suffer from impotence You watch porn and masturbate Continuously or so, he found that there was a strong relationship
48:25 Very much among them What did they do in scientific studies? Related to this topic in particular in experiments Its name is removing the causative factor because you are difficult to What group do you bring and tell them that you are not... You haven't seen any porn. You know there's one. French foot On means scientific research in France and he wanted The group control group works She saw pornography in the university and a group saw it He did not find anything. Six months later, he did not find anything. He cancelled the entire search. For the father, all the family members have cancelled the search. They understand what they are doing. They do something called removal or that you are difficult If you find one who tells you completely or It allows something, it means it is a secret
49:13 Secrets of his life, embarrassing things, people feel shy about The studies that produce this, despite the huge volume of The problem is that experts in scientific studies You don't want to tell him everything, it's very difficult I mean, you're really afraid, because he did what he did. What does removing the worker mean? What does it mean that he brings Young people suffering from disability Sexual and ask if they have a history of Watching pornography and measuring its degree on a specific scale Or masturbation or they say to them Stop, stop, we will stay here, remove the work This is the verse that we expect Our individuality is the reason or not?
50:01 Many young people who have improved Sexual dysfunction significantly improved due to Did they give up pornography or masturbation? That's why when you mentioned, I said there are studies. It is not studies, it is websites Petrog L means masturbation, so it is evil False talk. For example, I followed a news story once about... The topic is that he says if you practiced I don't know How many times do you masturbate? This way you protect yourself from Prostate cancer yes yes yes come in The reference itself for this study is not done. The study is based on masturbation. Why did you throw the slander? Why did you throw the slander? There are three ways.
50:47 Masturbation, wet dreams, sexual intercourse, or sexual intercourse He did not mention anything about this topic. This is the result. This is a secondary result of the study. The study was not popular, that's why they are They concluded that they found a relationship between you and Teji. I think you might find yourself in a relationship like this all of a sudden. Between one thing and another, people over 50 The year that their Ijak was the highest We don't know exactly where he is or what his method is. What do you mean, you blame them for not having cancer? Prostate means something that happened to be in this sample Or what does he do in this rule? It means that people like to hear news like this about Her bad habits are true, I mean even one, oh no
51:36 They smoked for 30 years and their health is bad. Sorry, so-and-so is a smoker. And he died A man named Mohammed Qahtan had cancer. The award for black speaking was his face. Many people smoke for 50 or 60 years without deciding to quit. By the way, people die from smoking. Addiction to eating more than figs and smoking It doesn't affect anything, it's just a matter of connection. And that means that people really, really love people. You hear good news about her bad habits or In addition to that, we have in our curricula Educational, no one tells them that there is danger Too big to threaten your life, future and capabilities Your talent, creativity and relationships, which is his name
52:21 Pornography and masturbation, no one says that at all On the contrary, you will find that it means opening some programs. For people who masturbate, and of course to beautify themselves The picture, pay attention to the conditions Yes, and the girl is not. By the way, the subject of the Pornography or sex addiction or anything related This problem is a human being problem. It's a human problem, and that's why girls suffer. Because you know that young people are spoiled from a young age They masturbate and tell jokes about I did masturbation every time, yes, but Girls have no mother, so when a girl starts to suffer The secret is a problem that is difficult to talk about.
53:09 Very severe self-flagellation, which leads to suicide attempts Self-loathing and very serious psychological illnesses Very much so because the family does not allow dialogue. About this issue, it is true that society does not sell or This is acceptable because we are talking about secrecy. The boy is yes and the girl is no, why? Even though he is You thought that virginity is just a membrane A wrong perspective on this issue means that it is based on If she is afraid that she will hurt herself, then what? You look up from this, it is the destruction of the relationship Are you saying that marriage is not a custom at all? The bad thing that turns a person away from marriage is not The opposite means that it is among the justifications that he is what? Ask what does it mean? Ask yourself, Hamada. Be patient.
53:56 Oh Hamada, what if you get married? Of course it was the need This is famous for watching porn when You marry scientifically, the bathwater kills Patience because it affects the frontal lobe cortex For the brain, which is responsible for the function of the palms of the hands. It is the ability to solve problems and plan for the future. Making the right decisions Memory, concentration, imagine all these functions. And the other things that give you are what make you qualified to be Be creative, you will advance in your work, be creative, you will stay with it Motivation activity to stimulate all Dahmer kills Right on the verge of addiction. Any addiction works.
54:42 So of course, especially addiction Of course, you have the ability to be patient And this braking is one of the functions of the cortex. Cortex is the brain's prefrontal cortex. Why? Why and why am I surprised that harassment incidents are increasing? Oh, the brakes, may God open the way for you exactly, I mean A car driving at top speed with no brakes So what is even what is the perception of the perception He realizes that this is wrong or right, or he realizes the consequences of the action. Yes, the consequences of the action The reason he wants it is because of him He justifies himself by saying that he continues doing this.
55:33 What makes him continue on this path and not get married? Basically, it's me. Let me be. I mean, never mind impersonating someone. The young man who really suffers from this issue and does not able Does it mean that anyone can live without marriage? Other than masturbation or venting about this topic in the shadow of The things that surround us everywhere, I mean At least once or twice a day This week, yeah, let me tell you something I see when you say that Why or why would anyone say that? You, he ... This is true, true. What makes an addict is that he is... It is not recovering if there is no correct success model.
56:20 There is nothing I see, yes I mean you know You know that there is more than that, I mean it is not a matter of He feels despair or hopelessness, there is nothing worse than that If he is Bilh Al -Din Khalis, uh Kevin Skinner, the author of a book Treating Porn Addiction is a great book too. Translator is A religious Christian, yes a religious Christian, he says that Al-Bahia Addiction Department for Seven Levels in the seventh level the person who is The highest thing that can be reached is atheism. Why does it reach it? For atheism because he says why can I? Alia, I mean, look why, why was I put in this situation? The situation is, what if I am sick or what if I am
57:06 Why do I continue with this behavior? I am I try, so I ask God for forgiveness, but he becomes desperate The year is therefore there in here there is some connection Between atheism and pornography, there is a great deal of immersion. In extreme pornography, it can make a person move away. About God, this is wrong, on the contrary, it means trying To silence your practical conscience, may God punish you too That's right, that's one of the excuses why he doesn't want to. What does it mean to have authority over him? I control him so I can renounce religion in order to take My comfort is when he takes it, he is already taking it easy This is evidence that he has reached a stage, that is, a level.
57:52 Very addictive and can't get rid of it Okay, excuse me for interrupting, because... Let me also speak on behalf of this person, right? I mean, I reached puberty at the age of 14, for example. And for me to get married, for example, if I, I mean, I mean Years of physical and psychological need, but let's stay We say physical need which is the relationship which is You are born inside him, you find inside him a desire, a need, or In one way or another, what does he do to me? I will tell you something, I will ask you a question or ask The person asked me a question: What do you do to people?
58:38 Those who are married to drug addicts and got married More than once, what is the answer? Why? Why? He is not a hero? Well, if marriage is a solution to this problem, why? I am still addicted, I honestly don't know Shame because we are not able to determine concept Let me tell you, what idea did you promote? Sex is, or rather, intimacy is sex. Yes, and love is it Sex is fine, that's why it's one of the most popular sites. pornography Pornography is promoted as a means of increasing love.
59:23 On the contrary, it kills love. By the way, I will come back. At this point I am telling you why there is a difference between The concept of intimacy is not sex, even if you Man seeks intimacy and love, not Sex comes first and sex is a part of it From the intimate relationship, not everything Yes Why doesn't an addict fall in love? Scientifically, because God created centers for us in Our brain gives value to emotional relationships, right? Which is which is love relationships, this love In general terms, I have a feeling of love towards My brother, my sister, my father, my mother, my aunt, my friend Mind you, brother, in Islam these are relationships.
1:00:13 Love when they found that when a person is exposed to Dopamine is very high in the brain. As Gary Wilson said, disrupt this. The centers do not discuss naturally or To make sure of this, they created a nice and powerful experience for me We have information that we are from the races That is, God Almighty gave us his power. To establish a long-term intimate marital relationship The term does not change easily between partners. Allah Almighty, and among His signs is that He created for you from Choose spouses for yourselves so that you may find tranquility in them. A verse from the verses
1:00:58 Our Lord, this is the verse, the verse is that you are you Is it possible to stay married for 30 or 40 years with one person? You are infected with animals that share with us in This matter is mammals. We are originally mammals, but We have something higher than that, which is the crust. What we have told about what you give up with us ability to think Rational in Dee has the capabilities of wolves A wolf marries a she-wolf and lives with her for life. There are also a type of monkey called a gibbon. I don't remember if they had this ability. What did they do? They brought a kind of curtain and it is affectionate with a substance called
1:01:44 Methane Vitamin, which is a narcotic substance Men, yes, the proverb, yes, the young man is with us in Egypt's name is Shabu Beavers, it produces very high dopamine. Very much in the brain, oh, they injected these animals. She has the ability to establish a long-term emotional relationship. They found that their behavior changed and they kept counting. Partners are contrary to their nature, their nature is that our Lord He created them on it, so they concluded and stood up An activity, behavior, or chemical substance that causes Dopamine in the brain interferes with the verse. On the center without the person begins to think that he is He defines relationships and does not have a link With one life partner
1:02:30 So let's go back again and see that the lake promoted the idea I also printed an idea and this is the big disaster The reason for divorce and the reason for marital problems or one of them American United Nations Association Americans for divorce cases did a study if The partner or partner is addicted because he is uh I was addicted to medicine before marriage, doctor. I am talking about pre-marriage, which is what we are striving for. And if I mean, a believer needs sex For a non -women, a man means sex He has a goal in himself, but women do not.
1:03:18 A woman is a means to an end. A woman's goal is Emotional containment Having children, but in the end anyway He means the mother who wants to say what is the goal The real one who has seen sex as human beings is Intimacy Course means Inside each one of us is the striving to be me I love to accept someone who loves me and accepts me
1:04:05 It is true to the point that this is the call His hand is screaming inside you all the time Your life and we can imagine a person who is walking We are around in this world. end He kisses me and says this is what we call the My intimacy, intimacy, if a person does not It didn't happen He represents her With a hole inside, inside, this hole is a gap. It seems that it is getting bigger and bigger Grow up, medicine, if it doesn't have anything to do with this intimate relationship This need, yes, what happens begins with that He is looking to fill it with harmful and hurtful ways.
1:04:52 Why is it often a game addiction? Drug addiction, sex addiction Where are the disaster relationships? Harmful behaviors or behaviors The harmful one increases this gap, it does not fill it, right? You don't lock it, I mean you don't lock it and stuff like that What about those who drink sea water? The sea ah It's like he has a wallet This wallet has a big hole. Every day he expands, but he doesn't close it because he doesn't know The problem here is that whenever money is put into it, it falls. What does he do? He fills it up again with money.
1:05:38 He falls from it, so he did not solve the problem, he will lose and his life will be ruined Okay, the intimacy is going on. So, let's talk about it. Intimacy is not about sex in the first place First, intimacy is possible I got it from a love relationship between me and my mother Between me and my father, between me and my brother, between me Between a brother I love and between me and him, his brother is perfect, that is What I want to say is that intimacy does not have to be A physical relationship is us, yes of course, yes but What feeds what feeds then thinking that You have to be satisfied This sexual desire and you wonder what is it with us? Professor Ahmed, we have to be realistic, right? Excuse me if I came and told everyone as soon as he reports I will marry you, and by the way, there was an initiative in
1:06:26 Saudi Arabia, and I am not against it, which is marriage Puberty and its founder spoke to me about the participation as well. I had a conversation, so I talked, and he said, “We…” We want him to be aware of the opposite. I told him, not the other way around I swear I'm not against marriage. Who said that? Or vice versa, I hope so, but I have a question for you. It is us, anyone who reports, it is okay Marriage is about sex, responsibility, care and ability. Care and ability to Expenses, even if my circumstances are different, it's us, it's us Why do we keep saying, "Oh, the good old days"?
1:07:11 Life circumstances are everything, and you know best. Your world means that I am and that there is no time in the past Humans are completely different and not instinctive. On instinct is lust Ok, you can control this desire. What's the point? The difference between instinct and instinct Something means something that you cannot control. It is not yours. Control it by animal husbandry if it is in season Mating must be mated, it is possible to even recommend that you see Of course, there are National Geographic films like You get married, it's not like that. You are very selective. The big evidence is that you meet
1:07:58 One of his circumstances is very good, he has everything Marriage possibilities, a wise and qualified man He bears the responsibility of marriage and does not get married, so why should he go? He tells you not I found the girl who suits me and I left her I don't like the selective people. It's not my story. I found one, let's go, I think it's not them I read that our master Omar had met a man who did not He got married, so he said to him, “By God, I see nothing but a disease in you.” or You are a heretic, there is no third option, so you are definitely not here At that time, that's what it was supposed to be. For example, if he sees that his circumstances allow him to get married
1:08:47 He did not marry, he is in his imams and Ibn Taymiyyah when he married He had many imams, but he was busy with his life story. Completely different, this is what I'm telling you If I were controlled by the idea of pornography Which is that, that, that, I don't think it has anything to do with me The opposite is true. I watch porn on Vistula. Sexually, he satisfies his desire. He comes and says, "What's up?" If I were married, I wouldn't be in this situation. Dot Sahih gets married and finds himself leaving his wife and He masturbates in medicine. Is medicine, with all due respect to you? And he married what is invalidated, no, no, no, no, no, no, not this What I mean is that I will explain to you that we are We strongly encourage young people to get married if you are able to. Able to marry B On the contrary, I want to say
1:09:33 It's up to you if the young man or woman stops Masturbation and stop pornography will have a motive Very strong marriage motivation will make him move Regarding marriage, under any circumstances and conditions, what should I do? What do you mean? I am one of the people who got married. We depend heavily on our stomach, right? Then glory be to God, meaning our Lord has given us abundant praise. For God, there are three who have a right to God’s help from them. A man who wants to be chaste wants to be chaste, he must be I trust him Me and the guys who don't miss a long enough time The minimum period allows them to reset their brains. Once again, create new neural pathways.
1:10:20 Away from pornography, they fail in their relationship, right? They help her, so what should I do, doctor? From the time of puberty until marriage, this period is These years, I would like to make them 10 years now Much more, but how will I live these years? And I am the exciting ones around me everywhere I open Phone, TV, even YouTube Instagram is almost never devoid of stimuli. Instagram can take you to the soft stage Bore, not to mention TikTok and what's happening. Look I am telling you something, unfortunately, sometimes There are things beyond the person's will or control. In this period I mean, there are many things related to the family The thing that hurts one is that he became Now many fathers believe that it is his role in
1:11:07 The house is spending, but unfortunately, the situation is bad Oh, what is the situation? The situation, of course. Economic or something like that He means he is hanging on it, literally. But he also looks at the priorities, so it is necessary Family should be a priority even if it is just for one day. The week, of course, but what do I mean by that? Because I am a father or a mother, I play my role. Please God and I will actually be like the Messenger He said: You are all shepherds and each of you touches his flock, and I am Don't bother with Audi, I'm the one who's down there My responsibility is international in the future and it appears to them Problems I can't solve or come in time I don't want to say it's impossible to solve it.
1:11:53 I have to give my attention My time and care for them so that I myself can rest Because this is the biggest investment that it needs
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