No Contact, But They Haven’t Let Go | What Are They Really Feeling?

Brief Summary

The video discusses the emotional dynamics between two individuals in a romantic relationship where one person feels invested but is unsure about the other's feelings. Key points include:

  • The other person wants to communicate but is holding back their emotions.
  • There are strong feelings masked by fear and uncertainty about the future.
  • Despite the conflicts and fears of vulnerabilities, there is a desire to reconnect.

Understanding the Emotional Connection

The speaker discusses how one individual has emotionally invested in their connection and envisions a future with stability and security. However, they are left questioning whether the other person shares the same feelings due to a lack of commitment and assurance. The overall energy reflects a desire to communicate, but the other person exhibits a cold demeanor, weighing their feelings carefully before taking any action.

Exploring Hidden Feelings

The presence of attraction is highlighted through the Knight of Wands and the Moon card, indicating a strong desire to connect despite uncertainty. The person feels an excitement but is restrained by fears and emotional chaos. They are drawn to the individual but struggle with knowing how to act on their feelings.

What’s Preventing Action?

The King of Cups and Five of Swords signify that emotional self-control and pride prevent the person from expressing their feelings. They fear that revealing their emotions may lead to vulnerability and possible rejection, causing them to hold back despite having strong feelings.

Fears of Honest Conversations

The person fears that if they approach their partner, it would lead to necessary conversations that reveal avoided truths. They are apprehensive about the emotional complexities, possibly involving a third party, and worried whether they can restore lighter dynamics.

Wants for a Fresh Start

The individual desires a gentle reconnection, indicated by the Page of Cups and Page of Pentacles. They seek to rebuild trust through small, tangible gestures rather than rushing into serious commitment. However, their immaturity holds them back from progressing toward a more mature interaction.

Intentions and Planning

The King of Wands and Two of Wands depict a contemplation stage where intentions to act are present, but an actual decision has not yet been made. This individual is in a planning phase, examining how to approach the connection.

Realization Leading to Action

As revealed by the Judgement and Sun cards, the person will come to a realization about the joy the other individual brings into their life. This clarity may prompt them to act on their feelings, overcoming their fears to initiate contact.

Cautious Initial Contact

When they eventually reach out, the Two of Swords and Six of Pentacles imply that they may start with a cautious gesture, testing the waters to see if their partner is receptive. This may lead to small communications rather than grand declarations of love.

Timeline for Contact

The Six of Wands and Seven of Pentacles suggest a waiting period for any significant developments, likely spanning weeks. The individual is observed to be allowing time for factors to align before taking more impactful actions.

Internal Changes Before Action

The Two of Wands and High Priestess indicate a period of quiet contemplation as the person considers reaching out. Although they appear to be inactive, they are gaining clarity internally about their desires.

Emotional Pull for Reconnection

The Nine of Cups and Two of Cups illustrate a growing desire to reconnect emotionally. The person acknowledges that the connection brings them happiness, prompting them to reach out when the desire outweighs their initial hesitation.

Feelings About No Contact

The Queen of Wands and Nine of Wands express the individual's strong attraction despite the distance. They are aware of their partner's presence but are also guarding themselves due to past wounds and hurt that need healing.

Perceptions of Each Other in Silence

They believe that the other perceives them as stagnant and unwilling to take action, representing a stalemate energy. They think they are seen as stuck and choosing silence over meaningful steps.

What They Want to Communicate

Expressing that they remain uncertain about how to navigate the changing dynamics of their relationship, the Wheel of Fortune and Two of Pentacles indicate an effort to juggle emotions and decisions regarding the connection's future.

Guidance for Viewers

The guidance advises viewers to maintain their boundaries and not chase after reassurance from their partner. It encourages self-worth and reminds them to engage in meaningful and fulfilling activities, rather than feeling devalued by another's silence or immaturity.

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0:01 You have invested genuinely emotionally in this connection. You may have seen this real future, stability, security, long-term potential with this person. But right now, you're left wondering whether this person feels the same way because whatever they feel isn't really translating into the kind of security or commitment you're looking for. So, let's see what's really going on. What's happening with this person? What are their energies towards you? Eight of Wands overall energy, Queen of Swords. See, there is definitely a little bit of cold energy that I see here with this Queen of Swords. Um, there is there is um this strong urge to

0:48 communicate. I think this eight of wands has been coming up quite often in the last 2 three days. So um they want to move things forward but they are keeping their emotions under control. It's they're keeping it under check. Thinking very carefully before they act here. There's movement building here but they don't want to approach you impulsively or exposed too much all at once. So they're not emotionally checked out but they are deciding how and whether to make a move here. Let's see what are they actually feeling for you underneath this control energy. Knight of wands overall energy moon. See there is a lot of attraction. This is a

1:34 desire to you know take that leap of faith. I know this is not a card of leap of faith uh traditionally but there is this excitement. There is this desire, attraction, strong pull to come towards you to take that risk to you know jump across that um that fire that that uh whatever danger there is. Um so the exterior can be controlled but this person is thinking of coming towards you more than they let on. But the Knight of Wands can also be restless and impulsive and it creates inconsistency. So their feelings are strong yet they may not have decided what they actually want to do with them because Moon brings in some fears, some confusion. Uh but I

2:22 also see this person being a little emotionally chaotic right now with whatever is going on. So they're very much drawn to you but the desire is stronger than the certainty right now in their mind. Okay. What is stopping them from acting on these feelings of coming towards you? King of cups overall energy five of swords. There is conflict. There is um see they're holding back because they're trying to control their emotions for sure. That's constantly showing up here. um they don't want their feelings to dictate their actions. They may feel that showing how much they care would put them at a disadvantage.

3:09 Five of swords adds pride in a conflict. Um sometimes fear of you know how the interaction could play out. So they would try to stay in control. They'd rather stay in control than risk feeling rejected or losing the upper hand here. So the feelings are there with this king of cups but the pride and emotional self-control that's keeping them from moving towards you. For some of you it could be that you know there has been uh a sense of hurt betrayal that could also be uh from your side or from their side. I don't know it would be different for different people but that is another thing that I feel from this. Okay. What are they afraid will happen if they actually come forward? If they actually come towards

3:56 you, Ace of Swords overall energy, three of cups, they know that there will be, you know, a clear conversation. Uh it would force them to have this honest conversation and bring everything out in the open, including things they may have been avoiding. For some of you, this could be a third party situation. Uh fear of situation becoming emotionally complicated involving other people. Uh simply not knowing whether the two of you can return to lighter, happier dynamic. Will will it still be like that? They are they worried about a difficult conversation basically and that's the reason they are not coming forward. So they're not just afraid of

4:43 appro approaching you. So, this is where they're afraid of what an honest conversation might reveal in the process and where it could lead. That's the problem here. All right. Uh let's see if they put those fears aside. Um what would they actually want to happen between the two of you? Page of cups and page of pentacles. See, it's a beautiful energy. Both the pages and especially uh yeah both the pages are beautiful here. It's a beautiful energy but at the same time they are pages. They would want to come back you know in a gentle way. Open the emotional door again say something sweet maybe

5:28 apologize indirectly. Maybe offer something small so that things can become um a little you know uh less pressure. uh there is a desire to make this more tangible um but slowly by rebuilding trust taking small practical steps rather than jumping straight into full commitment. So I yes they want to um have this beautiful energy between the two of you. They want to restart. They want to communicate somewhere. They do also want to apologize. But I also feel that this person is still in this immature energy where they're not willing to show up the way they're supposed to because I would like to see king energy, not the page energy. So

6:14 they are still going to come back or say or do something which is stupid basically. So they want a fresh start but they want to approach it carefully and build it step by step. They should go to a school I think. Uh so what is their intention towards you right now? Are they actually planning to take that that first step? King of Wands overall energy. Two of Wands. Well, they're getting there. They are kind of contemplating. Intention is there to take the lead, make something happen. Um but they're still standing at a decision point with this. They're sitting uh looking at the moon, asking the moon questions, possibly not sure what to do.

7:01 Um deciding how to approach you rather than actually moving yet. So see the king of wands wants to act on the desire, but this two of wands is like you know weighing the whole situation, making that plan and making that plan and making that plan. So they do intend to make a move but they are still in planning stage rather than taking action. But well, we saw king energy showing up. That's a good sign. Let's see what will actually trigger them to finally make the first move towards you. Judgement overall energy. Sun. See, judgement is where they realize something. They realize the happiness that you bring into their life.

7:47 They can't keep sitting on these feelings forever. That's the realization that's going to happen. and they need to make a decision about the connection. Sun brings clarity and confidence. Um they're most likely to move when they feel they can approach you openly and there's genuine possibility of positive response because there is fear of you know I don't know how will it go. Um a moment of clarity that pushes them out of this hesitation and makes them feel confident enough to come forward. Um also I feel for some of you once they start missing that warmth from their life because you have been offering them this warmth which no one else does. Once

8:32 they realize that this is something I cannot get anywhere. This is so meaningful to me. I can't just let it go and I need to give this another shot here. Okay. um or when they do finally make the move, what will their first action or communication actually look like? Two of Swords, overall energy, six of pentacles. I hate this. So, uh see the first move can be cautious, indirect, uh almost like they're testing waters to see how receptive you are. Will you uh you know should they reveal anything or not? Uh they'll look for some exchange or response from you. Are

9:19 you going to kind of reciprocate to whatever they are saying? So this can be like a small message, a gesture rather than any emotional big emotional confession. So I see something really small here. They'll approach carefully watching your response before deciding you know how much more to give or how much more to say here. Okay, let's see by when will this contact possibly happen? What's the timeline? Days, weeks, months, what's happening here? Six of Wands overall energy. Seven of Pentacles. See, seven of pentacles is where again this is like a wait and watch energy where um they're waiting for the crops to grow. Um this

10:04 is more like weeks than days because um they're letting something develop before taking any action. Maybe there's something going on behind the scenes. I don't know. But uh there's a breakthrough which will happen um I would say 6 to 7 weeks with some possibility of earlier movement here. So yeah, that's what I'm getting. Okay, let's see what happens between now and that contact that brings this connection closer to that moment. Two of Wands overall energy, High Priestess. Both are number two. See um there will be quiet because two

10:49 of wands, high priestess, both are a little uncertain energies here. Um this is all happening beneath the surface. They continue thinking about the possibility of approaching you. They will stay quiet, observe rather than say anything here. Um there may be very little visible action first but internally they're becoming more certain about what they want here. So it may not show up visibly which can be frustrating but something is happening something is brewing here. Let's see what finally makes them break the silence and actually reach out to you. Nine of cups overall energy and the two of cups the emotional bond

11:37 when you know um the desire the desire to have you back in their emotional space because you're the one who fulfills them emotionally because you're the one who would make them genuinely happy. Um and this is much more personal you know to them. This is where they don't just want attention, a conversation. They want to reestablish the emotional uh connection between the two of you here. So the pull of the connection becomes stronger than their resistance and that's why they reach out because they want mutual connection again. Okay, let's see. Um, how are they feeling? Because this

12:22 seems like no contact to very little contact. So, let's see how are they feeling about this no contact situation between the two of you. Queen of Wands overall energies, nine of wands. So, these cards came out in another reading u a short reading that we did earlier. See uh they're actually there is strong attraction towards you. Uh they are very much aware of your presence even if there is distance that distance has nothing to do with the attraction they're feeling towards you because you are magnetic. I mean if you look at her so if you see look at the skirt this is like peacock feathers and they are beautiful they are

13:09 attractive. We naturally get drawn towards uh that right? So that's what's happening with them as well. Um they are trying to hold their position maybe protect themselves. So they're feeling the pull but resisting it because you know they don't want to let their guard down. Also there is something around some sort of hurt which has happened here. There are too many wounds that need to heal here. Yours theirs I don't know but that is also theirs. They're thinking about those wounds. Um so uh see this this no contact situation is kind of keeping them them on the on an edge is what I feel. Um okay what do they think you are feeling about them

13:57 during this silence? Let's see chariot overall energy eight of swords. Um they think that you know you think they are somebody who's always in this stalemate energy who's this caged bird who doesn't do anything. They think you see them as somebody who is deliberately holding themselves back trying to stay in control refusing to make a clear move towards um towards you. So, and like I said, eight of swords is where you may feel they are stuck in their head. So, they think you see them as trapped by their own decisions, playing stalemate, choosing control and silence instead of actually doing something about the connection here. So,

14:46 okay. Um, what is what is it that they want to tell my viewers right now? if they could wheel of fortune overall energy two of pentacles I don't know what to do things you know um the connection has gone through so many changes so many things happened so suddenly but that doesn't mean that story ends because I'm still trying to juggle I'm still trying to balance things um so this is where they'll still say I'm I'm trying to figure out. Okay. I don't see a promise coming in. So, we're back to that page energy like what we saw. Okay. Let's see

15:34 what is the guidance for you. What is the guidance for my viewers at this point about this situation? Seven of Wands overall energy. Five of Pentacles. See, stop abandoning your position. Okay? just because this person is silent and um to hold your boundaries instead of chasing reassurance from them. This is where you know five of pentacles is where uh don't let their absence make you question your value because you are valuable. Put yourself back into um a situation where you're happy. Do something that is

16:19 meaningful to you. Don't put yourself back into a situation where you feel unwanted, excluded, or emotionally deprived. I mean, if a person is constantly going to show up in in an immature energy, you can't keep going back into that energy and feeling exhausted. Uh, stand your ground. Don't let their silence pull you into this chasing. um you know if they are not offering love freely what exactly are they offering then love is supposed to flow it's not supposed to be held back and if somebody is holding love back you really need to think you need to ask yourself

17:05 do I want to get reassurance from this person because that's not what I deserve I deserve much more I hope this gave give you some clarity. Thank you for watching.

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