No Ordinary Love | FULL MOVIE | 2021 | Thriller, Romance, Indie Film, Black Female Director

0:00 [Music] thank you let's turn in our Bibles to Ephesians 5 22. wives submit unto your own husband as unto the Lord for the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church and he is the savior of the body [Music]

1:07 pick up pick up if you would like to leave a message listen to this therefore as the church is subject unto Christ so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything dad I'm a I'm I'm leaving the church right now and um something uh something happened and I need you to do something for me dad I uh [Music] I think I may have done now as we head out today and we go to take our next meal with our family let's just remember that

1:54 husbands well Our obligation is to keep the household in order and wives well keep it clean [Music] well hello gorgeous hello hey do you think your husband would mind if I kissed you he may but I say go for it anyway get a broom

2:42 [Music] ladies he is so amazing if Johnny was half the man the pastor is I would have a permanent smile on my face well no one's perfectly we all have our issues it seems like you may have found that one needle in a haystack dang girl you are fine what's up boys oh now calm down Elizabeth she is put together like a grown woman what hey it's okay to acknowledge her beauty it's biblical hey Lisa boy and gay right

3:33 hey now you don't worry about your mom huh she's just jealous because she knows that she would embarrass us all if she tried to squeeze into a dress like that good grief hey Liz Liz stop for a second okay come here it was just a joke well uh how about I take you out to a nice fancy restaurant for lunch this week and you can wear the smallest dress that you can fit into it it really was just a joke I'm just playing around [Music]

4:25 make yourselves comfortable how are you faith fine tell me how my little friend here is doing Faith shut down at school she usually makes good grades and is well behaved I'm not sure what happened she's fine at home we laugh and play are any of the students at school hurting you Faith honey no one is hurting me [Music]

5:17 know [Music] perfect [Music] please keep going daddy look I'm making

6:03 dinner um hey oh good afternoon beautiful how was your workout it was good I woke up an appetite oh [Music] good isn't it patience Grasshopper this is for dinner I have some lunch for you in the fridge baby go grab that red ball from the refrigerator for me oh oh

6:48 [Applause] so what do we have going on for the rest of the day I am meeting Grace I haven't seen my sister in over a year and she only lives 45 minutes from me that's because we decided that she wasn't in a good place and that we didn't want her dragging you down with her he wasn't in a good place because she goal I think it'd be really nice to catch up with my sister I'll only be an hour and a half or so I think she could help me get my book off the ground you said that you supported that you know I support everything you do it's fine go

7:34 maybe we can go to a movie when Mama gets back Mommy's too busy for us today fave baby a movie is a great idea we'll all go when I get back is this going to be a problem later no for me you know what I'll just cancel I can meet up with her some other time whatever you decide [Music] walk away from me

8:24 [Music] I need more more of you and me today was a good day and why is that let me show you how to properly greet your husband greet you Michael I'm just trying to get the ironing done so I can have your dinner ready by step first you smile when he walks in then you kiss him like you haven't seen him for days Embrace him embrace me

9:20 that's all I get tell me about your day we got the yes we've been waiting on for the permit oh that's fantastic I guess I finally won him over with my charm well I'm proud of you yeah I ran into a um church member this morning I'm concerned her face was bruised pretty badly did she tell you what happened yeah it's her husband I don't know much about him I've only seen him at church a few times yeah is she a good wife to him I don't know but he shouldn't be beating on her okay that's not what I meant but usually men lash out like that because their

10:05 wives are pushing them explain the more respect you show a man the more love he will give in return hopefully this is coming out of your mouth no it's not it's biblical the Bible literally commands wives to respect their husbands to submit to them it's going to be in their best interest for both of them if if she's as obedient to him as possible while he's going through this space clearly it's not who he is or she wouldn't have married him now if his if his heart changes well then that's a win for her and for the kingdom yeah praise God so I should do nothing

10:53 um offer to counsel them together maybe that'll help anyway I'll be back down at seven for my dinner [Music] how about I look into getting you a little radio when you're home oh that way you can sing with the music oh come on don't look at me like that you're saying it's not that bad oh baby come here I'm come here oh I wouldn't worry about it okay you're talented as so many other things

11:41 girl he had to go he was so fine though Grace and he had an accent Coy you are married married not blind not death well maybe I should find a cop I mean both of y'all dipped into that pool so how's the water um Derek is fine yes he is mine's getting a little pudgy in the midsection in his feasting but he keeps you looking right it's so stressful being married to police officer and he brings all his stress home all the time he does like what does he do he's just Moody sometimes he yells he'll slam doors he'll throw stuff it's whatever though has he ever hit you oh honey my whole family is crazy and he knows it he's a jerk but he makes up for it on payday the gifts make up for everything the

12:27 yelling the moods what's the alternative dating again am I going back to kissing frogs and hoping for a prince I'll just stick it out with the Moody toad I do have well get it how you live but next time uh can you get a group gift [Music] I needed that I haven't been out in forever so are we gonna talk about it about what I don't know Grace seems like everything is just falling apart when did this start

13:14 a few months ago we took a trip to a little bed and breakfast the news popped up about a cop shooting another kid and we were on our way out the door and he lost it okay it was the first time he ever lost it on me like that he hit me so hard my husband hit me like I was some man off the street I'm so sorry those same hands taught me how to play this piano when we got married patient

14:00 gentle those same hands I just can't figure out what I did to change him so much you can't think this is your fault whose is it his all his how often is he doing this usually after he's had a few beers started out once a month but now he's drinking more faith oh no he has never lay to handle her it's not okay for him to hit you either he's not a monster Grace this isn't him he is truly sorry for the last time he promised he would never do it again promises don't mean Squat and sorry isn't worth the oxygen it takes to say it you know this was supposed to be girls night in

14:45 I turned it into a pity party it's okay for you to talk to me about this I know I just don't want to but we will talk more I'm here for you whenever you need me and you and Faith always have a place with me thanks sis I may take you up on that please don't tell Dad nah but I sure wouldn't mind throwing something at his ass I couldn't believe it get in there go

15:35 oh okay look what Daddy bought me see wow that's really nice sweet pea how about you go upstairs put it in your jewelry box and hop in the tub okay all right Grace I haven't seen you in a while way too long but you'll be seeing a lot more of me now though Grace could you please give us a second sure I'll go hang out with my niece

16:22 look I know that this gift will make up for what I did but you have to know that I love you how would I know that Derek because it's me it's us always been us look at my eyes I'm going to make you proud again it'll be just like it used to be I promise no more hitting I mean it crossed my heart no face is beautiful should be hit ever

17:07 it will never Happening Here you forgive me Now give me my gift s

18:06 I love it babe never again okay all that other stuff it's behind us let me take you out tonight no I can't I guess baby let me take you out Grace could stay here with faith all right yeah yeah come on [Music]

19:00 I don't care as long as I'm with you [Music] and I don't wanna be with anybody else [Music] will you [Music] our relationship should be perfect but I know it's worth it being with you [Music] I can't live it got me feeling like a new spiritual

19:48 healing cause this is [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] I don't wanna be with anybody with you [Music] running a little late on dinner aren't you I had a session that ran over and then mom called and talked for over an

20:35 hour and he wanted steak instead of the chicken I'd already prepared dinner should be on the table at seven I don't expect your mother to care about such things since her idea of dinner was a bucket of chicken on the table and not every night but you know how our household is run be ready shortly a wife's priority after God is her husband and then comes work and friends and family and that includes your mother I said it'll be ready shortly don't rush past the seasoning

21:26 yes any other man would feel unloved by his wife just coming home and not acknowledging him just trying to get your dinner on the table maybe if you cut the cackle session short with your mother and I wouldn't have to Forfeit my greedy creamy Michael wow just like old friends why do you keep testing me testing you never mind uh explain what you mean

22:12 never mind I don't want to argue so you're okay great can I get back to your steak I'll be in the dining room oh it's it's almost seven you look so much younger when you smile it's nice your mother's a terrible person you only had chicken at night when blood clots with freaking chicken

22:58 704 foreign let's bless this meal no matter how late

23:44 it was put on the table dear Lord thank you for this day and for this food that was prepared for the nourishment of our bodies and thank you for the beautiful hands that prepared yeah I know it's a little overdone nope come here honey come here look at this here how do I like my steak prepared

24:31 trying instead of cutting short the enthralling conversation you were having with your mother this less than mediocre meal is my fault no that's not what I'm saying [Music] clean it up [Music] I'm going out [Laughter]

25:19 hey babe must be nice to just sit around all day watching TV I've been working all day you call what you do work you're drinking so come sit down tell me what's going on far as I know they've always been yes come sit down it should still be warm so what's going on

26:09 hey can you not hear me dinner is okay why should anyone be cheers [Laughter] foreign I just came home from a terrible ass day at work and you sitting up here laughing in my face I tried talking to you but you didn't respond

26:54 I thought I would be a bigger help by just leaving you alone eating popcorn and laughing in my damn face is helping me am I entertaining you I was laughing at the movie not you you know you know so now I'm the problem here too huh I don't know what happened at work but we said that we would stay calm and talk it out no you're a [ __ ] counselor Derek

27:40 calm down don't tell me to calm down Derek Derek give me another beer oh I said give me another beer this one's empty

28:33 and so at this time those of you who are in need of prayer or if you have family or loved ones in need of prayer meet me at the altar I Surrender yes ma'am oh and God said cometh on to me yes sir [Music] do I have another [Music] come leave all your woes and wills at

29:18 the altar presence daily all surrendered thank you brother excuse me I haven't seen you in a while he's not going to change you have to

30:05 I have to change what be a better wife keep my mouth shut tell me what do I need to change I have to get out of there before he kills you like I told you before I'm not leaving him Derek is a good man deep down he pays all the bills and he keeps food on the table and I'm sure he makes you feel like the most special person in the world most of the time he needs me and faith that I need him he won't stop do you have any idea how hard it is right now to be a police officer half of the world hates you because of the corrupt ones add being black and people hate you because you're a sellout every day he goes out there and puts his life on the line and then he comes home and

30:51 does this to you it isn't okay no matter how many lives he saves this is not okay is your marriage so perfect that you can't understand that couples go through a few rough patches I see how Pastor Jeffrey treats you but would you leave him if he was abusive a few times yes I would think you're lying to yourself it's easy when it's not your reality you know they granted my permit right at first we get the program then we get to school I heard you know your little brother he

31:37 already has his own Academy and a yearly Mission out of his church oh he'll get there oh that's so nice having a little ladies peek on your behalf be careful some might consider that a sign of weakness she doesn't speak for me and I'll have that school within a year I got the permit I will get that school fun you think you got that permit on your own don't you it was you I don't mind throwing my weight around a little bit for my boy why don't you go ahead and get these

32:22 dishes oh wait a second you're having your boy do dishes what are you trying to do turn them into a housewife everyone does their part around here Mr Jeffries why don't you come with your granddad we're gonna go watch a game in the living room we'll let your mother and your grandmother they'll take care of the dishes and I am going to teach you all about the roles that God created for man and woman I have such high hopes for this one here so Mikey you want to stay and help the women with the dishes oh doing the dishes won't kill you Liz you're doing most of the time anyway you're letting him come in here and tell

33:08 your wife what to do a husband should be able to do whatever he chooses in his home his castle is that so well in this house you will not cause a scene in my home you see how my mom just got up without a word of complaint you can learn a thing or two from her it's no reason to be so upset dear Bernie's right washing dishes is not a chore for a boy so you're okay with all this real stuff there have always been roles for men and women and if we are to be good wives as the good Lord instructs

33:55 we acknowledge those roles so just submit under every circumstance under every circumstance Michael's a great man Elizabeth and you should be grateful that you have someone who treats you so well he is a great man it's not a great husband can't believe I'm hearing this he treats you like a queen yes sometimes and then sometimes he's abusive is Michael hitting you no no he's just well then how is it abused I don't know I don't know if it's abuse I just I feel

34:40 we are here to help our husbands reach their greatness and that's not always easy just not happy I don't know why you'll figure out what's wrong with you wrong with me our husbands are exceptional men they don't curse or hit us or step out with other women yeah hey can we keep this conversation just between us like it never happened dear a place where you rinse these dishes my knees need a break of course I'm sorry please impressed Michael's trying to fill some pretty big shoes a break here

35:36 [Music] you don't have to stop singing look what I found surprise so you don't have to feel so uncomfortable about being so pitchy I'm glad you and my mom got to spend some time together that's all can we talk about this later I have some things on my mind like what you were talking to my mom about excuse me well I saw you talking quietly to her while she was washing dishes what were you talking about I asked you a question it's really between your mother and me Michael your husband is asking you a question can I just finish these dishes we can

36:23 talk later your husband's asking you a question and that means we talk now I'm asking for space foreign what were you talking to my mother about you and me Michael we were talking about us I already knew that you don't think my mother would keep something like that from me do you couldn't wait to run and tell you this isn't about her this is about you and your Defiance and you're going behind my back yes I don't want to talk about this right now yeah well you don't really have that option do you

37:13 who else have you been talking to your mother is this what we're doing now ignoring me when we're talking you're talking Michael I'm just here you can follow me all over the house if you want to but you cannot force me to have a conversation that I don't want to have so when it comes time for you to pick out a wife make sure you find one who's respectful and obedient how dare you bring him into this my responsibility as a parent is to make sure that he is capable of making the right decisions in life that's right son off let's go to the store okay and where do you think you're going get back in the house we just want to go for

38:01 ice cream yeah so get out of our way you're not going anywhere you hear me you're not going anywhere okay I'm sorry I'll stay safe why does your mom always wear sunglasses even inside um her eyes are sensitive to light oh my mom told my dad that she always has bruises too she um just Falls a lot she's really clumsy sometimes oh hey girls do y'all want a snack okay you're the best mom ever

38:50 no I'm not but I'm trying baby you don't have to do that I'm coming to apologize I never should have brought Matthew into this well what else is there what are you doing it's been four days Liz and I'm struggling this is why so many marriages open up to Temptation there are certain things are

39:36 expected of you as a wife so I'm just supposed to say yes every time you want to have sex even if I don't want to because that's my duty as a wife yes just like how you expect me to go out and make money because that's my duty as a husband Michael so you can you can do whatever you decide to do but still my wife we are of the same flesh Lizzy do not deny your husband Michael you're hurting me [Music]

40:22 foreign I love you so much tell me that Michael let's see I love you so much I love you so much I love you [Music] through America [Music] [Applause] [Music]

41:13 where's Faith sleeping over at Zoey's tonight oh so that means it's just me and you tonight huh I guess so something wrong with you I have something for you Faith's been hearing you hitting me she knows okay kids know that their parents argue from time to time it's no big deal the big deal is arguing I don't want her thinking that it's okay all of that is in the past and the past seems to keep repeating itself I gave you my word again

42:01 I bought you flowers you love flowers you're not gonna thank me for them no the flowers and then what we start all over tomorrow I said that that was in the past why are you trying to start a fight you can't buy my forgiveness anymore what would you say to your daughter if you knew some man was giving her black eyes what would you tell her to do Derek you thinking about leaving me would you try to stop me if I had to look okay okay listen listen look I have these beautiful flowers here for you I've apologized for all that other stuff that happened before the past just be the past now

42:46 are you going to take these flowers I'm not gonna have to give them some money off don't nobody want your ugly ass sunflowers see I try to do something nice for your grateful ass but you wanna fight don't come out of this room until your attitude is right

43:42 all right where you going the bathroom [Music] foreign [Music]

44:47 thank you [Music] hey how long are you gonna be in there foreign [Music]

45:56 foreign [Music] thank you

46:44 foreign [Music] excuse a mess wife isn't much of a homemaker but she can cook so I guess that makes up for it I'll speak with the wife separately

47:33 hi I'm Office Max Tanya Derek's wife you might tell me what happened tonight um me and my husband just had a little disagreement from the looks of the scratches on his face I would say it's a little more than a disagreement you want to tell me about those um I lost my balance and reached out for his hand and completely Miss I see are you defending yourself would you like to speak in private do you realize every time I ask you a question you look at your husband you're still doing it

48:19 with me I like you again would you like to speak to me in private no I'm okay I can't help if you don't ask nothing here he's one of us you're really lucky this officer has clearly been assaulted he's a good man make sure you're taking care of him don't hesitate to call if you need us thank you

49:05 you know every time I ask your wife a question she will look to see if you were watching it every time you were if I was hitting my wife like you seem to be implying why wouldn't she just have me locked up man she loves you she just doesn't want to see you in jail she wants you to stop beating on her like I said before there's nothing going on thanks go wait in the car listen man this is the fourth time we've been out here there's never been any charges filed no arrests it's one thing if it was officer Cooper but this new guy can cause some real problems for you

49:51 just keep it down it's not worth the jail time brother yeah yeah yeah I'll take care of it appreciate it y'all be good all right he won't be happy till you see me in jail will you if I wanted you in jail I would have told I told him what better be glad I didn't press charges but don't worry baby I won't let them lock you up this time but you could be a perfect team

50:36 you should have just taken the flowers good night good night Derek [Music] hey Lizzy [Music] white people

51:25 [Music] stay with us [Music] I love you you know I love you right I want to hurt you you're trying to leave me I'm trying to leave me no

52:12 it turned out the most part right okay I love you good night [Music]

52:58 thank you [Music] how could you embarrass the church like this how could you embarrass me like this I'm sure people are already talking what are you thinking about Liz good morning Pastor Jeffries I'm a minister Ross day I was just coming by to check on Miss Jeffries all right

53:45 how you feeling today ma'am she's not speaking much feeling much better would you mind if I was Optimus Jeffries alone we don't keep any secrets from one another it's just protocol at this hospital I am I hope you understand I'll be right outside just uh wave if you need me Miss Jeffries please please call me Elizabeth as a part of what I do here at the hospital I I have to ask you some difficult questions I understand what happened last night to bring you to this point

54:39 he can't hear you thank you last night my husband and I we um we got into a heated argument he came in later and he wanted to sex I was still upset with them so I denied him and he he did it anyway are you saying he forced you you make it so so Violet when you say it like that he's my husband he wasn't rape we're married in them you shouldn't be guilted or forced into having sex it's not consensual it is rape husband can't rape his wife

55:24 yes Elizabeth marital rape exists Michael has never been violent with me I wasn't in danger I didn't even scream for help I think this is a scream for help and you are in danger if you think that the only way to escape is to take your life I'm not telling you what to do in your marriage but what I will say is that your life matters it is important that you take care of yourself of your body as well as your soul I can't just walk out on a marriage right I don't like divorce I think that sometimes it's necessary why don't we just talk about that when you're feeling better yeah Lizzie the nurse to say it's time for breakfast

56:11 I love I'll be around if you need me for prayer or anything it's a pleasure to meet you both ah wow what were the two of you talking about I'm tired Michael I can hear a little breakfast but then I need to rest got a minute yeah come on in I missed you last Sunday I was sick um much better though I've been wanting to talk to you yeah have a seat

57:04 so you wanted to talk to me well I did now that I'm here I don't know what to say did you want to talk to me about faith or Derek Derek or me he attacked me again hey I am so sorry did you call the police he is the police okay um there are shelters that you can go to they have counselors and legal representation you'd be protected there I have faith to

57:49 look after I can't just move her to book he's good to her how good is he to her if he's trying to kill her mother shelter is just not an option okay so what are you gonna do keep my head down my mouth shut it's not your fault you know that right abuse is about power and control well he has both what do you need from me tell me what to do leave them by any means necessary there's a safe place I can give you information on

58:39 they can help you with resources they can help get you on your feet I don't know try them make sure you have all your important documents birth certificates passports maybe even get a prepaid phone so you can't be tracked they can help you with an escape plan what if it kills me I won't lie the most dangerous time will be when you try to leave take his threats seriously if you have a plan you can be one of the ones that make it I just don't know if I can risk it I have faith to take care of what would she do without her mother exactly

59:24 oh I better get going I don't want him wondering where I'm at Faith honey why don't you go upstairs and get out of your church clothes not before you give your daddy a hug where have y'all been today sweet pea just to church did you go anywhere after church no just home hmm was mommy talking to the deacons or her

1:00:10 church friends I don't know I stay into my class until she gets me I was like the last one in there today but Miss Sanders gave me an extra piece of candy so it was fine with me I bet it was why don't you head up to your castle princess and change up on the count of three what two three go go go go go go go [Music] it took you so long to get her from class first lady's been out sick I just stopped by to speak to her for a minute about me of course not about church stuff good you know I've never been shot before

1:00:58 but I have heard how painful it is when it rips through you don't be so serious I'm just cleaning them never know you'll need to use one happy anniversary darling

1:01:48 foreign I know our relationship has been Rocky lately but I want our marriage to be strong like it always has been a book well not just any book here look at it how to properly care for and serve your husband I know it gets confusing for women to know what their role is and this book right here redefines what it means to be a good wife yeah I even

1:02:34 highlighted some of the passages that I thought you might find it enlightenment how to turn your not right nose into right away dear laughs that was uncalled for no that book was uncalled for

1:03:35 [Music] we've all been praying for you Liz and since we heard about your accident because the severity and the situation

1:04:23 of what happened we think that that you should you should step down from counseling until everything gets back to normal with you this was your idea you know you've had issues with your anxiety before and now it's the pills my medical history is private this is not the time I have always been there for you if you can't make the hard decisions I can I think pastors just trying to do what's right for the church so this is about the church

1:05:09 or is it about my marriage our marriage is our business that has nothing to do with this what about the members I'm counseling now there's a young woman I'll counsel her and I won't suggest that she leave her husband every time he loses his temper unbelievable bottom line Elizabeth you tried to take your own life which is a sin you've advised a member of the church to sin by divorcing her husband it's just sin on top of sin and we can't have you leading Souls astray Elaine can give her the card he's a highly competent Christian counselor

1:05:55 we want our Elizabeth back you okay sister I've been driving around for hours what are you doing we're going to pack your things I know you're not staying now Tanya I don't know what I'm gonna do yet I just need to see you just stop I don't want to hear any more excuses why'd you even tell me if you weren't going to leave do you remember when he proposed he was supposed to be this good husband proposing doesn't make good husband material any more than porn syrup on

1:06:41 yourself makes you a pancake [Laughter] for it oh you're still gonna leave him though yeah you're right I wasn't asking I have her address nothing but a word wait what oh sis the Vaseline oh listen you know I stay ready no no no no no no no no we're not doing that this is not high school I'm about to take him to school oh do you just carry that around with you I'm good I just you just

1:07:27 from come on that's lean well listen the shades I mean come on oh girl did you have your phone off today where were you and why was your phone off I ask you a question where were you what you want to watch New York tracker today I want to ask you again not too much to say on that huh why are you gonna pay my mail that's what you have to say to me I would have taken care of it like you took care of that DNA test without me knowing if I

1:08:13 want to come home early I still wouldn't know I didn't know she was telling the truth she has been harassing me for months threatening to tell you I know you're not trying to make me feel sorry for you she's crazy do not call that woman crazy because she wants you to take care of your son she's crazy damn man he looks just like you I saw him and I saw her the woman you were seeing when you were working late on Fridays I drove by her house do you know how dangerous that is baby we can start over

1:09:00 I'll do everything right this time I can't do this Theory you have to let me go so you're just gonna leave me after one moment of weakness a moment you have a whole son out there or maybe you're talking about the moment I was seeing spots while you were choking me or the moment I found out that I can't have any more children because you lost your temper and kicked me till I miscarried our son how many more moments of weakness do I need to overlook Derek okay

1:09:47 I'm gonna fix this okay we'll just work out the details tomorrow then okay thank you brother so uh I don't see dinner I'm making any are you ill nope

1:10:32 you care to enlighten me dinner better be on that table at seven or I'm going out alone I think that's a great idea I mean you going out I'd actually like for you to stay out what the hell's going on Lizzy I'm filing for divorce and I'd like you out until that happens we're not getting a divorce neither of us is Happy why would you no I will not have that kind of talk in my house oh today was necessary Lizzy you sent me in that room and painted me to be a

1:11:19 psychopath then you took the only thing that I have outside of this house and it was in your best interest in my best interest on yours always been about you then the church then Matt and if there's nothing else going on I may get your attention for a minute or two this is not you you're at that age now where your hormones are all out of whack you're acting irrationally like freaking menopause Michael I know exactly what I'm doing well then think about the repercussions

1:12:05 you'll be teaching our son that it is okay to abandon their vows you broke our vows first when you didn't protect me I'm an expert in divorce I counsel it all the time I see what happens it gets ugly the women always regret it and the only people who get hurt are the children if you think you can guilt me into staying by using our son parents work things out Christians work things out they don't just walk away

1:12:59 everyone's going to think you're crazy probably right about that I just don't give a damn hello what are you talking about it wasn't me try not to worry about it we'll figure it out I'll see what I can find out

1:13:45 hi Tanya how could you I'm sorry how could you call his boss it was for your safety my safety and how did all of this play out in your head well he would get arrested he would get fired I don't even have a place to go yet calm down I will not calm down you told me to get a plan together and I was working on that you still can you don't get to dictate how my life goes how dare you all right I didn't know of course you didn't know because it's not your marriage I was looking out for you no you weren't you were trying to be the hero you and Faith deserve better

1:14:31 I made a decision and who the hell gave you that Authority Tanya he will kill me Derek you scared me I did it wasn't me I promise I know you didn't do anything come sit down where's Faith with Zoe they're right behind me

1:15:20 come sit down Terry I'm sorry counseling is supposed to be confidential I kept telling you about talking to those people at church do you know I'm not pressing charges you know I wouldn't do that it was so [ __ ] stupid but you thought you could run your ass all through that church talking about business and that woman wouldn't run and tell the first person she ran into she wasn't supposed to

1:16:07 be here we are dude that's fine really it's okay foreign don't worry about it

1:17:08 why don't you tell me about the wound I found out that Miss Jeffrey's had caught in the report Derek for holding his gun to my head I talked with my sergeant about the other accusation and I felt like Tanya I needed to spend some quality time together sometimes I got loud sarcastic and I knew he hated that and actually she verbally attacks me most times she reminded me why I fell in love with him I love my wife usually he works late Fridays at least that's what he said he was doing I was just sitting there watching TV on the sofa she comes in I ask her to sit next to me I wasn't expecting him to be there I walked in and he was sitting in the dark

1:17:53 drinking I wasn't drunk just a little buzzed he had one of his guns out she starts going off about the girls at the church gossiping about our marriage and how upset she was he kissed me on my forehead and then he got up and walked away I told him not to worry about it he stopped behind me I heard a crack I even gave her a kiss I was afraid he was gonna kill me I think Mrs Anderson's injuries will corroborate her story as well as Mrs Anderson's own testimony time to testifying against me she'd never do that people versus Derek Anderson one count assault with a deadly weapon how do you plead not guilty or honor and

1:18:38 for Bill people request for man given the violence of the repeated attacks your honor Mr Anderson is a first-time offender with a daughter it's not a fight risk agreed I'll ask just once more Mr Maddox do you have a reasonable suggestion for bail people ask that bail be said at five hundred thousand dollars your honor the most dangerous time in a relationship marred by domestic violence is when the victim tries to leave mortality is 500 times more likely Mr Maddox do not use my courtroom for your personal hot button topics you want us to believe that your client has been abused for years but she's not press charges even one time until now the only thing I know about the defendant is what's on this page is Sergeant backs him your client's Pastor Backson

1:19:24 and you want me to believe that officer Anderson is a monster I can't do that today save your case for trial the defendant will be released on his own recognizance your honor of the people request an order of protection and that the defendant surrender all weapons so ordered Frankie Yankee Grand Pass Ed father to open the door letting wonderful smells of sweet potato pies glazed ham foreign [Music]

1:20:26 I cut my vacation short so I can be here with the two uh [Music] why don't you run upstairs have a little time together on the count of three okay one two three go is that okay Mom when did you start asking your mama's permission after I told you to do something I said get your behind up those stairs yes sir [Music]

1:21:11 thank you [Music] the judge said you can't be within 200 feet of me you can't be here [Music] are you running from me [Music] you remember when I bought this piano

1:21:56 when I tell you how to play that was a long time ago but you remember [Music] right [Music] we can get back there I think maybe we just need a little time apart I'll never touch you again in any way that you don't want Tanya we could be happy trust me what do I need to do nothing

1:22:45 there's nothing you can do that don't I loved you with everything I have to love someone but now now there's just nothing left

1:23:35 he would have just been there for me none of this would be happening the fight's the baby wait you're blaming your affair on me yes it's your fault get out of my house this is my damn house oh they lock your ass up can't even breathe without me oh they're praying to God you did I am your God I can give life oh

1:24:23 Let Her Go go what are you doing here gonna work it out in the middle of the night you need to leave no this is still my house and in the eyes of God you are still my wife cared out Michael I mean it you said that you'd die from me remember that what happened to that

1:25:09 you're not gonna leave I don't mind sleeping elsewhere oh well our son deserves better than this Liz you're a better mother than this don't you dare question the way I parent let's go take a trip me and you let's go back to one more year just a year ago whenever we went I had to stop but you can't stop my wife [Music]

1:26:10 me [Music]

1:27:26 okay okay all right foreign [Music]

1:28:16 [Applause] [Music] thank you foreign [Music]

1:29:35 thank you [Music] here [Music] later [Music] I'm gonna give you everything I promised you

1:30:32 [Music] baby [Music]

1:31:19 foreign [Music]

1:32:07 where are we going on a trip in the middle of the night yes baby I just just sit back and enjoy the ride okay hang away from Daddy is Daddy a monster no baby your daddy is not a monster okay you just need that Hill

1:32:58 where are you going honey but you won't dare him turn around and go home no why can't you just leave me alone you can't leave me last morning my daughter is in the car sit flat open buckle your seatbelt [Music]

1:33:57 foreign [Music] [Applause] [Music]

1:34:42 Hallelujah [Music] we're all fires we're gonna turn this world upon it shoulders

1:35:30 [Music] creatures [Music]

1:36:25 it's our Cloud gonna bring us on these hallelujah oh a new breed baby we are a wild fire we fight for survival our blood got an arrival no let's start a Revival oh [Applause] [Music]