They’re Hiding More Than You Think… What’s Really Going On?

0:00 This week something has been going on in their mind about you. So I have I have a lot of cards three different decks that I've used here. See on the outside they are carrying themselves normally keeping their ego intact uh keeping their distance even acting like they have everything under control. But these cards are showing me someone who is thinking about the future of this connection. Who is maybe even holding back on their emotions. They don't want you to see how they are feeling here. So we will find out. Now the first energy is ace of pentacles. See there is um you know very practical thought around you almost like they have been wondering whether this connection still has the

0:46 potential to start again. Is there um something real tangible that can be built around this connection? They may be thinking about an opportunity to restart, rebuild, approach you differently rather than you know simply repeating the old pattern like you know coming forward with some sort of an offer but also I feel this might be just an initial stage because aces is just a beginning and then you have to build upon it. Now chariot at the same time there's a strong urge to regain control of the situation. Their mind is kind of pulling them in two different directions here. Emotionally they don't like this you know feeling that this connection is steering them. Part of them wants to move forward towards you while the

1:32 another one is determined to control the timing, the direction and what they reveal here. Now world I don't know if you heard the sound but that was like a confirmation to me. They they want to come towards you but they are like I don't want to lose control at the same time. See they've also been thinking about everything that's happened between the two of you where this chapter chapter is actually heading. Is there you know an end to this connection? Is is this pattern ending? What is happening here? There's a sense of completion here but also realization that something about this connection has changed permanently. It simply can't go back to where it was. So there is I think there was another short reading which also showed the sense of

2:19 completion here. King of cups. See emotions are much more contained than they um appear here because this is someone who can feel deeply while deliberately keeping those under wraps. So they they just close their eyes like a you know ostrich and think that okay nobody will find anything out here because they can't see they are thinking about you with genuine feeling but their instinct is to master those feelings rather than let you see how much they affect them. So you know this is throughout the week progression. So it could be you know one day they are thinking this or morning they're thinking this night they're thinking something else and they can be

3:04 you know rotating between these thoughts here. Now we have 10 of cups. This is like a beautiful energy. This is where it gets interesting because underneath all that control all that um you know I'm not going to show what I feel emotionally significant uh you are emotionally significant to them. They have been thinking about the fulfillment, the happiness, the happily ever after with you. This is where the possibility of having something with you that feels complete, that feels, you know, this is what I always wanted. This is not a temporary feeling here. So they thought this week seems to have moved around. Can this actually become something to what would it take for me

3:49 to get in control of the situation? while underneath the emotions are considerably deeper than they are showing here. Now um I've taken out three cards from the the dark confessions card the deck. See, uh this person is deliberately withholding. This is the first energy is I'm keeping secret secrets from you and I hope you don't find out. See for some of you this can be that this person is hiding certain things from you uh where there could be you know some some lies some deceit uh because I have I regret lying to you later. So for some of you yes this person has lied to you and they

4:36 have hid things from you. they have been manipulative possibly they gaslighted you after that um and now they are regretting it as well but they still have certain things that they they hope you don't find out but at the same time for a lot of you I feel um this person doesn't it's not they're not ready to um for you to know the full story it could be their emotions the extent of what what what has been going inside their head uh a decision a situation. So they are doing something which or feeling something that they don't want you to know. I don't feel guilty for how I treated you. My ego is too big to care. See there is a very strong sense of ego

5:23 defense here because admitting that they hurt you would also mean that they have to admit that your feelings matter to them. So instead of sitting in guilt there, they are rationalizing their behavior. They are justifying whatever they said, whatever they did, how how they approached the situation, their lies, their deceit, their manipulation, um maybe broken promises, whatever it was, they are justifying their behavior to protect their pride. Maybe they are blame shifting here because that suits them. That suits the narrative they are playing in their head because then they don't have to feel guilty about it. Now my mask keeps me safe. I need to fake my feelings and that explains the

6:10 king of cups energy here. The emotional restraint is very deliberate. they may actually be presenting a version you know uh of themselves that that is colder that is calmer that is less affected than the person they are internally. So it's not that they are not affected but they don't want to show and they constantly see the problem is this person constantly justifies their feel their uh actions their words or whatever they're doing um to themselves more than you. They're doing it to themselves because if they were only doing it to you, they would change that behavior. But I see a pattern. So they're justifying to themselves. Now we have um I wish things could be different.

6:55 Underneath everything there is regret about the way things panned out. Um how things see there's a desire for circumstances to have played out differently. They they know internally we all know when we do something wrong with the other person and that's something that this person is definitely feeling. This isn't the energy of someone who feels completely indifferent about what happened but they have to protect themselves. They have to save their face. So they keep telling themselves, "Oh, I don't care. I did not do anything wrong. I my intention was not this justifying their behavior. I regret lying to you." So this is that secrecy energy because it suggests that you know the thing being hidden may involve something they haven't been completely honest about. So um they know

7:43 the truth wasn't handled properly. So maybe you found out something and they again fought with you around it that no this is not how it was and now they're regretting why the hell they they did that. So they could have handled it better is what they feel here. But they rather lie than you know clear things out. Finding out the truth crushed me. See the there is some emotional wound here. Uh something maybe they discovered or came to understand has affected them more profoundly than they let on. There is pain here but it's being processed privately. They're not willing to acknowledge it. So there's something

8:28 that uh you know they found out maybe you said or there's something that has happened which has affected them significantly. So this person has been thinking about you but not in a simple I miss you kind of way. They're thinking about what this connection could have been what it could still become what they have hidden um what what they would have to confront if they stopped wearing this mask that they wearing. See um the strongest thread here is control versus emotion here. They want to control the situation, control what you know, control what you see, but emotionally this connection is not as neatly contained as they would like it to be.

9:16 So um see they they do have emotions. They have been you have been on their mind in a serious way but this person is still justifying their behavior and till the time they keep justifying their behavior. Don't let them you know come back and just do whatever the hell they want. Let them know that they need to do the right thing. They need to be fair to you. They can't walk all over you and then just justify and get away with things. I hope this gave you some clarity. Thank you for watching.