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0:00 There is no demand, but you do think there should be willingness from both parties to share it up for transparency if things are serious. Uh, that's a good question. Um, yes, a willingness, I agree, but the problem is is that you have to then completely like this is a idealistic This is an idealistic point. Okay, this idealism of oh, there has to be willingness to offer complete and utter transparency. It's a lie. Okay, you can't offer complete and utter transparency. So, the adult mature way of maintaining this as a man is you have to understand from the man's from the man's perspective now, okay? Um, if you when you truly understand how women function, what they respond to, uh, how to keep their intrigue levels high while still giving them some, you know, they
0:46 have to have some sense of security, right? You have to give them these things. Um, you start to realize that you can't tell them everything. If you tell them everything, all you're doing is bogging them down with information that they usually can't handle because it increases their anxiety. So, so, what you learn is you learn that you have to you have to have some sort of a cap to where you want to a line where you're going to to how Okay, you have to have a line to how much transparency you're going to offer. Okay? Now, every woman is going to tell you to your face, I want to complete transparency. Well, yeah, of course they're going to say that, right? But the problem is the moment that you do so, you open a can of worms that you can't close anymore. So, now it has to be this unwritten thing. Okay, because the nature of
1:33 leader and and uh and uh follower, right? Which is male-female relationships, right? Women only respect men that they look up to. Okay, so you have to be a leader. Leaders can't share all of the information with the followers because by definition of being a follower, guess what that means? You can't necessarily handle every piece of information of what's actually going on, okay? Because part of a man's job is to insulate the the woman from unnecessary anxieties because women get their anxiety triggered very, very easily. Your job is to protect them from that. So, you have to essentially protect them from themselves. The same way on a on a bigger scale, maybe not to the same extreme, but similar with children, right? You can't if you're having stress in your
2:18 life due to work, last thing you want to do is go into your kids' room and start telling them about how hard it is and how things are difficult and arbitrarily increase their stress. You protect them from that as much as you can because it's not going to do them any good to know things that are beyond their their understanding or control. It's just going to cause them stress with no gain. Okay? So, you have to protect the people you love from themselves. Okay, and a lot of people are going to view this as a negative thing. Well, you should allow people to make their own choice. It's like, well, here's the thing, right? Um, when you do that, often times you get very, very poor results in practical reality. Very poor results. And then actually there was the counter to that. Oh, well, you find the wrong person. That's the That's the point though.
3:04 There is no right person now. Because I'm not as a man going to bank on a girl's self-discipline as an emotional being. I don't want her to put put her in a frame of mind where she has to now be a man for me in order for me to be fully transparent. Okay? I'm not going to do that. I don't want her in that energy. I want her in an in an energy of wonder. I want her in an energy of some level of of a haze where certain things are offput onto me. And she has to just trust that I'm going to deal with it. That's it. And when she's able to do this with me, guess what that means? She's now in her feminine state. And I'm now protecting that feminine state. So,
3:51 she Think about it like um Think about it like this, okay? You have walls in your castle, right? The woman has to be inside of the castle. The walls can't be transparent. Now, as long as the situation inside the castle is beautiful and there's flowers and it's nice, okay? There's horses and dogs and cats and all the beautiful things and children and everything's great. That's what you want. Now, let's say outside of these walls, uh, ugly animals beasts uh, things that are always trying to hunt and kill whatever's inside the castle, right? If If that wall is transparent, that perception of the experience from the woman's perspective changes completely because now all she's
4:37 going to see is the outside. Even though what she what's right here is really, really beautiful and it's protected and safe, if she starts seeing what's outside of the castle, now she has the there's a potential there where it's going to take away from that environment. Now, she's going to take that upon herself to have unnecessary anxiety towards something that you've already handled. Okay, you've already handled this problem. You don't need now her to come to you and bring you unnecessary anxieties that you've already dealt with. So, this is why that wall can't be transparent. It has to be opaque. Okay? What she doesn't see is being dealt with and that's a part of the deal a girl has to take on when she takes on a guy like that because what's the alternative?
5:22 Take control in your own hands and live in a permanent state of anxiety where you think you know better? That's not a feminine position to be in. Now, a lot of girls elect to do this, but then it's to their own demise. They're never really that happy. The only happy position truly that content position you're happy I hate the word happy, but the only content position a girl can take on is when she's in that state where she's in the castle and the walls are are opaque. She can't see outside. And inside is very beautiful. Perfect. This is what it's like. So, I don't I don't agree with this position of absolute transparency. I think it's a lie. I think it's fake. I think it brings us uh in this brings us to to a position where we're constantly trying to fit a mold we're not supposed to. Like men are supposed to do this. This is this is our job to do this. And a lot
6:09 of guys, they're too idealistic, um, where they think that yeah, they're going to have their best friend woman, they're going to take on the outside world with them, you know? And it's like it's just not the case because women are just very, very weak to anxiety. They're very weak to certain uh, physical realities. You know, their emotions go out of whack and now you're dealing with a war on one front and the other front. It's like, I don't want to have wars on all fronts, okay? Like no war from you. War outside only. Okay? It's very important to understand this. So, yeah, this full transparency bull uh-uh. Um, I don't agree with it. Now, does that come with a lot of responsibility? Yes, obviously. Um, but women want a guy
6:56 to have responsibility. So, you can't have your cake and eat it, too. Either you have the best friend where you have to you have to mommy him or go take the man who's willing to do this for you and understand that you're never going to have full transparency because the moment you do get full transparency, guess what happens? Now, you're going to you're going to realize certain things a little too much.
