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0:01 If a woman ignores you, it doesn't always mean she's not interested. I know it's hard to believe, but listen, sometimes the very woman who likes you most is the one who goes quiet the moment things start to get serious or they start to like you. And most modern men completely misread that completely. They either chase too hard, overinvest too fast, or assume rejection. And guess what? That kills the attraction with a woman. So, in this video, we're breaking down why women ignore the men that they like, how to bring out the interest from women who are attracted to you by holding it back, and how to tell the difference between real attraction and ego games. Now, we're also going to talk about the fatal mistake that most men
0:48 are making right now, which is I'll tell you towards the end of the video, and how fixing that one thing alone can completely change your dating life with women. I mean, once you understand this, you're going to stop chasing mixed signals, stop wasting time where you're not wanted, and start meeting women who actually show interest and not waste your time. Watch this if you're tired of getting confused, of getting ghosted, or feeling like you're always one step behind. So, with that being said, sit your butt down and let's begin with the video. Now, the first one is that some women have a a toxic attachment style. They may like you um but they may have an avoidant or disorganized attachment
1:33 style. They find high they find a high they get high off of novelty. So that means that when they see you and they first see you the first time they get they show a lot of interest, right? They're dopamine driven women, right? Um they love the challenge. So usually newness is something that they react to. This comes this usually this reaction this overreaction to guys that are new. um comes from low selfworth. And so these types of women when you develop low selfworth as a child you gravitate either towards hedonism, pleasure or purpose. So they be they may become nerdy. They may be focused on their job or they may be hedonistic, the party girl, the girl that's really fun, artistic women, right? The women that
2:18 get that that women that get around often, right? The really fun women. Those are the women that when they like you and they start to feel close to you, um their attachment style finds intimacy as threatening. So if they like you more, they'll push you away. It's almost like um um Forest Gump, right? Where Jenny loved she loved them, but something in her couldn't be with him, right? And so she which is funny, she loved Forest the most. She had a disorganized attachment style. You can't do nothing about those types of women. You just have to recognize that she's disorganized by looking at her habits. If if if she might be someone who isolates herself, she might be a party girl. She might be addicted to drugs. A lot of those things come from a disorganized or avoiding or just having
3:04 a lot of trauma and bad relationships with your parents, which creates this and they can't help it. Some of these women are stuck for life. Okay? And you trying to change them, it's not going to work. And they may like you though, but the love they give you may not be healthy. Um, but they do have that guckity gluck. Those are the women that do spinoonies on your dick, bro. Um, so if you show interest with these women, their low self-esteem will tell them, "Oh, he likes me. He must be he must be lame." These women want more. They don't want those who want them. They want to climb the ladder. They're hedonistic, right? They they they like newness. So they may like you but they may get bored with new with with with the with
3:49 consistent with consistent men. They like the new men. They like the toxic guys. The guys that hurt her ego. But the problem with those guys is that you got to manage unstable women. Right? That's the truth. Second thing is the next reason is that they like you but they're manipulative. Okay. The first one is they're just an avoidant. Um, and sometimes avoidance are ethical avoidant, meaning she knows she can't give you love, so she'll push you away. Or the the the man manipulative avoidant, which is this one, um, it's manipulation. Um, they are they they deal with um they so they try to manipulate you because they want control. Okay? When you're raised as a child and you don't have control, you get manipulated. You either manipulate
4:35 people or manipulate your biology through drugs, doing circles, right? Or or or escapism, right? You got to control your environment. Um, and the way you deal with women like that is that you ignore them. You ignore them or attack their ego by showing interest in somebody else. Right? Women who are manipulative like control. When you show interest in other women or you show them that you have other female friends, sometimes that might break the the the facade, the defense mechanism. It might compel them to make mistakes. So, how do you know if it's a game or if it's real? There's a difference, right? Um the lights here are really bad. Sorry, guys. There you go. The difference here is that if she's shy but interested, she'll
5:21 still be responsive, right? you show interest, she might show some hesitation, but if you pursue a little bit harder, she might open up. By the way, if you're liking this video, hit the like button and subscribe to the channel. Okay. Um um so they they might show some resistance, but if you if you if you make if you do a bold move and you approach and you're confident, it breaks her resistance. Okay? And she and the difference is that she says yes and she follows through. The manipulative one don't follow through. She they may act shy or extroverted but they may not follow through. Right? So if it's ego game she'll enjoy the attention but give you little back. She'll be an attention [ __ ] Now the mistake that most men make the most when it comes to to um to
6:07 attracting I mean I mean why women like that like you most um don't show interest. Well, I'll be honest with you. It's cuz you're meeting them online. more women who are avoidant, women who have personality disorders, women who have attachment style problems prefer to date online because they can't relate to men in real life or they may have antisocial traits or they may not be yeah antisocial cuz she might she might [ __ ] her friend her friend's boyfriend and she may not be able to have friends and so she can't meet guys like that or she ruins her reputation too much. And when you meet women in real life, you have a higher propensity of meeting a woman who has some mental stability. Like norm the more social you are, the more normal you are, right? So you're either meeting them online, meeting them
6:52 at clubs. All right? Those types of women tend to jump around a lot and just be avoiding in general or you meeting them traveling for example. If you meet them traveling, they're more avoidant. I where meeting women in social normal functions that you see them on a consistent basis, school, art class, basketball team, um on the running club or the bicycle club that you go every day, the [ __ ] alcoholics anonymous, I don't give a [ __ ] I anything that you see them every day is how you encounter women that could be more consistent and that show they like you without having too many traumatic blockages. Cuz the more traumatic she is, the more complicated she's going to be and the more it's going to trigger you. That's what I think. And so remember guys, um, women that like you the most ignore you
7:38 most out of out of because of their attachment style. Sometimes they like you so much and it feels too awkward that they have to create distance to feel to feel comfortable. Intimacy is something that strong emotions is something that they run away from because they like control. Another reason is that they're malignant. They like manipulating, right? They are they have they have manipulative tendencies. So they like you, but they like control. And they like the control over you more than anything. And remember, how do you know if it's a game? Well, if it's if she's shy and she's ignoring you, some a bold action will break that resistance, right? But if she's shy and she but she's manipulating you, she doesn't follow through. She says yes, but she doesn't follow through. If both move doesn't do nothing, right? And the biggest mistake, not meeting them in
8:23 normal social situations. I'm telling you, not online, not at the club, normal social situations in your area. Like that, that's really how to meet normal women. They they if you meet them through your friends and family, most that woman that you meet through your friends and family has a lower likelihood of flaking on you because she knows you. Now, if she flakes on you, that's okay. At least she did the right thing, right? Anyways, ma'am, let let me know what you guys think about this. For one-on-one coach, go to mind forattraction.org.
