Woman tells you how to have bad boy energy that girls crave...

0:00 Today we got Ashley Hose. >> What attracts women to the bad boy? Listen up. First off, let me take off the filter. Okay, here we go. So, women are very drawn to the bad boys because they carry a level of confidence like no other. >> Okay, so this is always the excuse that girls use when they start talking about the quote unquote bad boy. So, I'm going to break this down again because I've done so many, many times, but I'll do it in a more particular fashion this time. The bad boy they always talk about is the guy that doesn't give a about what they say. It doesn't necessarily mean that he's bad across the board. It means he's bad to them. Bad referring to the fact that he doesn't follow the status quo, being submissive to them as their father likely taught them. This type of guy is always going to be far more arousing to their senses, but they use

0:45 the excuse of confidence to try to justify why they like him in the first place. These men walk around as if they could care less if a situation works out or not. So that level of detachment is very magnetic for women. >> It's likely because they know the objective truth. They know they're irreplaceable and these petty power games that girls play don't work on them. So the girls typically just give up doing it at some point. When a girl knows and accepts with full certainty that the guy she's attracted to will not cave or budge, she shifts modes into a more submissive state. This is a state that any actualized man wants his woman to be in. >> They also have options. And women are very attracted to men that can have options, but are choosing them in the long run. So, they are drawn to this

1:32 individual because they are competent. They know who they are. They know that they can get other women if it doesn't work out. So, they're not desperate for their attention. And they also know the little things to catch their eye, like bringing flowers, picking them up. But ideally, women are looking for the ex player. Someone that knows that they're confident, knows that they have options, but are finally choosing monogamy and a relationship so that they can settle down. What does this mean for you? Everybody is lovable and everybody is worthy and everybody holds value. So, you need to get back into a place where you're building up your confidence and you see your value again. and [clears throat] maybe put a little bit of the rejection aside cuz I'm sure that that was hard and say no like a good woman is going to see my value and I'm

2:18 going to continue putting myself out there. >> It's not that simple unfortunately and here's where the charade falls apart. Unfortunately, not everybody is worthy of love. This is idealism and a scop. You have to become worthy of love. You have to do real and tangible things that raise your value. You can't just do it arbitrarily like a lot of these people tend to claim. You have to remember that potential value is very different than tangible value. Women tend to predominantly go for tangible value with the touch of potential value. If you're just hypothetical potential with no tangibility in the current moment whatsoever, you're going to get passed on. Hey guys, before we keep going, I want to mention that I have a dating course that goes over all the essential concepts you need when it comes to modern dating. I put the link in the description, so make sure to check it out. Let's get back to the video. >> That's number one. Number two is detachment. detaching from the

3:05 expectation of how something's going to end up, allowing it to unfold the way that it does and knowing and trusting that if it doesn't work the way that you would prefer it to work, that something else is coming and somebody else is going to see your value. This can only come from true abundance and nothing else. You can't psychologically trick yourself into this position. You have to know and believe deep in your soul that this is how it actually is. You have to be able to trust your abilities 100% without faltering. Meaning that you know without a shadow of a doubt that you can get a girl if you really want to at any given time. Maybe not a hyper specific girl like a movie star or something, but a girl of relative quality. The vast majority of guys do not have this belief because they do not have true abundance. Unfortunately, the vast majority of the time this can only be gained through

3:51 experience. Now, if you're smart enough, you only need a handful of experiences to understand all the foundational components. Unfortunately, some guys need 15 experiences to fully understand everything they need. Try your best to be as efficient as possible, but don't buy into the cope that you can do this without abundance. You need to acquire this through experience. That's the only way. And number three, which you guys are going to hate, but it's doing the little things that set you apart from other men. And that's keeping to your core values and being the sweethearts that you are. That's bringing some flowers. Maybe they don't earn it in the beginning, but after a couple of dates, like booking flowers and doing the sweet things that I know you have in your souls to do. >> Don't buy into this because her, like many women, they'll give you a little bit of truth, just enough to cling on

4:37 to, but they're always going to go soft in the end because they want to make sure that they have some form of control over you. This is classic feminine projection at its finest. It doesn't mean we can't interpret the video and learn from it, but we have to understand where the female cope starts to take over. She's projecting her idealistic desires onto men by telling them to do this when in reality in her own practical life she likely doesn't respect the guy that does this as much as she respects a guy that doesn't do this. So keep that in mind. Two dates is typically not enough time to warrant flowers outside of very niche situations that I won't bring up for the purposes of this video. >> But maybe the rejection and the energy that dating has brought to you in the last couple of years has stopped you from doing those things because women truly value them. And if someone doesn't value them and doesn't appreciate them,

5:24 they are not your person. And based on my past video, you leave somebody that is not appreciative of the things that you bring to the table. >> Don't buy into this because it's not fully true. The nuance here is that you have to fully understand your position before you do things like this. If you know with 100% certainty that you're wearing the pants in the scenario, then this type of behavior is not such a big deal. The problem is that 95% of guys don't know with 100% certainty that they are in that position. So, they do this sort of action like giving flowers or whatever at the wrong time and then that ruins their chances. It ruins their chances because it comes off as performative. Okay? It's not real. It's not authentic. It's not from the correct frame. The vast majority of the time, girls are going to view flowers as a performative act. In that context and frame, the girls that want that are the

6:09 girls that are trying to doineer you because you're supposed to do the right thing. Those are the type of women that you really want to avoid. Now, this girl has good intentions, of course, so she's not saying it from a negative perspective. But keep in mind, she is projecting the ideal. The ideal that she herself probably struggles to find because he pretty much doesn't exist. Unless she's comfortable with doineering a bit, which in the long run usually never works out. Deep down, they hate doineering. They just do it anyway because society taught them to do so. If you like this video, like and subscribe. Make sure to check my links in the description below.