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0:00 There is still a spark between the two of you, but somebody is holding back. It's like, you know, there's some something going on behind this guarded energy, whoever has this. So, let's see what are they feeling, thinking, you know, possible actions about you and then we will move into third party reading. So, if you don't have a third party situation, just skip that part and that is for people who may have third party here. So let's see what is what is the current energy between you and your person right now. Nine of pentacles overall energy justice. See there is a sense of you know I'm going to do my own thing. There is a sense of being um independent uh with one or both of you
0:48 focusing on their own life rather than kind of pursuing this connection actively. There is also a need for clarity, balance, fairness here. You know, this connection has to be looked more objectively here. Wherever there has been an imbalance or unfair behavior that needs to be uh addressed here. Um see the connection feels independent, somewhat emotionally measured rather than I don't see chaos or impulse here right now. There's still an evaluation happening like what is this connection really worth and what is actually fair for both of us. That's what I what I see here. Um, what are your person's energies towards you at this point?
1:34 The fool overall energy, king of wands. See, there is a lot of attraction that I see this person has towards you. Uh, they do want to, you know, there is an urge for a fresh start here. Fool is that energy approaching this connection uh without any weight from the past though. Um there's desire to take some action here. Um although this energy can also be quite self-directed. This can also be somebody who wants to dominate the situation or wants things to be under their control. So they are interested. They are attracted open to a new chapter. But they may want to approach on their own terms without feeling pressured here. Okay, let's see what are
2:22 what is actually going through their mind. What are they thinking about you? Nine of cups overall energy six of swords. See, you are this desire. You are somebody they feel this serene energy, this happy, beautiful energy with. So they think of you as someone who you know brings this emotional satisfaction, this pleasure, this sense of getting something they genuinely desire. Six of swords at the same time their thoughts moving towards you know let's get out of this chaos. I don't want to stay in this um you know tension uh let's leave that tension behind figuring out how to move this connection to a peaceful space. So the thoughts are positive, emotionally drawn
3:08 towards you, but there's a strong mental theme of wanting things to become easier. And I think that is where it gets harder for you and the connection. Um, okay. Let's see what are they feeling towards you. So, nine of wands fell out. Three of swords overall energy. Somebody has gotten hurt here. Either you or them. uh if they have hurt you, they're thinking about your hurt. If you have hurt them, they're thinking about that part. So, emotionally they're a little cautious, carrying some furiness that there's exhaustion here. They haven't completely given up on this connection. They're still holding on to it, but they are tired and there is also some disappointment
3:53 with this three of swords here. Uh see, their feelings look hurt, but not indifferent. There is emotional history here that has made them defensive. Maybe there have been repeated patterns. Um, and it could be yours or theirs. It doesn't matter. There are some patterns. So, whatever they feel is being protected rather than freely expressed here. Okay. If they had to give you, if they had to give you a message right now, what would that be? I dream about you at night. I need to sort things out first before I can come to you. And you light up my world. See, you defin this this is again that nine of cups energy. You definitely
4:38 bring a lot of happiness to this person and they they're definitely you know thinking about you. There is um you know want there is longing but also something unresolved that they they know they need to deal with before you know they can move towards you. Because if they don't deal with it and come towards you again, the same cycle repeats. That's the problem. Okay, let's see what do they actually want to do about this connection. What action can you expect from them in the near future? Seven of Wands, overall energy, two of cups. They desire a union, but then they want it again. Um, they're resisting. This is where see they want to protect their position.
5:24 They want to hold their ground, deal with whatever obstacles, resistance, but they also I feel want to um you know protect this connection because two of cups is where there is desire for a mutual connection here uh emotional meeting coming together. So they want the connection but they're not approaching without resistance here. Okay. Um by when will by when will they approach my viewers? When you initiate communication around sorting out this situation, the emperor overall energy 10 of wands, they feel pressure when they think about sorting it out. So um very deliberate controlled
6:11 approach with emperor. They're unlikely to act impulsive. Uh they want to feel that they have regained control of the situation before initiating anything. And um the delay is connected to the responsibility that comes with this connection. See this is um I don't see this as immediate like um this is not giving me a clear within a certain number of days. It could take up to 10 weeks. Um but yeah this is they have to feel in control before they they reach out for that kind of communication here. Okay. Now let's move to the third party questions. Let's see what are what are the energies between my viewers
6:59 person and third party 10 of pentacles overall energy four of cups. See they could have created something uh longlasting. This could be a marriage. This could be uh see this is tied to stability, family security. This is an established connection is what I see. Emotionally though there is dissatisfaction, disengagement. You're not happy with this. You're feeling like something is missing because if you if you look at this uh I mean she's sitting in such a beautiful environment but if you look at the body language she's like ah I don't know. So this looks like a connection that have it may have structure and stability to it but it is not making them happy. um the emotional
7:47 enthusiasm that that should come with 10 of pentacles that's not there. So yeah. Um, okay. What is going on in their connection right now? Let's see what's going on in the connection right now. Four of Pentacles overall energy, King of Cups. This is holding back. See, four of Pentacles is where um the strong tendency to maintain the existing situation, avoiding making any major change, exposing too much emotionally or anything. The emotions could be present at least on one side but they are very controlled. This is where um you know nobody's expressing anything. So
8:33 emotions are contained tightly held something is being maintained here. Um what are my viewers person's thoughts about the third party? legacy death overall energy king of pentacles. So this kind of confirms the 10 of pentacle energy. There is um they're thinking practically about the stability security responsibilities. See they're thinking about a major transformation in this connection. A change that has to happen. something about the way it currently exists may need to end, change or fundamentally restructured. Um, see the thoughts seem to be caught
9:18 between this need to change and their practical reasons to maintain stability. Okay, let's see. Um, are they actually feeling for this third party beneath all of this four of cups overall energy? Eight of cups. See, there is no no emotional attachment that I see. Um, I know we keep seeing this in the readings that there is no emotional attachment, but you keep asking me then why is this person not returning? That is because of this 10 of pentacle energy. because they need to maintain their responsibilities, the stability, securities, what they are bothered about and that is something I can't change. Uh the cards can't do anything about and I
10:04 have to tell you what the cards show me in the energies. I can't tell you something else. Um see there is distance there is also maybe a desire to walk away from the connection here. So the emotional energy is detached. Um there could be still attachment to the circumstances. I don't see them emotionally connected as such. Okay, let's see. Is my viewers person thinking about leaving the third party to be with my viewers? Five of pentacles overall energy queen of wands. See queen of wands is your energy here. This is where they feel this pull towards doing something. There is a sense of you know a separation here feeling left out
10:51 considering what it would mean to leave the existing situation the connection uh but this is not a clean decisive exit. You are compelling them to but well uh it's being considered but they don't yet show me a firm decision to leave the third party yet. Uh five of pentacles is more about the experience or possibility of you know being outside the existing structure not a confirmed departure here. Um okay what is the guidance for my viewers at this point actually let's see um what are I'm taking the dark confession.
11:39 So what are the dough confessions this my viewers person would want to make towards my viewers versus the third party. So for you we have I have things going on in my life that require my full attention and the second one is we are living two separate lives. For the third party I feel abandoned by you. It is triggering my childhood traumas and I'm embarrassed by my actions and feeling feel disgusted with myself. Okay. So with you uh they are not in a space where they're willing to or they're able to give you their entire attention. This
12:24 reflects the pattern we saw earlier of responsibilities, internal pressure that is taking up their bandwidth here. There's a recognition of distance between the two of you for sure here uh as though the connection exists emotionally but day-to-day realities are currently disconnected here towards the third party. This is where there's deep sense of emotional abandonment and some old wounds being um activated within that connection. Um there is significant regret or shame around their own behavior in the dynamic with the third party. See the contrast is quite starking with you. The confession is about circumstances and distance and with the third party it's about emotional pain, abandonment,
13:10 regret of some sort. Um, okay. Let's see what is the guidance for you before we close the reading. What is the guidance for my viewers currently about this whole situation? The Hermit, Three of Wands, Empress. Overall energy, seven of cups. See, your energy is scattered. You have too many things going on in your mind, too many possibilities, too many uh questions. Step back from that noise. Give yourself space to understand what you actually want here rather than constantly trying to decode their behavior. Keep your eye on the bigger picture of your own
13:56 future. Uh don't put your life on pause while waiting to see what they do. When Empress is where, put yourself first. Nurture yourself. Nurture your self-confidence, your own future. Um see your build yourself, build your life uh around yourself in a way where you feel happy. That is what is most important here. Um step back, look forward and choose yourself. while the situation reveals itself. You don't need to chase an answer that their action hasn't provided yet. Let them take that action towards you to show you that you are this real empress in their
14:41 life. Not just in words. See, don't make someone else's uncertaintity a reflection of your worth. You're not waiting to be chosen here. You're choosing yourself, your peace, and your life that you deserve. Your worth does not rise when someone chooses you, and it does not fall when they don't. So, choose yourself first. I hope this gave you some clarity. Thank you for watching.
