I didn't Wait for Marriage and I Regret it (MUST WATCH)

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La autora comparte su experiencia personal sobre haber tenido relaciones sexuales antes del matrimonio y el arrepentimiento que sintió. Destaca la importancia de amar a Jesús más que al pecado y cómo Dios puede redimir cualquier historia.

  • La autora se arrepiente de no haber esperado al matrimonio para tener relaciones sexuales.
  • Reconoce que su pecado la separó de Dios y que necesitaba un cambio de corazón.
  • Afirma que Dios puede redimir cualquier historia y ayudar a superar el pecado.

Introducción

La autora comienza compartiendo que no esperó al matrimonio para tener relaciones sexuales y que se arrepiente de ello. Explica que creció con la enseñanza de esperar hasta el matrimonio y recibió un anillo de pureza a los 13 años. Su primer novio también compartía esta convicción, y ella pensaba que ese sería su camino.

Experiencia Personal y Arrepentimiento

La autora relata que conoció a su esposo, quien tenía una experiencia de vida diferente y había estado con otras personas antes de regresar a Dios. Después de casi un año de noviazgo, tuvieron relaciones sexuales, lo que se convirtió en un ciclo perjudicial durante los primeros meses de su relación. Ella sentía mucha vergüenza, no por sentirse sucia, sino por no honrar a Dios ni obedecerlo. Con el tiempo, su corazón se enfrió hacia el pecado y no lograba ver que Jesús tenía algo mejor para ella que vivir en pecado antes del matrimonio.

La Lucha Interna y el Cambio de Corazón

La autora admite que no amaba a Jesús más que a su pecado, ya que este último le daba felicidad y gratificaba los deseos de su carne. Sin embargo, después sentía una separación de Dios y creía que no podía acercarse a Él. Finalmente, tres meses antes de casarse, logró cambiar su corazón con la ayuda del Señor. Él le mostró que una relación con Él es mucho más valiosa que satisfacer los deseos carnales.

Redención y Esperanza

La autora confiesa que durante años lloró sintiendo que nunca superaría ese pecado. Quería ayudar a otras chicas a esperar hasta el matrimonio, pero se sentía inútil y fracasada. Sin embargo, Jesús le mostró que estaba equivocada y que Él puede redimir cualquier historia. Afirma que nunca es tarde para volver a esperar al matrimonio y seguir el camino que Dios tiene preparado. Este camino no estará lleno de pecado, ya que este lleva a la tristeza y a la separación de Dios.

El Poder de la Redención Divina

La autora explica que Dios no quiere que superemos el pecado solos, sino que nos ayuda en cada tentación y nos da una salida. Ella se arrepiente profundamente de haberle dicho "no" al Señor durante tantos años y desea haberlo honrado con su vida y su cuerpo. A pesar de ello, confía en que Dios puede y va a redimir su historia, así como la de los demás. Desde entonces, ha experimentado mucha sanación y ha profundizado su relación con Jesús, quien le ha mostrado que su historia no había terminado a pesar de sus errores.

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0:00 I didn't wait for marriage to have sex and I regret it. Let's talk about it. When I was growing up, I was taught, you know, to wait until marriage. I got a purity ring when I was 13. My first boyfriend that I dated was also waiting until marriage. And I thought, okay, this is the way it's going to go. And then I met my husband and he had a very different life experience than me. He had been with other people before, but had recently come back to the Lord. And I did not have that experience. I hadn't been with anyone. I had been walking with the Lord my whole life, but I would say like the roots had never gone as deep as they needed to. And so when we had been dating for almost a year, we had sex and it continued as a bad cycle in our relationship for the first few months after that where I would be tempted to do this. We would do this and I would feel so much shame, not because I felt dirty or worthless, but because I

0:46 knew I wasn't honoring the Lord and I wasn't obeying him. And I knew that this was something that God did not want to be a part of my life. But over the months and the years, my heart grew cold to sin. And it grew cold to the reality that Jesus had so much better for me than living in sin before marriage. And I just couldn't see the hedges from the trees, if that's the phrase, because I did not love Jesus more than my sin. I know that's going to step on some toes, but I didn't. My sin made me happy. My sin gratified the desires of my flesh. my sin satisfied me in the moment. And then after that, there was a wedge between me and my relationship with the Lord. And I felt like I couldn't come to

1:32 him, even though that wasn't true, because I knew deep down, even though I kept saying, "I'm going to change. I'm going to stop this," blah blah blah, that I didn't want to stop. And I didn't want to change. And I think I was only able to get to that place when we rewaited for marriage three months before we got married because I finally had my heart changed by the Lord. And he showed me that a relationship with him is so much richer than gratifying the desires of the flesh. I was struggling, guys. There were so many years and days where I would cry because I felt like I would never overcome this sin. I wanted to help other girls so badly to show them like, "Yes, you can wait until marriage." And when this happened, I kid you not, for the longest time, I thought, "Okay, God's not going to be able to use me. I'm not going to be able to talk about this. I am a failure. I

2:17 have messed up." All the things. But Jesus showed me that is so far from the truth. If you have messed up, Jesus wants to redeem your story. It is not too late to reweight for marriage. It is not too late to start walking on the path that the Lord has for you. The path that the Lord has for you is not going to be full of sin. I can promise you that. Because sin leads you to a place that you don't want to be. It leads you to a sadness and a separation from the Lord versus when you say yes to Jesus, he can actually fill you with the Holy Spirit and help you to overcome sin. That's the thing. He doesn't want you to overcome sin on your own. He doesn't want you to wake up one morning and say, "Okay, I'm never going to have sex before marriage again." Absolutely not.

3:05 He's going to stand by you hand in hand and help you every single time temptation comes your way. and he's going to give you a way out. But you have the option to say yes or no. And for so many years, I said no to the Lord. And I so deeply regret it. I wish I had honored the Lord with my life, with my body, with my testimony, with all the things. But God can and will redeem my story, and he can and will redeem your story. He has brought so much healing into my life since then. I got married four and a half years ago, and my life has not been perfect since then. But Jesus has continued to bring me deeper and deeper in my relationship with him and show me that even though I made a mistake, my story was not over. Even though Satan wanted me to think that God was done with me,

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