0:15 What's up, guys? We are back with another video. If you are new here, my name is Sammy and we are the mermaid gang. This is where you can come and suspend your disbelief. I am a manifestation coach. I do offer one-on-one email or DM coaching. So, if you would like for me to help you dissolve whatever is between you and your manifestation, go ahead and contact me below. Now, let's get into the video. Today, tonight, whatever it is, where you are, we are going to talk about victim mentality in your own fucking reality. I am real tired of the boohoo poor me. They're doing this
1:01 and this and this and I don't understand and I'm doing all the work and it's not working. But you're still telling me that you're upset or you're ang you're angry or you're discouraged or whatever it is that you're telling me. Which automatically tells me that you did not do the work because the work includes not thinking from the unwanted reality. Which means you don't sit there and let your thoughts spiral enough of they're not here, they're not doing this, they're still ghosting me, they still aren't talking to me, whatever it
1:46 is. You don't sit there and let your thoughts spiral enough to manifest emotions. That's what tells me you've thought about it too fucking much instead of thinking the things that I told you to think. That's how I always know. And you guys get so upset about how it's not working and you don't understand cuz you did all the work. No, you haven't. Because if you had, you would not be thinking about that shit long enough for it to manifest into negative emotions. Emotions are a manifestation of your fucking thoughts. That's how I
2:33 always know when you're not telling me the whole truth. So, don't come to me telling me you did all the work and this is how you're feeling because you should not be feeling this way. If you didn't think too much on the negative, you would not be feeling this way. Another thing I'm tired of with the victim mentality with anyone in my comments anywhere. This is not directed towards any specific person. This is just in general. If you are manifesting something or specifically a person, this usually is a problem when people are manifesting a person. You complain after we've already discussed
3:20 that everyone is you pushed out. You still come out of your mouth to complain about what they're doing and how you think they might feel and they might still reject you. and all this other bullshit. They're you pushed out. The only way they can do these things or reject you is if you allow them to. Why are you allowing them to? I need you guys to pick your fucking heads up. Pick your fucking heads up. I'm so tired of this poor me. Life just happens to me.
4:07 Like, I'm just everything bad just happens to me. Like, nothing works out for me. I'm so sick of all the whiny shit. I'm so over it. I'm literally telling you how to take control of your life and you're still not doing it. Another thing I get a lot of is I don't know if manifestation works for me. I don't know if I can manifest. Sometimes I believe I can manifest, sometimes I don't. You can't not manifest or sometimes I want to give up. I want to give up. Okay. You want to give up. You can't
4:54 you can't give up. You know why you can't give up? Because you're constantly manifesting. Your idol thoughts throughout the day are manifesting. Your entire reality is a manifestation of your thoughts. You've been manifesting since the day you were born. So do not come to me Tam. You don't know if you can manifest. You don't really know if you believe you can manifest. Everybody else can manifest except for me. There is no one born under the lucky fucking star who can just manifest and other people can't. That's not how it works. You manifest by
5:42 nature. Your thoughts are always manifesting. What you're learning to do here is select what you manifest because you've currently or previously been manifesting off of autopilot thoughts and assumptions that you have gathered throughout your years until you stumbled upon learning about manifestation. But there's no question as to can you manifest? You cannot stop manifesting. You can't stop. So you need to select what you would like rather than what you're already
6:28 getting. And that takes some repetition and for you to stop thinking in the old way you used to think. So you can stop thinking or stop getting the old manifestations. But there is a period of time where your old manifestations are finishing up, so to speak, and then your new ones, if you properly stick to the instructions I give you, your new ones will start showing up. But if you get five minutes in and you're looking around and you haven't seen shit and then you're like, "Oh, this doesn't work. This doesn't work." And then what else can I do? Or
7:14 I'm exhausted of affirming. Do you know how fucking infuriating that is? You need you need to do this shit for at least three or more days. It took me two full weeks, I would say, to get my entire amount of money coming in that I was manifesting. But I you don't fucking give up. This is where you have to decide because I can help you. I can lay it all out for you. I can give you exact custom affirmations for your desires. The most powerful fucking affirmations if you would apply them properly while not thinking from
8:02 your old unwanted reality. But I can't do it for you. I can't manifest it for you if you won't discipline yourself and do the fucking work. If you won't follow the instructions for more than five damn minutes. What do you want me to do? You have to discipline yourself. Take some fucking responsibility and decide. Do you? And I will flat out ask you if you come to me whining about this shit, I will ask you, do you want it or not? Do you want it or not? Do you want a new reality? Do you want to have this thing
8:47 that you're trying to manifest? Or do you just want to fucking cry about it and just let life keep happening to you? Because at this point, it's up to you to make that decision. I can't make that decision for you. I'm not going to make that decision for you. I know when I want something and I'm fucking done with life happening to me and shit happening to me and me not getting things that I want that make me happy, I'm not going to give up. I will persist because I know that is what I want. So, if what I need to do is check every motherfucking thought that comes in my head and make sure that it is in line with where I want to be, the new reality I want to be in, that's what I'm going to do. You have to discipline yourself. You have to
9:33 make the decision. I can do all the other work for you, but if you don't make the decision that you are going to persist and it is going to fucking work because manifestation is real. You're already manifesting 24/7. All you got to do is change your thoughts. It's really not that hard. It is not that hard. But if you can't make the decision, then do then do not come crying to me about it not working because you won't stick to it for more than 24 hours. If that put in whatever time it takes because you know what? If you want your manifestation in 3 days, but it comes in four, you're not going to be fucking mad
10:20 that it didn't come on the third day. You're going to be just as happy on the fourth day that it came. The minute you give up could have been the minute right before your shit manifested. So stop whining. Get your shit together. Discipline your mind and manifest what you want. You can't stop manifesting. Either way, something's manifesting in your life. Now, do you want to choose it or do you want to just let it continue happening to you? That's where you have to make that decision because I'm not going to baby you. Not going to cuddle you. I'm not gonna Oh, poor you. I understand. I don't understand. I do not understand giving up. I will never understand giving up. I will never condone giving
11:07 up. If you want to be coached by me or you want to learn from me, you're not giving up. Make the damn decision and let's get this shit done. Stick to it. Stop giving up because it didn't change in three fucking seconds. You didn't get all that shitty stuff in three fucking seconds either. It took a buildup of your negative ass thoughts. So do the same thing with the positive ones and be just as damn patient. How about that? Because if you'd stop crying about it every three fucking seconds, it would come a hell of a lot faster. That's the thing. If you'd stop letting your thoughts spiral enough to create a negative emotion, those thoughts are already assumptions.
11:53 those negative thoughts. So, when you're on the process of manifesting, and I've got you on these affirmations, right? And these affirmations are the things that you need to repeat to create a new belief, even though I've said before, you don't have to fully believe them for them to manifest, but you do need to repeat them at least for a couple days because you're still battling against the old assumption that has already been created. It is already being held in your reality because of an it is an assumption. So this repetition has to wipe out this assumption. But if you're still got this assumption here and these new thoughts here, this one's going to win because it already is manifested. It
12:39 already exists. You already believe in it. If you're battling between what you believe and what you want to believe, you're going to get what you believe. So you can't be thinking these thoughts. They have to go. You have to kick them out. You can only be thinking from the reality you want to be in. You cannot straddle the fence. You cannot straddle the fence. So, if you decide you're ready to get your shit, get your person, get your money, get your promotion, get your house, get your car, whatever, get your whole new life, then you need to be ready and dedicated to not be thinking from that old reality anymore, at least not long enough for it
13:24 to create a negative emotion. If you come at me with a negative emotion, then I know that you've been dwelling on that shit for a good minute, which means you're not following my instructions, which means you cannot blame me when the shit doesn't manifest because I told you not to do that. So, get your shit together and get your shit. Do what needs to be done. Do whatever it takes. All it's so simple. All it takes is you to change your thoughts. That is it. That is it. I don't care how many times the thought comes back up. Argue with it again.
14:10 Replace it again. Replace it again. Eventually, it's not going to come up anymore. But if you guys would put in the work and stop fucking crying about it when it hasn't come up in five minutes, you'd have your shit a lot faster. You set yourself back every time you do that. Anyway, we're going to stop this video here because I need to film another video. So, thank you so much for watching. Please be sure to like, share, comment, and subscribe. And we out.
