EGO: Why Surrender It? | DAY 4 | Swami Abhedananda | Dhanush Bhang (Ramcharitmanas) #ChinmayaMission

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8:20 Ramchandra, Lord Pawanputra Hanuman, say Umapati Mahadev, say it all brothers The saints bow to Shri Satgurunath Maharaj, Parvati Pat Har Har Mahadev. Hari Om Hari Om. Unless the bow of our ego is

9:07 broken, Sita in the form of peace within us will not be happy. You must understand the meaning of ego, I told you this yesterday also. Do n't accept anyone too much. No matter how big it is, a person cuts it from somewhere or the other. What we have understood about any arrogant person is that he has no one. He

9:55 finds something or the other in everybody and cuts them off. So not being able to give up your desires. Not being able to let go of my little knowledge and not being able to let go of my existence, not being able to find someone. That is a sign of ego. And when a person does not accept anyone anywhere. What is its disadvantage? There are huge losses. You please pay attention. He himself will not be accepted.

10:41 If we do not accept you, then for how long will you accept us? Do you know what acceptance means? Yes, consider it as a sense of belonging or say that there is something good in them, a humble person does not reject, an arrogant person rejects, this fault is in them, this fault is in them, this fault is in them, this is in them and he does not reject even God. An arrogant person also accepts the situation. We have got a bit of a messy situation today.

11:26 He will ask why do we have it? what did we do? It is not that he only rejects people. I mean you reject God like this. God will not come forward for you to reject. Go away God. God will come in the form of circumstances. So we make the situation real rebel. why us why did this happen to us? This did not happen to him. Then the man weighs everyone. Look, that's fine. He didn’t find it. They got it, they got it, it is us. He thinks our life is unique. Our problem is also unique. And sometimes people say that. He said there is no one as foolish as us. People say it like this, although it is true,

12:14 how can I say it, the one who is arrogant, he used to cut things, his desire for it is very big, he will not be able to accept anyone as great, even after going to the Guru, he does not consider the Guru as great. We have been with many gurus and disciples. That's why I am telling you. Being a Guru is different , having devotion towards the Guru is very different. There is a huge difference between the two. He does not even consider his Guru as superior. Even there someone will reject it after seeing the defects. You do

13:02 n't even believe in God. Believing in God means do you give to God what he wants, what we want, he will offer Belpatri to Lord Shiva, offer Tulsi to Lord Vishnu, he said we will offer Tulsi to Lord Shiva, you can offer it, we will take it but Belpatri is dear to him, he said we will offer Tulsi to Goddess, does Goddess have the second right? I like hibiscus. Don't concentrate your mind anywhere. There is not one, it will finish, there is a little of it. [laughter] There will always be someone in your life who is arrogant.

13:48 You are absolutely silent. We are not saying that you are. We did not say anything like that. What you understand is a different matter. But every disease knows in some corner that we too are not any small disease. At the corner it keeps it hidden. A little bit, but somewhere he should know that we are also eccentric. We also get spoilt a lot. We too are going to get angry. He might even hide it somewhere. He will appear polite from outside but he knows that we too get arrogant very quickly. He is a bit bony type. We stop talking, too. We also compare, we also compete. He knows everything inside out. But there is a velvet covering on top. That's not you guys.

14:36 Those who have not come, it is not for you. [laughter] But what's the problem with an arrogant person ? Do you know what happens? He doesn’t get love. What did you say, I don't get love? Maybe one person, one or two people love that person out of compulsion that they want to be with that person, they will show more of the love but there is no love inside, this happens many times with husband and wife, they are just pretending, there is not as much love inside, in reality, as much as they are showing, they did not get the love that they should have got, they did not get it,

15:26 why did they not get it because you did not accept anyone, you did not believe anyone completely, if you had that capacity within you, then nobody could stop you from loving. You will definitely get love. Fulfill everyone's love in life. If I do n't get it, I don't get it. You are right. I want it but haven't got it, what to do? Because he will not give up his desire. Those who mingle here find love. The bow which got me broken. Bow means our belief, our knowledge,

16:13 our desire, our own identity. Break some. Is it okay? Then he says Sir, people do not love me, who would love me? Is someone loving you? Will people act like they love me? No doubt about love, but if a person has humility, he will get love wherever he goes. Why does he accept others' words? Tell me whom did he accept, he did not accept Ram ji, he did not accept Dashrath ji, he did not accept the people of Ayodhya, Mantra came to know later what he did, he did it

17:02 because she was increasing his attachment and ego, so he accepted her, but later when his condition worsened, then he understood that the conversation with Mantra stopped, Ravana did not accept, Ravana did not accept Vibhishana ji, he did not accept Malyavan ji, he did not accept Hanuman ji, and tell me whom did he not accept. Kumbhakaran was not accepted. He had a lot of fights with Kumbhakaran. Very little has been written about Tulsi Ramayana. Valmiki Ramayana said in a very long time that Kumbhakarana said that you will be killed for sure. You have made a big mistake. Ravana scolded you a lot, then teach me everything, nowadays everyone is teaching me everything.

17:53 Okay Kumbhakarana said that our problem is that we do not have the will that Vibhishana had. We have enough knowledge, but we did not have the will power to renounce like Vibhishan did. That is why we are facing misfortune. We will be with you. Whom did Ram ji reject? Tell me what is this voice coming from here, see something, is there a radio? Ram ji accepted Kaikeyi. When the time to go to Chitrakoot came, everyone left, he said, Bharat ji

18:40 said take Kaikeyi as well, because Ram ji will see only her there, and first of all Ram, Kaikeyi's daughter, out of the four mothers, he presented Kaikeyi first, you want that I should not be accepted here by making a mistake, I said brother, accept me in any way, accept me means I am not that bad, as bad as you are thinking, but at least accept something, some one or two good things of mine, 90% accept my one or two good things, accept me as well and give me some chance. An arrogant person, he will be very stubborn. We will have to understand this. I have to understand this point.

19:26 What? I have to learn to give up my desire, give up my small desire, small notion, small identity for something big. This was accepted by Guru Ram ji. It was most difficult for the people of Ayodhya to accept our wife, who was the purest and the best wife of yours. People asked how much will you accept her, after that Ram ji accepted her, he lost his wife, she was around 40 years of age, he lost her for his entire life and the same people used to sit with him everyday, a family is not made with antique pieces, that

20:15 one antique piece is like this, a family will not be made with it, he brought some wood from somewhere and said, look this is an antique piece, we went somewhere for a trip, there is hill station Nainital, Nainital, there is Talli Tal, Malli Tal, Kaushambi, Rani Khet, there is wood, you got it, he brought it like this and kept it somewhere, he said Ganesh Ji, Ganesh was seen everywhere, look at him, the sun is coming out, okay Bhaiya your feeling is or you are deprived of love, knowledge of grace,

21:00 we will not have any ego, you cannot be deprived of law, what did God get, what did Ravana get, we cannot do as we wish, it will go away, the little service we used to do for you, that too went away, no one did that God snatched it away, even if we had said something, he would not have done it. What is the foundation of life?

21:49 Money is not the foundation of life. Living cannot be made with money. Livelihood will be created. There is no life, no position. The foundation of someone's life that we minister to. Yes, from there, from front, from front, from there, come from behind, come from behind, come from behind, there is some space here, come from behind, from behind, come from there, yes, come from outside of our life, till the time humility

22:35 gets the permission, renunciation of desire, which desire of ours, renunciation of our little knowledge, renunciation of little understanding, that is why one goes to the ashram and gets beaten up. A lot of good desires have to be sacrificed. I do n’t know whether you went or not. Go and you will find out. Yes, food is not as per one's choice. There are two classes here. He said not two but three. You also have our questions and answers. There are five to six classes. Six: Yes, everything is compulsory.

23:21 Yes, six. And it is not constantly said that it is Sunday or not somewhere. Take rest for a day, sleep till late, a little Swamiji should go, you will sleep well that day, it is not that you will sleep well on the 9th, if you miss one class then a summons will be issued, where were you till when should you make an excuse, you can make an excuse that it got punctured, this daily excuse that there was a lot of traffic and it got punctured will not work. Now only this could be made by Sardar. He

24:08 said no, if Gurudev has said it then we accept it. No problem, we accept it. The situation is getting worse, sir. There is a toothpick fast. An Ikshu bows down. Toothpicks have the power to work when something goes wrong. I don't know whether you ever used a toothstick in your childhood or not. There was a time, people. I used to break a trick. of neem and yes it was very good. Well, now its paste etc. has arrived. But that was what was going on in the village. Ikshu danda means sugarcane, when the sugarcane is placed between the two then its juice comes out. Firstly, when Homavarta gold is burnt, it

24:53 shines. When sandalwood is rubbed, its fragrance comes and spreads. Not only this, sandalwood also has fragrance. Unless you rub it a lot. When there is no ego, the person becomes available to receive God's commands. We had the wish but maybe we will accept it. You should have accepted what was said. He will not stop everywhere. Why? why why? Why not, we had to think like this. shut up. Just try it for a few days. Gurudev used to say. Obey me for six months after that you believe. After six months how you leave because you already know that. A

25:42 proud husband of mine, any wife would want. The husband will say, listen, make tea. You are late. What happened brother? Why are you not making tea ? He will get angry immediately. Any proud wife would want a husband. There have been a lot of complaints, they came to Abhimanmi, the poor guy will come from the office, he won't even be able to change his clothes, listen, yes, he had come, the neighbours had come, so they got upset, I married you, not your mother, everything will start, hey brother, let me live in peace, we will talk later, when will we talk, I will leave in the morning, now I will sit with the laptop, it doesn't matter to me,

26:30 you have started again, okay, I will not say, I will not say, I will not say, I will not say, you just want tea, coffee, you want food, you don't need anything, I am legal maid, it's okay, I will make it for you, hey, keep calm, you are calm, you are peaceful the whole day. There was peace from 8:00 am to 5:00 pm. You would like such a thing. You will like the arrogant child. What is your wish?

27:16 Now see, they should think that Ram ji's bow did not break. He asked his guru to break it. Tell me to break it right now and show it to these people. Let us tell you now who we are. An arrogant person is very fond of showing off himself. He asked who will show you. He will also understand who he is dealing with. Just look at the faces of Hindi speaking people. He said that only he will know who he is dealing with. In foundation life you will lose life. Than Than Gopal will remain there even at the age of 80, one has to bow down here, one has to accept, one has to say yes, one has to lose, the one who has not

28:03 lost in love, what did he love, sir, one has to lose to God, tell me, the person who did not lose to you will never be able to make a place in your heart. Who was defeated? We tell this example many times. One day in Durban three people made a mistake. We called all three of them. Scolded for 45 minutes, scolded not much, 45 minutes. So the first one said I am very sorry. Now if no one goes there then they can say anything. Yes. So the first one said, sorry Swamiji, you will not make such a mistake with us. We are going there, I went and had lunch and dinner, the

28:50 bell rang there the dinner bell rang at 8:00, the second one was standing, I said go, why are you also standing like a horse, he said I also made a mistake, I will not make that mistake again, you get well, two left and the third one remained standing there, I said you should be invited, it is time for dinner, you go, I will not sleep, when I came to the ashram I thought I will serve you, will give you love, will wash your clothes, will study a lot, I did not know that I will make you so sad, I will not be able to eat food, I will not eat anything for a day or two, I will write the entire Geeta,

29:39 I will be happy, I am small, this much mistake was enough. No no, you leave it, it's okay. Come on let's start. The topic is over. You have said this much, that is enough. No. No. we loose. We will do whatever you wish. If someone says something like this, the mind remains happy. If someone is arrogant then he will have no height. You may do any chanting and penance in your sadhana, but remember my words. Ravana was a great priest. You all must have heard that no one became a priest like him. But he could not understand that when he was

30:24 abducting Sita, Lord Shiva was very sad that day. and Lord Shiva. He explains a lot in the form of Hanumanji. I could not give up my wish. Did he not know that Shiv Ji would not like this, he could not leave his knowledge everywhere, his terrible pride said the opposite, Hanuman ji said, laughed a lot, Ravana said nowadays monkeys have become Gurus, I faced him, I said I have so many great Gurus, a monkey has come as a Guru, tell me the time is coming, he said, hit him,

31:12 what did you get? If someone's spiritual achievement is low. Shoot for material achievement and you will have the qualifications. The money would be great. You won't get any happiness from that. There is a difference between convenience and comfort. Yes. There is no relation. Ravana had a lot of facilities. There is happiness in it, Gopal. Ram ji does not have any facilities. Was sleeping on the ground. He had all the happiness. Such people get beaten up badly. The circumstances beat them and their mind also beats them. The situation will also reject you. The mind will also reject us. Then we will feel that look, I have not made Swamiji understand me till today. Did you understand? He said, I don't like anyone.

31:59 And then some more people came. He said, God has done something which made me become detached from worldly things. We said wait. God, please don't bring into the picture the people who lost others because of your mistake. You have lost people because of your ego, God's heart loves everyone. This is the form of Virat. If you do not love everyone, what is the benefit of your chanting and worship of pilgrimage? People don't care how much you chant. How much do you worship? Ram, have you gone on a pilgrimage? Have you gone to Kailash? Have you gone to Badrinath or Amarnath? People mean to listen, you can love us, you can serve us, you can be of some use to us, you can listen to one thing we say, you can leave your small wish in

32:45 front of us, that is the issue. It is not the issue, how much you fast has no value in our mind, it has value when you worship others as well; the Ram that we worship, you worship, don't you sit here, is that Ram Ram only in the temple and then our children will say, mummy-dad, where do you go, this is what you teach, why are you getting so angry, you poor Swami ji is getting a bad name [laughs] this is what you have learnt, from where do you listen to all this,

33:30 why do you worship so much, now you remain disturbed, mummy remains so sad. Look, we don't do anything. How happy we are. And you tell us to give a sermon, come on. What happened to you after coming? You may have heard all this. They want results. Which one? Of your smile, of your love, of your enthusiasm, of your devotion. We are not concerned with how much we eat, it means whether we have health and wealth or not, say anything, our daughter's wedding was celebrated with great pomp, well the governor came, the resident wedding was in such a big hotel, whether it was Spanish songs, Mexican food, Chinese songs, all the songs, we were listening quietly,

34:21 people take revenge on whatever people tell us here [laughs] people changed it later, we said, tell me one thing, are the boys happy, right? He asked, when did they get divorced, we said, you are telling so many stories that the governor comes and what do they say, the chief minister came, the prime minister came, we are not concerned with the Spanish, the main thing is whether the children are happy or not, he said, since when did there be a lot of quarreling among themselves, all that will be different. We should tell you the main thing. We are also like that. We will do a big recitation, we

35:07 will do a lot of worship, but we will be very angry. There is anger because long live ego. I have not heard the slogan in my university. We have heard that. Hey, it is complete, it is complete. It wo n't work, it won't work. Dictatorship will not work. It won't work, it won't work. Dictatorship will not work. Down with the Vice Chancellor, down with him. Ego also screams like this. I won't let you have your way, I won't let you have your way. Do as we wish. Do our bidding. We are husband, we are married. Whatever we do, we will do it right, we will do it right. He also keeps shouting that whatever we said would happen. Let's just observe a fast for a while now. Let's celebrate

35:52 Navratri. Yes, we will celebrate Navratri in Punjabi. And why are you insisting on doing Ekadashi, yes we will do Navratri, ok, no you do it as much as you want, we will also do it, but we are mindful that it is not that our ego is hurting anyone, it is not that our desire is too much in front of our gurus, it is not that our knowledge is being insulted by some thing of ours. This is our heavy bow which is not ready to break. Janak ji is the

36:40 devotee who wants to break this bow. We have come. Understand the principle to break that bow, Ramayana is not that simple. Let's go or else it should be demolished, there are only two- three days left today. Think about it, a huge loss has been caused due to ego. Hmm that would be complex. There will be comparison, there will be jealousy, there will be hatred. What all will he not do? A humble person gets everything, whatever you say is all right, okay, if you are religious, you are fine, come on, we are coming, now let us recite some of our

37:28 couplets, so after 253, tomorrow you will remember Lord Rama had got up to break the bow, you got 253 plus, yes, it's not right, Raghupati Lakhan Niware, these are very beautiful couplets. If you read it a little once, your mood becomes good. From here we will recite Guru Raghupati, all the sages in their hearts together Ram Siyaram Siyaram, Jai Jai Ram Ram Siyaram Siyaram, Jai Jai Ram, oh Guru Raghupati, all the

38:15 sages in their hearts became happy, again and again Pulka is in the heart of Raghupati, Laxman is protected with love, Vishwamitra knows the time is auspicious. Water spoke with great affection. Get up Ram, break the chains of this world, remove the sufferings of father Janak, hear the sorrows of the

39:02 Guru, bow your head at the feet of the Guru, joy and sorrow fill the heart, the natural beauty of the place, the tongue of the deer is put to shame Ram Siyaram Siyaram, Jai Jai Ram Ram Siyaram Siyaram, Jai Jai Ram rise Uday Giri on the stage, Raghuvar child kite becomes

39:50 Saint Saroj, all are joyful, eyes are ring Ram Siyaram Siyaram, Jai Jai Ram

41:03 Ram Siyaram Siyaram, with love for the feet of the Guru, Ram has come to the sage, Suma walks easily all the world's master's opinion is acceptable, Kunjar-going Ram, all men and women are thrilled, the body becomes happy, captivity, ancestors, gods and good deeds, whoever does some virtue, then Shiva bows the head of Mrinal, break it Ram Ganesh Ram Siya Ram Siya Ram, Jai Jai Ram Ram Siyaram, Siyaram Siyaram, with love, called lakhs of friends near, mother Sita, with affection, just said words, met them Ram Siya Ram Ram Siya Ram Ram Jai Jai Ram Siyaram Jai Jai Ram Ram Siyaram Siyaram

41:56 Jai Jai Ram Ram Ji was sitting quietly with Laxman Ji, you stay there, don't stay here, Vishva said, Ram said, yes Gurudev, get up and go, don't break the bow, the one you are married to is already there, break the bow so that the pain of Janak Ji is over, remember only God can break ego, it does not break with one's own strength, we often say that God has kept all the big work with himself, go when you start, but whether the chanting was good or not, it is God's department.

42:42 Finding a Guru is God's department. Good. Your husband and wife will find big tasks absurd. But but but he is not good also, you should not say that, but but to meet a Guru, God has taken it in his hands, it will not happen as per your wish, meditation should be good, God, get up Ram, we should remember this, it is a very important thing. Yes, God

43:28 unites God with his Guru. Guru unites us with God. Impressed by your good deeds, God places some great man from the entire universe in your life. And it will create respect for them in your mind and love for you in their mind. God has done this till here. Yes, but when the Guru comes, the Guru says, Lord, it will not happen so easily. This child is a special case. Well pay more attention to this. You go and break his ego. Do you understand what ego means? You will see Sita ji's name coming here many times.

44:14 This body is a primitive physical body. One spiritual and one etc., we tell you to pay attention to the Ganga ji that you are seeing. Not here, Yamuna ji is here. You can see Ganga ji. That primordial physical Ganga who was the mother of Bhishma Pitamah. That Adi Devik Ganga which is the devotional attitude within you , that spiritual Ganga is the three forms of everything. It holds on to the physical and half of the divine spirituality. Now when we say, this beginning of ours is physical. What we can see is long and wide. Every living being is half divine. The one who is holding on

45:03 and has an egoistic attitude is spiritual. Is that clear? He said, please say it again. This body which we call I am tall. We spoke from the perspective of primal physics. We say that when we leave, we spoke from the viewpoint of the original divine. Yes and I am wondering who is this Sun God who appears from the spiritual perspective? The first physical one who was the father of Karna, the first divine one who is sitting inside your eye, yes, he is spiritual, which is the introduction of Janaki ji, tell me in Ramcharitmanas,

45:53 what is she, daughter of the father, mother of the world, Janaki, yes, she is very dear to the treasure of compassion. Go and say it right. Yes, see, Sita ji is the mother of the world. You should understand that about Jagat Janani, it has come even before that. Mother of the world, incomparable and heavy image. He came a day or two ago. He said, he had come but we had not come. She, she is the mother of the world. When we say Jagat Janani (Mother of the Universe), do you know what it means? These are

46:39 very important things. This entire universe is the mother of the world. And the entire creation has served you and us a lot. Water has served you so much. Vayu did it, Mother Earth did it, Agni did it, Sky did it, this is what form of Janaki ji is this, Aditi Gud, the thirst for Ram inside you due to which you have come here, she is the spiritual Sita and the one who is visible in that form, she is the Adi Divine Sita, perhaps it has become clear to you that she is the mother of the world, it is not like that, this is her form.

47:26 Her name is Kali. Her name is Durga. Someone please say her name, her name, Saraswati. Come on, what should we do? Don't do anything. Listen. But all that we have is Janaki ji. We are speaking again. This is also Janaki. This is also Janaki. The body is also a form of Janaki ji. Husband and wife are also in the form of Janaki. Your achievement is also success, Janaki. But what happens is that Janaki ji will work only when Ram is behind it. Our power to speak is Janaki and the

48:14 one who has the power is Ram and what we are saying is this world. What should we do, surrender means whatever is ours is sacrifice. One is charity, the other is dedication. Are you understanding? Sacrifice means that we give up something considering it small. We gave up tea. Did not surrender the tea. Please wait. He said I have given up tea. We gave up sugar. Someone said we have given up bitter gourd. Come on brother, whatever you have left behind. Went to Badrinath and

48:59 left bitter gourd. If I had to leave something then I would have left that which they didn't tell me to leave. In donation, placing the affection of someone else on the one for whom we have affection, that donation becomes Kanyadaan, donation of money, giving that which you do not eat to someone else, that is not donation, giving it to the mate brother, you eat it, we will not eat it, that is not donation, it will not bear any fruit, that is not donation, dedication is a big thing, pay attention, the thing which we considered yours as mine by mistake, now we are going to return it to you because we made a mistake. It is yours only. The thing which we mistakenly thought was yours, we are passing it on to you with apologies and

49:44 shame. That I thought this was mine, I mistook it for yours. In my aarti, I offer you what does it feel like, this is not my offering to you. Yes, it is yours to you and it is not even about what my dedication to you should be, this is not yours, it is your dedication to you [laughs] your achievements, your family, your home, your qualifications, all of them belong to God

50:32 but by mistake we have said that this is my son. This is my wife, this is my house. This is my qualification, my position. I studied here for my qualification. I topped it there. Ghochu, you will get a heart attack and fall down. Tell me if anyone has a bee gone into their mouth. Now whatever it is, what should we call these people? These people are billionaires. These are not small people. Isn't it? I don't know if this is what had happened. Did the bees go inside or did they eat it? Yes. She went inside. She went inside.

51:19 Well whatever happened a little bee poor little Munni hello we keep on [ __ ] our Siya then it will be well my dear Janaki ji you return it to God this is called sadhna who is stopping you Dhanush cries what can Dhanush do our achievement Swami ji it is our car buy the car by shedding your blood and money means the process of buying this car has gone waste and you are telling us about the formless

52:10 you take it [laughs] my dear God you give me the achievement whose God's if the light goes off here the satsang will stop in a minute because this happens many times. You will wonder what happened, the live streaming is not coming, I don't know, the poor guy is struggling, everything is not happening there, then he says why don't you hurry up, no sound, people quickly write no sound, that poor guy, four people are working there, he is struggling, the poor guy, what should be done, the server is down, what happened,

53:00 anything can happen in life at any time, in any way. Srishti is full of many possibilities. He said both the engines failed. Anything can happen. Everything happened in just a second. In a minute? Anything can happen. Is this your house? It was made with great effort. I am here son, everything is good but God has given us everything. When you keep this in mind. This is called getting Sita ji married to Ram ji. We hold our points very firmly.

53:45 I am not offering. Attached person does not offer. It is not that everyone thinks that our child should become a doctor, become a businessman, get married well, go to America, a brother of so and so intelligence, become a doctor but serve well, wherever you live, earn money and serve, become an engineer here, I have done so and so, I should say and then we will put up a show, one of our boys there, what does he do there, what does he do for you, he will come once a year with tissue paper, mom, it's too much, it's not hygienic, you know you are

54:32 not hygienic, you have grown up eating this, son, now you are seeing dust, it's not hatching, Oh my God and then to show off to the society outside, one of our boys is in New York, one there, one of so and so is in Australia, one there. Let us know from the inside. I have grown old. I said, listen, can someone give me a cup of tea? I did not

55:24 train an elephant's teeth, I did not train myself since childhood, I will not get happiness, I will get everything, I am not happy, why have you not married God, someone came to a Mahatma, gave a nice bouquet, gave a bouquet, Mahatma ji, someone will do your work for God, Mahatma said, very nice bouquet, wow, he said wow, 5 minutes passed, he said wow, what a nice flower, 10 minutes passed, wow, listen to us, he said, no, it is very nice, it has been half an hour, the Mahatma said, the man, we gave you a bouquet on this day so that you can see our love,

56:09 you have forgotten us, we gave you a beggar. Did the Mahatma understand? Mahatma said, son, to see the love of God in the world. After seeing the world, I was not going to forget the one who gave me what I had. [Laughter] A lot will go, no happiness will be gained from it, pay attention to this, this is the main topic of breaking the bow, Vishwamitra said, know the time is auspicious,

56:58 get up Ram, now Guru is inspiring God. God sent this General Guru. But he will say to his particular Guru, God, now you should go. No, he has many contacts. He said he was pleased. And this disciple was a Ghochu type. This did not make me happy at all. So he said, now you get up. And you go and listen to the Guru's words. Now look here Karma Yoga, yesterday we had spoken about Karma Yoga, Lord Rama went to break the bow, Lord Rama went comfortably, bowed to everyone around, see Anurag including Gurupad Bandi, Ram ji went slowly, Ram ji's gait was very cool, there were

57:47 two types of gait, one was by hopping and swaying, one is like that of a jackal and the other is that of an elephant, the elephant walks like this, very fat people do not walk like this, they walk by swaying and the thin incense sticks type, they walk here and here they were going comfortably swaying in fun, the rest of the people were astonished, such a small, tiny child Ravana did not get touched by the arrow, this is

58:32 after 255 + 3, all the kings lost, so Dhanuraj Kunwar took the hair maraal's temple, Ravana said, Ravana is very clever, when Ravana's name came up, he said, look, I have to go now, I have to go somewhere urgently and you must have understood that at this time I am going urgently Anyway, everybody left and then Sunaina, who was the wife of Janak ji, said that

59:22 Janak ji Sethia is coming. Seth, do you understand what I say? If you listen after 60, I have n't finished it yet. After 60 a man does the same thing over and over again. He asked, Swamiji, when did you come? Where? No, when did you come to Gurgaon yesterday ? Well, we came on two. ok one, yes one has come. When will brother go the way? No, you left on 8th, then after some time listen, one thing was coming to my mind, when did you come, did you come in June, in July, which July, well not on this 1st, you

1:00:08 came in 2010, you are talking useless things, maybe he had some such experience, poor Sunhaina had such an experience. So he said that all of them are my children. Hmm, what are you doing, after that her friends said, look what is written, she said clever friend, soft spoken, underline bright, short Gani Rani, Rani means listen, she is bright. Their length and breadth have no bearing. Power can be in small points only. Those who have visited Vaishnavi Devi, who have three Pindis,

1:00:57 you must have gone inside very small caves, so many people come here, lakhs of people, be it winter or summer, Badrinath is so big, how much power is there in a seed, the seed of the Banyan tree is so small and look what is written there, tick it, 256 Mantra Param Laghu, this morning there was a lot of talk about mantra, it is a very small mantra. There is one name Ram. I don't know how many people have seen Lord Ram with that name Ram. Ram mantra is very short where the best method is Hari Har Sur, chant more Ram and Ram will also stand in

1:01:43 front. Just keep saying Ram Ram. You have so much power, Shiv, Shiv Ji will stand in front. Anyway, Ram Ji is still walking in a very playful gait, slowly, slowly, let's go there, where is Sita Ji, let's go there, see what's happening 256 +4 Then Ram 's Vaidehi gave everyone's request, I persuade him in my heart, I

1:02:29 am anxious, you are pleased, Mahesh Bhavani, make your service successful, you come with a bang, Gananayak, Gananayak, boon-giving god, today I feel that you will serve me [Music] I heard my request again and again, again and again [Music] I

1:03:16 heard my request again and again, do my duty, I have seen a little bit of gravity, I have seen Raghuveer, body, deity, held patience, eyes, tears of love, full of kawali body, Vaidehi ji has already seen Ram Ji, she has not seen him like this here, now she has seen him openly, you also will see, is she on

1:04:02 Ram Ji's side or on Sita Ji's side, you decide, whether the baraati is on the side or she comes home, you take it and tell me later, what should happen to whom, someone will have to happen now So let us see the condition of Sita ji, everyone is in her heart, there is fear in her mind, why did she remember, she came to the flower garden, she had taken double the amount, she started sweating, Ram ji was plucking flowers in the flower garden, it was early morning, he started sweating profusely, he said that he sweats while picking the flowers, what about the bow, no one can lift it, let me see, then he said listen O Shivji, O Shivji, this Parvati

1:04:50 ji, what do you want, make the bow lighter, this is the prayer of a devotee, reduce my ego, he said Ganesh ji, Ganesh ji said, what is it brother Ganesh ji you are very good in breaking the bow, yes you break the bow, you break the branch, you break the tree. You break this as well. Today I feel that I have done some service for today and I have been doing sadhana for so many days. what do you say? Those who keep doing a lot of sadhana have been tied down today. Sir, a well cannot be dug when there is a fire.

1:05:38 One day the military guys were running in the heat at 2:00 o'clock, keeping their rifles etc. The ashram swami near Prayagraj said, brother, let it be evening, you are making the children run, he said, Swami ji, wars do not take place looking at the spring season, wars take place at such a time when one has to sweat in peace, save this blood in war, if you have already done sadhana bhajan, then you do not know what will happen at what time, at that time all the sadhana will come running to save you, at that time we will start, he said, yes today is a very bad day, what should you do, Swami ji,

1:06:24 recite Sunderkand, which Sunderkand, where will you get this, no, this is in Ramcharitmanas, well we will buy it online, yes, it will be available from Swiggy, you will not get it, you will not get it, well, we will get it from somewhere, now he opened the snake for the first time, yes, Jamwant's Bachchan Sushuya, I heard Hanuman and Hanuman, I heard

1:07:10 Hanuman, I liked it very much, then I felt, then I felt the same, Mohi Harsh of the eye, what were you doing till now Bhaiya, you are 40 years old, you are 50 years old. It is done once a week, you should have done it once a week, today you needed it, why has your destiny become bad, God forbid, sometimes an accident happens, sometimes one falls

1:07:55 ill, sometimes someone fails, then you will immediately speak, the words of Jam Band sound good, listen Hanuman Hriday Bhai, then you feel like it, brother, then you feel like speaking, when you feel like it is a good time, isn't it a time to earn, he said, look, I will recite each line to you, pray in your mind, Akulani, underline it, then 257-4 what is written in your mind, Mind Akulani, no, prayer is not done like this. You know the kulhat, right? Yes, restlessness may come

1:08:48 here and there. Come here, you guys sit here. There are one or two seats here also. Come here. I want to celebrate in my heart. Look what a line it is, beautiful Akulana means there is a way of asking God, but you are okay, okay, he should sit, sit, sit, he said, look at me, he said

1:09:34 if you do not break the bow we will not survive, Akulana means that something is not casual for you, it is very urgent, ever when you chanted and before chanting you said, God, please make me do good chanting today. May God help me to chant well today. Maharaj, you are everything.

1:10:19 Unless there is fluidity in sadhana, there is no intensity. God does not pay attention to us. Do you know who is restless, who has lost in his own efforts, said, you give me the pain, anyway, quickly move ahead, Ram ji is going on happily, now 258 258 very ascetic mind is seeing you, there was a lot of heat in his mind, it is not that God is not there, you are happy, you are not found like this brother, if someone calls you casually,

1:11:05 listen, come to our house, whenever you get a chance, when are you coming, come sometime, you are coming, come to our house, whenever, when will we not come sometimes, okay, come whenever you want, come not like this, when will you come sometimes, come early, don't say like this, we don't have any pain. There is a lot of pain from thousands of different things. Pain because of the child, pain because of the husband and wife, pain because of the mother-in-law, pain because of thousands of things are no pain for God. The donkey is fine. Friend, we are ready to make a flute. We brought the bow. You never cry when you're dressed so well. Please call us once, tell us properly. At least talk to me.

1:11:52 What is? My mind is yearning to see Hari today my mind is yearning without you my whole home is ruined without you all my work has been ruined God does not come like this you will not go to everyone why do you waste time by going to anyone Sita ji felt that you are walking so slowly, as if you have no desire to, as if you walk comfortably swaying, tears came in her eyes she stopped him as if but very nice couplets we will do it quickly and then this

1:12:37 line is very beautiful 258 plus four body mind words my mind is true Raghupati feet saro daily my heart's desire whoever God resides in my heart makes me the slave of Raghuveer whoever has truth in him, he will not be found whoever has true love,

1:13:27 he will not be found there is no doubt, Lord my body is focused on love my body. Then you will know that Ram is the storehouse of mercy. How can the bow reach till the black billow. Chit Garur Laghu Byaalahi said like this if it is true that we love each other through words and God has made me his maid, people say that ours is for you, our boys who talk to each other say that it is definitely our true love for you. Our true love for you will kill you and you will be fine. How can there be true love with a false body

1:14:13 ? Fool, ours is true love. Hey, the person you love will also die. You will also die. Your love will be ruined. You are calling a love of two, four or ten years as true love. Is that love? True love is only with the truth which will remain there all the time True love is possible only with God It is possible only with the soul No True love with our father Father is no more, where is he father, you show me true love, he knows the one he loves, he knows it is your love You said father, that is true love, father I don't know

1:15:00 where he is, to which world, where has he gone We are troubled here, alone, he messed up a will too Father, yes if there was a will there is a way True love We keep beating our chest True love cannot exist anywhere except God and soul, why do n't we know, the one whom we love, he doesn't know us, you tell me the one whom you have loved the most. Many times we ourselves don't know that they have loved us. The disciples do not know how much the Guru has loved them. We are telling you. I have been

1:15:46 hearing all these things for so many years. He does not see that the first 10 hours of taking a class seem like a year of penance. The entire Gita has to be read every day. Ramayan has to be recited. Then some words come. He has to love her. You are the one who is true. If you have not found it while sleeping, it means there is nothing in true love, Swami Ji how to go about getting angry, how to go about getting angry, tell me, you get angry, I get very angry, if you really had so much love, then to go about getting angry,

1:16:33 you would have sacrificed your life, sometimes you would have left your food after getting angry, sometimes why, 20 rosaries, 40 rosaries of getting angry, if you really had love for him, then to leave him, you would have left your food one day, you are praying to God. Have you made any effort to get what you want? I did not make any effort. You are talking too much, how can I get angry? Swamiji said if I am not able to meditate then We have a question for you. We have a question for you: how can you practice this meditation

1:17:21 ? How long have you ever sat? Have you ever sat for two hours ? No, in half an hour, have you ever beat your head, have you cried in front of God, have you prayed, why are you fasting, if it is true love, you put your life into it, you do it superficially, that is why even God does not make you meditate, meditation does not become effective like this, invest something, you want to get a big thing at a cheap price, someone said in the Mercedes showroom, Sir, how much does the Mercedes cost? He said, brother, its range is probably not less than 20-30 lakhs. And he said 40-50 more,

1:18:07 how much do you have? Said ₹500. what are we bringing. He went inside and brought a photo. He said, keep this and give me 500 rupees. I want a lot of attention sir. Great grace of God, penance, desire, does not show anything, Kabir Das Ji enjoys, steals Nihal's curd, needle, donation, climbing up and watching the cake, plane far away, he used to steal one or two big sticks, one day he donated a needle of iron log, looked up at the roof and said, will any plane come to

1:18:53 take me, yes, I have donated it, right? My brother, when you want a big thing then it requires great penance. It takes great devotion. To pass 10th class, we had to study for 10 hours each day. People study for 10 hours for engineering and medical, CA people sit here and CA people sit somewhere else. Do you know CA ? Come cry again, cry again. They put their life at stake. If medical people sit to study then why do the doctors read thick books here. When this casual matter is discussed a little bit. Let me meditate for a little while, then it will be fine after that. My dear, tricks don't

1:19:42 work. God is watching. He was worried for us. Ram ji was looking at Sita. Yes. May there be peace truly. That's why we are walking around having fun. Is there any yearning? One day it was hanging from a balloon. There were two boys. One of them said, Ami ji please give me the Gubra. There was a little boy. Was jumping. He did not commit any sin. I started sweating. There was only one balloon. He said give it to me. Was jumping. Now tell me, he started sweating. The balloon will go to him, right? This one who sits comfortably is called yearning, if

1:20:29 a child is late from school, there will be a lot of yearning, if a five or ten rupee coin falls under the bed, we will have to dig down and take it out, with this excuse the room also gets cleaned, I do n't feel like mopping under the bed, I mean I could not have left even ₹10 out, but for God we are not happy, what difference does it make, God, listen, I am happy, you know I am not happy, listen, hello, hey, listen, listen, so at least do a little aarti for me, offer some flowers, ok, at least put a raisin for me, hey listen, listen, hey

1:21:15 brother, work is worship, karma is puja, you are saying all these big things to entertain yourself, you will read newspaper for hours, look at mobile for hours, read one page of Ramayana, tell God once that Sita ji said I could not do without you, so I stopped her tears, but could not stop her sweat.

1:22:00 what happened after that? Don't know what happened This very bill has been written very openly here. what is written? I saw Ram ji. Ram ji saw Janaki ji. What did you see? Celebrate their restlessness in your mind, ask the anxious businessman how much he earns, he suffers a little loss, for a little profit he will sit for hours hoping that something else of his will be sold, have you ever prayed while awake, have you

1:22:48 ever chanted while awake, said sorry to God, the whole world is happy, the whole world eats and the poor sleep, Kabir woke up and cried, as soon as Ram ji saw Sita ji's condition was miserable, her comfortable gait did not work, she ran away,

1:23:35 God will come to you soon or will come slowly, chant for you, do not make me suffer a bit, do not call me, do not how much she is yearning for, it is not like this, do not yearn, we should go quickly, Lord Ram, let it be broken today, while leaving, he even said that what is the use of rain when the crop dries up, rain when the time to dry the crops is over, then why

1:24:24 regret as if live Jani, look this is 260 plus four as if live Jani Janaki, I saw them, the one who is in pain, pays more attention to him as if live Jani Janaki, see Janaki ji was there, what is God seeing, I am really thirsty, really Janaki ji fulfilled this promise. Today Janaki has fulfilled this promise in her life. No matter

1:25:13 how much suffering he faced, he did not give up his devotion towards Lord Ram. I served you a lot. Janaki ji used to serve me so much. He did not keep even one wish of his as his own. Ram ji is gone. Underline this near the bow, Guru hi pranam, man hi man ki na [music] Then I bowed to Guruji, why Gurudev, you had sent me, you will only fulfill it,

1:26:01 remember, if there is motivating ego, then the action ego will have to be fulfilled. I bowed to the Guru in my mind. He said Guru means heavy, he said you are Guru then it will become light. It will become smaller. I salute the Guru. He thought in his mind that he lifted the bow with extreme lightness, it became very light, lightning flashed all around, no one even noticed when it climbed, when did he break it, no one saw anything, everyone threw the bow down,

1:26:47 everyone was engulfed in dust, there was an earthquake, everyone was shaken, there was a lot of noise, here Ram ji is standing quietly, Seekar is telling, he saw two people, at that time no price for Seekar, tell me to whom did he say Gurudev, everyone said Ram ki Jai Ho, Ram ki Jai Ho, he showed his hands towards this side, once Ram ji looked at him, once he looked at Janaki ji, but now there was a

1:27:33 little smile in his eyes, after seeing him Janaki ji was crying well, there was a very intense desire for something, she became bad when she thought that we will cook food for him, will massage his feet, will not let any sorrow come in his life, there was another person,

1:28:20 Lakshman ji, he stood up. He knew it, he said, look Vishwamitra said, look Lakshman, that is why I had said, Dev Raghunatha along with his younger brother needed a bigger stage, Dasharath ji only used to see them, the whole world will see them, see it is written 263 minus 2, Ram only, Lakhshman, looking at how he stood up, Sita ji's friends got happy, Janaki ji's hands started trembling, the friends said, look Satananda, then Ayasu didi, Sita's

1:29:06 departure, Ram was seen, Satanand ji was a priest, who was a priest, said, come brother, what are you waiting for, she went to where Ram ji was, she came to Ram ji, will you also stay there or not, are you sitting here. Stay there. Clever friend, this is 263 + 5 Clever friend, lakhi, where did you quench the thirst [music] Jaimala is beautiful. Sunnat Juggled and picked up the goods. The love and the world cannot be worn, it looks beautiful for

1:29:53 ages, the heart is burning, the mother-in-law gives me the garland, Jai Maa said, make me wear it, the garland was below him, you know the garland, you will win, we will lose, it is the garland of victory. In Hindi it is called necklace. What does wearing a necklace mean? We will lose to ourselves. The only thing that makes one famous is losing to God. He said, O Lord, if there is ever a conflict between our words and your words, then we will lose to you. God said no Sita, we will lose.

1:30:41 When there is a competition to lose between two people, then love blossoms. Someone should at least touch his feet, he remembered the incident of Ahalya and the boatman, he should have touched his feet, Rajni Man also laughed and again and again Vishwamitra ji stood from a distance. He said, I am blessed. He is the Guru of God. Our people said, brother Ram said he is ours. Ours, let them stay in the jaimala mandap, we will see tomorrow. Someone else will come tomorrow.

1:31:27 But you must remember that we also have Sita ji with us.