خطأ يقع فيه المتعلقين - مقتطفات من مدمن نجاح | "Excerpts from "Addicted to Success

0:00 It activates strongly every time you approach breaking a major barrier. Our lives consist of layers and barriers (barzakh). Do you know that the word "barzakh" is an energetic term meaning a boundary between one stage of consciousness and another. Or a boundary between one material and another material. Like the barrier between the Red Sea or between fresh water and saltwater. "Between them is a barrier [so] neither of them transgresses." One of the characteristics of the barrier is that it cannot be seen with the naked eye. So, when people try to photograph it, and there are videos online of the barrier with different types of water next to each other that do not intervene (mix). They filmed both. Their colors are even different. There is a barrier

0:46 that keeps people remaining in negativity, every time they want to get out, the barrier pulls them back into negativity again. And there is another barrier, and this is what we intend to discuss in this course. As you start entering the positive path, whenever you try to leave it, it pulls you back again toward the positive direction, so that it maintains this state. What happens then? When you start approaching the barrier to invade it; this is the highest period when Satan attacks with thoughts. So, the first course in the Academy had to be “The Power of the Words and Thinking” for you to realize this danger. He starts giving thoughts if you follow them and first among them is my emotional state, which may hinder your benefit if you are not attentive!

1:32 So, I had to begin with this info to be clear in your mind, Allah willing, and to be prepared, and to be eloquent. We will talk about eloquence, practically in detail shortly, Allah willing. Let me tell you a very dangerous piece of information! Most people who are ashamed to state their goals in front of others do not achieve them. Because they are preoccupied with falsifying (faking). I don't want them to know I have a flaw, that I want to fix. So, there is an important exercise we will take shortly. And something dangerous, be mindful of it. The more I hide and I don't want to talk about something I do because I feel uncomfortable,

2:22 the more the state of being fake increases. The more I embellish and pretend in front of people. The state of embellishment and pretending is called “lying.” Is that true? Right or wrong? Lying is one level of hypocrisy. I am not speaking in a religious manner here; rather, I am talking scientifically so that you understand what happens to the subliminal mind, May Allah bless you! This is a very important part. Hypocrisy… and this is something that no one has paid attention to which is distancing oneself from the truth and affiliating oneself to something.

3:09 What does distancing oneself from the truth and affiliating oneself to something mean? For example, if I deal with my wife anger and rage and with my children, when I'm around, I'm harsh and violent, and they are afraid of me and their mother threatens them with me, so whenever I see them, they run away, and I call myself a Muslim. This is hypocrisy, as it should be. "A Muslim is who brings peace to people." When my wife speaks to me, she should feel peaceful. And when my son speaks to me, he should not be afraid of me. But I call myself a Muslim and I do these actions, so I have a defect with the issue of lying and hypocrisy. The subliminal mind

3:57 by repeating this issue, it tells you that you are fine! You are a good person. So, you believe it and sleep. And you don't see where the truth is? Do you get what I mean? This happens a lot, so some people say extracted from me being affiliated and not true. They say, "Nation of Reading, don't read.” This is because of hypocrisy. My dear, if you don't read, you are not of the Nation of Reading. Meaning, if you don't read, you are not of the Nation of Reading. It's not an association you join. So, with all due respect, you must realize whether you are genuine or affiliated.

4:47 Affiliation means that I focus on the external appearance. I care more about appearances than the truth, I work on. And therefore, most of you, without realizing, affiliated and say, "I am successful." Are you truly successful? What's the percentage? And it's important to see the whole picture and evaluate it in percentages. By the way, each dangerous matter that affects the self, you will find a Qur’anic verse. To be precise and in percentage. This in the Qur’an is called “parity.” So, it's natural that with parity, you find “God loves…” the ones

5:32 who practice parity (paritarians). They are in paradise. So, if I argue with my wife, I told her, "I love you because you did this and that." "And I love you ninety percent because of this and that." “And eighty percent because of this and that.” “And I feel upset with you ten percent because of this and that.” “And I feel happy with you because of doing this and that.” So, I am a paritarian. So, the matter is balanced. Instead of saying, "What nonsense is this? You are worthless." (Angry tone!) This is a paritarian; this is the antiparitarian. "And as for the antiparitarian, they are firewood for Hell." This happens a lot. And this is very important: when you start to succeed and take steps to achieve a bigger leap than before, there will be moments when you trip. Is this right or wrong?

6:20 When you trip, Mr. Smarty pants (Satan) comes and says, "You experienced a setback." (Funny tone!) Famous saying: “You have a setback!” "I had a setback." Meaning you relapsed, you went back! Do you know “The Power of the Word and Thinking” Tell me, you reverted back again, not understanding the meaning of the word "energy." You reverted back again, not understanding the meaning of that Allah has placed ease in the universe. It's impossible to experience a setback. You climbed ten steps and fell to four or fell to three. It's not a setback. It's not like you descended from the ladder as if you hadn't climbed. This is the perfectionist ego mentality: all or nothing. The clearer your eloquence is, - and I'll talk about this shortly - and in detail and accurate,

7:09 the higher your parity becomes, and thus, I know that I'm taking steps and not just affiliating. Most of us engage in wrong behaviors knowing that they're wrong. You find some saying, "Why do I do this?" And they say, "This is the last time for me to do this." And they're sincere at that moment. And they say it with great enthusiasm. Or they say it with pain because they want this to end. And you find that after a quarter of an hour, they return to it again.

7:55 What's happening? We'll cover this. So, to understand, I want to know if the course will strongly cover this aspect. It will reveal to you all the darkness you've been falling into so that you can deal with it and can deal with your children in this beautiful era, we're living in. Where artificial intelligence plays a significant role and we don't understand what's happening? Because it's playing on something illogical that guides our behaviors and we'll cover it in depth, Allah willing. Who among you has applied information about attachment and undermining attachment, and have done the detachment exercise? Raise your hand.

8:40 Excellent, almost ninety percent. Lower your hands. Who among you keeps saying ‘being affiliated’ I've applied detachment exercises a lot and still feel fear? Raise your hand! Five percent. We will know why this is happening? Why do you have information and know about attachment exercises and when you apply them, you don't see results? Because you fell into a trap and tricked yourself into thinking you applied it even though deep down you didn't apply it.

9:26 Do you know the joke where one person asked another, "Do you have tahini sweets?" and he says no, though he has it inside. It's a silly joke, but it's funny. So, you deluded yourself that you're applying, but in reality, you have not! Why didn't you apply? We’ll recall it quickly and then come back to it later. You, deep down don't want this to happen. And deep down, you wish the opposite would happen. Attachment has two faces; rejection and yearning and longing So, what you fear happening is rejection because you're attached to the opposite.

10:13 So deep down, you reject this and you want that! And because you reject it, you fear it happening. You heard information saying that whoever rejects attracts what they don't want. No, no, I don't want it when I do attachment exercises. What? Who are you fooling? You go to an attachment exercise from rejection. So, you distract your logical mind; ‘Are you messing with me? Do you want it or not?’ (the mind talking) How do you not want it and that you do an exercise that if it happens. I’m neutral.

10:59 You don't really want it. So, what happens is that I go to the exercise, I have information from the perspective of someone in rejection. So, am I applying sincerely or with a rejection? This is what prevents the results from happening. What is addiction? How does it happen? And how can I harness it for my benefit? This course is not specific to anything in particular; you can do anything with it. And that's why I told you that you will reset yourself. What does resetting mean? To have a clear vision because I love honesty. Does it mean that I will erase your problems?

11:44 No, I would be lying if I told you that. Resetting you means the data that caused the problems and made you fall into negative addictions and positive addictions that will dismantle from within, and you will see them and we will practically destroy their foundations, and you will continue So, by that, you will have downloaded a new operating system. If I have an Apple mobile phone, for example, its operating system is called iOS. And if I have a Samsung phone, its operating system is Android. And if I have a computer, its system is Windows. So, the same files and the same things are there; it's not my concern. We will dismantle this old, heavy messed up system and replace it with a new one.

12:34 You will restart your life system in everything. Eloquence will be reviewed again. Even if you are in some problem, you know how to solve it and take steps and move forward, because you have reset the mental system you used to live with before. Some people will see results from today and tomorrow, Allah willing. And there are people whose results will need more time, and you will find results later on, bigger and bigger in different aspects of your life, Allah willing. Thank you. (Clapping!) Alright. So, I repeat, any course I do in the Academy, it's fifty percent on me and fifty percent on you. Addicted to Success course is eighty percent on me and twenty percent on you.

13:26 Woe to you if you don't apply. I will ask them to hang you up! (Laughs!) I swear by Allah, there are people and I swear by Allah, there are people I tell not to come to me again, and if they come and pay twenty times the session fee, don't let them in. Why? And I tell them this in their face! Sometimes, I say it calmly, and sometimes, I say it in a way that no one has seen before. Only my wife has seen it. Where is Nancy? Hello. My wife. (Laughs!) Alright! The other face, the loved ones are those who have seen it. My siblings or relatives, and employees who know about it in the office,

14:12 although they haven't seen it well because we're in the office, so they haven't seen this side. They will see it soon, Allah willing. Allow me to greet all the team working behind the scenes with precision, creativity, and benevolence. Let's get back to our topic. When a person comes to me in a session, I use a face that they haven't seen from me. What is this face? I say to them, "Dear." And sometimes I say to them, "Stand up." And they stand up. We are alone in the room. If it's a young woman and I'm big, I say to her, "Stand up." I say to her, "Your self" (fem.) or "Your self" (masc.) is yours!

14:59 Right or wrong? They say, "Right." I say, “What is logical is that it matters to you more than it matters to me! Who cares more about themselves, you or me? The logic is that you are, right or wrong? I say to him, “look, my dear, I will give you what I have from the heart.” “If I find you not caring about yourself, I will be the first person not to care about you, and I won't let you in here again.” Because others deserve more. I enjoy being with those who care about themselves; I give them my heart. If I find someone not caring about themselves and being spoiled, I don't want them.

15:47 If you don't care about it, why should I care? Right or wrong? So, I want you to focus on yourself and deal with your relatives this way, because the biggest mistake Satan makes to destroy others is to see in our eyes that we care about him more than he cares about himself, so he relies on you, so you destroy him. You kill his sense of responsibility. You kill his main reason for coming to Earth. “You are all responsible.” "Stop them, they are responsible." "Each one will be brought individually on the Day of Resurrection."

16:32 What is addiction, and how does it happen? And how can I harness it for my benefit? How can you control your internal energy that always pushes you against your dreams or big goals? This course is not specific to anything, you can do anything with it. How can you overcome your addiction to wrong, harmful things or those that negatively impact your life? Starting points that have caused you problems and make you fall into negative addictions and positive addictions that will dismantled from within, and you will see them. And we will practice demolishing its foundation. How to benefit from the power of addiction

17:19 for your benefit? This heavy, scattered messed up system, we will dismantle it and install a new system. Instead of being addicted to negativity, be addicted to positivity and addicted to success and launch into life. And that's why I told you that you will be reset. All this and more, you will find it in "Addicted to Success," course. You will reset your life system in everything. That will benefit you more than you can imagine. Addicted to Succes – Dr. Ahmed Emara – 2023 15-16-17 June – Dusit Thani - Cairo