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0:00 What is your relationship with Ms. Suzanne Roshan? If we didn't think negatively, we would n't survive. Shut your mouth, well done, so many children are more attentive than adults, who even teach people humility. Mehran, you are very, very, very pretty. This is one episode. 70 years of Atish Garfia. How are you? You are the best. Look, I saw you bring a guest and ask him a series of questions, turning it into a game. I said, " Now I'll come to Bahram, you were digging a grave. You've seen your whole life how Mehran dug a grave far away from you

0:46 ." I didn't understand anything at all. You say, "Well, you're in service." You say, " Okay, do you know why I invited you here?" Okay, John. You asked me this question, I already knew why you invited me, now you didn't invite me, the podcast is still on, I'm still here, finally, our lives have changed, but you said you wanted to ask me a question, I told you to ask me a question, I don't know, look, I had a reason because I feel like our people know 10% of what you are and I don't know why you are so humble that you don't reveal 90% of this story. I don't know

1:32 if you learned these banana games but you don't want to show them . Everyone is talking about Mehran Roshan about Red Bull and Coca-Cola and many other things. One person I read wrote that Mehran Roshan had given up Red Bull and Coca-Cola and turned to football. I said thank you. That was the comment of the year. So why work with children? Because it's the most rewarding job on the field. Incidentally, they asked me the same thing yesterday on Dubai TV. We humans all have a sense of belonging. It means we like to be part of a group. We are part of a tribe, and

2:19 when you are part of a group, you like to leave an impression on others. We all have it in us, more or less, and when I talk about how much I have the hand of fate, I'm talking formally. When the hand of fate makes you go on the path of education, learn how to transfer knowledge to others. Then you realize that it's not just transferring knowledge, you're shaping your life. Especially many of these children who don't have parents, I don't want to say right, they do n't have decent parents, or they have parents who try their best but are no better than this. And then, for example, a boy turns 28 and you see him say, for example, "You changed my life." This good feeling

3:06 that gives you makes you want to invest more in children. That's why I'm not a professional wrestler. My father was a professional wrestler in Iran several years ago, but his coach, Mansour Ghadiri, had such an impact on my father's life that after all these years, he went to live in Germany. Very old. But every time they came to Iran, we would see them. Every time my father behaved badly, he wanted to kiss his hand. He was actually complimenting me, saying that you were a turning point in my life, and now this conversation reminded me of my father's coach . Sir, who is your role model? Hey, the question is, now you see, the interesting thing is that

3:53 when you ask questions, I'm going to go to the pulpit and I like it. I'm just asking questions because I do n't know. No, because I want to see a short answer. You can't say who or what your role model is. Because we're not machines. We may have many different role models. In my life, my mother is my role model in patience, in being good, in being respectful. My mother is now 43 years old. Once a word should not come out of her mouth. How good. Yes, it makes an impact. Or, for example, she is always in order, in being tidy. And my grandfather is in

4:42 having principles. With the manager or my grandmother, Zarijoon, or my aunt, even my loved ones, my sister, or my sister's husband. There are many. Then, when you get older, strangers, people who may become role models through a book. That's why you can't say that one person is like science. They say that science was not created by one person. Hey, different people added, stepped on each other's shoulders, and went on and on. That's it. There are many people. Mehran, you are very, very, very full. You are truly a full person. And it's an honor. I'm sitting here asking you a question, but I want to tell you that the family you grew up in, your family's profession,

5:28 had a 10% impact on the path you chose. That is, maybe if Hassan Agha wasn't a footballer, you wouldn't have chosen this path. Maybe if your grandfather hadn't woken you up every morning, you wouldn't have chosen this path. So Mehran Roshan didn't go into football on his own. What do you think? You really want to take a picture of the house. How interesting. Today, I knew you wanted to ask questions. This decor in the studio is beautiful, but it has nothing to do with us. That's why I went to the office. I picked up three pieces. Four pieces. Okay. One of these two were prizes. Now they gave it to us. We said, "Let's leave it here. It has nothing to do with us." Something about my grandfather. We put it down because it had nothing to do with the episode. But now it does. Now they say, "If it had nothing to do with it, you would have

6:14 put it down here. No, God forbid. Look, it's in a box there." For example, they gave this to my grandfather. A statue of thanks for the 100th anniversary of football in Iran. Well done. But now I want to tell you this. The role of family is very important in the direction that children go. This picture was of me when I was 5 or 6 years old. Well, my dear. This was the Gendarmerie field. Not Davoudi. My grandfather. I slept at his house on Thursday nights. On the floor, my football shoes, my socks, my stockings, I warmed up next to the mattress. Ready in the morning. Half past three in the morning, he

6:59 would put his foot on my back. Mehran would shake his head. I bought the shoe too. Well, I mean, definitely, in any case, being a footballer played a role, but you somehow find your own path because I didn't follow Daimina's path. It's true that I didn't become a footballer, I became a coach. But now that I look back, I see that I should n't have gone into football at all. What's your relationship with Ms. Suzanne Roshan? Why did you get that? I don't know. Suddenly, I saw that when we were kids, I used to tell everyone, "Auntie, lie." Yes, I used to tell everyone, " Auntie, at that time, everyone's crush." By God, I was 12 or 13 years old when I was a child, and I

7:48 was always ahead of my time. Now you look at it and you say, "Well, I mean, how beautifully she's dressed," but then it became interesting. Friends would say, "How can this be? She's a singer, and she doesn't fit into your family." I was going to say it, but it's not related at all. Really, okay, who would you be willing to give a Ronaldo T-shirt to ? By God, now that you're opening your mouth, I'm afraid what are you going to ask? Ronaldo's T-shirt has no spiritual value. Yes, oh my God, it has spiritual value. Why did you wrap it in a blanket? It's an Iranian blanket. It's an Iranian blanket. No, I did n't want the kids to see it. The only thing we had was a blanket. How much is it? They won't go and peek. No, the clothes that Ronaldo signed are worth a lot. Because one, he did

8:33 n't need me. This person doesn't have one. And two, he did it himself. That means without you asking him to say anything. For example, many times it's possible that because people know each other, you can tell someone, "This guy came to Dubai, you went to him, this guy, take him to sign it, for example." But the fact that these calls started from their side and the best thing is that I criticized Ronaldo many times. He's the most hated football figure in the world. Have you ever thought about this? Yes, yes, if you say his name, it will be a problem or not. No, I hope he's not Iranian. I just don't say Iranian. I don't speak Iranian, but I'm a foreigner, I also

9:19 said English. I've been to a place now, and now there's a place where there was a program that I was invited to. Then they called me and said, "Excuse me, can you come next time?" Then I found out that a certain famous player said, " No, Mehran." Yes, why? Because, for example, I talked about his treatment in two videos. I think he's eating. I mean, I see your English page. First of all, because his hits are not very few. He has no hits at all. Yes, I mean, you have to search a lot to find something. He's very respectful. It's not like your Persian page. And the fact that you can see it is very interesting. For me, you saw an axe. What did I twist? I didn't say, "The most hated person in football is Mr. Matteo Atrezzi. For me, the most hated person in

10:09 football is Mr. Matteo Atrezzi. Because he made Zidane say goodbye to football with that attitude. Didn't he hit Atrezzi in the chest? Did you see the final of the 2016 World Cup? Mr. Zidane brought the whole World Cup to France. If he had stayed in the game, and Materazzi disrespected his sister, and Zidane lost control for a moment. He shouted and threw himself in his chest with a head butt. This red card and Zidane could have made France the champion of that game and been in the top tier of world football because you know now we have Messi and Ronaldo, right? Then we have Maradona, Pele, Platini and Cruyff. Oh, if he had won there, he could have established himself on a par with Messi and Ronaldo. But football,

10:56 what is the most interesting part of working with children? Learning from them, I think so too. Well done, well done. We actually made a video. I went to them a few days ago. They were saying things. I said, "Wait, I do n't understand what you're saying at all." Then they explained that it's a new trend. They explained it nicely to you. The kids are very smart and we have a boy in the club that day. There was an Iranian guy in one of the videos. I won't mention his name. It was the first time I saw him. I made a video. How good it is. Then I asked him, "How did you find our club?" He said, "My parents watch your videos and I like you very much." I said, " Thank you." Then the 9-year-old boy said, "Uncle, I love you too." He meant that he wanted, for example, not to upset me. Well, I

11:43 didn't force myself to come here. I mean, so many kids are more attentive than adults. They even teach people humility. That's what I wanted to ask you. You're very successful. And you don't show us how much money you have in your bank account. But I want to ask, see the impact of social media on Mehran Roshan's success. I mean, I'm confusing your name. Are you bothering me? How much impact has social media had on you? I mean, you're so successful now, you have so many kids. You won the Coach of the Year award. You talked about it until now. Why? Why not? I'm nervous. Why not?

12:28 Look at something that's especially important now. For example, if this is a football program, ask me, I'll explain. But what you're asking now is, if I explain, what will it do to the audience's life? But I'll answer you. I'll post my photo in 2021. Maybe in another episode, I said that the biggest sports media, Instagram, came to talk to us. They made a documentary and put me in this documentary. They also put a story about me. The next day, for example, I had 2,000 followers at that time. Well, I had an English or Persian-English page. I

13:14 only had 2,000 at that time. Then I saw 1,000 followers. Then it didn't matter. People who knew me behaved differently. They were saying, " Well done, no." Then I said to myself, "I'm the same person, I have the same information, I have the same ability, it's just that because I've been seen more, I've been seen more, but that's it, your business has become more and more successful with this visibility, and as someone I respect a lot in this field, I wanted to see for those who have new businesses. Well, you were zero one day, now we have to ask what happened when you started from zero and all that. But you started from zero too. Now, right? You first went to a club like Arsenal and did this. Okay, how much impact did social media have on

14:02 Mehran Roshan becoming Mehran Roshan, the bottle-bearer Mehran Zainasur, being here now? It played its role. Look, now the world of visibility has played its role. But I still like to talk in a way that the person who is watching can benefit from it. Also, the role of luck in success is very important. Just today, I was talking to someone who does hair cutting about my story at the right time. I started making videos, before Instagram even came along and made short videos, before YouTube even made shorts, I was producing TikTok like a machine.

14:50 Oh, well, for example, our TikTok suddenly became 1 million in 6 months. That means most of the kids who are about to register at school find you on social media. It's seen. That means none of them went to that cousin. Why? That's 10. But most of it is seen. That means you're a word-of-mouth. That means, for example, tomorrow night, you and your friends went to a dinner party. Suddenly, someone says, "Yes, my child wants to go to the football game." You say, "I know Mehran, come to them there." This is one of the most valuable ways to get customers because you come yourself. You do n't advertise, you give them social media. That's it. We never said in any of our videos, "Come to

15:35 our club." We add value to the mukhat. That's right. You know what to do. You disappointed me when you were the first one. People always get disappointed, I mean, you want to tell me now, you're getting disappointed right now, it's impossible. Mehran Roshan Mehrani, who I know, hope for no, look, despair is not absolute. I might get disappointed. Then suddenly, for example, I go home and watch a video that has 5 million views and you'll be happy again. I say, we're not robots, we're not machines.

16:36 Well done. The difference, for example, between people who can get over their negative thoughts and those who sink into despair is that people who don't get disappointed absolutely remember the score of the things they have . Well done I always gave the example. Look, 50,000 years ago, when we were living in caves, if we came out of the cave, if we found four meals a day, we would pick something from a tree, go into the cave, and if there was a sound, we would stop and think, think positively, and maybe there was a small

17:22 goat that we were chasing behind, we would definitely run away and die first. That's why we ran away because we thought that the worst possible situation was that there was a tiger behind us that wanted to eat us, and those who were stupid would be afraid and survive, and those who wanted to think and be thoughtful would be eliminated. That is, if we didn't think negatively, we would n't survive. If we didn't doubt people, we would n't survive. That's why this negativity exists in all of us. We all have to deal with it. I have often used the example of Mr. Robin Williams . The funniest, funniest person in the world was dancing

18:11 for people on a talk show a week before he committed suicide. We'll post the video, then he committed suicide. His daughter found him at home. Well, uh, now what I mean is, not only that, right now, right now, I have nothing to hide . I'm saying this so that someone can use it. The same brand that Mehran has just created, the great Zayrans, has some problems with it, we are currently solving the problem. Well, we may have problems in the club. I went to the club today, I will tell people that after 4 months, I went to the club again. After 4 months, I told two people that I would not come back. I fired them. Oh, well, now they are not Iranians. I say, not that it is a problem. Why should I fire someone

18:56 because they did not do their job, because they caused problems? Problems are part of all of our lives, and disappointment is always with them. Yes, and I'll tell you this: those who think that Mr. Elon Musk has a good life don't know what it means to have a good life. If life is about you having to spend 4 hours worrying about business, you have to be in a jet. Every time you go up in the sky, you are hurting your body. You have 11 children to save. Ca n't you see that this is not life. It is struggling. It is moving humanity forward at all. But this is not life. My question is, what do you mean? Now, this question has come to my mind from your talk. You say, "

19:44 Excuse me, Mr. Roshan." You say, " This is an effort to move forward to some extent. And to the extent that you can enjoy your life, that is, you should n't try any more than that. That is, you should spend the rest of your life with your children and enjoy it. I didn't say anything like that. What you said is both right and wrong. I want to learn from you. No, I'm not here at all. I have to teach you. Why? Because maybe I'm wrong. You are my little grace. A person has to learn from everything. Today, since I became the best mom in the world, I went to the office in the morning and got fired. Unfortunately, I went to the supermarket for exercise. Someone was cooking. Podcast. I was listening to a

20:30 podcast that had nothing to do with my little work because I wanted my brain to learn something different from someone I had never heard of before. A person can use information, and now he can use it for anything that makes sense to him. Yesterday, on Dubai TV, they asked me how we can create healthy habits for our lives. Well, I started by saying that if we don't know what our purpose in life is, nothing we do matters. All the work we do. That means you can be the hardest working person on earth, but if you don't know what your goal is, you might be working hard for the wrong reason . We need to see what our purpose in life is. I'm

21:16 currently at the stage where I have four teenage daughters . Elena will be leaving for university in a year and a half, ahead of me, in one to three and a half years, and that's why it's become my priority to spend a few hours with the kids every day. Well, well, this makes me change my job. I'll hire 2 more people, more money will come out of my business so I can have my own time. Well done. But now I'm telling you this again for the audience. I have a number in my mind. Whenever I reach that amount of wealth, I'll change everything. I mean, this speed I'm using is all about calculating the machine. You'll get

22:02 there. And from there, you decide. Well, I've reached this number that I had in my mind. Now, what will my goal be from here? And this is completely personal. Everyone is like that. Yeah, okay. It can be different. How long have you been making the Roshan podcast? You started the podcast. We've recorded 21 episodes. 21 episodes have been recorded. What happened that you decided to make a podcast? We were making short videos. Oh, short videos. You have to say something. Come out. And then I saw Mr. Khodadad Aziz on TV. Salute to him. What a football player he

22:48 was. I saw him saying that if he kills you, you'll get hit in the flesh. The era of being good is over, otherwise. This person, or else this person, will come and beat you in the face, your father will beat you. I agree with him. Now wait, we'll talk about him. And I saw this. And I saw this. And I said to myself, "Wow, a person who played football well, he's a national champion. I like him very much. I like him very much. He 's a football player. He's also an honest person. But, well,

23:33 this is what the person who sits and listens to this is saying. Well, he goes down the street and someone curses at him. Instead of beating himself up, he walks down that street. And then he curses at him. Then they fight, they insult each other. He hits someone on the head. One person dies. One goes to jail. So that the family can mourn. Well, then I said to myself, " How can I explain this in 90 seconds?" And there I said to myself, "No, there's so much dinosaur talk being said in society. Yes, we need to have a conversation with the right people. Whoever wants to, can use it. Come see this program and use it. There is so much dinosaur information in this community and I feel it is our duty to help. Now, if you want to talk about hitting your ear when someone hits your

24:22 flesh, I'm ready. If you want, you can. No, I'm saying, look, there's a time when someone older than you or you did something wrong, something happened, like, what do you know, sir, I'm just going to have a chance, he's whispering in my ear, so I don't answer and I shouldn't do anything at all because I grew up thinking that this is wrong, I mean, if it's a gentleman's word, for example, but there's a time when I'm walking down the street and someone whispers in my ear, and I don't really expect this to happen, and at that moment my child is with me and that person is doing something else strange. Well, I have to react to that one. Maybe what they say is n't true, but you find yourself in a situation where you

25:09 go out on the street with your daughters and you see that person picking a fight with you, and that fight is hurting your daughters. For whatever reason. You don't react? I will answer. I'm scared, but the answer is, why are you scared? Why is everyone afraid of me? If they knew you, no one would be afraid of you, but since you were me, maybe because I'm so blunt, well, let's start with your father. I remember that your father beat you, not my father. Well, for a family elder to beat you and you do nothing, that's a problem in itself. We said, "Well done," and you said it yourself. And

25:55 look, an elder should behave like an elder. Oh, well, it's true that we always say that being older is beautiful in our culture. Very beautiful. But the great must maintain its own greatness. If an uncle, a great-grandfather, an aunt, an auntie, or a grandmother is having an affair with a child, the people around them must resolve the issue. But if most people can say this is true now, that is, they see this in their lives, an uncle whispers in the child's ear, no one says anything, uncle, no, no, this, well, the other grandfather, the mother's grandfather, well, look, this is

26:42 because there was no awareness, that is, the same mother or father whose child is on the phone, goes home at night crying out of grief, but doesn't let his father or father-in-law say that you have no right to touch this child, I'm not bringing my child here anymore, well, this is a problem, now let's go see, stranger on the street, stranger on the street, you, as a conscious human being, you have to make a decision that is in your best interest. The decision that is in your best interest is often not the decision that you want to make. I often read the comments, someone cursed, you know what I mean at the moment I read it, sometimes it happens like this, it really happens like this, sometimes I

27:30 say in my mind, you are a grandfather, but am I going to answer it? I didn't work for a long time and I would answer in my mind, but some people penetrate a lot more, a lot more, they allow themselves to say things to a person's child, for example, I insult them, I don't joke with my children at all. I went the same way, no, I don't joke with my children at all. I mean, a lion, a wolf, a desert wolf. I mean, you don't know. I mean, maybe my children are my red line. Look, the video we were talking about was broadcast. He asked me that. I said, "When they tell me, 'Okay, sing to my child,' they'll be rude. I'm a completely different person. But let me tell you this. The message

28:17 that a person reads is, if you say something bad to you, you'll answer it. The first thing you did was raise that person. The first thing you did was, well, the second thing you did was, you saw that they say that when you don't come to the bathroom, you stir it up. Hey, big cow, look, you won't die. Hey, you have a stick, shake it, it will rise. Well, well, no, we don't do this. Well, look, what I want to say is, if someone disrespects you in society, you have two options: either go and fight, make things worse, or get out of that situation quickly, kid. After you get out, explain to your kid, and tell him, " Look, you're a bastard without a family, someone whose

29:03 only references are swearing, lying, and behaving badly. Fate will do something to you that will put you on the same path. You should distance yourself from this person quickly. Well, that's definitely not what Mr. Khodadad Azizi meant. I believe in this very much. You know why, because we always have that personal experience. Something happened. You did something. Then you want to come and explain it. Then the explanation you give is explaining that situation. But not if someone hits you in the flesh. At that moment, his heart was filled with something. The power to close your eyes, close your ears, and get out of a very violent, violent situation is

29:50 that power. Well done, Mehran Roshan. He's very patient. I got to know him like this. That's how he got to know me. That's how he got to know me. I'm sitting here right now, sir. I have a controversial question, a controversial one that you ca n't answer. No, I'm looking for the answer. No, you've interviewed a lot of people. In this time, except for me, you've had regrets. 21 episodes have been aired so far. Let's say 25, 23, 4. No, what kind of question is this? You know what I'm saying? No, why should I ask you this question? No, you know why? Because in each of these

30:36 conversations, the person who should use it uses it. But it's been a long time, a long time, a long time. I mean, once or twice. No, maybe in the 90 episodes, something was said that I didn't agree with or something was said that wasn't presented correctly. You don't mean my part. My part is you and me. No, you were in the 10th. Yes, put your glasses on. Well, wait, see. Because there were a lot of questions, I have to write them down. But I'm a smart person. If I wanted to memorize them, I would have. I didn't want to memorize them. Okay, sir. I want to

31:24 ask you a few more important questions because I like the answer myself. This question is from you, Mehran Roshan. I would like to learn from you, Mr. Roshan, did you buy crypto? I bought it 3 years ago, did you sell it or did you blow it all? Can you believe it was a scam? I lost everything. It was FTX and it failed. You FX. No, I'm Bitcoin, Ethereum, XRP. It was a scam. What does it mean? Someone scammed me and took everything from your wallet. How can it be 40,000 dollars? How can it be? Did n't you do it yourself? Yes, I made a mistake, but FTX went bankrupt last night. Not that it went bankrupt. A scam put me in a situation

32:10 and I made a mistake at that moment. I was tired. It was 11 at night. My brain is tired. Right. Yes, I think $35,000. Oh, yes, it hurts. It hurts. No, you learn. You learn. Well, I'm telling you. You have to show us how much money you have in your bank account. That's why $35,000 is not money to you. No, it's much less than what you think. Yes, I'm saying it's millions. Now, I don't know. It's much less than what you think. But the next question is, I'm very nosy. I'll figure it out. You know, sir. I have a question. Why the sex photo? You pinned your pic for a long time.

32:55 Why did I pin it? It wasn't just my six-pack picture. Yes, slides two and three were my picture from last year. It was my picture from three years ago. It was my six-pack. Well, why did you have it? You don't have six- packs anymore. You don't have six-packs anymore. No, I don't have them anymore. A layer of fat has come on. Well, that's it. Hey, you say you crave bean pilaf. That's it. Yes, but no, I posted it so that others can see it. That means it can change. It's very beautiful. I should post my dad's pictures if they really want to learn how to change. If people are looking for change, because you're young and you've been in sports since you were a child, it's not surprising that Mehran Roshan has a body like this. Well, if you saw it before,

33:42 now I can't look at my pictures from a year and a half to two years ago. Don't tell yourself this way. You know, let people talk about themselves like this. No, it's actually very good because I can't look at them positively. It's not the other way around. How good I was as a teenager, how bad I have become now. Well, that's all, there is sin in your body, Nargiz's body is sinful. We shouldn't talk like this anymore . I myself was a person who blamed myself a lot in the mirror. I learned not to speak badly about myself, good or bad . We are all good. This is clearly from Mehran Roshne. There was also talk of dinosaurs. I did it two or three years ago. I said, rip off your clothes, look at yourself in the mirror, and see how you feel about

34:28 your body. This was completely wrong. Why? Because our subconscious is very delicate. The subconscious mind is cute. That child inside us is very sensitive. The more you beat your head against something, the more stubborn it becomes . Now, by the way, I'm saying don't go to Ja Laina if you don't absolutely have to. Don't even say I'm doing this. Use the third pronoun. You do this. I've used this advice a lot and it's helped me a lot, mostly because I'm saying that we 're not kind to ourselves, and when we 're not kind to ourselves, we become a person who suffers from

35:16 everything. If you're not kind to yourself at all, I don't know what this unconscious process is that people do, everyone suddenly becomes unkind to you, and you're so kind to them. I'm learning a lot from you . I wish all Iranians had the opportunity to come here and sit next to Narges and Mehran Roshan and learn something. I grew up with you. Well, let this load. Let me read some comments and see your reactions . Is this really a plan? Bring me to hear what I did to myself. No, dad, your comments are good. My comments are too sexual. And

36:05 your comments are too open. Why, let me leave it. If I posted a video, dear Heather, how would these people see me if it weren't for you? Yes, that's why I posted it. They say, "What should I do if you don't come to my Explore anymore?" Block me. You won't go to Explore anymore. No, block me. You won't be upset about this comment. I don't understand. Oh, I thought about the comment. You say, "You won't be upset." I said, "I don't understand. You won't be upset." Why would they leave this comment? Because I, who have said much worse things to me, do n't you, who are so patient? I do n't read at all. Or, "Excuse me, you're not going to my ID?" Say whatever you want. Say it. You're just like pouring gasoline on a fire.

36:50 I'm happy. I don't know why. I don't know. I feel like I'm not doing anything. Come on. We recorded a podcast with you 2 months ago. 3 months ago. We've been broadcasting for 3 months, definitely 2 months, 3 months now 2 months, 3 months, 3 months, 3 months, but I feel like it's been a lot longer. They know that since the podcast was broadcast, it was recorded, it was broadcast until now. For yourself, have you seen any changes in yourself? In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Don't let me tell you one by one because we've still got a series to finish. You know, I haven't said much yet on social media, but yes, a lot. No, no. For yourself, in terms of your life, in your personality, in the way

37:38 you look at things. I don't want to say that everything has changed, but for example, when I started working with Arsenal, my husband-in-law Mehrdad said, "You don't realize it now, but this is a turning point in your life. Your life's path is going in a different direction." And I wanted to know if it's too early to talk about it now. Was it a turning point that completely changed your life? Not just that podcast. I want to make a video to put on YouTube, just about the impact that friends have on people's lives. I've seen a lot of things change since I met you.

38:23 Not only that podcast we did together, I looked at it myself. I said, "Okay, wake up. This is what's going on. Someone saw it, but you didn't see it. Open your eyes. You're doing something important. Nothing. That energy after that podcast. How many direct messages did I get? It's like this. It's like this. Aida. We heard this podcast. We had body shaming. This was it. We're much better now. It's great that we saw your page. From your page, about 25,000 people came to see me and followed me. Most of them were women. And this energy that I gave to that woman is very good. I saw its impact on my life in the last two or three months. And something happened to me.

39:10 Mr. Roshan. I don't know. I don't know. But I can only say, "Greetings to you." "Greetings to you." "The next question is, do you want to talk to us about Roshan Halt? Roshan Halt is being promoted. No, go ahead and promote it. Yes, next time, I'll get caught up. Later, I wo n't let you go. You posted a video where you said, "Delete Instagram after this video. You had something to do with me." You said, "Delete it or I will delete it." Delete it. I don't produce it. Those who had something to do with you came to YouTube and said, "This is the makeup of the lives of those on social media. Don't believe it. I

39:56 really like you. I really say makeup. You don't show who you are, but there was a special person in your mind at that moment. When you made that video, it became so popular on Instagram that you said to yourself, " Kiss, kiss," and then they get angry with each other again. And this is not limited to Persian Instagram. I know, look, I'm mentioning someone again. Someone who has been introduced in foreign society as the most successful self-made young man and sells courses. I was on a boat, there was a party, when we arrived, there was no car, so we went back to the

40:44 hotel and this guy was posting pictures in a private jet. Maybe, like me, his German certificate had a problem. No, no, well, I'm telling you part of it. A very simple part of it is the formula that you are a what, Mr. Mehran Modiri, the man of a thousand faces. Yes, that man was a thousand faces, but now you have one face. Now show me a watch, a watch, a fake watch. Now it's very, very expensive. It's not a fake. Think about it, but I'm not yours. This might be fake. No, I checked. I know the brand. Think about a fake Blaze. Go next to an expensive car. If someone has a Rolls-Royce, as the guy Ruiz

41:31 Ruiz Ruiz says, it's easy to rent all of this in the Emirates. Rent it for a day. Well, if you can, go next to a private jet and take a picture. People believe it, especially Iranians and those who really trade. Be very careful. Look around. This is not at all what I want to say. I don't want to say that anyone is cheating. You are working directly with the stock market. No one has ever gotten rich trading. It may have been a chance to make a money trade, but because of that... The dopamine it gives him comes back to him, he does it again, and he does n't realize that he got lucky with that. Usually,

42:18 in the stock market outside of Iran, if you put aside 20 or 30 years, you get 8 or 9 a year. That's how people make money. Don't be so eager to make money quickly. I have nothing to do with charlatans. I'm right. Mehran. If you were in Iran as a child, you grew up in the Emirates, that is, you came here as a child when you were 12 or 13 years old. If you had stayed in Iran, what would your job be like now? You thought, "If I had stayed in Iran, what would my situation be like now?" I do n't want to be arrogant and say, "I would have been a successful [musician] person anywhere in the world, because that is a sign of pride, and we don't know. I don't know. And I also know that one of the biggest lucks was that my mother

43:04 took us out of Iran when I was 12 or 13 years old. But I know that I am a very disciplined person. If I want to do something, it is obvious. And I don't know. Maybe if I grew up in Iran, I would have been a successful [musician] person. I was maybe I do n't know, really, you ca n't say that at all, you thought you didn't like being in the market at all, what about the team? For example, you had a shop at all. I worked in the market, yes, but you don't like it at all. Mehran Roshan, I don't know, your job somehow fits in with your character, your type, your style, this Rolex watch, this, it all fits together very well. I don't know, you couldn't, for example, have a rice shop. Now, it's not clear. You don't like it. Now, in your destiny, for example, what do I know? Nargiz, maybe you couldn't at all. In the destiny of all people, everything is written so beautifully

43:51 that somehow you don't do this job. These dinosaurs, Mehran, go ahead, Roshan. I feel that you didn't advertise. If it somehow has something to do with the topic of my podcast, look, this line of thought is very important to me because you posted a video when you interviewed Dr. Sohla, and many women were angry about this video. Above, she has a beautiful face, but her body is in a state of disarray. What was the point of not getting it? What's going on? It's very, very simple. You even messaged me and said I should be upset. I said, "Who do you mean?"

44:37 No, it's very clear. Look, I didn't say that someone who has a pretty face but doesn't have a pretty bottom is n't a good person. I'm saying that if you go to college once a week, you'll get your head shaved, your face shaved, your nails done, your hair styled, but you don't give the slightest attention to your appearance or your physical health. This means that beauty is not just here. Mehran, look, I'll tell you something. Women's weight gain is very hormonal. It means they go through PMS after giving birth. The first three months of giving birth are very bad. People eat a lot of junk. They're in a state of shock. They lose weight. I believe some people lose weight during

45:23 pregnancy. So you can't say that. Maybe that person is like me. I gave birth a year and a half ago. A lot of things happened to me. I couldn't focus on losing weight. But in that year and a half, the conversation you had with some people might have been a year after giving birth. Some people might have been a year after chemotherapy. These hormones are mixed up. And I think that this might have had an impact on the audience. You know, because there are exceptions. Look, it's not easy for a transparent person to explain a topic. And when we show a video, we leave it for 60 seconds.

46:11 Instead of being curious, the person who watches it might go to the video. Look, he might make the same assumption and judge. I mean, it definitely wasn't someone who was pregnant. It definitely wasn't someone who has depression. It definitely wasn't someone whose hormones are out of whack. It's very clear. I'll say this in general later. It's not just women. I'm also a gentleman. A lot of gentlemen go to the barbershop, get their eyebrows trimmed, clean their faces, what do I know? Facials do everything. Facials are okay, but eyebrow trimming, no more eyebrows. Now, maybe eyebrows, what do I know? For example, if a person doesn't care about their health, it's not just about having a beautiful head.

46:58 Yes, I'll tell you one more thing. Because you mentioned hormones, a lot of women should be careful not to make the wrong decisions about their health. For example, women who fast and fast should be very careful. Or if you do, make sure that your relationship with food is right because most people, especially women, have a relationship with food. It 's not a good relationship. That means they either overeat. They either eat less or feel very bad when they are eating, which causes them to not eat properly. So if this person suddenly doesn't eat anything for 16 hours, that hormonal story you mentioned

47:45 will bother you even more. That's why don't you go to God. This one says 16-hour fasting. That one says 3 days. That one says a week. That one says 30 days. 21 days. Many people say, please, don't do strange things. But if you have a genetic test, I mean, many people do n't have the opportunity to have a genetic test. But I just had a genetic test. Look, I opened doors. I got answers to questions that you wouldn't believe. That genetic test will tell you what diet is good for you. What should you do? How much of anything should you eat? I just realized that I shouldn't eat beef protein, not even red meat. I 'm one of the few people in the world who can't do this. My body

48:33 reacts to this at all. And the reason why I often get headaches, I don't know how to relieve pain. I'm like, "Oh, many things." The reason is dairy and beef protein. Well, many people don't know that. And that's why I say this genetic test. If they have the opportunity, they would. It can help them, women, especially because of this hormonal change and all that. You need to know how to treat your body, what to eat, instead of beating yourself up. And if they can't do that, a genetic test is a better thing, a more practical thing to do. The first thing is to look at those around you. Look at the father, mother, and a generation later, and see what illnesses

49:18 they had as a family. Anyone with a history of heart disease in their family should be careful. Anyone with diabetes should be careful. This means that the more aware a person is, the less likely they are to make mistakes. We've reached the last 10 minutes of the episode. We've reached the beautiful episode of my podcast. Jahanbani Jahanbani Azarbani Azar. I said everyone's name wrong. You're saying my middle name right. I told you once. Who is Azadeh Azadeh? Who is Azad? God, come on, thank you. Thank you for

50:06 accepting it. You don't have it. No, I accept it. Recording is always good. I think you don't show most of the 90s that you don't show. I'll show you. Don't show me. I'll show you. You know, show me what a great person you are. Thank you. Thank you. You have content for the audience next month. They should see it and use it. Let me ask you a question. What is your dream for life? [Music] Okay, you asked a very nice question. Mehran. I don't have any dreams in my life. I have a goal in my life. Because I consider myself such a strong person that I don't want to wish for something.

50:54 I want to plan and achieve it. What is the goal? And I should tell you my goal now. If you can, you know a lot of it, but I don't want to talk about it. I do n't want to talk about it, but I'll show you over time what my goal is. I'm one of those people who I believe that if you talk too much about your work, it wo n't get done. Well done, shut up. Well done, but I have a few safe people in my life. You know why the energy of other people around you, good or bad? I do n't believe in the eyes and all that. No, no, the main reason you want to

51:40 do something that hasn't been done is don't tell anyone, especially the big work. I also said in the video, what is it? I do n't remember two points, I'll take two points off. Yes, it's because you've done a great job. It feels good. It says, "Okay, and that means it's very good." And many times, we get this good feeling when we say, "Aida, I want to do this." Before this is done, we get that good feeling by telling others and in 2025, by telling the whole world on social media. And it makes you stop pursuing that job at all. Well done. And you think you've

52:25 achieved it. My father, I kiss your hand. My father always used to say this. And I used to say, "What are you saying?" He would say, "Dad, do n't say so much. I became this. I became this. I became that. You're not trying for that anymore." He's right. Now, Mr. Azarbani. I was completely right. Yes, thank you. Thank you for your sacrifice. Thank you to the respected viewers. Thank you from Nargsaltane. This time, I focused on Aida Azarbani's conversation with Mehran Roshan, so I won't make a mistake. I really hope you use it wherever it works for you. Where there is no use, a pair of scissors is a trash can.