The Answer to a Better Life

0:01 The answer to a better life. I'm Brian Withers, empowerment coach, trainer, and author. Well, the original intent of this uh video was going to be called the power of imagination. And uh I will make that the next video, but I'm going to use theseh slides, some of them anyway, for a different message tonight. And that is to show really why uh life has been the way it has been here on planet Earth. uh in terms of the the struggles and all the things that happen in humanity that are unpleasant and we don't really have answers to them and uh again why having a manifestation technique or trying to use the law of attraction is not the

0:47 answer. See, the answer is uh what I'm going to show you here because uh while I was working on this uh I looked at this original image here and you can see there's quite a few pieces and I'm going to explain them but I thought well this is the way life is. We didn't get taught most of this stuff and I thought well what what do we know? And then I I made another image and and it's only this this is all we know about life as we grow up. Look at this. Look, look at the pieces that are missing. How can you do anything with any effectiveness with so many missing pieces? Imagine getting into your car and there were some pieces taken out of the transmission and the motor and and the wheels and you got in

1:34 your car and it just wouldn't start. It wouldn't go. It would be useless to you. Well, we grow up uh learning about life, missing all of these pieces. And all that we really know about is that we're a human being. We got a physical body, a thinking mind. We live on a physical planet, which we call physical reality, which we think is total reality. We have five senses to work with. We do have emotion, and we do have imagination. And then that's it. It's left to us to carve it out however we can. Hack our way through, do what we can, persuade

2:20 people, whatever we got to do to get what we want to do. And there's all kinds of things that come out of that. And uh as I was building these slides and I thought, okay, well, this explains why life is the way it has been. And I just made a little list here and and uh all of this stuff that I'm going to uh talk about here. I'm going to talk about this list of things and every one of these things would go away if we got this total knowledge of life and we understood how it worked. So let me just go down this list because it's it's just uh so significant to understand this. So, why are there so many health issues

3:09 and so many that can't be solved and so many that are considered uh life-threatening? Why are there why is that? And it's simply because we're missing this. We don't know what's going on and so we can't really understand what happens to the body. So, that's what's going on there. Why is there poverty? Why are there wars? Why are people burnt out from making things happen? Why are there broken relationships? Why do people stay in jobs they don't like? Why is there crime? Why are people chasing money? Why are people afraid to lose money? Why do people not follow their dreams? Why is sickness synonymous with older ages and

3:55 then we die? Uh why do people live in fear, worry, and doubt? Why is there so much anxiety, unhappiness and dissatisfaction? Why do people live with grudges? Why do people live with pain from their past? Uh why do people judge each other? Why do people find repeating unwanted patterns? Why do people feel stuck? Why are children born with health issues? Why do bad things, what we call bad things, people say bad things, why do bad things happen to good people or children? Okay, these all of that that whole list would absolutely go away if we knew this. If we were taught this and we lived this, all of that stuff would absolutely

4:42 100% go away. If there's any of my videos uh that you want to show somebody about trying to influence them to understand if there's something going on in their life and uh they've tried everything and they can't get anything to change uh but they really want to and they're somewhat open-minded. You show them this video and just just at least give them awareness of what's missing here. And why the things happen as I just this list I just mentioned why these things are hap this that's why those things are happening because we live with a very very small part of the full understanding of life and so we we like

5:30 I say we just hack it out the best we can and uh given that we have this small amount of information we actually do pretty good. I remember when I started to learn all this stuff and one of the first things that occurred to me is I'm not surprised people get sick all the time. I'm surprised we live as long as we deal with the amount of stress and resistance and worry and fear and unknowing and uncertainty that we live with under th under that kind of stress. How we even live as long as we do. It just that's one of the things that amazed me which just goes to show how resilient we really are as human beings. But my goodness, if we eliminate uh if we can eliminate all these things,

6:16 which we can do, if we learn this, then uh life is just going to be so different in ways we probably can't even imagine. Because if you take all of that resistance out of the picture, then we're going to be not subjected to all of those kinds of conditions here that I've listed. We'll be living lives that are flowing in peaceful, prosperous, joyous ways, interacting with with each other, a network of humanity. So this is what uh we really want to learn. This is what a lot of my work is about is to help people understand this

7:02 broader perspective. People ask me so many questions even here on YouTube on these videos. Uh many of the questions a high percent of the questions that are asked and I'm very happy to answer all those questions to help bring clarity and understanding to this. But clearly many of the questions uh are very strong evidence complete indicators that we don't know about this. We're not understanding this this big picture of life. All these pieces those questions are coming from this physical world only understanding of life. And that's why a lot of my answers no doubt uh are not fully understood and uh because I'm answering

7:49 questions using this as my reference point where the questions themselves are coming from this reference point. So when I talk about all the elements of the creative process, I talk about your inner being and I talk about why life is easy and effortless and fun and joyous and prosperous and you know people are shaking their heads. What are you talking about Brian? Who lives that life? Where is that life? Right? And that life is here. When you understand that when you when you understand all of this information, the knowledge of life and how it all works together, uh that that's what explains why life is easy and effortless and you can have

8:37 everything the way you want it to be and change anything and uh your body can heal from anything and you can have any amount of abundance that you want and you can have loving relationships and you can have interesting things that you do in your day, whether it be a business, a job, or whatever it is. Uh you can have uh peaceful, civilized experiences with all kinds of people, even if you have differences. [Music] Uh all of that is the way life is meant to be. We didn't come here for all these things I talked about. That's not why we came here. These things are the result of this missing information of the lack

9:24 of this information. So the answer to a better life lies in education of the true knowledge of life of understanding all the pieces and how they work and even our own human faculties of of uh being uh and which is why I was going to this original video was going to be called the power of imagination and I am going to do that in the next video but uh even uh imagination in the traditional way that life is explained to us. I call it a sixth sense, which you'll see why in the other slide. But imagination is given no credence at all as to anything that

10:09 factors into anything important. Uh emotion, yeah, we have them. But you know what is the power of emotion? Emotion is not really seen as anything too powerful. negative emotion uh often isn't interpreted as as a bad thing or it means something bad's going on, right? Complete misunderstanding because negative emotion is one of your best friends for sure as I talk about in many videos. And uh again, we're carving it out. We didn't come to carve anything out. We came to ask effortlessly and receive joyously. And uh there's so much more going on. So we want to understand this knowledge of life because this is where the answer

10:56 to a better life is. So let's just talk about some of these things. So here's our physical reality and the things that actually we we consider having gone wrong or they're trouble or problems or crisis or trauma. It's contrast. It's natural contrast. It's the natural asking. When those things happen, it means we have asked. We've are now clear. Even not if in the moment in our conscious mind, our inner being, our inner being is very clear about what it is that we want and instantly sets it up as a vibrational reality for us to start receiving immediately. So, so even in

11:44 what I just said right there, so much is going on that is not even part of our education that we grow up with. Just in that short piece I just said because total reality is both vibrational and physical. And if you cut out vibrational reality, well, you just cut out any reason that you can feel good all the time. And you have to to do that to get your life to manifest in the ways that you want. It takes unconditional feel good and conditional feel good, but certainly unconditional feel good. And you can't get there without vibrational reality. You cannot get there because all your feelood is going to come from your physical life. And if life doesn't

12:29 look good, the condition don't look good, then you're not going to feel good. And then you try all kinds of things to get that. But it none of them really work in any permanent long-term way. So if you cut out vibrational reality, you know, you've cut out a major part of what allows us to live our high vibration life. And if you cut out the understanding of contrast, that's when you think all these situations are so bad and so on and so forth. When in fact, contrast is really a disguise for your dreams and desires. That's where dreams and desires are born out of the contrast and uh yes we do have five physical senses that help us to interpret the physical world and emotion

13:16 is our guidance system in the true knowledge of life and the way it works. Emotion tells us if our thought energy see that we don't even get taught that that our thoughts are energy. Our our thoughts are energy and our emotion tells us what the energy is. High vibration or low, in alignment or out of alignment with our dreams and desires and who we are and how life works. So, so we don't even grow up with that. We don't even know our emotions are a guidance system. Look how many things that we don't know about and yet we still hack our way through life. So, let's keep going here. uh imagination. See, imagination is what's this uh image say here? Sometimes you

14:02 have to close your eyes so you can see more clearly. You see, we look with our eyes at physical reality. And if we don't know about contrast and we see a situation we don't like, then we get all tangled up with it in so many negative feeling ways. But if we know we have this third eye which we can say is our imagination, our sixth sense, then at the very same time we're looking at contrast at an unwanted situation. We can know the better situations on the way to us. That absolutely changes everything. Everything. If you don't have that reference point, what what are you going to do? You're going to feel hopeless, powerless, stuck, miserable. But if you add this piece in,

14:49 then all of a sudden you feel joy, celebration, expectation, anticipation. It's like 180 degrees difference. It's massive, massive difference. So again, if anybody you know wants to understand what the road to a better life is, you can see that the understanding of this is that road. Because once you have this, then you can start to use your powerful thinking mind in such different ways, massively different ways that are going to feel good to you. And that's high vibration stuff. And that's where our good life is at that high vibration. So, uh just keeping going on

15:34 this. We do have a thinking mind and we know that even traditionally we know we have a thinking mind. But what we don't know is those thoughts again are energy and that energy is going somewhere. It's going to the law of attraction and then the law of attraction is going to connect us with the things that match that energy. So, so now we get confused and from the traditional perspective because we're working hard, we're kind, we're nice people, we're conscientious and yet life is really what we say is really throwing curveballs at us. like where's that coming from? I've done all this. I've done in the right thing, you know, go down the list. And yet it's just not working out for me. And that's because our subconscious mind is loaded up with

16:21 faulty beliefs which we really don't know. People do talk about that somewhat. We have beliefs. That's not a completely foreign concept, but where they're stored in the subconscious mind and what that's h what's that really happening or what's that effect of that? Not really much understanding there at all, but it's broadcasting to the law of attraction. So, we're thinking we want certain things in our life, but our beliefs are contradicting that. That's contradictory energy in our beliefs, saying we're not good enough or life is unfair or it's hard to get money or or all, you know, you're looking for a relationship, all the good ones are gone. You know, it's just absolute nonsense. But it's what we believe. It's what's in our subconscious mind. And so where we're wanting life to be the way we want it to be, our subconscious mind

17:08 is broadcasting a signal that's giving us something very different because the law of attraction is bringing it back to us. So we're not getting the benefit of our vibrational reality at all. The contrast is happening and your inner being is loading up your vibrational reality, but we're not looking in there at all. We're not even counting that at all. And so it's just full, full, full. And it's like we just keep asking, asking, asking. And we're not doing any receiving because we don't really know how all this works. And so again, everything I teach is about that is is understanding this full picture. This is what my book of life is about to give you this full understanding. And then my 20week program in my book, Higher Vibrations

17:53 for Health, Happiness, and Harmony, is getting us to re-establish our natural positive focus mind based on all of this information. So, you can see how those two books together are a powerhouse to get you back into the natural life that you came for. get rid of all of those faulty beliefs and get you back into your natural beliefs that take in to account all of this information of how life works. And then you're going to have natural beliefs that support the things that you want. So when you want something in your life, you naturally believe and expect it to show up and in very joyous, effortless ways you that will be just natural to you. But in this

18:39 old paradigm of life, that's not the way it is. is when you want something, you definitely don't think it's easy and effortless and everything is taken care of and you just got to feel good to receive it. Uh which includes inspired action, of course, always action. But even at that, uh we don't get that. And even a lot of the comments I see here on the videos, it's very clear that many people are and I'll use the word struggling to make the join between h how do you see that life is easy and effortless and joyous, right? And you can't see it from here. You cannot make that join from this knowledge base. You must get this knowledge base going if

19:25 you want to even consider any belief in life is easy and effortless and joyous all the time. Joyous expansion all of the time. So uh I mentioned our inner being. So our inner being takes care of all the details the who, how, uh where and when. That's all done for us. And in the old paradigm of thinking, no, we we we we get told that that's our job. We got to do it all, figure it all out. So again, we're hacking our yourself through it all, trying to carve it out. And our inner being is taking care of that. And when we try to, it's low vibration. So now we're blocking the things that we want. So now we work

20:10 harder. Now we try to get crafty and do whatever, find ways to to to get what we want. and just not understanding this. And so we just never really get to that easy place. Uh so that just about uh explains all of the difference here, you know. So the answer to a better life is uh moving from this paradigm of life knowledge which is a physical only paradigm. And when we do live that paradigm then all of these things that I mentioned big list of very unpleasant things for humanity that's what comes from this physical only understanding of

20:56 life but when you add in the whole creative process and all the elements then all of that list goes away all of it goes away and is replaced with a world a peace prosperity, health, joy, happiness, harmony for everyone. That is the way it's meant to be. That's the way it's set up to be. Um, I believe John Lennon had a song that pretty much captured it. And, um, I can't think of the title, but uh, I'm sure that many of you know it. Uh actually I think the song is imagine

21:44 uh so at that and I will carry on with that theme uh on my next video the power of imagination uh because I'm going to talk about how we leverage our imagination in the natural way and get back to using it because we kind of get stripped of it as we grow up uh into adulthood from our childhood and we want to get back into our imagin ation. It is massively powerful and important and I'm going to talk about ways that we can uh jump start it and get it active again. Okay. Well, that's the video for today. And again, if you know anybody who's on the fence and they're wondering why life is the way it is and they don't like the way life is and they want it to get better and they

22:32 don't know, they've given up because they've tried everything they know and they can't get it to go. you offer the idea of this video to them and uh then you possibly will be offering them something that they will open their mind to. And if they do, they are going to be very excited because they will be opening up to all of the information that will empower them to change anything about their life. Anything. Don't matter what topic it is. I don't care what topic it is. They have the power. We have the power, we all have the power to change anything about our life because everything about our life is the manifestation of our energy. This whole physical world basically is an

23:18 illusion of our energy. And uh as we change the energy within us, which is our thought energy, you could say our beliefs, uh then the the uh the manifestations all change to match that. So the physical world is really a flowing river of energy. It's not as nearly as solid as you may think it is. And uh as you learn more about this, you understand that and you change the energy and those those uh apparently physical hard things will change to match the the changed energy. Okay, again that's the video for today. Thanks for listening in. If you have any questions, leave them on the post and enjoy your day.