Unveiling the Golden Pairs: ENTP & INTJ | Season 14 Part 1 | CS Joseph

0:02 What's up, ego hackers? CS Joseph with csjseph.life doing a Patreon private lecture today. This is season 14, episode 7, and it has taken me a bit a well, a little bit of time actually to put together this particular lecture because I wanted this lecture to go as dope as possible. Viewer discretion is advised. This is season 14, episode 7, the seventh golden pair, ENTP and INTJ. And uh one of the more highly sought after uh lectures, ENTPs and INTJs, INTJs are typically the some of the rarest of the types, 1% of the population, ENTPs up to 3% of the

0:48 population depending on which statistics that you now just remember folks whenever I talk statistics about types etc. you have to really take with a grain of salt because we don't actually really know for sure what the statistics represent and what's actually accurate. For all we know out there, it's possible that every single human being we come into contact with are members of the INTJ master race. And you know, and of course, I'm sure Gill Grindleald would be out there and being like, "Oh yeah that's pretty dope, folks. We must support them for the greater good." You know,, and, then, all, of a, sudden, decided to take over the world during World War II for, you know, because that's what he did. Uh but no, not not necessarily. Um we do know that there is some variance of the types and we do know for sure that intuitives are rare than sensors. Just understand that CSJ as a company

1:33 has not gotten to the point yet where we can produce statistics that are actually accurate. We're getting there and your continued support monetarily speaking will get us to that point where we can actually find answers to those questions together. But until we get to that point, well, we're going to have to rely on terrible statistics in the meantime. And according to those terrible statistics, 1% of the population, one out of every hundred people is an INTJ and 1% of those people is an INTJ female with extreme raress and extreme rarity. Folks, quite frankly, from a golden pair point of view, the INTJ woman definitely takes the cake in a lot of ways uh for the ENTP. And uh there's a lot of reason for that. Uh, and you know, it's also interesting that like like INTJ women

2:19 are insanely misunderstood and in as much as ENTP men are insanely misunderstood, you know, but ENTPs in general definitely misunderstood regardless of gender. Same thing for INTJs, etc. But it's easier to be an INTJ male. It's easier to be an ENTP female within this SJ society, the United States of America. And it's much more difficult to be the opposing genders thereof because ENTPs have feminine energy. So if you're like a female, then that makes sense. And then INTJs have more masculine energy. So if you're in a male, that makes sense. But the opposite gender thereof, it kind of makes things a little bit difficult. I don't I remember so many times as a young child where people, would refer, to, me, like,, "Oh, Chase, you're like you're like so like a girl." Anyway, that being said, let's actually talk about um what romantic

3:05 compatibility is. So romantic compatibility is a way of being able to tell just how compatible somebody is. And there's different ways of doing it. There's different ways of calculating it, but in general, from a foundational point of view, and we're not going to get into the calculation. We're not going to, get, into, the, algorithm, or, or any way to actually calculate romantic compatibility, but specifically from a nature standpoint, not considering nurture because we haven't even gotten into nurture quite yet, but from a nature standpoint, it is basically a combination of two synchronous uh methods or methodologies. So, we have emotional compatibility and sexual compatibility. This is great. So emotional compatibility, extroverted thinking is seeking out TI, extroverted

3:51 feeling is seeking out Fi. The extroverted functions, if you remember from season 5 where we talked about cognitive synchronicity, basically talks about how the extroverted functions are seeking out the introverted functions and are desiring to consume them, right? Because they want to become one with them. They must become one to have the ultimate emotional compatibility all the way across the board. Right? That's how it works. It is exactly how it works because the rational mind is always seeking a logical mind. That way the rational mind can absorb the logical thoughts and then become smarter themselves while simultaneously the rational mind provides the input for the TI mind to process. That's very important folks very very very important

4:37 and it goes beyond that right because we have the output provided then by the ethics the ethics of extroverted feeling in which we shove it down the throats of the introverted feeling right the models the feedback right because remember folks input process output feedback it's literally a loop this is like literally a loop goes like you know and this like clockwise uh motion. So input process output feedback and the feedback is the inverted feeling. When everyone when anyone starts saying like oh I want to get feedback for that that's fi that's always fi talking. If they oh I need time to process that that's ti right. Oh

5:23 you never let me have you never let me give input to you that's te talking. It's like you know when it's like a this is so unethical you know like no one feels good about this that's extroverted feeling that's the uh the output. So just understand that folks emotional compatibility to have the highest emotional compatibility to know that your heart matches with your significant other in a relationship you need to make sure that your functions are very closely accessible uh in this area. Now sexually speaking it's the same thing because when we have extroverted sensing trying to give a good experience to touch the introverted sensing to sense the introverted sensing such that the introverted sensing is permanently etched folks permanently etched with a

6:08 good memory as is provided by the extroverted sensing especially in the bedroom you know what I'm saying yeah that's what happens when that extroverted sensing is lining up matching perfectly to the introverted sensing It's absolutely the dopest right? And then there's introverted intuition. And extroverted intuition extroverted intuition is just trying to provide choices and full freedom to introverted intuition. That way, the introverted intuitive in the relationship is not limited by anything. They can literally do anything they want to that introverted sensor within the relationship. No holds barred. Uh absolutely amazing. It's a canvas with which depends upon with extroverted sensing. This is sexual compatibility folks. Cognitive synchronicity. If you

6:53 do not know what cognitive synchronicity is, go to csjseph.life/social go to YouTube and then go to playlist and then go to season five and then watch season 5 and you will not have the problem anymore. Then you can understand that, right? Go in it from there. So sexual compatibility. So, emotional compatibility plus sexual compatibility equals romantic compatibility, right folks? And this is one of the reasons why the golden pair here works out so well. So, check it out. Look at this. Huh. Wonder how this is going to work. You know, you have the INTJ. You have extrovert intuition from the ENTP trying to eat the introverted intuition. And then you have extrovert thinking trying to eat the introverted thinking. You

7:40 have extroverted feeling trying to eat the uh introverted feeling. And then you have extroverted sensing trying to eat the introverted sensing and so on and so forth, folks. This is literally how compatibility works. It just matches up right? And perfect, right? It's because these two types were made for each other. You know, the whole idea of people saying like, "Ow, those two are obviously made for each other." Yeah that's where this comes from, folks. That's like literally where this comes from. obviously made for each other right? They all fit together perfectly like a perfect puzzle piece, such as the way of romantic compatibility. Yeah. So so let's talk about the individual

8:25 types. So the ENTP is a starter type and I am a starter type and I have a very hard time finishing things, but sometimes I do right? But I am an ENTP. I start start start because my introduction style is informative, initiating and movement. Informative means I kind of let the other person choose their role in the conversation. I beat around the bush a lot, you know, whereas someone who is direct cuz the INTJ is direct, they are direct. They do not wish to beat around the bush. They just say what they mean me what they say. Both types are movementoriented. So they have this master process that they apply to everything in their life. And that means they move super speed. super speed. Gotta love the speed that they have. The speed is the dopest. You

9:12 know what I'm saying? So, just understand that. And then uh and then beyond that uh we can look even further. Uh and then uh oh, and the ENTP is initiating. And yes, I do initiate. I initiate with people sometimes, you know, you just got to crush people, hold them down with your foot, you know, with the foot on their neck, and you just got to extract that information right out of their, head., You, know what, I'm, saying? Cuz I initiated and they're not going to give me the information I want voluntarily. So sometimes I have to take it involuntarily if you know what I'm saying. Because like I might be like ego hacking them and then I ego hacks them. I takes the information that I want and then I use it for my agenda, my own purposes. You know what I'm saying right? So that's how it works. That's what happens, right? It goes so much

9:58 further beyond that. Wow. I should probably have more Coca-Cola before lecturing if you know what I'm saying. Uh so it um now the INTJ direct responding movement. They are responding. They do things differently. Again, if you don't know what interaction styles are, watch season two and watch season 15 playlist on the YouTube channel and you will understand that specifically. It might also actually help you type people because that's what you need to do. You have to learn how to type, right? So, uh and then we have their temperaments. Their temperaments, guess what? Is the same. They are both temperaments because they have NT and NT which they have the same temperament. Their temperaments are awesome because it's very pragmatic. Now both types are pragmatic. Pragmatic people are very independent. They ask

10:43 forgiveness. They do not ask permission. It is completely different. Now recently I have been provided with an article talking about like ENTP uh development and uh saying and claiming that ENTPs when they're at an early age they need to be taught how to ask permission and not necessarily how to ask for forgiveness and they'll have a better life. I'm not entirely sure I agree with that, but let's see if that actually is true in practice. We'll find out. Trust me, we'll find out. Right? So, they have the same temperament. Now it's very important. Let's talk about the temperament a little bit. So if you think about it, uh golden pairs for NFS right, uh are basically within the NF the idealist uh temperament. So same thing for NTS, right? NTS, their golden

11:31 pairs are within the same temperament. However, for the sensors, it's completely different. SPs and SJs, their golden pairs actually go outside their temperaments, right? And if you notice for SPs and SJs, you're combining the affiliative with the pragmatic, right? Whereas, if you go at the idealists you're combining affiliative with affiliative. So, think about this this way. If I'm going to have a sexual relationship with an SP and an SJ, I am going to have to be, you know, bound you know, if I'm if I am an SP and and with an SJ or or otherwise, and I'm a pragmatic person or whatever, I'm going to be bound by these rando affiliative authoritarian do the right thing in the bedroom guys you know? And I'm like, really? I have to like allow my relationship

12:17 especially my physical relationship, to succumb to the external forces of rando social rules that actually have like no bearing on me as a person, but are an actual social construct of mankind that I have to like allow myself to get like around and and whatnot. And it's like wow, are you really kidding me? Like why the [ __ ] would I care about that? You know what I'm saying? So, oh man maybe I should use a little bit more like, you know, fbombs and whatnot while doing these. I think I might. I don't know. We'll find out as I get to it. But here's the point, folks. If you have affiliatives in a sexual relationship the way that they view sex is going to be potentially dominated or affected or

13:02 influenced by external social protocols and social sources. Not what I want for my relationship. See, here's the beauty of ENT relationships. It's pragmatic is getting with the pragmatic, folks. That's great because INTJs are pragmatic. ENTPs are pragmatic. Let us be all pragmatic. Do you, know what, that, means,, folks?, That means 100% of every aspect of the relationship is negotiated. It is negotiable. It's always negotiable. Why is that like a thing? Why why do we care? We care because what that means is is that an NTNT relationship has the absolute highest freedom for sexual

13:48 expression per capita compared to other relationships. Understand that. And that is one of the beauties of the sexual relationship between ENTP and INTJ. It's super super important because they have full freedom. Absolute total freedom in the bedroom. There is nothing influencing it. And it's not just the bedroom. Every other aspect of their relationship is determined by freedom. Okay? Everything is negotiated. These two in the relationship negotiate everything. It is very important that you understand that there is no social rules or societal

14:34 norms that get in the way of this relationship. It's absolutely 100% free which is exquisite if you know what I'm saying. It is absolutely exquisite. So understand that NT plus NT relationships have a distinct advantage in the pragmatic. I mean this is why ants I mean let's be straight they are so horny and they are so kinky and when they get together the kink is like completely out of the park. It's like it's, like, it's, like, you're, all, of a sudden you're in the kingdom in Seattle and just like you know raise the roof and the sound you know it's literally where the 12th man you know the uh the fans of the Seattle Seahawks was born.

15:20 It was born inside the kingdom because no one can get it louder in the kingdom because everyone was trying so hard to get it as loud as possible in the kingdom and the fans were trained to be the loudest and guess what now the fans would have, loud, the, NFL, and, folks, I, am from Seattle. Seattle represents you know what I'm saying. So understand how that works. So let's talk about the relationship from the cognitive functions, shall we? Introvert intuition hero, the INTJ. You know, as an ENTP I spent a lot of my life feeling unwanted, undesired. It's like there's always something missing on the inside because I didn't

16:05 feel desired, right? Well, the introvert intuition provided by the INTJ woman for example or any INTJ for that matter provides the highest dose possible of desire, of passion, of willpower, able to break through any obstacles. Like it it is so powerful. Uh like for example you know, when when in a relationship with an INTJ, they just don't let go. Once they decide to want an ENTP they want the ENTP, they're not letting go. They're not going to let go. Uh, and once they once they want something, then they want something. A great example of this, and it's not necessarily in the context of a relationship. A great example of this is actually that show Altered Carbon that's on Netflix, and

16:51 the villain is um is Railene Kawahara. Uh she's actually uh Ra Railen Kovatch which is uh um Teeshi Kovac's uh sister. And she's an INTJ. She's an INTJ villain. One of the best villains I've ever seen um in um in u um in any television show. Basically, they did her absolutely perfectly. The actress that plays her is perfect. They couldn't have gotten a better INTJ villain to fulfill that role. It's absolutely exquisite. and she just has this insane desire for her brother and to be like with her brother at all times because of those really rough times they shared as a childhood watching their mother being murdered by their father and then Teeshi

17:38 himself uh her ESTP brother decides to murder um uh their father in an effort to save uh his sister etc. and that kind of relationship bond that she had with her extroverted sensing inferior and the loyalty thereof. She's always trying to make sure that Teeshi, even though he's an ESTP, is loyal to her, even though he's not really a loyal person cuz he's an ESTP. And it creates this huge conflict over many hundreds and hundreds of years within the context of their relationship, right? Well, it gets even deeper than that. That Nih hero just won't let go. it will not let go. And it's like all of a sudden Railene is this like super cyberstalker and is

18:23 murdering all of Teeshi's friends and uh just so that there's no one left for him to care about except me, right? And that's how far it can go from a negative point of view with anti-hero. But anti-hero is also amazing because if there is obstacles within the context of the relationship itself, that anti-hero is going to break through all those walls, break through all of those uh obstacles and absolutely seek to make it work. Whatever it has to do because damn it, I want them and I will do whatever it takes to get them. Whatever it takes right? And that is the power of nih heroes willpower for the sake of the ENTP. And the ENTP

19:09 well, they absolutely love it because expert intuition hero desires to be wanted. And the INTJ wants the ENTP. And the ENTP is just like, oh, it's so nice to be wanted. And your fires, it burns my extroverted intuition. Because remember, extroverted intuition is an ocean, folks. It is an ocean and then the introverted intuition is like fire. It is pure fire. Pure flame and the flame comes upon the ocean and the ocean becomes steam. Ah and then it becomes clouds in the air and then the expert sensing is wind kaz the wind of the INTJ. And the wind pushes the steam. It

19:56 creates clouds which then creates rain right? And it rains upon the earth of the introverted sensing inferior of the ENTP. And as a result, their relationship is literally the water cycle where new life is created. Life creation the engine of creation itself is within the ENTP and the INTJ. Oh, so so so dope. You know what I'm saying? Like that's literally what happens, folks. like just when the INTJ wants the ENTP and then the ENTP ends up becoming loyal to the INTJ because the ENTP is wanted because don't forget extroverted intuition is linked to introverted sensing and when

20:42 the ENTP feels uh wanted Zen becomes more loyal more loyal to the INTJ and that's all the INTJ really really desires above all extroverted sensing inferior it wants the ENTP to be loyal. And let me tell you folks, SI infitter is loyal to a fault. So loyal to a fault that it creates Stockholm syndrome to the point where the ENTP cannot live without the INTJ especially when they have a sexual relationship. The ENTP just can't get away because they have Stockholm syndrome and they have this diehard loyalty towards the INTJ. As long as the INTJ continues to serve up that good

21:27 experience, continues to be a mortal person, continues to be providing proper input for the ENTPI parent to think straight. It is very important, right? That's how it works. And it all comes out in the bedroom. Absolutely amazing experience in the bedroom over and over and over again. The ENTP, well, it has its insecurity about what it should do in the bedroom. The INTJ has its insecurity about what it wants to do in the bedroom. And it gets very very complicated. But the ENTP knows because of how much passion the INTJ has for the ENTP. It does not matter. The INTJ is incapable of giving a bad experience to the ENTP

22:14 because of the desire. The desire is there which means the ENTP is able to receive that experience from Essie inferior and Essie inferior is able to grow and become aspirational such that it is possible if not likely and will happen that the extroverted sensing imperior can deliver the ultimate sexual experience to the antip more than they've ever experienced before such that it becomes permanently etched on that introverted sensing inferior and the ENTP will always remember and always think of the INTJ forever and ever. This is the truth, right? That's where that forever dieh hard loyalty comes from. Provided the INTJ doesn't betray them

22:59 provided the INTJ doesn't lose desire for the ENTP and is consistently demonstrating desire to the ENTP in as much as the ENTP needs to consistently demonstrate loyalty to the INTJ. Because let me tell you something folks, INTJs always have abandonment issues. They are afraid of being abandoned. They are afraid that they will be with someone who is disloyal to them that they will be thrown in the dumpster, that they will be traded in for somebody else. The INTJ fears this all the time, and they worry that it might happen with their expert intuition nemesis. worried that ni nemesis would all, of a, sudden, want, somebody, else, and they worry about it over and over and

23:46 over. They need to have that consistent demonstration of loyalty by the ENTP so that the ENTP is showing the INTJ over and over, hey, I am comfortable with you. I am not going anywhere. Only you can satisfy me. See, that's the difference folks. That's the power of this relationship. TI parent all about what they think. INTJs, they really struggle being around stupid people. Well, TI parents pretty brilliant if you know what I'm saying. And that TE parent, guess what? Empowers the TI parent with proper proper input, proper thinking. The INTJ is able to help the ENTP think straight and get all of their schedules figured out, all their thoughts organized, all

24:33 their things prioritized. It really helps the ENTP prioritize such that the ENTP becomes more successful with what it does. And in response and in trade the INTJ becomes more intelligent and is more is able to uh grasp bigger concepts than they were before, which makes them more effective in what they are able to do while optimizing and making the ENTP more efficient. Because guess what folks, ENTPs are not very efficient, but INTJs make them efficient, right? And then of course there's the Fi child. See, ENTPs have this problem. We look evil to other people. I mean, look at me. I'm dressed in all black. And why

25:18 Pray, do ENTPs dress in all black? It is because we are suddenly burned. Burned into ashes by the light of truth that we are black. That's why truth matters to us, right? And truth matters to us so much with our TI parent. And we just use that truth and wield that truth as a weapon of healing. And we use our FE child to heal the INTJ, to make the INTJ feel good about themselves, to raise their status to raise their awareness, to make them into better people, while simultaneously the INTJ provides unlimited sympathy for the hardships and difficulties of the ENTP. This is what the INTJ does. And guess what, folks? All of the bitterness

26:05 and resentment that is carried with that SI inferior ENTP every single day is healed over time specifically because of the INTJ's morality because of their sympathy that they have. And while the ENTP is empathetic to the INTJ and makes the INTJ feel good about themselves makes them feel valued, the INTJ provides that muchneeded sympathy to the ENTP, which provides healing so that the ENTP can be healed from their past. Because let me tell you something folks, every ENTP out there carries a big burden on their shoulders that only the INTJ can heal. Super important. We already talked about nemesis, functions, a, little bit., The critic functions ENTPs, they really

26:52 really, really hate statistics and they really, really hate research. Luckily that TE parent is providing that research and statistics in a healthy way to the ENTP so they could think differently. But then also the TE critic is there to help the INTJ be like, "Hey you might want to verify your beliefs. I don't believe that. Doesn't sound true to me." And then the TI critic of the INTJ is there to help the INTJ realize oh yeah, hey, I might want to uh verify my beliefs. And they're very critical to thinking because they want their TI truth to be matching their TE parent rational beliefs. Their belief systems need to be in line with the truth. Every INTJ has that issue. Every INTJ needs that, right? And that's where that comes from. To go further, ENTPs, we are

27:42 immoral. We lack morality entirely. I am a very immoral person. I'm ethical, but I don't have morals. Well, guess what? I borrow the morals of the INTJ all the time to behave morally. It's very difficult for me to do so without them. And then uh I'm completely unaware of morals, but they're unaware of ethics. And then I help the INTJ get through the ethical social stroll of life. What if they have a a broken relationship with a very close family member? The ENTP comes in. It's like, well, hey, maybe you should do things this way because then you'll get this result, right? Because the ENTP has that mastery of social interaction through FE child. And FE child's able to tell Fi Fi child, hey if you do it this way, you're going to

28:27 get this result. And then the INTJ does. It's like, oh wow, how did you know? I was completely unaware of it and how that would work. Well, that's probably because you have FE trickster and you're not aware of social interaction or social norms or any of those things right? Goes even further. These two types need to watch out for the demon function. Extroverted sensing demon. Well, that's the thing about ENTPs. Extroverted sensing demon wants to burn reality to the ground. Just like this amazing painting, right? I desire to burn the forest to the ground. Why? So that new life can rise like a phoenix from the ashes. you know, the ashes of all the black that I wear. I wear a lot of black, folks. Every ENTP does. We wear a lot of black. Black is comfortable, but it's because it's our extroverted sensing demon coming out to show that

29:15 sometimes light can only come as a result of darkness being everywhere and swell and swallowing everything up. And yeah, that can make us look intimidating. Intimidating. I remember so many times as a child, my father always told me, "Hey, you need to avoid the appearance of evil. You need to avoid the appearance of evil." And it's like, "Yeah, okay, that's really useful." Yeah, I get as I'm all dressed black, for example. Yeah, I may look evil. I may look like I'm a goon. I may look like that I'm up to no good or I may look like I'm going to hurt you or whatever. But that's not really true, is it? It's about our relationship with truth. Truth is pure light. It burns. It is fire, folks. And when things get burnt, they're turned into ashes. Hence

30:00 why we are burned by the light of truth and we are ashes. This is the darkness that comes as a result because it is the darkness that comes before the light of new life to grow. Don't forget what I just said. This relationship is literally the engine of creation, folks. It is the water cycle. There's a reason for that. Si inferior SE inferior, Nih hero, NE hero. That is literally the engine of creation. Don't forget extverted sensing demon wants to destroy all of reality. But when extroverted sensing demon meets the INTJ,, for, example,, the, INTJ, all, of a sudden becomes that one thing in reality it's willing to preserve. Oh, but it goes even further than that.

30:48 Eventually, the seed demon falls in love. so much with the SID. It falls in love so much with the INTJ that it no longer desires to destroy reality for the sake of the INTJ. For their sake, they they do not wish to destroy reality anymore. For their sake but if you take the INTJ out of reality burn it all to the ground. Do it fast and hard. and watch as I dance over sick corpses, right? Like that's SE demon folks. Se demon comes out if SI inferior is cons and is continually made to be uncomfortable and its needs are not being met. Si demon exists, it's like

31:34 self-destruct mode. Literally, INTJs self-destruct all the time. They literally implode upon themselves all the time. Why is that? Because it's like, wow, no one thinks I give them a good experience. No one thinks that I perform highly enough and I go out of my way to per outperform everybody else in my life such that I am the most aesthetically pleasing of all the types. I am the most capable sexually in the bedroom. Uh no one can do it better than me. No one can outperform me. No one sounds better than me. No one smells better than me. No one looks better than me. But obviously nobody cares. So, I'm just going to light myself on fire and hope that as I'm burning here on the ridge, someone will notice. That's the problem, folks. No one notices SI demon when it's

32:22 burning itself to the ground. The desire of the INTJ to pluck out both of their eyes just so they can guarantee that one person's eye is plucked out and they somehow think that's worth it. Wow, nice revenge you got going there ISFJ demon. That's effective. What a waste. Of course, then again, the SE demon of the ESFP super ego lends itself to destroying all of reality such that you're throwing out the baby with the bathwater and many innocents in the process get destroyed. And then the innocence of the INTJ is destroyed along with it with the ISFJ super ego. That's not good, folks. It's not good.

33:08 understand that these two types are super super important. Super important because these two types, you know, the ENTP is supposed to provide self-discipline, supposed to provide endurance, everlasting self-discipline everlasting endurance, everlasting loyalty, right? In as much as the INTJ provides everlasting willpower, but they also provide everlasting comfort. No one is more comforting to the ENTP than the INTJ. They're amazing. That level of comfort is unbelievable especially when it's combined with their Fi child sympathy. Who can match that for the ENTP? No one. No one can. That's why it's a golden pair, folks. No one

33:54 can match that at all. So that kind of love that comes out of result if if you combine these two types especially with being the engine of creation and the amount of love that they have for one another the entire world will change. It's already super mega rare for these two types to find each other. Like imagine an ENTP being with NFJs or SFJs. Those types would actually end up enabling the ENTP and the ENTP won't grow. The ENTP needs ENTJs, especially INTJs, in order to be getting that input and that criticism such that the ENTP is growing, right? And then also the ENTJ is growing as well from an ethical standpoint. Super super important. It literally is the

34:41 unstoppable force of Ni willpower meaning the immovable object of that SI inferior because SI inferior with ISFJ subconscious literally becomes something that is immovable. The endurance can outlast everything when it aspires. No one can outlast an ENTP. Here's another way of looking at it. The fable of the tortoise and the hair, you know, the tortoise and the rabbit. And then they're they're having a race and they make a bet and the hair is like, "Oh I'm going to beat you. I'm faster than you. I'm going to win the race." And so the tortoise is like, "Okay." So then the they they kick off the race and then there goes the rabbit. And all a sudden midway down the the racetrack, the rabbit's like, "Oh, well the tortoise got a long time. It's going to come by. I'm just going to sit here and take a nap." Right? In typical INTJ fashion

35:27 where they procrastinate because it's like, "Ow, it's only going to take me like four more hours to finish this task., It's, only, going to, take, me, four hours to finish this task and it's due by this date and time. So, I'm just going to do this task 5 hours before uh the due date the the time and date for the due for when this task is due and I'll be good to go, right? And that's literally what the rabbit did. And then the tortoise, you know, but that you know that rabbit and their laziness and their procrastination just ends up sleeping more. And then the tortoise is like, "Oh, okay. Well, guess what? I see you napping there, but I'm going to keep going." And then also the Taurus Taurus wins the race. Guess what folks? The ENTP always wins in the end. Always. Because the ENTP can outlast the fire of the INTJ. It is the immovable object.

36:14 The INTJ gets stormy and tempesty and ragy and this raging storm above the ocean of extrovert intuition hero. And the ocean is turned into this maelstrom you know, as as and whatnot. and the and the and the the storm is separating the water and causing it to be steamed. But guess what folks? You can't destroy water. You can't destroy extrovert intuition. You can displace it. You can move it. You can evaporate it. But at the end of the day, it always comes back together again. That's the difference. That's the point of extrovert intuition. is one of the reasons why our race continues to repeat the same mistakes over and over because the water of the collective unconscious of man keeps coming back together again and it

36:59 continues to repeat the same mistakes. Thank God for the internet. Oh, wait. That's actually part of the problem. If you don't know what I'm talking about you need to watch season 17 episodes 1 and two. So, watch out for that, folks. Watch out. When fire and water combine, you literally have a stormy mastrom. And that is how turbulent this relationship can get. But eventually while it's ups and downs, they reach equilibrium and then it's perfect folks. And then they just are inseparable for the rest of their lives. And they cannot live without each other. They cannot live without the other. No matter how frustrated the INTJ gets, no matter how uncomfortable the ENTP gets

37:44 they will be together indefinitely. Provided there's no betrayal, provided the ENTP is trusted, provided uh provided uh the INTJ, you know, this relationship is really based on truth. Truth means everything. While it may be the unsto the unstoppable force meets the immovable object, they go together because like I said folks, when their powers combine, the world will change literally change, if not overnight in some cases, right? So ENTPs, they live their life, they're on the hunt for miracles, right? They're very much on the hunt for miracles. And it's through uh it's through miracles uh that uh they're able to um they how do

38:33 they get miracles? They they get miracles through faith. And introverted sensing inferior is all about faith. Remember what faith is? Faith is evidence of things hoped for or certainty of things unseen. That's what faith is. And because ENTPs are very faithful, it's like all of a sudden everything falls in their lap, right? And that could be good things, that could be bad things. I don't know how many times I've heard ENTPs have the worst luck of all the types, right? And it's specifically because of NI nemesis right? Constantly getting in the way of their life. And this is why ENTPs often are their own worst enemy in as much as INTJs are often their own enemy because of extrovert intuition nemesis themselves. It also inhibits them right? So, how do they do this? Well

39:20 they they have to be able to put their faith in the right things. ENTPs ENTPs need to be able to put their faith in INTJs and through doing so they can augment the NI hero of the INTJ to create more miracles but this time it's a shared miracle a miracle shared between both these types in the context of their relationship again world changing world moving really really important these miracles right it's super super important and from the INTJ standpoint like it goes even beyond that uh I just watched Avengers Endgame. #spoiler alert. If you don't want to like be spoiled for Endgame, then all of a sudden like stop watching this video right now. Just FYI. Uh, this is like 46 minutes in. But whatever. The point is like folks, you have to understand that

40:06 Tony Stark, he's an ENTP and he was all about creating miracles right? And uh, he was given the uh, the gift burden by knowledge according to Thanos. And it's really his expert intuition was able to see into the future, right? And that's why when he made the ultimate sacrifice, as ENTPs do, often do, they make the ultimate sacrifice because Tony Stark got his hands on the Infinity Stones because Thanos was about to do it and he erased Thanos before Thanos could recreate the entire universe, etc. That was super important. And and throughout history we have consistently seen ENTPs make the ultimate sacrifice. And it's also included within our fiction as well. But

40:53 why? So let me ask this question. Uh this comes from a movie called Watchmen. So who watches the watchman or who watches the watcher? Let me tell you something folks. The ENTP type is the watcher. They are the watcher for our race. They are the watcher for the future of our race. They care about our race because of FE child. when combined with any hero, they can see the collective future of all of mankind and they can see uh and they care about mankind with their uh eff child and they use their ISFJ subconscious to become the sentinel with which protects humanity from its own destruction. And we see this through Tony Stark and his sacrifice using the Infinity Stones sacrificing his life to save the entire universe essentially according to the

41:40 story. But we see this in other so for example who watches the watcher. Well I could I would imagine that would be uh Tony Stark's INTJ which is you know Pepper Potts right I mean she kicked a lot of ass you know and Gwyneth Paltro played Pepper Potts the INTJ woman uh who is uh Tony Stark's lover etc. But who watches the watcher? That's the I that's the that's the purpose of the INTJ. The INTJ is to be there for the ENTP and help the ENTP have everything the ENTP needs to be able to make the ultimate sacrifice that will be utilized to save everyone. Because that ISFJ subconscious will come out and that ISFJ subconscious will be required to make that sacrifice. Why is that? Well, think about it this way folks. The ENTP is the

42:27 starter type and it can only start the process but it cannot finish the process and it will have to make the sacrifice for the sake of the process. We see this over and over again. We see it with Socrates. He was an ENTP and he made the sacrifice so that the INFJ Plato could finish the process. We see it again with John the Baptist. He was beheaded and it was for the sake of the way or early Christianity so that Jesus, the INFJ could finish that process. We see it again in fiction with Nagato. He was an ENTP and he made the ultimate sacrifice sacrificing his life to save tons of people uh with the the leaf village etc. and ultimately for the world and pass on his message and his philosophy to Naruto

43:13 and INFJ to finish that entire process. Right? Okay. Now, a lot of people like Naruto is not an INFJ. Yeah, it's because he was stuck in ENFP shadow growing up as a kid and he became a man literally with his fight against Nagato. And that's when Naruto started becoming the INFJ. His personality literally changed because he's coming out of his shadow and he was able to get into his ego finally at last. INFJ ego. That's why folks don't forget Nagato. Nagato an ENTP right? Um, you could also go even further. Kellchrist falconer and altered carbon who was an ENTP. I just want to be an explorer and see the stars. So, I literally brought immortality to humanity. And then she regrets

44:00 destroying humanity with and everything about humanity with her immortality technology. And then her and then she becomes a terrorist specifically to destroy that technology that gave mankind immortality. Right? That's where that comes from. And Kelkris Falconer had to make the ultimate sacrifice to see that through to destroy the DHF system so that humanity would no longer be immortal and be stuck with a 100red years max on their souls. Right? Very very important. Goes even further. Another amazing aspect of from fiction another story of an ENTP, Victor Kovac also known as Roarshack from Watchmen. You ever seen the film Watchmen? If you

44:46 haven't, what are you doing? Like seriously, Roarshack is the dopest and he's an ENTP. He has one of my greatest quotes of all time. When all the politicians and all the [ __ ] cry out for help, I'm going to look back upon them and whisper, "No." Rorchack needed to tell the truth. And then he was killed by Dr. Manhattan because Ozie Mandas decided that it was important, to, tell, the, rest, of the, world a lie. a lie so that the world would not hurt themselves or hurt each other or end the world. But Rorchack couldn't live with it because remember folks ENTPs need to tell the truth. And we are burned by the light of truth. That's why we wear so much black because we're literally ashes before the truth. And Rorshack felt the same way. And he

45:31 sacrificed his life for what he believed in in order to tell the truth. This is the point of the ENTP, folks. ISFJ subconscious will make the ultimate sacrifice for the sake of the future of humanity and it's also for the sake of the future of their INTJ. And the INTJ exists to watch the watcher. That is the whole point of this relationship. The Tony Starks, the Roar Shacks, the Nagatos the John the Baptists, the Calk Falconers, all of them. the Socrates all of them. Who watches the watcher? For they will all ultimately make the ultimate sacrifice. One day, folks, I will. Because there is going to come a time, folks, when

46:17 there's someone greater than me who will take on this torch and continue my work. It's not about me. I'm just the starter folks. I'm not the finisher. The finisher is coming. I'm just here to start the process to a better world, but I'm not going to finish it. And I will not see it to completion. Somebody else will. And they're coming. And I hope when the day comes for them to come that you will stop listening to me and start listening to them when that day comes. It's all about faith, folks. Introverted sensing inferior. And they have their faith in their INTJ, right? And that INTJ is that thing that causes them to no longer destroy reality, but to preserve reality for the sake of their

47:03 INTJ. Just like Tony Stark wanted to preserve the universe for the sake of his woman and his daughter, Pepper Potts and his daughter, for example. You see it right there in Avengers Endgame right there. He made that ultimate sacrifice because he had faith. Faith that he could make it work. Because folks, there is no greater love when a man gives up his life for his beloved. There is no greater love. That's what it means right? Let's look at it from the INTJ point of view. The INTJ, in as much as the ENTP is on the hunt for miracles miracles that could save all of us, as much as the science is a miracle, if you

47:50 think about it, and what we're doing here at CSJ is a miracle the INTJ is looking for reliability, is looking for loyalty, looking for someone to have faith in them. Because if someone has faith in them, they feel they can do anything, folks. They could do anything. That's where that comes from. And in doing so, why is that important? Well, it's because an I nemes and I hero needs to have full freedom to do whatever it wants. And and it will always have that freedom if someone has faith in them. So that hey, if you have faith in me, you are allowing me to have the choice. It gets really difficult. Why? Because the ENTP is aware of the lies. Often times the ENTP can get super insincere

48:36 and is lying all the time. It's because the world itself hates the ENTP and we have to wear masks and be insincere everywhere we go. This is how it is even like like for example with my day job. I can't just be me. I can't really be me. Do you think this is normal enough for anyone to be able to handle? Hell no. So I got to wear a mask on everything in the same way Victor Kovac wore a mask as Roarshack and Watchmen, right? You just have to wear a mask. And it gets to the point where we get so used to wearing a mask with our SI inferior that we become the mask such that the ENTP ends up putting faith in the lies that we tell others. We are insincere. Our vice comes out. It's a problem. But the INTJ can see

49:23 right through our lies. And it's because of the INTJ that those lies, the fire of Nih hero, those lies are burned away from us, folks. And then we can finally be our true selves and work towards making that ultimate sacrifice for the sake of humanity as is our purpose. Benjamin Franklin, for example, he started the process for the American Revolution, right? Big time. Very, very important. ENTPs placed in history over time start amazing things. Kind of interesting how that works. No greater love than when a man gives up his life for his beloved ENTPs. We can get so we can put so much faith into our own lives that we literally become the father of lies. Did you guys know that

50:10 Lucifer aka the devil, he's an ENTP? H interesting how like Jesus is an INFJ but like Lucifer is an ENTP. Yeah there's a reason. The father of lies. We got a lot in common. That kind of scares the hell out of me, if you know what I'm saying. Kind of why I need to have that fire to burn the lies away, if you know what I'm saying, folks. If you're an ENTP and you have someone verifying your [ __ ] and they're in your face telling you you're a liar, you might want to listen to them. Allow them to burn your lies away so that you don't believe your own lies because we're the best liars that there are. We have this thing, you know, it's like the best lies, the lies that you can make come true or the best lies are the lies that you can mix in with the truth so no one can tell between what is real and what is fake. O

50:57 yeah, there's a reason. It's the father of lies. Watch out, folks. Watch out. So, it just constantly becomes this constant game of truth or dare. The INTJ, there's some there's no one more daring than the INTJ. The INTJ is very daring and just becomes this constant game of truth or dare. Truth or dare is literally the relationship of the ENTP and the INTJ golden pair. The game truth or dare is their life. It is how they live their life. It is their complete total interaction summed up in a small sentence. Truth or dare. That's what it's all about, folks. And it's because of INTJs that ENTPs like me no longer desire to destroy

51:43 reality. And that instead of being someone with our ESFP super ego who wants to destroy reality, we end up becoming the ISFJ subconscious as a result of the direct influence and direct input of the INTJ that we are willing to save reality forever or other. Even if it costs us our own life so be it. Just as Tony Stark when he held up his own Infinity Gauntlet with the six Infinity Stones and he snapped his fingers ending his life but saving all of the universe, all of reality as we know it. Kind of interesting to kind of watch you know, the Avengers and how that entirely transpires. Is it also interesting that Iron Man, you know, as Tony Stark being was also the first film

52:29 of the MCU and kind of started that entire process? Hm. Yeah, folks, that's like not a coincidence. Understand like stutter types, it's like super super mega important. Um what's interesting though, because INT ENTPs are seeking to preserve the reality that the INTJ, their INTJ love exists within, something also happens too. You know, INTJs are often very very insecure about because they're SE inferior, they're insecure about how they, come, off., They, or, or or, what, other people think of them with their TE uh parent. Um, you know, like I've I've I've been lied to many times. Uh, INTJs

53:14 especially immature INTJs, their ENTP shadow just starts lying to me. Um, they lie to me about their name. They lie to me about their age. They lie to me about their vocation. They lie all sorts of things about all sorts of things when it comes to uh relationships. And why? It's because of their SC inferior because they are afraid of their flaws causing other people to want to abandon them. And yet the lying itself causes people to want to abandon them. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy, folks, that INTJs need to figure out. If INTJs would just be Ti Ti critic and allow themselves to be honest, especially with ENTPs, to make comfortable, to make ENTPs comfortable

54:02 and to make ENTPs loyal to them, they just have to be willing to be Ti critic honest with the ENTP, and then as a result, they could still have a relationship. But no, if they want to create a foundation of their relationship based on lies, the ENTP is cannot be loyal to them and go away. Get this. The ENTP, the ENTP was capable of keeping a schedule and actually capable of follow through with their TE critic. Oh, maybe the INTJ would want to stick around. Oh, h maybe that would work. I'm losing to a rug. You know what I'm saying, folks? That's literally how it works. These are some hang-ups that these two types need to realize. INTJs stop lying to your ENTP because of your

54:48 insecurities. It's not going to go over well for you. Be okay with your flaws. Let me tell you the truth about ENTPs. ENFPs, when they fall in love with their INFJ golden pair, they fall in love with the perfections that they can see within their INFJ, and the INFJ loves them for it. ENTPs, when we fall in love with our INTJs, we fall in love with the flaws. Do not hide your flaws from us. If you want us to be loyal to you, if you want us to be endeared to you forever and ever, then share your flaws because we fall in love with the flaws. We cherish them because we already look at you as some aspect of perfection itself. But the fact that you have flaws means you

55:35 are actually real. And it is endearing. And it causes us to be more loyal to you because we are more comfortable with you because we see the truth behind what your flaws are. And that is amazing to us. That is what we can get behind. Never hide your flaws. If you hide your flaws, INTJs, then you are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy that will lead to abandonment because no ENTP can suffer an INTJ who's lying. That TE critic just can't do it. Fear of abandonment, fear of rejection is the bane of the INTJ. Let's look at my outline here to make sure I'm not missing any points.

56:22 It's like having a little spellbook or maybe I'm preaching. You know what I'm saying? Um, so yeah. So fear of rejection, abandonment it leads to hypocrisy which leads to that self-fulfilling prophecy. Um, and you know honestly like ENTPs, we're pretty clueless and that's why that TE rational parent is there for TI parent. ENTPs just have this issue. We're we're pretty, clueless, and, you, know what, we don't think we're clueless because we have TI parent but that is a problem. Cluelessness is an issue. Something to be aware of, folks. Very, very important. Don't be afraid. Fear is one of the things that really it gets in the way of this relationship. Fear of um fear of not knowing enough or having enough experience to be able to

57:09 uh meet the needs of the INTJ. Fear of making the ENTP uncomfortable or not giving the best possible experience or not performing the best for the ENTP. Those kinds of fears really get in the way of both of these types from having a relationship. Don't be afraid. Instead folks, have faith. Faith is everything. Faith is central to this relationship. Faith is what produces miracles, right? And the INTJ, sometimes they need a miracle. And sometimes when they're these powers combined, they can become an engine of creation, an engine of miracles. Faith is everything. Because if an ENTP has faith, so also does the INTJ. INTJs the most faithless of them all because they have SI demon such that they're usually atheist.

57:55 It's kind of why I'm like attracted to atheists more than anyone else because I don't like being subject to external belief systems that are just constructs of mankind and not actually based on actual truth. Such is the way of any ENTP who has not been corrupted with their SI inferior into a belief system. Remember, ENTPs are like an ocean. Expert intuition is the ocean. And in order to produce that miracle, we flow like water. We flow in all directions. Kind of like we're completely chaotic because we're flowing in all directions. But the INTJ shows up, installs a nice water pump, and is able to focus our ocean, focus our lake, and focus us with their anti-hero willpower such that we can be focused and become a powerful

58:41 water laser that literally can cut through mountains and carve any path for all of the rest of humanity to follow. Both these types have to combine in order to create the ultimate infinite miracle. This is exactly what Pepper Potts did for Tony Stark and how supportive she was for the most part throughout their relationship and being that person who watches the watcher for Tony Stark to ultimately lead him up to that one moment in time where Doctor Strange is like, "Okay, this is it. This is the one thing." And if I Hey, if I told you if I told you exactly what would happen, you would never happen. I can't tell you. And it's because Doctor Strange knew that Tony would have to

59:28 sacrifice his life and be willing to let go of everything. And the only way that could happen is through desperation. And having Pepper Potts there on the battlefield and everything, he's like, I have to save her. I have to save her. I have to save everybody. I have to do my duty. Because if Doctor Strange told him what would happen, it would go into Tony Stark's nemesis and he wouldn't want to do it. Whereas by not telling him, it keeps it in his introverted sensing inferior, which allows Tony Stark to do his duty. And he did his duty by taking the infinity stones and then snapping his fingers and saving all of reality. Interesting how that works, folks. The ENTP, although we desire to destroy all reality, ends up saving reality with our

1:00:13 ISFJ subconscious being the sentinel for the cosmos. And it all comes from the combining of the abilities, the cognitive capabilities, the INTJ and the ENTP to create that water laser to carve a path forward for all of us collectively together to move forward to save our race. That is the power of the INTJ ENTP relationship. Folks, you need to understand you need to love. You need to find love. If you are an INTJ or an ENTP out there, find your golden pair. We need this relationship to move forward as a race to give our race those miracles that are necessary in order for us to have a

1:01:00 future. We won't have a future, a free future, a future of freedom. without this relationship being acted upon every single day, day in and day out, forever and ever. INTJs, I implore you, seek and find. It is written, "Ask, seek, knock and it will be given to you. Do not give up. Find your ENTP out there. They are there. ENTPs have faith. Your INTJ will find you. You do not find INTJs. They find you. Just be patient and wait. They will come to you. I promise. And have faith in them when they come. You must have faith. Do not abandon them.

1:01:47 INTJs, do not lie to your ENTP. ENTPs do not be disloyal to your INTJ. Bring them forward together. Become that water laser. Carve out a path for yourselves and everyone else in your life, for your community for your city, for your state, for your nation, for the world as we know it. Whatever you have to do, ENTPs, be ready to make that ultimate sacrifice just as Tony Stark did, as Kelk Falconer did, as Rorshack did, as John the Baptist did as Socrates did, as all the ENTPs in fiction and in history have done. Be willing to make that sacrifice, folks. INTJs, be there as the person who watches the watcher, the watcher of our race and help prepare your ENTP for that

1:02:34 moment. Help them because without your help, they will lose their way. And instead of saving all of us, they will destroy all of us because just as Oenheimer said, I have become death, the destroyer of worlds. This is what happens when wisdom and knowledge lacks containment. And there is nothing contained about the ENTP until it is contained by TE parent. This is the true value of the INTJs providing to the ENTP containment. Because if knowledge and wisdom is contained, then you have things like nuclear power instead of nuclear weapons, free energy for all and not destruction and death.

1:03:20 This relationship has the power to change everything. Provide life everlasting or death eternal. Understand that that is the true mission behind this golden pair. Understand that without this golden pair, we're doomed. You have to make sure that you have the faith. ENTPs, you have to make sure that you don't give up. INTJs find each other. Come together. Be there for one another because you must love. Why? Because the day is near. Love for the day is near. If you found this lecture useful, helpful, educational enlightening, please subscribe. Wait a minute. You already subscribed because # Patreon., You, know what, I'm, saying?, It, is a private lecture that like you guys

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