0:00 Hello everyone alaikum Perez Welcome back to the guru-guru channel there are lots of trivial questions from singles in the comments column, you know, Mr. Teacher How do you approach a girl, why is it so hard for them to be able to explain efficiently or can the administrator make a video How do you get close to a girl and so on, the root of the problem is because it's not They say girls are difficult to translate what they want and Why are guys always wrong in the eyes of girls, there are questions like that that even have to be personal to me on WA, sir, how do you approach a girl, I talk at length in The answer is only one or two words or even one 20 Baraya like this, okay, if you want to ask for an explanation How to get close to a girl, it's better to ask
0:45 Kiwil because he has been proven that even with a simple face, there are lots of beautiful girls, but because this channel is a hodgepodge, I will just answer, hopefully it will be useful, but before that, I want to and or straighten out one main thing first, that Is it true that guys are always wrong in the eyes of girls, it is actually a subjective object view that is in the same direction as horse blinders, the fact in the field is that women are the ones who are blamed more for the activities they do which are also done by men for example if men and women smoke the stigma is very different even though the actions are the same smoking but if a woman smokes it blows damaging her uterus yes men
1:32 will also damage there sexual organs I'm sorry right or for example society is easier to forgive men who cheat than women who cheat like that So actually the stigma is more directed at women than the sea at men well there are many things that we have to straighten out that's why I made this video he we start to enjoy the rights Hai Baraya humans are controlled or controlled by two big instincts the first is the instinct to defend themselves Then the second instinct to defend the species we often discuss here because this is my original idea the instinct to
2:18 defend ourselves is seen from us being angry if disturbed then we want to control as many resources as possible we want to be rich We are afraid of poverty because of that we work hard we fight people who hinder our goals well all of that is the instinct of or manifestation of the instinct to defend ourselves we can also see that since childhood For example many children like by playing games and most of the game plots are to conquer or blame the other party because our stripes do encourage us to do that, that's the first one. Then the second one is the instinct to defend the species, the form of the instinct to defend the species is that we are each other and we feel sorry for the baby, we feel sorry for the opposite sex, we really feel sorry for the
3:05 opposite sex, we are attracted to the opposite sex, then we like to read love novels, we really like comics or soap opera OST films or anything that is related to romantic love, we are also interested in things that smell of pornography, whatever the variation, and so on, this is a form of our instinct to defend the species. Well, if we separate the two instincts, then men tend to have the instinct to defend themselves, their body characteristics and even their brain characteristics encourage men to carry out functions to defend themselves, for example, skin, muscles are stronger than women, then their aggressive side is much stronger, testosterone is 10/20 times
3:52 greater than women, it's better, on the other hand, women's bodies do not support the left like men, their bodies are softer, their skin is also softer, then their bones are not as big and strong as men's, so they are very easy to get osteoporosis and so on, why is that because their body functions are indeed not to defend themselves but to maintain the species some parts of her body are indeed fully designed to reproduce to carry out sexual activities even the instincts and mentality of women are as if they are also directed to fulfill their nature, well because humans are social creatures, creatures that cannot stand alone, so to fulfill the 26 Luri, humans are forced to
4:40 build a strong relationship between the two opposite sexes, this is what is then traditionally made a ritual which is then given the name of marriage or marriage so if we leave it to consider that people in the past are no longer relevant, marriage is the same, it is only for the legalization of sex, right Gasper, Baraya, there is a deep philosophy related to Naruhina, the basic rule of humans, well here is the basis of how we understand how men communicate and how women communicate like this Baraya basically as humans, the characteristics of men and women are the same, both can cry, both can get angry and so on, but here there is one difference related to the manifestation
5:26 of the instinct that was there, there is a big thing related to women, namely the dilemma. What is the dilemma, for example, Baraya, when a woman is attracted to a man, she is driven by the instinct to defend Her species is attracted to the opposite sex but when she approaches a man she will betray her instinct to defend herself Why because men are stronger, bigger, more intimidating and can or have the potential to cause accidents There are women, so when a woman wants a man to defend her species, she backs off again because the man has the potential to hurt her or betray his instinct to defend himself Well,
6:13 this kind of dilemma is never experienced by men and because of that, women will be confused and will be upset. We often see women who like men but somehow in a moment of desire, the interest disappears. It disappears even though they only have a little Ted A second and because of one thing that people don't expect, suddenly she immediately loses her interest Well, because from the start, the woman's brain faces a dilemma that big or what might be explained in this formula, for example, a woman appears sexy, wears makeup or something like that. Yo, wears sexy clothes, red or something like that, the goal is of course to attract attention when the man is
6:58 interested in approaching You're like that, women get angry, what are you, you know? really appreciate girls You pervert Oh right, this guy is scratching the girl, looking sexy is to attract attention Well, after getting attention, she gets scolded too, what do they want? Many men can't understand why women have to be like that, but with the formula that I explained earlier, we can all understand that the problem is that women look sexy to attract the attention of the opposite sex so that through maintaining their species it can run well or can be realized, bro, but when the man approaches, there is a big threat that the man could have an accident with the woman, for example, rape or do something
7:46 worse than that or invite sexual relations Sorry, but after that, he leaves again, the woman will immediately become pregnant, she will really lose the ability to defend herself and so on, so there are a lot of considerations, this is the dilemma that is meant by feminists, many say that it is not like that, women appear beautiful, appear sexy for themselves, for their own satisfaction, not like that, garai haha like this Baraya, women want to look sexy, want to look beautiful because it is an instinct to maintain their species to attract the opposite sex and this happens to almost all species in the world, what is the benefit of appearing for oneself personal satisfaction and so on personal satisfaction arises because of the urge to
8:32 appear attractive, well, we can also see dilemmas like this for example for women when women get married, will I become a housewife, a career woman, or both if I become a housewife then I will be very dependent on the man economically the instinct to defend herself will be torn there she will not have bargaining power if the man is evil or cheating or whatever and so on Hi, that's how it is if the woman ends up having a career Thank you the woman will lose momentum or enjoyment to preserve her species she is far from her children is considered to be able to play with her children which is an instinct for herself if the woman chooses both, namely having a career and being a housewife
9:18 at the same time, then she is incredibly tired not many women can do it well both Usually many women end up choosing one of them, well, this kind of dilemma is not experienced by men So, for example, if the woman ends up being confused because her life is a dilemma Well, because the woman faces dilemmas continuously, the way her brain works is also different from the way The way a man's brain works the way a woman's brain works tends to connect two brains at once, namely the right and left and they move in tandem and continuously, this is different from a man's brain, a man's brain is large, usually larger, the left side is small, and the relationship
10:04 between the two, the man's brain is from the front, the front, the back box receives stimuli, receives information, then executes it like that, the man is monotonous in quotation marks, so all parts of his brain work together. Why is multitasking so that women can do many things at once? Why should it be like that? Because earlier, because women face a dilemma that must be done together, that's why women can make calls for office matters while taking care of a baby in their arms, right? But here I give a footnote, abaraya, so the footnote is like that, but I explain that in general, the conventional share is that the man's brain
10:49 and the woman's brain are indeed different geologically, then back to the conventional story because the man's brain is front, back, front, back, front, back, while Kwan is right, left, right, left, so they produce their respective advantages and disadvantages, the woman is easier to conclude, but it is more difficult to take decisions are easier to conclude because the right brain and the left brain move together when she For example chatting with a man or someone else she not only hears his voice she not only receives messages conveyed through language But she understands micro expressions of the tone of voice up and down then gestures facial expressions and so on and this is what ultimately
11:35 makes women more difficult to lie to because she speaks not only in literal language but other things she sees this is also the reason why for example women are mysterious sometimes feel comfortable with the guy sometimes annoyed like that because she sees not only what is said but her surroundings even women can feel very comfortable just because the guy appears with neater clothes or Hi which is arranged more neatly like that the guy doesn't understand what this means because I say this but he I mean there he because the woman sees everything more broadly like that but the weakness is that it is difficult for women to make decisions for example like this I have 100,000 that money
12:21 is cold money buy clothes don't buy clothes don't the woman It takes a long time to decide Should I buy clothes or not why because The thing is, if you buy clothes, it means to maintain your species, the instinct to maintain your species, to look beautiful, to be attractive. But if you shop, it means your money is gone, the instinct to maintain yourself is lost, so making decisions is difficult and takes a long time, and it drives you with two brains at once. Okay, you decided to buy clothes, you go to the mall to buy clothes, before you want to buy clothes, you see other clothes that are also good, you choose which one, this
13:14 one. You are confused, you delay, and it takes a long time to make a decision. Finally, you decide, okay, let's go there. After arriving at the shop, you see a red dress, there is a white dress. Oh, which one? You are confused, you have a headache thinking about this one or this one. Making decisions for women is something that is very difficult for women in general, not all of them, but in general it is like that. Okay, buy the red dress. You have taken it home. You have taken it home, you regret it. Oh, why is she like this, why not that one. So women often face dilemmas or decisions that they regret. This is what we often recognize in social life, men and women. The man asked me, Let's eat, come on, what do you want to eat, it's up to you, chicken noodles. Come on Don't be too spicy Okay batagor don't use chili sauce I don't want rice oh rice Padang rice Padang rice come on not too fatty it's
14:00 confusing ready to share with the fate of your new 2004 employees Tegal come on don't eat Tegal food stalls or what do you order like that don't eat cheap ones teuing atuh What about us tea then what do you eat, whatever Why are there so many women like that one of the reasons is because it's hard for them to make decisions Even though they can draw conclusions many men complain about the term "Terserah" from women which confuses them but I hope with the video that Ajeng just now let's watch Mbak, more or less start to understand why it's like that and the continuation is that women say "Terserah" for two main reasons the first is because it's hard for them to make decisions and the second is because
14:45 they want to be understood so how to understand women without using children's words this is important what I said earlier women communicate with all the things they have at that time so it's not just the language of men Piece we men are horse blinders because when communicating they only listening to words only women do not gesture atmosphere appearance hair all of that is used as a communication tool for the woman SO for example when a woman wears a red dress it is actually a challenge to other women the woman herself is not aware that it is a challenge but it is her subconscious Well it is difficult for men to understand this er this is how we play quizzes wis
15:30 wis high school students in the past yes if men can guess this means that men have special abilities to be able to guess women's characteristics and can guess what women want this game is like this simulation story there are mosquitoes Hi How many mosquitoes died Hi that's right 33 I'll repeat yes Hi now how many Oh yes two if it's dangerous being able to guess means Baraya can explain the female mind if not can still be confused means Are you brave can't have the talent to understand the female mind I'll repeat again yes This How many mosquitoes died pay close attention
16:19 Hi don't be fooled now how many yo yeah 44 mosquitoes died look make a fool messy turns out to be a pen Yes more or less That's it Yes it's just a small simulation if it's dangerous being able to guess shave but the point is this Baraya if Baraya doesn't understand the other party don't blame that party don't think that Baraya can't understand women then the woman is wrong Why is it so difficult that only mebraya is wrong why can't you explain if there are men who say that women are hard to predict maybe the man is poor in knowledge if there are men who say "Basically a materialistic girl" maybe because he is poor because only poor
17:04 men call women materialistic Yes, more or less like that, thank you for listening, I am Gembul teacher Not all alaikum warahmatullah barakatuh
