0:00 now if you're going to decide to deal with women on a long-term basis meaning a potential long-term relationship what you have to know is that women want you to leave them okay this might sound like a shock this might sound drastic this might sound completely crazy but stay with me until the end of this markerboard presentation because I'm going to be showing you step by step why women want you to leave women want you as the man from time to time to do the breaking up women want you to provide that tension first before they have to because the second that you don't the second that you refuse to actually listen to this deep truth what you're going to notice is that they will throw the curveball in far before you will and this will typically be the end of the relationship or the interaction that you
0:45 have with that woman stay with me until the end of this this will completely change your life now today's MBT masculine behavioral technique celeb Spotlight is from Jamie Jamie goes Casey my girl is all lovey-dovey now and women tend to gravitate towards me guys I got to ask when is the last time that you had women actually gravitate towards you first see this is the behavioral shifts that I see time and time again with MBT masculine behavioral techniques so once today's video is over I want you to go down below you check out the link in the description that I provided for you because I made a fulllength end to- endend presentation let's dive in now there is no such thing as a forever smooth relationship women from time to time want you to leave them women from time to time need you to throw some tension into that relationship you and
1:30 you and the girl that you're with whether it be girlfriend girl you're seeing wife doesn't matter the compatibility can be at a 10 out of 10 maximum same hobby same interests she's attracted to you physically blah blah blah from time to time she will still need that tension so here's what I can tell you women want you to leave them and the reason why women want you to leave them is because commitment crushes desire you see women are emotional which means that they need drama they need chaos or turmoil and they need the ability to feel something on a day-to-day or a week toe basis okay this is a feeling that does not go away this is how her brain is going to work 247 is she wants to feel this is why guys who typically don't give them that stability often times make them feel something that majority of men can't which is why
2:16 her emotions are in that limbo that limbo of emotions actually increases her desire so here's why you got to understand this okay especially in the world that we live in with uh music with media with television showing these like lovey guys the stable man in all ways shapes and forms gets screwed okay the stable man who's predictable gets screwed and the reason why the stable man gets screwed is because the woman now becomes his whole Focus okay so he was told that if he goes to work he gets a good job he gets a four-year degree he starts making six figures or seven figures even you know he takes care of his body and he works out he's this high value Guy this is even what's th this is the narrative that even every single dating coach on the Internet is going to going to go tell you that you just self-improve and
3:02 man you became that typical corporate masculine archetype and you're going to have all these women after you that is not how that works she thinks that this guy is boring as [ __ ] because he lacks all of the alpha characteristics now you might be sitting here wondering well Casey I was always told that if I make six or seven figures that is an alpha characteristic I was always told that if I have six-pack abs and I work out a lot and I look amazing that is an alpha characteristic I was always told that if I was strong and I could protect that is an alpha characteristic okay cool that stuff works great on paper that does nothing to shift a woman emotionally okay Alpha okay a guy who actually puts himself first and makes the woman feel okay as if he is actually a high value man that she would want to pursue this is a mindset okay this is not oh I'm 6'6
3:50 I'm 220 lb chiseled muscle with a six-pack and I have 20 million that is not what that means okay so what you got to know going into this is the stable man starts to dis display a scarcity mindset his stability and his commitment to that one girl starts to trigger in her head that that that man has no other options so you can have every single materialistic like status driven metric on paper because you're starting to display low amounts of pre-selection because you don't have other women actually pining for your time craving your attention wanting to see you she starts to doubt your value so let's even inflate these numbers more let's say 7' 7 instead of 20 million a year you make 20 million a day and let's say like it
4:37 doesn't matter what you want like you could have the million blue check marks on Instagram and have 100 million like followers okay it doesn't matter the second that you commit this is going to lead to her drop in desire and she's going to start to doubt your value so here's what you got to know okay what happens when she starts to now put the curveball in and wants space and starts to pull back well guess what his internal world starts to become come wrecked now this guy even if he's a textbook stud on paper okay even if this is like a high value dude on paper he's confused and what tends to happen is he loves her harder okay so the word that I have right here is more okay because he does more he starts laying on more text messages more phone calls tries to set more expensive higher quality dates he
5:23 tries to do more for her to win over her approval this is the opposite of what her deep down biology and what her deep down emotions as a woman wants these are the things that's going to turn her off and push her away even further this guy does more I don't blame any of you guys for ever doing this Okay the reason why is because I believe every single person is a victim of their own circumstance and because you were born into a world where this is how majority of men act I don't blame you for following okay this is what you've seen this is what you maybe seen from your dad your uncle your brother this is what you've seen from your next door neighbor who's married like it's not necessarily all your fault okay there's a difference between having the wrong information okay and turning a blind eye to the information that you were given and just saying oh to hell with it you know maybe this was the
6:08 wrong girl that is not how you want to operate you want to look at every situation okay figure out what you did wrong obtain the wisdom and then move forward that's how a truly masculine man lives so this guy does more this is wrong okay this starts to push her away further so here's the crucial Point okay this is the crucial point you guys don't understand majority of men don't understand how deep this goes this woman is sitting there hoping that this guy can stand up to her to tell her to piss off and get out of here and I'm not going to deal with this this like this woman deep down she's hoping he has the nuts to leave she's hoping that you're not castrated at this point she's hoping you have big balls and you can just leave and you can walk out the door and say I don't need any of this [ __ ] anyways and it doesn't matter if you've been with her for 5 years 10 years 20 years I don't care if you guys are
6:53 married and you have six kids together does not matter she's hoping okay that one day she can rece respect him a woman in no way shape or form can respect you if you cannot leave the second that you can't leave is the second that you signal emotional attachment the second that you signal emotional attachment your smv okay your sexual Market Valu is revealed this is why I've been teaching you guys you need to conceal your sexual market value you need to conceal your interest level just like women just like women do women can have 10 out of 10 Sky High interest for for a man they will conceal that interest level they will text him slower they will choose which text messages to reply to and which not to reply to and the reason being is because they trying to heighten their perceived value the woman is trying to make it seem like she is less available
7:40 she's trying to make it seem like she has more things going on she's trying to make it seem like more guys maybe after her for her time therefore she's not able to turn that phone upside down from the table and text you back she's trying to inflate her value this creates tension in your head once that tension in your head's created you start to doubt your own value your own sex appeal your own sexual market value and you start to Chase and pursue her women have understood this for the past 25 to 30 years okay this is why I'm teaching you you have to conceal your interest level you cannot Chase or pursue these women and truthfully a lot of you guys are actually bringing far more to the table than they are and you need to actually start to act like it you need to carry yourself like the Arrogant [ __ ] that you need to be to actually turn a woman on and make her panties wet if you can't do this [ __ ] you will be left for a
8:25 different guy who can so this is number one commitment crushes desire number two here's what you got to understand women will always test they will test you on the first date they will test you two weeks in they will test you two they will test you two months in they will test you 20 years in doesn't matter now here's where guys also screw up you believe that the deeper amount of time you spend with somebody the more they like you and this makes sense okay if you have a friend named Tom or a friend named Dan or a friend named John you guys go out and you grab a beer together maybe you and John have been friends for 20 years so the time time spent that you've put in with that guy that's a relationship you don't want to dissolve okay that's how men work men are logical your rational brain takes over and you're like you know what I've invested into this person they've invested into me let's keep the cohesion smooth
9:12 unfortunately that's not how women operate see here's why women will always test and why you have to be very aware of this because a woman's idea of love is not your idea of love women will never just love you doesn't matter how long you spend with them so here's where men get screwed men think that the time spent with that girl could be too months could be 2 years could be 20 years they think the relationship Equity that they've put into that meaning the dates okay the vacations that they put into it maybe the equity that they put into the children that they had with that woman or even just the overall emotional care for her making sure stuff's done around the house helping cooking and helping cleaning taking her out on dates things like this this means nothing to a woman this does nothing to move her emotionally and just because you've done these things I understand your male
9:58 logistical brain thinks that you have a deeper level relationship with her because of the time spent and the things that you've done this does nothing absolutely nothing for how she views you so here's what you got to realize the reason why this does nothing is it's not because they're evil it's not because they're trying to be spiteful it's not because they're trying to hate you and it's not because they're trying to make your life difficult their biology is always optimizing for the strongest [ __ ] the strongest [ __ ] and that is hypergamy and I'm not just talking about the strongest [ __ ] physically I'm not talking about your muscles I'm not talking about your bench press I'm not talking about how much money you make I'm talking about your emotional resiliency to not get attached to a woman that is what a woman is looking for a woman is looking for a man who does not go weak for her weak for her beauty or weak for her sex the second
10:43 you do that you now Reveal Your market value the second you Reveal Your market value she starts to doubt that value you have now lowered yourself to the level of dating options that you think you have and now of a sudden she stops looking up to you therefore she doubts if you can replace her okay not that you can't replace a a different girl okay but she's wondering if you can replace a girl of her same market value this is why she starts to pull back this is hypergamy in a nutshell she's always optimizing for it so the mindset okay here's what you got to have the mindset when people disrespect you or test you and I'm not just talking about women I'm talking about men I'm talking about friends I'm talking about co-workers you have to have the ultimate Swagger or the ultimate mindset that says I'm putting myself first and this goes for any relationship that you have whenever
11:28 there's disrespect I don't care if you've been dating this girl for 20 years you can literally say you know what door's right there if this is how you're going to act you can bounce because I'm not going to tolerate that that's how you have to act no baby baby what did I do no baby baby let's talk this out no baby baby let's make this up no baby baby what did I do wrong no none of that she knows what she's doing a lot of you guys are are playing dumb to this you think that you you're you're too naive to how the game actually works you you got to understand that woman knows exactly what she's doing so don't play dumb and don't think that she's unaware of it she is very aware of what she's doing and that's a big thing that guys don't understand they think oh you know she just she might she might need some space she might not know what she's doing she might not know what she's thinking I don't know you know maybe she just needs some time apart and I did something wrong no that is not how this
12:13 works that woman knows exactly the buttons that she's pressing and she knows exactly how to get the right emotional response out of you and she's doing it on purpose to see if you're stupid enough to fall for that trap the second you fall for that trap you lower your male competency the second you lower your male competency this is now a man that proves to her excuse me this is now a man that proves to her biology that he is not strong he is not capable he is not fit to actually handle the psychological circumstance yes this is difficult yes these are bitter pills to swallow but every relationship I don't care if you're a professional NBA player I don't care if you play professional football I don't care if you're a famous musician I don't care you will be hit with this the second you commit because in all way shapes and forms commitment will crush desire so glad we got that
12:59 out of the way the mindset you have to have is you know what door's right there I'm out I'm fine alone no begging no pleading okay none of that door's right there so women okay need you to leave them women need you to ignore them this is why okay she needs that turmoil that the bad boy brings the bad boy who doesn't text her back doesn't call her back she's in decisive as to where he stands with her that he naturally brings out that tension he naturally causes that chaos women will make these arguments women will make these little breakups women will do these things to push you away just so she has something to Fester over just so her mind has something to latch on to that basically tells her hey I can now be entertained for the next week or two I can watch this guy turn into like a an emotional
13:47 emasculated version of him own self and I can prove to myself that I'm actually entitled to a higher value man who doesn't break like that this is the drama she naturally will create for herself so here's what you got to know stay okay the more stable you are equals the more punished you get in the dating game in all way shapes and forms the more you care the less sex you're going to get the more in love you become this equals the less she is in love so you've been programmed to be in your feminine energy and I don't blame you the reason why I don't blame you is because this is all 99% of men act it's not because they're trying to ruin their relationships of their interactions with women on purpose it's because they just don't know any better that's why I make these videos so everything you've been told about how to carry yourself with women how to properly interact with women is
14:33 completely wrong okay these are true top dog or Alpha characteristics this is how guys who are strong this is who guys who have options this is how guys who have emotional resiliency act when they're with women okay the alpha gets detached post sex he doesn't get attached okay majority of men get attached and they think that because they earned that woman or they won her over they now think they have to do all of these things to keep her interest when in actuality this is false this isn't true so if you're a guy and you're getting attached when you have intimacy or when you're are sleeping with a woman this is going to be a Telltale sign that she's going to pull back from you the more you care the more you get you know soft and mushy the more um cuddling the more handh holds stuff like that this is
15:18 going to decrease desire okay the type of man who wins over the woman's heart time and time again is the guy who needs zero intimacy we're talking zero intimacy you don't care if a girl huddles you you don't care if a girl gives you a kiss on the cheek or on the forehead you don't care if she texts you good morning all of that [ __ ] does nothing for you that does nothing to improve your life that doesn't do anything to improve your financial circumstance not to mention when you reciprocate that sort of behavior desire especially sexually drops anyways I don't know why you want to continue to do the things and Chase something that doesn't exist this idea and this concept of mutual love meaning I'm going to put forth effort she's going to naturally put forth effort I'm the more effort I put forth the more effort she puts puts forth now there's going to be reciprocation and now we're going to live happily ever after and eat Hershey's Kisses in the park and go and
16:05 use sidewalk chalk to draw our names and uh initials with a big heart in the middle that [ __ ] doesn't exist women need to create chaos and tension in these relationships so they have something to fixate on your idea or your preconceived notions of what Love Actually is does not exist and it's not that like the funniest thing too is the amount of excuses guys try to make with their past girlfriends oh she had a traumatic childhood oh she has daddy issues oh she uh you know worked a lot of jobs that required a lot out of her so emotionally she's drained oh she suffers from this dude you can keep filling yourself with all these [ __ ] excuses all you want the fact is she just doesn't like you okay I could give you as a man the worst Circumstance the
16:50 worst childhood the worst anything and put a put a circumstance in front of you second I put a hot Victoria Secret model in front of you and let's say she's ready and willing to be with you you you'll shape up real quick because attraction can't be negotiated and attraction isn't dictated based on past life circumstance so you can make every excuse in the book why that past girl didn't like you what's wrong with that potential person it's all irrelevant and it's all [ __ ] okay the bad boy or the [ __ ] okay think of this as like a wild lion just roaming the Earth just like use this as an image he eats right he sleeps he shits okay when he decides to find the female line he reproduces he just does whatever the hell he wants okay he does what he wants he listens to nobody and the okay what you have to
17:37 understand the top dogs who act like this okay they will never in a million years let a woman control their actions or their emotions this is a turn on for the women this is how you turn a woman on this is what makes a woman want you these are the things that women look at as strength characteristics not your six-pack not your cool Lululemon joggers not your your three-piece Armani suit those things might be good for attraction to get your foot in the door on a first date these things do nothing to build the attachment so here's you got to understand about relationships relationships in all way shapes and forms as a man equals you're trading her sexual desire that she once had for you for a false sense of stability so that way you're not lonely now when I originally wrote this I was actually
18:23 going to word it like this I was going to write it and I was going to say relationships equals that you're trading her sexual desire for stability so you're not lonely but I actually crossed that out and I I wrote the word false in the middle of it okay because the truth is that you're trading her sexual desire for a false sense of stability you think that when you get into that relationship with that girl things are going to be stable you think that she's going to continue to like you you think that you're going to have somebody to go for uh two for one apps at Applebees every single Wednesday and go have fun you think that person is going to reciprocate that is not not how it works it's a false sense of stability these things don't exist inner peace and inner happiness as a man only happens when you're truly content with being alone and when I say truly content with being
19:09 alone that means you have vision for your own life you already do things that you want to be doing you've crafted a life for yourself where you're content and capable and you actually enjoy your own presence and you have friends and you have a life circumstance around you that you're proud of okay with or without a woman women come and go and that's why I have this next column up here so you understand this at a deep level too women will always start to act up when you're exclusively with them all of them they are just going to act rude from time to time they're for no reason and this leads confusion to your your your brain because you're like well hey you know if I was with Tom for 10 years and we got a beer every Saturday together and you know he invested in me by paying for my drinks sometimes and I invested in him and I've listened to his problems and he's listened to mine you
19:54 know what Tom's a good friend we're going to stick this out and be together that is not how it works every girl that I've ever dated okay I have had to leave them from time to time think about that for a second that time apart is what builds tension okay then when that when that tension is there again then what happens is her sexual desire goes back up all of a sudden the behavior starts to change when they see that you have the strength to leave women need to know that you will leave them women need to know that you will walk away and it doesn't matter what's whole what it doesn't matter the leverage that she may have over you you you could and if you are one of those guys who you opted into marriage you could you could lose half your assets all that stuff doesn't matter she if she sees that you don't have like if she sees that she can have leverage over you and get compliance out of you in any way shape or form because you're fearful this is going to be the
20:40 slow dissolve to the end of the relationship okay here's what you got to know if if the woman okay that you're dating or that you're seeing does the breaking up first this is usually over it's usually over forever and the reason why it's usually over forever is because what that really s signals is you've taken her [ __ ] for so long long she cannot look up to you you have taken her [ __ ] for so long she cannot respect you in any way shape or form you've taken her [ __ ] for so long she doesn't even like seeing you she doesn't respect you she can't look up to you and now the biggest issue here is that she now has a fixed identity of you because you didn't just get the game the fixed identity of you means that he doesn't understand what he's doing he doesn't know how to make sure that I say Feminine he doesn't make me feel the right sort of way you don't get it so you can go back and you can try all these different things to
21:27 try to get the girl back if she does the breaking up first it usually doesn't work so here's what I can tell you you need to start to bring this drama first okay I'm going to tell you this you need to start the drama before she does you need to pull back before she does okay you need to leave from time to time in these relationships you need to just exit turn your phone off leave from time to time in these relationships just like they do think about that you start the drama first before she does you pull back before she does you leave from time to time and we're not just talking you leave for 3 hours and you don't answer your phone go leave for a week or two just stop texting her then come back on your own terms just like they do here's the funny thing about this be sure to give no explanation why you did it
22:12 either just like they do give no explanation for your behavior shrug it off and act like it just happened and act like you'll come and go as you please because this is the type of tension and the type of chaos and turmoil that they need in their life in order to actually feel as if they're with a high value guy and they will not feel this way if you're 6'6 make $20 million in the bank account and act like you know you're you're just because you have status you're cool they need to feel something because they are craving the tension that only guys with these specific characteristics bring out of them this is the truth you're going to have to swallow if you like this video I want you to hit the like button comment and subscribe be sure to check out that masculine behavioral technique presentation in the description that I put together for you we'll see you in the next one
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