๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐——๐—ผ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜†? | 28 Dec 2025 HOMILY w/ Fr. Jerry Orbos, SVD | Holy Family Sunday

Brief Summary

This homily focuses on the Feast of the Holy Family, emphasizing the importance of family unity, faith, and service to others. It encourages listeners to reflect on their own families, appreciate their loved ones, and strive to create a God-centered and supportive home environment. The priest shares personal anecdotes and biblical references to illustrate these points, urging families to pray together, forgive one another, and extend their love and service to the wider community.

  • Importance of family unity, faith, and service to others.
  • Encouragement to reflect on own families and appreciate loved ones.
  • Strive to create a God-centered and supportive home environment.

Gospel Reading: The Flight to Egypt

The Gospel reading recounts the story of Joseph being warned in a dream to flee to Egypt with Mary and Jesus to escape Herod's plan to kill the child. They remained in Egypt until Herod's death, after which an angel instructed Joseph to return to Israel. However, upon hearing that Archelaus, Herod's son, was ruling Judea, Joseph feared going there and instead settled in Nazareth, fulfilling the prophecy that Jesus would be called a Nazarene.

Introduction: Reflecting on Family

The priest begins by acknowledging the Feast of the Holy Family and prompting listeners to consider the state of their own families. He encourages a personal reflection, asking whether their family is happy, quarrelsome, or somewhere in between, and emphasizes the importance of presenting families to the Lord. He then poses the question of what one thing people wish for their families, particularly their siblings, with many desiring more quality time together.

Grace Happens: A Story of Forgiveness and Renewal

The priest shares a touching story about a couple celebrating their 36th wedding anniversary. Years prior, the husband had left, but through grace, he realized his mistake, felt contrition, and made restitution. The wife forgave him, and they decided to renew their wedding vows. This story illustrates the power of forgiveness and the possibility of reconciliation within families, emphasizing that grace can bring about beautiful transformations.

Qualities of a Good Family: Closeness to God

A good family is one where God is present and close to God. The priest acknowledges those who attend mass as a family and encourages them to continue doing so, emphasizing that faith strengthens families. He highlights the importance of praying for one another, sharing his personal practice of praying daily for his siblings. He quotes his mother's habit of praying the rosary for each of her children, reinforcing the idea that a family that prays together stays together.

Qualities of a Good Family: Closeness to One Another

A good family is close to one another, emphasizing the importance of effort in maintaining these connections. He notes that conversations within families often revolve around problems, sickness, and hurts, and encourages listeners to instead share positive news and uplift one another. He urges couples and parents to express appreciation for each other, emphasizing the importance of saying something nice to avoid regrets of loving too little too late.

The Poem of One Little Rose

The priest recites a poem titled "One Little Rose," which conveys the message of valuing small acts of kindness and appreciation in the present rather than grand gestures after death. The poem emphasizes the importance of expressing love and appreciation to loved ones while they are still alive to receive it.

Qualities of a Good Family: Closeness to the People

A good family is close to the people, encouraging listeners to extend their love and service beyond their immediate family to the wider community. He shares that he grew up in a home where people were always coming and going, inspired by his grandfather, a public school teacher, and his mother. He urges families not to remain in their comfort zones but to be with the sheep, as Pope Francis says, and to serve others. He cautions against accumulating wealth at the expense of the poor, reminding listeners that God gave them resources to be used for the benefit of others.

Final Thoughts and Prayer

The priest concludes by invoking Jesus, Mary, and Joseph to pray for us. He encourages families to serve the Lord and help others, and prays for blessings on families, communities, the Philippines, and the world, asking for peace.

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Full transcript of โ€œ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐——๐—ผ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜†? | 28 Dec 2025 HOMILY w/ Fr. Jerry Orbos, SVD | Holy Family Sundayโ€. Click a timestamp to open the video at that moment. Need another video? Use the YouTube transcript generator.

0:00 A reading from the Holy Gospel according to Matthew. >> Glory to you, O Lord. >> After the astrologers had left, the angel of the Lord suddenly appeared in a dream to Joseph with a command, "Get up, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you otherwise." Herod is searching for the child to destroy him." Joseph got up and took the child and his mother and left that night for Egypt. He stayed there until the the death of Herod to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet, "Out of Egypt I have called my son." But after Herod's

0:45 death, the angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt with a command, "Get up, take them, take the child and his mother, and set out for the land of Israel. Those who had the signs on the life of the child are dead." He got up, took the child and his mother, and returned to the land of Israel. He heard however that Archelaus had succeeded his father Herod as king of Judea and he was afraid to go back there. Instead being because of a warning received in a dream, Joseph went to the region of Galilee. There he settled in a town called Nazareth. In this way, what the what was said through the prophets was fulfilled. He shall be

1:32 called a Nazaren. Friends, the gospel of the Lord. >> Praise to you Lord Jesus >> Christ. Come Holy Spirit bless this unworthy priest. Let me share with humility and with the heart. Thank you Holy Spirit for sending us a rose. Thank you for your love for each one of us. Come Holy Spirit, come sisters and brothers. Um, so 67.

2:19 I still can't get that, but maybe this a 67 moment for you. Biblical trivia. When was the first plane ride of the Holy Family? Jesus, Mary, Joseph. When was the first plane ride on their flight to Egypt? You just read that in the gospel today. Get up, take up his mother, and flee the child and the mother and flee to Egypt. Instruction to St. Joseph. question

3:08 see the pilot. Anyway, today is the feast of the holy family. Question like to ask you a question. How is your family? Father before the Lord, you tell the Lord, report to the Lord, Lord, my family is okay or we have a happy family of we are a singing family. We are an eating family. We are a talking family.

3:57 We are a quarreling family. We are a miserable family. But today we present to the Lord our families. If there was one thing you wished with your family immediate, let's start with your siblings. What is it? Most of us would say sana we had more time together court case. Wow. All of us have our wish. There's no such thing as a perfect family, perfect community.

4:44 But what what is important is this. No matter what happens, stay together and let your song be. Don't give up on us, baby. Don't give up on us, family. Let's not give up on one another. I had a very touching Christmas moment a few days before Christmas, a wedding anniversary. I must have shared this with you. 36th wedding anniversary. What made it special was some years ago the husband.

5:40 So he was gone. ghost projects. I don't know what happened, but grace happens. Please don't forget this. Grace happens. Don't give up. Still believe that grace can happen. Something beautiful happens. And guess what? He realized his mistake and he had contrition and restitution.

6:25 He did not just pay simply my contrition, my restitutional family. And the grace also is the wife said, "Yes, I forgive you." Wow. And they decided to have a wedding vows renewal. Grace happens. Please don't give up on one another. No regrets. I did my best today. What is a good family?

7:15 Well, a good family is where God is present. A good family is a family that is close to God. Thank you. Many of you here come for mass as a family. Keep doing that. Bringing your children, bringing your helpers, your mother on a wheelchair. It's the faith that will help us to be strong. Do you pray for one another? We have five siblings and every day I pray for my siblings. We are now in our 70s and 60s.

8:02 Lords and his family. adding team. I pray for them every day. God knows what they need. So I pray for them. Don't stop praying for each other first. Mama told us before that every time she prays the rosary, she prays for each one of us. Every Hail Mary, everything. So please, if your family is close to God, you'll be okay. Because the family that prays

8:50 together stays together. Why are you not staying together? Maybe because you have stopped praying together. You have stopped praying for each other. Please remember your family and loved ones in this mass. living or dead, present or absent. Especially those who need healing, those who need enlightenment emotionally. Those who need conversion. Those who need direction. Family members who need provisions.

9:38 Second, check your family. A good family is a family that is close to one another. The effort is important. You know what is the effort? The effort is where the airplane lands an family. Every time you talk, you talk of problems, you talk of sickness, you talk of hurts and miseries. Conversations. Why don't we talk of as father said,

10:27 Habari is good, very good and not so good. Negative. This depresses. Lift up each other. Why didn't you say something good? Oh, now now husband and wife, parents together, will you please say something nice to each other?

11:20 positive. How we need to hear that? I appreciate you. Please appreciate them now. And regrets in the end. No regrets that you loved too little too late. Speaking of too little too late. So I wanted to share with you that poem one little rose which I have memorized since I was a teenager.

12:06 And the poem says, "I'd rather have one little rose from the garden of a friend than to have the choices flowers when my life has come to an end. I'd rather hear a pleasant word in kindness said to me than flattery when my heart is still and my life has ceased to be. I'd rather see a loving smile from friends whom I know are true than tears shed around my casket when this world I bit at you. So bring me all your flowers today,

12:55 whether white or pink or red. I'd rather have one blossom now than a truckload when I'm dead. One little rose in this mass. promise God, Lord, I will do my best. But at the end, when you look at a loved one in the coffin, I did my best for you. I have no regrets. I did my best. Maybe you're ignored. Maybe you're hurt

13:42 by your words, whatever. Don't stop loving them. Knock-knock. Who's there? Come tough avenue. >> I come tough. Please don't forget light moments in the family close to one another. Do birds have hands? A why do birds suddenly appear

14:28 every time you are near? Sana presence mo. Let's bring joy and God in our gatherings. That's our prayer. And finally, what is a good family? A good family is a family that is close to the people. Wow. Family close to God. Close to one another. Nice. Nice. serve the people. I grew up in a home that there were always a lot of people coming in and

15:15 out. Started with our lolo, public school teacher, mama, but that's that's us. There were times, well, you help people. It's so easy to be comfortable in our homes. Relax. enjoyable fine we need those times but in the end let's continue as Pope Francis was saying to be with the sheep to smell like the sheep don't stay in your comfort zones and please as a family

16:01 with all your dynasty whatever You have collected so much money from the poor. In the end, you come before God. You God gave you all this money and power and you use them just for yourself, just for your loved ones. Stop hurting people. Serve the people. then we are a good family. Sisters and brothers, Jesus Mary Joseph pray for us. Sisters and brothers, today if you hear

16:48 his voice, harden not your heart. Today as a family we say as for me and for my house we will serve the Lord. The book of Joshua. Sana your family serves the Lord. And as for me and for my house we will serve we will help people. Please bless our families, our communities, and bless our Philippine family, our country, our people, and bless the world with peace.

17:35 Amen. Lord, Amen.

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