Advanced Visualization Protocol: I used this to quit my job & make $8M.

0:00 Hi guys, Quasi here. In today's video, I want to share with you an advanced visualization tactic. And specifically, what I want to share with you is one of the most powerful visualization techniques. Actually, three of the most powerful visualization techniques that allowed me in 2019 to quit my soul sucking corporate job to start my own business. uh that actually grants me time, money, freedom, and actually being able to scale it by the end of 2020 to having my first million-doll year. To a lot of people on the outside, it appeared like it happened very, very fast. But I know the internal shifts that needed to happen in order for that dream to actually come to life, to solidify into reality. But what a lot of people didn't know is that I actually had a very specific protocol for

0:47 visualization which I teach my private clients on how to achieve any goal especially our entrepreneur clients how to you know increase your income or shift to a different life path than the one you are at. So for me it was quitting that soul sucking corporate job and starting my own business and actually being able to scale it to the level that I wanted to so that I can work less and enjoy what I was doing. And in today's video, I will leave no stone unturned. You're going to get the three-step system that we teach our private clients. And I hope that you can use it to get results of your own. So, please pay attention to this video because this is going to be comprehensive. We're going to go deep into the actual nitty-gritty tactics and I'm going to give you step-by-step implementable tools that you can use. So, with that, let's get started with

1:34 the very first visualization protocol, which is visualizing the goal. So before I get deep into visualizing the goal, we have to understand why visualization is so powerful. There's a talk of many different techniques. You know, people do tons of different techniques, hope, affirmations, certain kinds of visualization, but I found this one way of visualizing to be the most effective after having tried out a myriad of different techniques. I've been in this and just on my journey for over the last decade, and I've started to notice that there's a lot of good things and a lot of things that don't really work. Um, and I'm not saying it to knock on any kind of technique or method, but what I'm really saying is you need to stop focusing on techniques and start focusing on principles. A technique is a hack. It's a manipulation to try and get you something that you want. Typically,

2:20 when someone is implementing a technique, they're doing it from a deep place of scarcity and trying to fill that void. But the place of being that it's coming from is that place of scarcity. Like, I'm in scarcity and I want to do this hack to get out of scarcity. That doesn't work. You have to truly embody those qualities first. So why visualization has been the most effective for me personally and our clients is because if you look at the sense organs, the sense p perceptions, 80% of our sense perception is what? Sight. When someone loses their sight, every single other sense gets heightened. Okay? So we have our sight is so so important. What we see the vision is so so important. One of our clients, Law, actually used this and he scaled his chiropractic business from,

3:06 you know, barely doing seven figures to doing over 200k a month and having a record month within six short months of working with us. Why was he able to do this vision work? He attributes it all to vision work. What vision work does is it allows you to do two things. It allows you to shift to a different lifeline than the one you were at. In my instance, going from that lifeline of where I was destined to a corporate job and retiring at 65 in a job that I hated to the lifeline of where I actually have a successful business that gives me time and money freedom. I can travel the world. I can hang out with my family. I can hang out with my wife and my kid and basically you know not be stressed all the time. So that is the big difference.

3:52 So the the second part to this is movement along the lifeline. Okay. So speeding up movement along this lifeline. It's one thing to shift to a different lifeline. It's another thing to speed up the movement along this lifeline. So those are the two things you're going to get and you're going to learn how to do. The second part to this is understanding that core principle of why visualization works or why any technique works. If you look at affirmation, if you look at meditation, if you look at any kind of goal manifestation technique, visualization too falls under this bucket. The key principle that makes all of these techniques work is what? Just think about it. It's the unity in heart and mind. It's the coherence in your left and right hemispheres of your brain. It's the bringing together of the logical and the creative part of you.

4:39 It's the coming together of the yin and the yang. It is the coming together of the scientist and the artist. Right? So, the key thing we're looking for is unity of heart and mind. Why is that so important? Because the heart is like the source of power, but it's unbridled, uncontrolled source of power. The mind is like the the valleys that direct that power. So if I move a million inches in a million different directions, I'm not going to make any progress. If I move a million inches in one direction, I'm going to make a millionfold progress than in the former instance. Right? So that's where the mind comes in. The mind gives it direction. The heart actually provides the source of fuel. So I also

5:25 liken it to valley and the water the river right the heart is the river the mind is the valley and it directs it to the particular goal that you would like to manifest. So in understanding that that we need unity of heart and mind the question becomes how do we activate that? in thought and feeling when you direct your thought to a particular image that you'd like to manifest and you feel those associated feelings that you would feel once it has become manifest. Okay. So now that we understand these two prerequisites, let's get to the three tactics, the three methods of visualization. And I promise you if you diligently apply this, your life won't be the same. So the very first part of this, the most important part of this is visualizing

6:10 the goal. Okay. So, you want to visualize the goal. What does that mean? Well, the problem with visualizing is many people have many different ideas of what visualizing is, what you should visualize. Some people say, "Oh, you know, you should only visualize the final thing." Oh, you should only visualize how you're performing as you're doing it. Like sports psychologists talk about this. You should visualize as you're taking the shot and doing, you know, it's more scientific. It's more research proven. But what's the right way to visualize? The right way is a combination of all of those ways. Okay. So the right answer always lies in the combination of different ideologies. So now in understanding that what's the biggest problem with this? Well, the biggest problem with this, the reason why people

6:57 never achieve results with visualization or any other kind of technique is 50% or more of the time we are focused on our current circumstances. Okay? So you're focused on what's going wrong in your reality. what's not going right. So, if you want to manifest something that's very different from what it is you're trying to manifest, let's say you're trying to increase your business income or just income in general, right? You're you're trying to be a successful trader. You're trying to see trades go well. Maybe you're trying to, you know, publish a book, getting a book out there, but then you keep focusing on all of the reasons why you can't do it, right? You keep focusing on all of the reasons why you're a failure and all of the things that have happened in the past that have proven that you're a failure. And you keep looking at that evidence more and more, right? If you want to increase your income now, you keep checking your bank account. The moment you check, it's like Medusa. You

7:43 turn to stone. The moment you look at, you peak and look at the reflection. What is currently, you're getting further and further away from what is wanted. Right? So, our external current circumstances are a distraction for what we want to create in the next moment. Please, I want you to remember that the more you keep looking at your current circumstances, waiting for the goal to materialize, subconsciously, you're only establishing the lack thereof. You're only establishing the lack. You're basically saying, "Oh, why hasn't it happened? Why hasn't it happened yet? I keep doing the right things. Why am I not making progress? it's not working." So, you keep establishing to reality that it's not working. In that manner most of the time we are very realistic but if you look at the most

8:30 successful people in the world they're what they have this reality distortion field their vision is so strong for what they want to create they don't care about what's going on right now they only care about what they want to move towards some of the greatest minds that have ever existed like Steve Jobs right he had this grand vision for what he wanted to make Apple so that's one thing you have to keep in mind is how much time is it 50% or more of of the time am I focusing on my current state of things or am I focusing on what is desired and what is wanted all you need to do is 51% or more of the time focus on your desired reality forward movement will happen that's it that's something very important to remember because this is the biggest problem we keep focusing on what we don't want you keep moving two step forward and two steps back okay now

9:18 what does visualizing the goal do and what is visualizing the goal you may wonder Well, visualizing the goal is simply focusing on the goal as though it has already manifested. What does life look like once the goal has been manifest? That's it. Everything that you've ever wanted if had if it has come to life, what does life look like? What does it feel like? Okay. So, I'll give you an example. when I was about to so let's say in 2017 2018 when I read books like think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill I read outwitting the devil and all of those books learning about visualization taught me that I have to focus on what life looks like once the goal has been manifest so when I was in college and I was destined to the

10:04 lifeline of working a corporate job and then retiring only to then being able to enjoy my life that's when my life begins at 65 when I can do what I on. I visualized every single night waking up in a mansion in LA next to the woman of my dreams with everything that I've ever wanted and I have a red Ferrari and I drive off into town, right? That's what I visualized every single night. That is me visualizing the goal. That's me. If I've had everything that I've ever wanted, what does a day in that life look like? So, I visualized a day in that life. I would wake up next to the partner of my dreams. So, I would go down my spiral staircase and I would have these big double doors and then I would look to my right and you know there's my car but I forgot the keys to my car and then my wife or girlfriend at the time, you know, my partner throws me the keys and I drive off into town,

10:49 right? That's what I visualized every single night until I actually became wealthy. So, that's what visualizing the goal is. You're visualizing the final destination after you've achieved everything. And again, a lot of people think, "Oh, okay, but I don't know how I'm going to get there." It's totally fine. Don't even worry about that. Don't worry about how you're going to get what you what you're going to get, cuz I didn't know how I was going to become wealthy and amass all that wealth. I didn't know what I was doing for work. Those parts were unclear. So, stop focusing on what's not immediately clear to you. What is clear to you is all of those things that you want. Allow yourself to be a kid in the playground and just daydream. Okay? Visualizing the goal is almost akin to daydreaming. You're giving yourself permission to have

11:34 anything that you want in the store without worrying about how much money is in your wallet. That's it. Okay? You can have everything. You're simply placing the order. So now in understanding that, what does visualizing the goal even do? If we look at the quantum space, if we look at the quantum field and we wonder what does visualizing the goal even do? Well, this is what it does. It makes a shift in the lifeline. Goal visualization causes a shift in lifelines. When your heart and mind are congruent, you have a shift in lifelines. So for example, if you look at this and this is a chain of different possible realities, different sectors of realities that can be manifested. Let's say I'm I was on this current trajectory of you know going the 9 to5 route, the corporate job route, something that I

12:21 hated. I would feel burnt out eventually. So this is my current and I'm naturally following this 9-to-five path, right? Well, on this other path is maybe me not even having a job, being even worse off than that, right? No job. And maybe on this right hand side is my ideal, which is becoming a millionaire entrepreneur. Well, when we visualize the goal, the more we visualize the goal, let's say this is my goal of becoming an entrepreneur, the more I cause a shift in lifelines. Okay, I'm moving from this current lifeline or life path to this life path. Okay, it's as simple as that.

13:08 Once we have a shift in lifelines, there is a possibility for this goal to become manifest. when I'm shifting from my current. So my thought energy currently has been conditioned by my past what I grew up with. My parents are immigrants. They always taught me the importance of working hard. I always believed I needed to work harder than the average person, the average western person because I wasn't as privileged. You know, I was a minority and I would need to, you know, push myself and and assert myself. That's what I was taught. I need to work harder than everyone else to achieve the same level of success, right? because I was taught that the my thought energy corresponds to it attunes to that sector of reality. Whereas there are others who believe they don't need to work as hard, right? They've been taught you don't need to work as hard. It will come

13:53 effortlessly if you you know just if you just don't have resistance if you do the right things. I didn't have that. I had massive action mentality. If you want something that you want in life, you have to fight for it. You have to battle. That was my upbringing. That was my identity. And so my thought energy naturally corresponded to that. I was just supposed to be grateful for having this 9 toive job, which again, incredibly grateful that I was able to get a full-time job, right? But it's not what I wanted. It's not what was meant for me. What was meant for me was that life of freedom, right? I value freedom over anything else. Freedom over my time over anything else. And so I wanted to become an entrepreneur because that's what I felt would be the right way for me to achieve what I wanted. So, I just

14:39 visualized that. I visualized becoming some kind of entrepreneur and waking up at my mansion in LA and having all of those things that I wanted. And guess what? That's what started to happen. That's the lifeline I started to move towards. And then I within two short years of visualizing this, I made my first million dollars. Right? So, in visualizing the goal, there are three main things you need to focus on. Three main keys. Number one, you want to visualize what it looks like after the goal has been achieved. So after achievement number two, you have to focus on different scenes because you'll grow tired of that same scene. So one of the scenes that I had was waking up in the mansion in LA, but I focused on

15:26 after I've achieved this, what are some other scenes that I could have? Well, I was at the coffee shop with my friends. Um, I was taking a cruise with my family and I was able to bring all of them because I could afford to do that, you know. So, multiple scenes because remember, you're creating your own world. Visualize multiple scenes. And another important part to this is timing. When you visualize, and I would do this every night before bed, kind of like Neville Godard talked about the feeling of the wish fulfilled, visualizing before bed right as you fall asleep. Why? Because right around that time, five minutes before you fall asleep, when you become very very drowsy, you reach this brain wave state called alpha brain wave. Okay? You have an abundance of alpha brain waves. Your

16:12 brain waves slow down from beta to alpha. Alpha is the bridge between the conscious and the unconscious, the subconscious. Okay? So when we get to those alpha brain wave states, it's much easier to program new ideas to impress the the subconscious mind which then goes into the unconscious which controls over 95% of a whole being. Okay. So you want to visualize at night. I guess there are four things. Now the third thing is you want to visualize who who it is that's experiencing that. So you get a feel for who you're being once you're achieving this goal. So visualizing the identity or the person. Why? Why is this so important?

17:00 Well, remember we talked about the heart and the mind. What, why, and who. If we get what, why, and who congruent, the how and when will show itself. So for a lot of you who are watching this right now, maybe you feel like you are going in a life path that you don't want. You know very clearly what you don't want, but you don't know what you do want. You're unclear. You're lacking clarity. Well, that clarity will come to you, just like it did to me once you just give yourself permission to visualize the goal. Well, what was the outcome of me visualizing this goal of waking up in LA and like having all those things that I wanted. I met two people in college, two of my friends in college who were YouTubers and they were making 10, 20K a month. Back when you were 19, 20, you're making 20K a month. you're practically a

17:46 millionaire, right? So, he was they were doing that and I was like, "Oh, I feel called to start a YouTube channel." Mind you, I had no idea how to monetize that YouTube channel. So, in 2018, you can even go back to like if you go to my channel, go to oldest, you'll see my oldest video. It's still there. I didn't delete it. Okay? You can see how the evolution happened. And this is kind of emotional talking about this. Uh it was a completely different lifeline that I was in. But I just started the YouTube channel and I started to make videos and I started to share what I'm learning because I was super passionate about this stuff and I still am. But I was like obsessed, completely obsessed with this and I just wanted to share, right?

18:32 And for all I knew I would maybe monetize by selling merch, selling notebooks or whatever. Never in a million years did I think I could do coaching, right? I just didn't think it was possible. I didn't think it was for me. But then another, as I kept visualizing this, another synchronicity happened. Someone actually reached out to pay me for coaching. She was like, I'll pay you $300 for email coaching. I was like, "Wow, I didn't even know this was possible. Oh my god, coaching is right up my alley. I love coaching people. I love seeing transformations and results. This is for me. This is 100% for me. I've always loved teaching. I I literally have a chalkboard. Like guys, I have I'm teaching with a chalkboard. Like, who who the does that, you know? So, it was it was for me

19:18 that this is my unique path in life. I wasn't trying to copy someone or be someone else. This is literally what I wanted to do. This is the path that I wanted to walk. So, you have to find that out for yourself. And the only way you do that is by starting at the end. You begin at the end. And then you will reverse engineer and find the way to get there. your subconscious mind will fill up those gaps because what, why, and who makes the how and when manifest. Okay, so these are the three keys I want you to focus on. What does life look like after you've achieved the goal? Focus on multiple scenes at nighttime. Okay, one night you focus on one scene, another night you focus on another scene, and you focus on the thought feeling combination, the heart and mind conjunction. and you focus on

20:03 the identity, the version of yourself that you are being, the the qualities that you're embodying in those visions. Okay. So, now let's get to the next part, the true workhorse of of goal achievement, which shows you how to move along the lifelines, and that is learning how to visualize the process. Before I get to that, I wanted to let you know that you can access our exclusive email list. All you need to do is go to realitycreator.com/list. And upon joining, you're going to get access to our five video series known as the identity shifting boot camp. You know, viewers have literally just consumed that free content and I've gotten amazing results out of that. All you need to do is go to realitycreator.com/list and you'll be able to access the identity shifting boot camp which will show you how to

20:49 fundamentally shift your identity so you can experience a brand new reality, the reality you would like to experience. So now let's get to process visualization. the second part. So now we're going to be talking about something that is very very important and most people don't even know this. Most gurus you see they'll actually tell you not to focus on this which I think is complete because this is one of the fastest ways to create your reality. But people are just too afraid of it because they don't know how to correctly visualize the process. So in visualizing the process, this is quite contrary to what we talked about. So, I'm going to say this with a disclaimer, and I'll explain what the disclaimer is. We're actually focusing on the how. Scary. Don't focus on the how. Sit on your

21:35 couch and visualize all day. No, we're focusing on the how. Why? And how are we focusing on the how? So, remember we talked about shifting lifelines. So, now you have a different end destination once a lifeline shift has occurred. Now, we want to focus on in speeding up the flow along this lifeline. So, remember how I visualize the end goal. So, for a lot of you who are unclear about the watch that will get you there, you're not fully clear about, you know, how you're going to achieve all of those things that you talked about. For example, I always I use this example of our client here. She was working two jobs, 80 hours a week. She just focused on what she wanted. She

22:21 had 300k in student loan debt. She just focused on what she wanted. And guys, when you're in a situation like that, I just want you to think about how difficult it is to actually be conscious to change your reality. You're working 80 hours a week. You have a family. You have two kids. She had two kids. She has two kids. She has a husband. But she still changed her reality. She became a 40k a month business owner. She went from working two full-time jobs to starting her own business in speech pathology. 40k a month and paying off 300k in student loan debt. and all of her assets are now worth a million dollars combined, right? And now she gets to spend more time with her family. How does a shift like that happen? Well, when you ignore your current circumstances, when you stop focusing so much on the reflection and focus more on the vision, stop focusing on the current

23:07 reflection. Focus on the image that you want to present in the mirror of what you want to create. But how does this happen? She focused on the end goal until God, the universe, presented her with an opportunity. Okay? God presented her with an opportunity to quit one of the jobs. She had an intuitive insight to quit one of the jobs. And as soon as she did, the second job, the one that she was working, she got a raise there. Okay? And so when she got a raise, she was able to cut down her hours and eventually, you know, quit that to starting her own business. So when you focus on the goal, God will give you insights into the process that will lead you there. You're going to

23:53 start seeing synchronicities. You're going to start getting a calling. Just like for me, I got the insight to start a YouTube channel. And what did I do when I got that insight? I visualized the process of becoming a good video maker. I visualized making great videos every time I made videos. And I still do this even to this day. Before I take any kind of action, I visualize doing that action successfully. If I'm starting a marketing campaign, I visualize succeeding at that marketing campaign. I I visualize succeeding in what I'm doing. Okay? So, that's the part where sports psychologists talk about, you know, when you're shooting your free throws, visualize shooting it correctly and making and having that swish and,

24:39 you know, hearing it go in the bucket. That's what they're talking about. That's what we're doing here. You're visualizing the actions itself. And guess what? When you keep visualizing the process, you keep visualizing becoming a great leader, you visualize becoming a great salesperson, a great marketer, what happens? All of those visualizations get connected to the final goal. We're paving the pathway towards achieving that final goal. Okay? So, visualizing the process is simply focusing on what you do know now. We're not searching for what we don't know. We're just focusing on what we do know. So, if you're focusing on the goal and you have an intuitive insight to maybe I want to start a blog. Well, now you visualize having a successful blog, you visualize having a successful Instagram or you

25:25 visualize having a successful, you know, whatever it is that you're doing. It's an actionoriented focus. Okay? So, focus on the goal is static. Focus on the process is dynamic because we are becoming artists. We are visualizing that our art is doing well. Kind of like a mother when she brings up her infant, she visualizes. She focuses on how the infant is getting better and better every single day. It's getting stronger and stronger every single day. She's he's starting to take steps. He's starting to speak. She's actually subconsciously focusing on all of these even though she might not be visualizing it. Okay. So for me, I started doing this with my video making, you know, becoming a great video maker, producing prolific content that

26:11 actually changes lives. And I'm visualizing all the comments coming in of how many lives it has changed, right? So I need you to focus on that. That's what you got to do. Don't worry about what you don't know. Focus on what you do know. And you will get more feedback on what you do know and what you do want. Okay? Most people focus on what they don't want and what they don't have. You need to focus on what you do want and what you do have because when you're more grateful for what you have and you focus on what you want, you'll create more of those positive outcomes. Okay? So, the key here is stop worrying about unknowns and focus on known. Why? Because as you keep moving in the path towards your goals, the unclear terrain gets clearer

26:58 the more steps you take. Think about it. If I keep doing uncomfortable things every day, I'm actually expanding my zone of comfort. If I keep doing things that I've always been doing, I'm going to stay stuck in my comfort zone. So to expand your zone of comfort, venture out into unknown territory. And typically, this unknown territory is more focused on the direction of your goal. So, for example, you know, if I want to become a successful business owner and I have a, you know, I want to make content on social media, but I'm terrified of making content on social media. I'm nervous. I feel this imposter syndrome. Well, an uncomfortable action would be just making one short video, not taking scuba diving. Well,

27:45 that could even even doing that could help, but it's more of a directed action if you directed it towards the the life path that you're following, the lifeline that you're following, right? So, stop worrying about unknown and focus unknown. Why? Because a weak plan executed with a definitess of purpose will triumph over a strong plan executed with an indefinitess of purpose. Guys, in this situation, the most crucial thing that you can do is have a strong resolve. Because if you have a definitess of purpose, you have a strong resolve, everything else will take care of itself. That's it. When you get insights into the process, visualize the

28:30 process. Okay. So, now it's time to talk about the final visualization. And I've actually never shared this before, at least not to the public, but this will completely change the game for you. Why? Because there are hidden resistances that are always lying in right around the corner. There's a reason why when you visualize, you get this feeling of anxiety or this pang of doubt that comes up. Don't lie, you felt it. When you visualize the goal, you start feeling it. You start feeling this anxiety that, oh, you know, but it's not achievable for me. Oh, but I can't do it because I've failed so many times. What is that? How to mitigate that? This is how you want to visualize the failure scenario. Now, before I get to that,

29:16 could you do me a favor? If you like this, if you know you don't like this, just let me know in the comments below your genuine thoughts. I love to see engagement and your feedback helps us, me, make better content for you. So, just leave me a comment. And if you're liking this, could you share this with a friend so they can benefit from it as well? Um, I'm just trying to spread the message out there to the right people who are truly truly interested in changing their lives. So, let's get to visualizing the failure scenario. So, before I begin this part, I want to share a tweet that I recently shared that I was inspired to share. It goes, "He who has nothing to lose has everything to gain. He who has everything to lose is more worried about losing than gaining." Now, I want you to think about this for a second. Has ever happened in your life? You know, things

30:02 have been going well for a really long time and then all of a sudden it doesn't and now it hurts more than when you were at rock bottom, right? Because when you're at rock bottom, you have nothing to lose. When you have nothing to lose, you have everything to gain. So imagine living like that. Imagine living in a way where no matter how much you gain, you don't become attached to them. They don't define you. they don't become a part of your identity because you're beyond this because now you collect all of these belongings you collect this business the business that you've been working on this sunk cost effect right the income that you've been making and you formed an identity around it I am the kind of person who has this house who makes this much money and you know amongst my friends circle I'm recognized as this kind of person and I would never want to

30:48 ruin that reputation something that I've worked for because otherwise everything that I've worked for would be a failure but what if you stop you know holding on to it so tightly Typically, it's the people who really hold on to it tightly that end up sabotaging it, right? That's why we see a lot of clients who have been making a lot of money, but then all of a sudden, you know, it just it all goes to Something happens, all goes to and then they get this huge ego check and it humbles them. When you fail to humble yourself, God will do it for you. Okay? I've seen this time and time again. And so, I always have to remind myself, no, no, no, this isn't me. I'm actually I'm actually a nobody. I'm simply embodying choosing to step into this version of myself. In truth, I'm a nobody doing nothing. You know, it's

31:35 a it's a very contradicting way to live. But life operates in dichotoies. You have to learn to balance the two ends of the pole. Otherwise, balance will be created for you. So, where does visualizing the failure scenario come in? Most people when they visualize their goals, there is subconsciously that fear of failure. that fear of failure is actually subconscious resistance. Ah, here comes the handwriting. Okay. So, you have subconscious resistance towards what you want to avoid. There's a there's a quote there's a a Bible scripture that says do not resist evil. The way I interpret that is when

32:20 you resist evil, you give it your power. Whatever you resist, you give it power. Whatever you love, you give it power. Okay? Life reality doesn't discriminate between the different contexts. What you hate and what you love. You get more of what you hate, you get more of what you love. You get more of what you resist, what you resist persists. So, because you're subconsciously resisting the failure scenario, it's haunting you. It's controlling your life. What if you no longer resisted that failure scenario? What if you could move without resistance? Do you know what happens when you no longer have subconscious resistance towards failure? Imagine the last time you were playing a game for the first time. You were a kid. You're playing this game. You're just learning and you're just having fun. There is no expectation. There is no ego built up.

33:05 You're simply freewheing. You are just being free. You're just having fun. You're just enjoying. And guess what happens? You start winning. And then when you start winning, you start to become identified as a winner. and you must win. Whenever we must do something, that's when we create all of these resistances. Okay? So, I want to give you the example of someone, business owner, let's say, who has been overworking for the last decade or so. They've been stuck in this business that they've worked so hard to build and they've been working 60 to 80our weeks. They're afraid to hire and delegate certain responsibilities because they're afraid of letting loose their grip because they are subconsciously afraid of everything

33:52 falling apart if they were to let go. So what's the fear here? Everything falls apart. Everything falls apart. That is the subconscious resistance. There is a resistance to that. So that is the failure scenario. That is the failure scenario that is being resisted. So now what needs to happen for that business owner to overcome this and I'm going to share a story of myself that I I literally just I went through this four years ago. When you resist the failure scenario, not only does it run your life from the background, it takes your intention energy. You don't have intention energy available to channel towards what you

34:37 want to move towards because part a big part of your intention energy is getting drained into resisting failure. Okay, don't fail. Kind of like a man walking on a tightroppe for the first time on a very high precipice. When the man walks that tight rope, they've never walked it before. They're afraid. Most of their energy is being directed to resisting failure. Don't fall. Don't fall. Instead of go to the other side, go to the other side. Right now, if we put a safety net under or put the man on like ground level, well, there is no longer fear because there is no plunging to my own death. So now the man has more intention, energy available to just direct towards moving to the other side. So he appears less wobbly. He just puts one foot in front of the other and goes towards the goal. So in the case of this

35:25 business owner, you know, focusing on being afraid of failure, the only way to overcome that is by accepting failure in the first place, accepting the worst case scenario in the first place. So if the fear is everything is going to fall apart if I let loose, if I let go of control. Well, yeah, it. Let that happen. What's the problem? I've built it once. I'll build it again. But I refuse to continue to live like this for one more day. I refuse to live like this for one more day. I've spent the last 10 years doing this. I can no longer do this anymore. Something has to change. And that's when change happens. Change and transformation happens with 100% commitment. No halfassing it. So what

36:11 happens though for a lot of people is they begin with that attitude. But then when things start when starts to hit the fan, what do they do? They go back. They're like, "Oh, okay. No, you know what? I'm just not going to do this anymore." They retreat. They're not able to stay firm in their conviction. They fold. Don't fold. Stay with it. Follow it through to the end. Give your life to it. Commit your life to it. A lot of people think committing your life to something is actually a very high resistance thing. It's not. It's actually a very a path of least resistance because when you commit your life to something, you're willing to give your life to it. Full commitment. What are you basically saying? You're saying, you know what? I don't care. I'm going to go all in on this. All of my eggs are in this basket.

36:58 I'm going to commit everything that I've got to this. No importance. Just going to commit. Okay. So, this actually happened to me when I hired my first salesperson four years ago. And what was happening was I was taking I was doing everything in the business myself. I was making the content, coaching the clients, doing the sales all myself. And I was working around 60 hours a week. 60 to 70 hours a week. I was working Monday through Saturday from 7:00 a.m. to 700 p.m. 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. Monday through Saturday. And I did this for over two years, almost three years. And you know, I was presented with the opportunity. My mentors told me, "Hey, now is the time for you to hire someone and delegate this and step away from this." And I was

37:44 very very opposed to doing that. But I was burning out. You know, my I was losing passion for things and I just I didn't have the kind of inspiration that I needed to move the business forward. But you know, I knew that this was the path forward for me. I had to do it. But my biggest fear was they will misrepresent my company and my brand. Um they won't be able to sell like me. So I will be sacrificing revenue. uh what if they do something really bad and then you know I get in trouble right I get sued or something they say something really bad they misrepresented my company tons of fears tons of scarcity mindset but I had to visualize the failure scenario and become okay with it so I actually visualized failing I visualized all of those fears coming to

38:30 life and then I visualized life going on despite that I visualized that this is the cost of doing business I was becoming a successful entrepreneur And every single successful entrepreneur does what? They take risk. You can't live a life of comfort and just expect your whatever you want to become manifest. You have to become you have to be the man in the arena. Like Bnee Brown says, you have to put yourself out there. You have to be put yourself in vulnerable situations. You have to take the leap of faith. Most people are afraid to take the leap of faith. They're afraid. They're afraid of the middle. That's why they can't get to the end. They're afraid of the the chaos in the middle, but what lies on the other side is shangrla all of the things that they wanted, right? So, what are the

39:18 keys to actually using this to release that subconscious resistance? Step number one is you want to focus on the goal and then flip it. Flip goal. So, the goal that we talked about that you're visualizing, what if it didn't happen? For me, I looked at the the job that I wanted to quit, right? and I wanted to start my own business. Well, what's the worst case scenario? I stay stuck in this job. The worst worst case scenario is I stay stuck in this job for the rest of my life. I visualize that. You visualize that and you visualize life going on. Life will just go on regardless. And once you visualize it, you feel those strong feelings. You start to realize, oh, it's actually not so bad. Okay, worst case

40:04 scenario, I will have to do this job. And so, even when I started my business, it wasn't doing well at the start. I actually had the worst month of my life when I had to have the best month of my life. I had to prove to my parents that I could, you know, make it with this job. So, in May 2019, exactly six years ago, I had the worst month of my business career. I made absolutely zero. Made nothing that month. Okay? And so that month I I broke down into tears at the end of the month. I was like, "Oh, this is it. This is the worst case scenario coming to life." And it came to life and I was like, "Oh, that's it." Life goes on. The next month I had my first $8,000 month. The following month, I had my first $12,000 month. And then I in August I had my first 23k month. So

40:53 the next part to this is you want to visualize life going on life continuing or getting into acceptance of the worst case scenario. Now a lot of you will be asking oh isn't that creating if I'm visualizing the the worst case scenario wouldn't it come to life if you focus on it too much? Yes. So I'm going to show you a mitigation to that. But one thing is for sure you can't let the worst case scenario run your life. Okay. The more you resist it, the more you make it a reality, the more you're living it. The irony is a lot of people live in fear about the worst case scenario, like, "Oh, you know what? If I don't grow my business and I don't succeed, I don't succeed." Well, you're not succeeding right now, You're not succeeding right now. The more you keep that dialogue going,

41:40 you're not succeeding. So, what's what's the point? Why not just accept that this is the worst case scenario? I have nothing to lose. I have everything to gain from this situation. I have everything to gain. So within you always feel like you have nothing to lose. Always feel like I am at rock bottom. This is rock bottom. I came here with nothing and I will leave with nothing. Everything else is an adventure. Everything in the middle is an adventure. So the final part to this is to reframe. Go back to once you've done this exercise of visualizing the failure scenario. And by the way, only do this exercise when you find throughout the day that you're getting anxiety, you're getting feelings of fear. Ask yourself, what is it that I'm

42:26 resisting? What is being resisted in this moment? And visualize that. Visualize the worst case scenario. Okay? And so the final part to this is reframe. Reframe. And now you want to focus on what is wanted instead. So every session that we do that we visualize the failure scenario, we reframe it to focusing on what is wanted instead. Okay? Focus on failure, visualize success. Focus on failure, visualize success. We want to at least 50/50 it, if not twice as much of the time that you're spending on visualizing the failure scenario. You focus on success. Why? Because again, 50% or more of the time, we want to focus on what we want to move towards. And that's why all of these sessions of shadow work of surrendering need to be backed up with

43:13 what is wanted instead with lighter, happier feelings. Okay, this is absolutely crucial. So, thank you for watching this. I hope this was helpful. If you'd like to work closer together with me in our one-on-one mentorship and you want to take your reality, your business, your income to the next level by shifting your identity, by shifting your reality, I have good news. You can apply to work with me. All you need to do is go to realitycreator.com/apply or click the link in the description. It's pinned right there. I'm looking for a handful of clients to work one-on-one with to make 2025 your year and hopefully at the end feature you on our interviews and have you be an amazing success story. So, all you need to do is go to realitycreator.com/apply and I'm looking forward to working with you. Thanks.