0:00 Fine. Go spend money and have some stranger trying to figure you out in 60 sessions. There's people that do therapy for like eight years and they're like, "Well, I'm kind of getting better." Eight fucking years. And that that's all you've got out of that was I'm getting a little better. What the fuck you been talking about in that thing, dude? You are addicted to getting help, not getting better. Oh, nut gang. I'm going to go hard today. I'm going piss off a lot of people, make people uncomfortable, get those feathers flying all over the place, get under your skin, especially if no one's watched this channel before. This is really going to set a lot of people off, but that's good. I got to shake some shit up once in a while. YouTube gurus, coaches, mentorships, one-on-one, and therapists. I'm coming after everybody today. And
0:45 you might be saying to yourself, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Why are you trying to take, you know, the food out of people's mouths that are just trying to make a business?" No, no, no, no, no. The [snorts] people I'm talking about, they know who I'm talking about. They're the ones that are using abusing you for your helplessness, your hopelessness, your desperation to get SPS, money, success, fame, fortune, all that fun stuff. And the things that they do, they'll suck you in. The way they get that dopamine doing back flips in your mind 247, keep you coming back for more, and then eventually sinking in and saying, "I'm just going to pay someone money to help me." when all you got to do, as I've said before, is be your own therapist. Now, this is where people kind of like give or take like, "Well, my you don't know what I'm going through. I have a lot of issues." Well, there you go.
1:31 That's number one. No one knows what you're going through. Nobody. You could be in a car with somebody, get into an accident, and this person, the driver, is like, "Oh my gosh, we almost died. I can't stop shaking. I'm so scared. I have trauma." This person is like, "Wow, that was crazy. We almost died. I'm gonna go live the best life ever now because I tasted death. Two people, same scenario, different outcomes mentally, trauma. You can try to tell them all day. No, it was fun. It was great. It was wonderful. They're like, what are you talking about? This was the most worst experience of my life. I need therapy. See that? So, when you go to a doctor or a therapist or a YouTube coach, which by the way, how do you even know who this person is? Are they licensed? Do they know how to help people? What if things go bad and you get worse? Who's liable? All kinds of fun questions you should be asking before you just hand over your Venmo
2:17 money to these wacko people living in their parents' basement, assuming that they are rich and successful because they have a fancy little background behind them. I would take that into huge consideration. Who are you going to and for what reason? Now again, you might say, "Well, no, dude. I got some issues, bro. I got some fucking issues." No, you don't. You have the same issues everybody else has. It's all different degrees. Everyone's anxious. Everyone's angry. Everyone's jealous of everyone else's success. Everyone doesn't have any money. Everyone's paycheck to paycheck. Everyone thinks they're ugly or their hair's thinning or their skin looks old. All this kind of you're the same as everybody else. You are not special. And that's what you have to realize. And most people don't want to fucking hear that because they want to be in a special little box and a special part of the cabinet or the shelf that no one else. You are a special destructive
3:03 traumabased human being. No, you're the same as everybody else. No one knows what they're doing out there. Everybody is confused. Everyone thinks they understand the world. They have no fucking idea. But you're taking advice from people who don't even have their lives in control. You're taking advice from people who don't even have their money in control. They can pretend like they do once the camera goes off. Who knows what life they're living? Who knows what they're doing behind the scenes? Who knows who knows [gasps] who knows what these people are when you go to therapy. And I've said this in my video about and I'm going to tell you about today. I don't want to I don't want you to keep jumping to all my videos. I'm going to tell you about this today. I don't want to lead you down a path. In the video I talked about with being your being your own therapist. I told you all you got to do to get down to a problem. All you got to do to get down to a situation where you're fucked, where you are just down and out. You
3:48 just got to ask yourself, how did I get here? What's the next step? How can I make this better? These questions will open up the possibilities that are right in front of you. If you're like, well, I don't have an education. Very simple. Go to the fucking library. Read some books. I can't read. Get audio books. If you're like, well, I can't get my SP. can't find I can't find love. I keep selecting the wrong people. It's like, well, why do you keep selecting the wrong people? Why do you keep chess chasing red flags instead of green flags? Why are you chasing the horrible dumpster diving people versus going to like a nice place like a church or a good Meetup group or like, you know, some events that are actually having good people involved that will actually give you better happiness, health, and all this kind of stuff with the relationship. Now, I want the bottom of the barrel. Why do you want to choose that? You ever got down
4:34 to that? you ever got down to that part of it? And if it's true where you're like, well, I just like the rush. I like the I don't know what's going to happen next. How did you get to that point? Did you just like as a kid playing with your toys, you're like, I wonder if someone came and just took this toy away and got me really angry, but then gave it back and then my emotion went back to happiness. I want that roller coaster. No. Where where'd that come from? Same with money. You're buying shit you don't need with money you don't have, trying to impress these mouth breathing morons out here. Why are you doing that? When you see rich people out here, they're not really rich. They've maxed out their credit cards, buying the highest car, the high-end cars, handbags, clothes, jewelry, vacations, and then they come back to $50,000 in debt. In front of the scene, they look rich. Behind the scene, they're losing their mind, their stress, their health because they have so much
5:20 money that they've banked on to try to make themselves look cool and Instagram worthy, but they're fucking suffering. And you think that they're living their best life, and you're reflecting like you want to live that life. Everything out there is a lie when you really get down to it. No one wants to look at the world as if it truly is. Like you won't look at your life for what it really is, not for what you want it to be. Stop with the whole delusion for a second. Look at your life for what it is right now. This is why you don't need coaches because you can you can sum this shit up right now. Look in the mirror. Look at yourself. What do you see? And be honest. Because I had to do this too back in the day. I looked at myself. I'm just like pathetic. [laughter] fucking loser. You have to be upfront with where you are today. It's like when you go to Alcoholics Anonymous, the
6:07 first step is admitting there's a fucking problem. But most people can't get past the first fucking step because you're pride. I can't be in this position at my age or in my in my demographic or this or that. No, you are. Admit that shit. Then you can get help. The second step is asking, "Well, how did I get here?" And if you can't do those two things, fine. go spend money and have some stranger trying to figure you out in 60 sessions. There's people that do therapy for like eight years and they're like, "Well, I'm kind of getting better." Eight fucking years. And that that's all you've got out of that was I'm getting a little better. What the fuck you been talking about in that thing, dude? And I don't mean to get harsh or a bitch fit, but it's true. You guys are like going after these people that are just leading you on. They give you little kicks of dopamine. Take it away. Little kicks of dopamine, take it
6:54 away. You know, you watch one video, you feel good. this technique is going to work. It doesn't. You go to the next video. Ah, that video is not that good. Let me find the better video that they have. Let me go on their most popular video and look at that. It's like, you see what you're doing? You're just chasing the the crumbs of dopamine. And you never get satisfied. You are addicted to getting help, not getting better. That's the problem. You you would much rather chase this feeling than actually get your life together. The only way you know how to from yourself, from within. So, when you say shit like, "I don't have money." Well, show me your bank account. Show go open your mobile app. Show me the past purchases you've done in two months. Amazon. Amazon. Amazon. Amazon. Marshalls. Marshalls. Marshalls. Kohl's. Kohl's. Kohl's. Homegoods. Homegoods. Homegoods. Strip club. Strip club. Strip
7:40 club. Liquor. Liquor. Liquor. Yeah. What? Fuck. Fuck. I wonder why you don't have any money. [laughter] Oh, you bought a $80,000 car and you you make, you know, 40,000 a year. That was a good investment. Good job. And now the car not only depreciated, but you're going to pay more for fucking tuneups. You're going to pay more for tires. You're going to pay more for parts, stuff like Yeah, good job. Good job, buddy. But you won't see that. You won't look at that as the problem. You I always said 95% of your life, you are in you are in control of your state, your emotions, the choices you make, the people you hang out with, the jobs you accept, the money you go after, the the people you date. That's all you. You have to say yes to these things. Life's not like here, here's the girl you're going to take. Here's the job you're going to have. Here's the boyfriend that you're going to have. Here's the friends that you're going to be put with your No, no, no, no, no, no. That was all
8:26 you. You chose to hang out with those low lives. Let's go to the bar. Let's play Call of Duty. Yep. Can't get successful doing that shit. Life's just going to go downhill. It all comes back to you. You don't need a stranger from the internet or some overpriced quack in a therapist office that's going to fix you but you. No one will ever know you but you. Your mother and father or sister, brother don't know you like you. No one will ever know you like you. This is the most important part of the fucking video. You can change yourself. You know why you do the things you do. You know what your traumas are. You can tell me your whole life story. The only thing I'm going to sit there and say is, "Oo, that fucking sucks." I'm going to be like, "Well, you you just told me every reason why you're stuck." But you
9:11 can't see it because you don't want to you want to keep playing the victim. You want to keep playing. I need to get I need to get professional help. I need help. Well, there's a good affirmation that you can take with you the rest of your life that's never going to be a neverending completion. [sighs] Fuck. I'll give you my story. Kind of sad, but what it is what it is. But yeah, I was 16 years old and I was about to jump off a bridge. Icy cold water. I was just going to go right down to the fucking bottom and just say, "A fucking done with this shit." But then I took a step back from the bridge. I'm like, you know what? Why am I doing this? Why? [laughter] What got me to this point where I'm about to jump off a fucking bridge and end it all? By the way, there's easier ways to do it instead of drowning in icy cold water. But I was at that point in my life where I was just walking a bridge. I'm like, what if I just jumped? Let's just get it over with. You know,
9:57 there's nothing else to this shit. But I did. I said first and foremost, I go, "Okay, wait a minute. Obviously, I have a problem. Number two, what's the problem? I feel like jumping off the bridge. Why? Well, because not life's not going the way I wanted to. Meaning what? Well, that girl I asked out doesn't like me." Okay. It is that it? I ran out of money. Is that it? [snorts and laughter] Then I started laughing to myself like, "Yeah, this is fucking stupid. What am I doing? I'm going to end this beautiful life because of a woman in fake money. That's more that's just basically monopoly money and some woman that doesn't like me. So, why would I keep chasing her? If she doesn't like me, why would I want her?" Yeah. Exactly. Then you start to see how stupid your fucking problems are. Not to say not having
10:42 money, stupid. But it's like, yeah, how did I get there? Oh yeah, I bought a bunch of drugs, alcohol, went to strip clubs, did stupid stuff, fake IDs, um, buying like, you know, all these PlayStation video games and like, yeah, I did that though. That was all me. I got all the money and I wasted it. I went to that girl and didn't prove enough status. I dressed like a bum. I didn't look good. I had no seduction skills at all. I just went up to her. I was like, "Do I like you? you, me, sex. She's like, "No, get the fuck out of here, you fucking creep." I'm like, "Oh, fuck. I need to go find a bridge." When I look back, I was like, "Well, maybe I need to work on my skills. Maybe I need to understand how to talk to people. Let me go to library, read some books, on communication. Let me read some books on
11:28 body language. Let me go look up some videos and stuff." You go to library, they had all those books how to do it. I started reading more books. I started like watching people who were confident in movies, in reality, watching how they walked, watching how they talked, listening to friends that I knew of, friends that were good with women, and just sitting there listening how they talked to women. I got better. I worked on myself. I worked on the internal. I got better with money. I read books on money management. I read books on how to stop spending money on shit you don't need for money you don't fucking have. It's that fucking simple. Get down to it and be real. Don't play fucking Makebelie right now. Don't play fairy tale. I am getting better and no. What the fuck's going on right now? You You're in hell. Admit it. Your life fucking sucks. Admit it. You're not good with women and men. Admit it. You have
12:14 horrible taste in relationships. Admit it. You suck ass with money. Admit it. Now we can work from there. Good. We have a problem. Let's fix it. You know how to fix your life. That's the biggest joke is you know what to do. You really know what to do. If you cut out TV, you cut out video games, you stop watching shitty reality TV shows that are giving love a bad name, and you go out there and you work on yourself, you meditate more, you eat better, you exercise, you talk to yourself nicely, slowly but surely, you get into a vibe of getting to a more positive attitude, you know what to fucking do. You know the answers. Why the fuck won't you do it then? What is stopping you? There's another why. Why won't you get better? Why are you stuck? Figure that shit out. I can't figure it out for you. Only you
12:59 can. Only you know why you're stuck. I can have you tapping all day, fucking doing all this shit, but if you won't dive deep enough into your traumas and your emotional states and be honest with where you are and how fucked up you are right now, you'll never get better. You're always going to say, "Well, the government made me this way. My parents made me this way." No, motherfucker. You continue to live in the pain. Why you That happened 10 years ago. Why you holding on to the pain like it's a badge of honor? Like you walk into a party and someone's like, "Yeah, I had a pretty rough life." You're like, "Excuse me, I've had it rough. Let me tell you how bad my life is." Bitch, this isn't a competition on who had the worst life. You should not be bragging about how bad your life is. You should be bragging about how you turned it around for the better and influence people. No one
13:44 gives a fuck about you. Even these fucking people that are taking your money don't care about you. They just see dollar signs because they see a helpless, hopeless person that's out of options. Then they go in for the kill and they'll suck on that fucking blood until you're dry, kick you to the curb and just ignore you, ghost you, and then on to the next one. If you don't get that, then I do feel bad for you. If you really won't work on yourself and admit where you are in this time and space without feeling like a victim of society, you'll never get better. You will be chasing this shit the rest of your life. The rest of your fucking life. I guarantee it. You'll be stuck in the self-help book section. You'll be stuck wasting your life watching YouTube videos over and over and over again, which the same fucking YouTube coach wrapped in a different personality and then watching another coach and another
14:30 coach and getting a little better but then getting worse and then a little better and then getting worse. I need another technique. That's not going to work. I need another technique. There's a new person on here. Yeah, let me go watch this. You see that? See that? Snap out of it. What the fuck are you doing with your life? You can't keep doing this shit, man. Knowledge without action is nothing. Not a fucking zip Illuminati. That fucking thing. Fucking zero on that one. So, I'm gonna I'm gonna go calm down and end this fucking video before I really start getting deep with this shit. [sighs]
