0:00 Girl to girl, not everybody who watches you online is genuinely happy for you. And the older I get, the more I realize why a lot a lot of successful people love to remain private because they understand the power of silence. They understand the power of keeping their mouth shut. Because the truth is that a lot of people are miserable and they will come online trying to show how perfect your life is. Today you are posting a car, tomorrow you are posting your house, next tomorrow your business just did $300 million. Um, you know, you're on trips, living this luxurious lifestyle. You are going to create a whole lot of enemies for yourself. Yes, they're going to hype you up in the comment section. Oh my God, go girl. I'm proud of you. Congratulations. But deep down, they're not happy for you because their life is exactly what you are living. So, if you don't know how to keep your mouth shut, there are a lot of things that will actually set you back.
0:45 You can be someone who is making a whole lot of money, but the moment you start portraying that your life is better than everyone else, trust me, it's just a matter of time before you start going down. If you don't hold God tight and you take praying very seriously. So, in this video I'm going to break it down five things that you should not post online if you either want to get rich, stay rich, and just live a private and happy life. The first thing I feel like you should not post online is your exact financial um details, how much you make this month, how much you made in the year. Yes, I know I'm so guilty of this because as someone who is around the finance niche, I come online to like say, "Oh, I made so so so amount of money." But trust me, that is not exactly how much I made in a particular period of time. If I come out to say, "Oh, I probably made $10,000 today." That means I made made either made way
1:31 more than $10,000 or I made way less than that. I will not come online and start giving you the exact figure of how much I made or try to like do a breakdown of my bank account or my investments. You know, just putting all my financial details on the internet. I don't think it's actually safe. Even apart from the spiritual aspect where they say, "Oh, online is spiritual." I don't think it's actually very safe in a country where there are a lot of kidnappers, you have um blood tax, they are uncles, aunties watching you and are looking for who they can ask for money. And if you come online and say, "Oh, I made $50 million naira this month." And they come to your DM and say, "Please, can you help me with 1 million naira?" And you tell them no, they'll be like, "Are you not the one that made 50 million naira on your on your Instagram?" So, I feel like you should not give out the full details, the exact details of your financial situation. It's something that you should keep to yourself. Let it remain private. Second thing you should
2:16 be careful about posting online is announcing every single detail before it becomes a reality. A lot of people are guilty. If they want to buy something, they will have a new plan or goals they want to target, they come online to say every single thing. Instagram, TikTok, everybody will know your plan. They know every every single thing you want to do. I believe these are things you keep to yourself, and when it becomes a reality, you can start talking about. For instance, if you want to buy a new house, a new car, start a new business, I believe you should do it first and then document the process behind. And when you're ready to tell the world, you can start posting those videos as if they you just started doing them recently. For instance, if you want to start a new business or if you want to buy a car, video the whole process, document the whole process first, and then maybe after 2 months, 3 months, when you're ready to share, you can now start posting as if it's in real time. People will think, "Oh, she's about to buy a car." But they don't even know that I've given you the car for more than 3 months before you started posting
3:03 all of those processes. So, it's very important you document them, and then later on when you are ready to post, you can post them as if they are in real time. Something I believe you should keep to yourself is every single detail of your relationship. This one is very important. Let me tell you something, a lot of people are not genuinely happy when you are in a good relationship. You can see it even from the videos online. You see a man doing something romantic for a woman, and people will become jealous. They'll you know, I feel like every relationship has what is working for them. And what works for A might not work for B. So, if you come out to start telling everybody about what works for you, people are going to see it as something that does not make any sense, and they one way or the other they'll start injecting evil into your relationship. So, you always keep every detail about your relationship to yourself. Let it be between you, your partner, and God. And for me personally, I don't like sharing every little detail about my relationship to my friends and
3:48 my family. Not to talk of now coming online to talk about it, giving you guys insights on how we met, what he does differently, what I hate about him, what he does Oh, good. I don't like I love relationship content, but I don't like the fact that people just come online and give you every single detail about their man or their boyfriend, their girlfriend, their about. One thing you should not post online is your exact location in real time or every expensive um purchase you make. The truth is that your safety is very, very important. A lot of you will go ahead maybe to a restaurant or to an hotel and then you post yourself in real time and then boom, you just see someone that's been stalking you. They now know that, "Okay, this is your favorite restaurant. This is your favorite hotel." So, every time you travel to a club place, they know you're going to stay at this hotel. So, people who have been tracking you,
4:33 stalking you, they already know. And if they want to do something awful to you, it's very easy for them to carry out their motive without even thinking twice. So, always make sure you don't post your location in real time. You can post after you've gone. And for expensive purchases, just give it to yourself, okay? It's not every time you buy a new bag, a new watch, or something new you have to post them every single time. There are a lot of things I've bought online. I know people are going to be like, "But, Debbie, >> [laughter] >> but I know a lot of things I've bought online that I don't even get to share. I don't even get to Sometimes, before I post them, I always ask myself, "What's the purpose of posting this? Like, who am I trying to impress? I already have the bag, already have the watch, already have the car. What am I trying to like make a statement?" So, don't post your location in real time. Don't post every luxury purchase every single time. It's good to post them once in a while, but not at all the time, okay? And the fifth
5:20 thing you should be mindful about posting is your, you know, breakthrough or a blessing that God gave to you. A lot of people, they won maybe a contract they never won before in their life, maybe $10 million and boom, the next thing they're on the internet telling every single body, "Oh, I did um I just won this contract." A lot of blessings don't need an audience. And if people want to bring you down, they bring you down because of your success. Nobody cares about a a poor man. They only care about someone that is successful. So, if they want to bring you down right now, they are ready to bring you down because of how much you showcase your wealth and all of that. So, keep some of your blessings to yourself. Breakthrough, you got an employment letter, keep it to yourself. You got um a contract, keep it to yourself. Your business won these um funds, keep it to yourself. A lot of blessings, don't necessarily Nobody even needs to know. Even your boyfriend sometimes you not need to know. Your friends might not need to know about
6:06 some breakthroughs and blessings that God is because who success attracts enemies. It's It's like a magnet. The more successful you get, the more enemies you're actually going to get. So So if you can't keep certain things about your life to yourself, you're literally opening yourself up for more attacks. And the more attack you get and you're not prayerful, you are not, you know, you don't pray, you don't you don't even believe in God, you are It's very, very easy to be brought down. You know, that you don't necessarily have to prove your blessings all the time to people. If you start, you know, posting every single time because of public validation, that's not a good way to live your life. You literally go from 100 to zero in just a short period of time. So basically, these are the five things you should keep to yourself if you want to stay grounded spiritually, you want to get wealthy, you want to stay rich because I believe it's even harder to stay rich than getting rich.
6:52 It's very easy for anybody to get wealthy. Like, "Oh, you made $500 million." But how do you sustain that money? So basically, that's just it for me. Do not forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel so you can get more videos like this on your timeline and I'll see you in the next
